"Whatever it took to get her, that's what you do to keep her!" Marriage to me is like Santification....a work of a lifetime!!! I love you guys so much..HONESTY ❤❤❤
Mary, girl, you must have been reading my mind, or the Holy Spirit is doing the Worm because I was just saying to myself last night that I wish you'd post more videos about your journey to marriage because it's extremely encouraging and much needed!! You are so full of light and God's love! I'd love to know more about the spiritual process you went through to get to where you are today! Much love to you and your husband! 🤗
Zina Grace I’m so glad! There was some contemplation in uploading this video because it’s old. But, I felt like it would help someone. So glad I did! 🤗😘 And thanks so much!
I just stumbled upon your videos for the first time today, and I just want to thank you for inspiring me. It is hard waiting for marriage, especially as you get older. And sometimes it can feel like you are alone. But seeing you happy, in a healthy, and beautiful relationship has inspired me to keep going. Thank you so much 💜
Thank you for being so open and transparent with your life. This video is such a blessing! We (viewers) can get so wrapped in the highlights and pictures and often forget that you all are human and have to overcome obstacles just like everyone else. This was a great lesson. Very helpful. Thank you.
MsBdoll87 Absolutely! We try our best not to present a fabricated version of our reality. We not only want our relationship to be a success, but, those who watch our videos. 🙏🏾 So glad this video was a blessing! 🤗
I appreciate what God is doing in and through this beautiful, young couple! I love Mary and spouse. I find that I am addicted to watching them on re-run mode! Keep growing together beautiful lovers!! Mrs. Smith
I have so much hope for the future. I'm divorced, was married for 15 years NEVER did I EVER think it would have come to absolute heart break but GOD has his will for the both of us. When I see you too I have hope, a second chance in a way. After being divorce for now a year its time for me, my healing, to be an amazing mother and women for myself, and give it ALLL to GOD. Thank you too for your great words of wisdom. Marriage is all about growth, being opened minded, building a foundation solely on GOD and always have standards. Much Love and Blessings to you guys😍
Foreverlove Green I’m so happy to hear that! God still has a plan for you! Allow God to fully heal and restore you! He’s doing an amazing work in you,and he has such great things in store. Remain encouraged🤗🙏🏾❤️
It's not God' will for ppl to b divorced. That's our actions that lead to that. God's will is and continue to remain marriage and as long as the bed remain undefiled then death is what should end a marriage. Not judging, just want ppl to appreciate that. Divorce was never God's Will! Best wishes in moving forward
Your story gives me hope I don’t know if u check ur dm on ig but I was simply needing some advice because I felt down hopeless in my journey but I was able to find strength in my singleness. I had to realize I’m only here for one purpose and one purpose only is to serve god and everything I see is only temporary. I just wanna say ur story is meant to help other pull through I thank u Mary 😊
Hey there. I know what it's like to feel how ur feeling. I'm 52 yet folk think i'm my son's wife, so that's a blessing people say, but don't feel alone, I'll chat with you ANYTIME, when i'm awake, lol. I'm michelle, great to see ur story. I'm Pretty4one on IG. I was married 10 uears and girl my ex and i are bffs but i want and desire that special ONE as well, but i'm still finding peace in my singleness.
Empowering women Through Christ Hi!! 🤗I apologize. I don’t get around to responding to everyone in my DMs.... I try really hard to. But, I get so many messages a day, it becomes overwhelming. But, don’t get weary in well doing. I’ve been where you are, and I can definitely relate. Know that God has you right where he wants you. Great things are happening right now in your life. God is at work even in your single phase. He’s working behind the scenes orchestrating your miracle. He’s also developing you. Allow God to do the work that’s necessary. It may hurt. You may even get frustrated and feel a great deal of disappointment. Even in your frustration he’s working. He’s teaching you how trust him...How to rely on him.... Let him work. Although our purpose is in fact to serve him and bring glory to his name, he wants us happy while we do it. It brings him great joy to put a smile on your face. He has not forgotten you. He loves you so much! Just let him work. In due season he will reveal to you why it was necessary. Remain encouraged! 🤗🙏🏾❤️
Your story just gets better and better. I love this beautiful, eventful, wisdom-filled video. Thanks for sharing. You guys are an awesome couple. God bless your union always❤💯❤
Wow wow wow. Amazing and 1 of my RU-vid favourite couple. Thanks for the insite about both of you 1 year together. Mrs. M i think i am going to fall in the situation where it May be hard to submit but i am praying so God can change me because being single for 6years an taking care of me an my child an leading its gona be difficult to adjust but plz God am praying for the best when that time comes. Happy happy 1 anniversary. I pray the blessings of God Will continued be on both of you,blessed and keep you and united as one together in peace,love,joy,long life and happiness. love you both!
