Leaving a Lover 

Yes indeed.

Fish tiiddies

Indeed!

Agreed. Poor baby truly needed that 'mama' talk. This is why I love Judge Millian.

She needs to take time for herself! Self love is very important!🙏🏾

I was thinking the same thing.

Whew you and me both SMH

@@SWDC1970 I still can’t get over getting a tattoo. 🤔😂

Right lol

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She not the victim

@@jah_blunt never said she was 🤷🏽‍♀️

Poor girl lol poor him

She's truly lonely, but that tat scares me too

@@zoimasters4331👈 Pity this girl she’s craving for manly love , and Richard too is very young and good looking resembles Denzil Washington the great and famous Hollywood actor . God bless them both

she requested him on snapchat

@@TRILLTALKTVyou clearly don’t listen

I don’t feel sorry for her. Play stupid games win stupid prizes

My thought precisely...!!!!

​@@jesssteelo9166 Exactly.. And she admitted she stills likes him 😅 bbg

Utterly sweet she'll always have that memory 😊

I know ppl can be foolish at any age but 23 year olds are typically VERY foolish. no need to shame her more than she’s shamed herself.

Exactly!!!!!! 😂😂😂

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Right ?! Tf I look like😅

Exactly.

I had some dude from Instagram that kept messaging me romantic stuff. I wasn’t feeling it but after a few weeks he had built this relationship between us. One I wasn’t apart of. Then he asked for 500$. I was like bro really? If I’m giving away money it won’t be to some Insta stranger.

Damn right.. even when they "dry beg"!!!

@@nikkinicole5435lol, yep, can’t believe men have the audacity. WE should be compensated for gracing them with our presence in the first place. I would never support a man…

Excellent perspective...she was throwing red flags left and right

Sex and cell phones are great combination 😊

I agree with you I feel like she did some weird shit to him

Nah I think he’s a user. You don’t have to accept gifts or loans that have strings attached. He clearly used her

Exactly! That is some bat shit crazy stuff right there. I would run, not walk away from her

People aren’t giving her enough credit. Saying she’s insecure. That maybe true but she’s also bat sh*t crazy! Between the tats, the $$ she gave, stalking him with other numbers after he blocked her and going through his phone, he needs to give her back that money and possibly get a restraining order.

She used him by trying to buy him

It is good advice for all young people. That girl was very pretty, but she is insecure, there are many guys out there who will love her a lot more than what Richard ever did. And I hope you, if you haven't already, found the man of your dreams.

Judge didn’t lie. I’m 33 and my sister just turned 23 July 8 and I tell her all the time. Learn from me and my mistakes. If only I knew what I know now lol my life would be sooo different! The fact you’re watching and listening is a good start because some younger women don’t want to listen yet ❤

Take your time with men ❤

Can I borrow $532?

Take heed!

She demeans herself

Don't even feel sorry for her. She's needs some sense

I said the same thing

I agree and she has other names tattooed as well. So heartbreaking. I felt so embarrassed for her

I honestly feel like she has no respect or self-worth for herself and that is just so sad

I was thinking that the whole time 😭😂

I wish someone would have hugged me and told me I didn't need a man to be complete

Bullshit u need a man just like I NEED a woman

THIS‼️‼️‼️

If you fiance is in love let him get the tat NOT THE WOMAN.

i dont believe it was him, she seems like she would do that for any man

He broke up with her and she got a tattoo of his name behind his back. That's not sympathy worthy that's completely insane. Fatal attraction insane.

He is a kid, way too be young to be taken seriously 😅😅😅

@allegroaffettuoso9012 Tell us you hate men without telling us you hate men. 🤣

No I don't want to hug her, she will go right on throwing herself at guys.

I dunno if he used her, she went full on stalker. Started calling friends, tattooed his name...stalked his job. I would have ran too

No yours brothas should put themselves in position to Never borrow money from their woman!

@@L4pa100LIFE DOESN’T WORK LIKE THAT FOR MOST BLACK MEN, YOU NEED TO RELAX.

Funny, I saw it the other way that this is a girl that does not have a nurturing mother in her life you can tell she’s lacking the love of a self-aware mother

​@@MoInTheCity03 right! Where's her mom at? Why is everything the dad's fault? My dad wasn't there and I don't do ANY of the dumb crap she did. Because my MOM taught me from her own lessons she learned to NOT be a fool.🤷🏽‍♀️

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@@Shellygrrl2573 I say this, respectfully, because I see MANY fathers wanting to protect their daughter from atrocious men. Maybe mom was too busy doing whatever she gotta do and expecting daddy to show his daughter how she's supposed to be treated. It seems here, and I'd be shocked if she had two parents, that no other parent picking up the slack cuz that's what we do in 2-parent homes. My opinion. I respect what everyone's said.

@@MoInTheCity03 I believe that young girls and ladies need a solid relationship with a man (their father) before they engage with a man.

I understand. I told my son's ex girlfriend this. She had emotional problems from her past family experiences. She took it out on my son. I told her No boy, or man is worth you putting yourself last. ❤

The green hair says volumes. Poor decision making skills.

​@@pscoolguyher hair is subtle. Stfu!

Oh for pete's sakes at 23 I was married with 3 babies [we could afford them] and a home owner. I'm not suggesting to get married at 19 like me but it keeps you clean being with one man and respectable. She's not a child.

Later in life I lived in Europe and traveled a lot my life wasn't just kids and home.

@@marilynwillett804 you clearly didn’t read this. You so badly want to flex on another woman because you think you’re better. Read, comprehend then react. Jesus! 🙄

@@marilynwillett804 um so, my comment is in reference to at her age how she clearly lacked guidance as a child and now that she’s an adult this is the outcome of that. She is a walking red flag because she doesn’t have the basic fundamentals of simple decision making, hence that’s why I also stated she needs to seek therapy before she continue on with someone else. So you say you were 23 with 3 babies already good for you married good for you and traveled which I have no idea where that came from 🥴. So obviously with all the experiences you have yet you lack in reading comprehension. Everything you stated has nothing at all to do with what I stated. Oh since you want to “flex” I was 19 when I met my husband almost 20 years in with him, homeownership at 24 and have 2 kids by the same father, SO what is your point.

​@@marilynwillett804Why are you always on RU-vid flexing on other women?. It's getting old at this point.

She needed to hear that! I truly hope she received it.

If a women tatted my name after 2 months I’d run for the hills to. He dodged a bullet fr

She also has other men tatted on her lol I doubt it was him.

NO she needs J.C. the Lord.

@@marilynwillett804 well that’s a given

Who's JM?

I wish someone had said this to me when I was in my 20s. I wouldn't have made as many mistakes and had to learn so many hard lessons

@@heatherferguson8131 I hear you. So many of us wasted our youth because we didn't know how wonderful we really were. I hope she listened to the judge and is doing great today.

It takes a couple of lessons to finally get it!

He came across as an honest young man. She’s also very nice and very needy. She needs to look inwards