This was great Mr. And Mrs. Bennett. Mary Mary Mary, i can so relate to your personality. Are we spoiled? 😂 I know i am, i'm an only child, raised in Mississippi and RESPECT and order are SO important to me. And i know i'm head strong and i have to step back often. "Got to be willing to be lead" omg i have to stop myself so often with this. Great point Jerard. I do believe in trying VERY HARD and not giving up though. Mr. Bennett you should be teaching and advising men on how to run the course and be patient cuz you sir need to be cloaned. #MyFavoriteIGandYTCouple
Come through with that wisdom guys. Ya’ll prepared well (reading and honoring God with your relationship, etc.) Team MJ makes me smile, gives me hope chile!!!! Love, love, love you guys ❤️😉❤️😉 Mary you can be a lot????? 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Sounds like most women...we extra!💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Awwww! I just love you guys so much! It's amazing to see how you have grown and your loce has matured. Yall just make me so excited about love! But, thank you for sharing the things that most don't address. It's helpful to get insight from people who are actually making it work. XoXo
I believe in all those things...im patently waiting on God's plan for me...relationship finances and love...i do seek God first so i trust in Him to supply everything including the desires of my heart...great video
Lol you are so guilty of not submitting. Nothing is ever as easy as it seems I am so happy we have God. Thank you I needed this. I almost cried at the end. Fyi your hair is life.
wanda hill We are all a work in progress! ☺️I’m so thankful God is helping me to yield my own will, acknowledge where I can be better, and surrender my weaknesses to him...That’s the only true way to be the best wife/servant possible. Not my will, but, his. 🙏🏾 Thank you! Glad you enjoyed it! ❤️
I love being told what to do. I love strong men. Gerard is an example of an ideal man. Supervisor, leader, head. Girl submit to your hubby he is a great catch. Strong men are hard to find.
This is funny how this video came just in time. This sounds like the secret notes to marriage to me loll. But seriously this is crazy how your notes sounds like marriage notes. This was very helpful to my relationship, and unto others. Thank you so much for this from the bottom of my heart ❤️ 😢😭👑 continue what you guys are doing and may the Lord bless you and keep you.
Simply well put... Beautifuly done..smile. Happy for..the love and admiration your smile. Brightens . his spirit. Like a star in. Space😁... Ari Miami xoxo
Happy anniversary to y'all, lots of love and hugs and kisses to my favorite couple hand's up go will continue to work and manifest in y'all both so y'all can bless others.😘😘😘😘😘😘.
Mary & Jerrod...Happy Anniversary and May God continue to bless your marriage. Question: I know you are still in the honeymoon of your commitment...Has Jerrod continued to “date” you to keep your relationship exciting? You’re a beautiful couple and thanks again for sharing...you don’t have to but glad you bring us along during your journey!!💗😄😄💕
Hi mary very good tips you and jerard have. Because I said these things about myself being single to long I know I have become selfish having everything my way I know I get lonely sometimes and will have to compromise all over again. Thanks for sharing & enlighting us.
I will start with Mary first 1 your dad showed you how I woman was supposed to be treated demonstrating with your mom and you didn't settle for nothing less but the best so carry on what you liked in that situation with your dad showing your mom take the good and keep using it at add more to it with yours also take the bath and break the chain and make it better what you didn't like and that will make a good marriage also Mary and your marriage now you have to compromise one day he do something you like to do and the next day you do something he likes to do you guys might not necessarily like it sometime but that compromise is the best cuz that means you care for the person and the things that both of you like together it's just going to be blessed out of nowhere we God's love remember communication is key find the easy way for you guys and don't go to bed mad squash it right then and just keep on loving each other I don't like you guys said keep dating each other that makes you stronger then you don't lose the growth apart from one another you grow together as one forever and ever love you guys miss Vernell
I forgot a little piece of what I was going to say 2 Jerrod his mother taught him how to treat a woman by demonstrating what a woman should be treated like with respect with kindness patience with a woman learning a woman's needs and once what she like and what she dislike and how detailed oriented the man should be for a woman and wholeheartedly his mom did a terrific job by demonstrating to him how to treat a woman letting him know to open the car door for her to let her walk on the inside of the street and he walk on the outside of the street to protect her and not to call her out of her name but what her parents named wherever if he get mad at her not to hurt a woman by cussing her out by hitting on her keep the love flowing like water don't never let it stop it will drip every once in awhile but get the flow back on rhythm and keep it moving love you guys miss Vernell
@@MsNaturallyMary mainly that's a compliment to you guys parents cuz they said good examples for y'all and I just want to see you black love work because black people don't want to figure it out no more they like that word divorce and you are welcome love you guys Miss Vernell
