Let’s be honest…my house is a mess and Kurt & I had a fight VLOG 

omg i couldnt stop laughing when sarah said "am i being overly emotional or is my husbane being a d*ckhead".

I don't know if I'm the only one who feels this way but I so love your honesty. I feel like it's so easy to forget anyone on the internet is an actual person when they only show the perfect bits. I haven't finished the vlog but I'm always so excited to watch your vlogs that feel like real life!

You are definitely not alone in the argument but just goes to show the importance of communication. I’ve made a conscious effort to improve my communication style with my fiancé (and he’s done the same) and it’s made such a difference in our whole relationship!

If it makes you feel better, I once cried over my husband not wanting to come grocery shopping with me when I was pregnant. I was just like, “I see… I guess I should get used to doing things on my own then… like raising this baby.” Hahaha, it was so dramatic! I’m not proud of it, but at least it gives us a laugh now. Thanks for being authentic and sharing pieces of your life with us!

Giiiiiirl, that’s not a “dumb” argument, because voicing how you feel is never dumb - But it’s definitely an argument I’ve had with my husband before. I feel frustrated when my partner prioritizes something differently than I would.. Which doesn’t mean they are wrong, just have a different view of the situation. Keep communicating! ❤️ Y’all got this! Ps. I loved this vlog!

I relate to this argument so much it’s not even a joke. This is married life 100% normal

Your fight…totally normal 😆

So someone who can definitely relate to that exact “crazy” source of rage, I want to say that you don’t have to be afraid to fight around your kid! It’s so important for them to see how compromise and forgiveness work - as well as standing your ground. Fox will learn conflict resolution from you - so let him see conflict :)

I love how you included the argument piece. I just got married at the end of May (we’ve been together for 3 years) and it’s definitely a learning curve. When me and my husband get upset with each other, it’s so easy to feel like everyone else has an amazing relationship/marriage. So seeing someone be open about their struggles in their marriage is so nice. I’m able to relate and see that other couples struggle with the same thing as us. Thank you for being open and honest. 💕

😂 Kurt at the end, I haven’t really said much in this vlog. Mate you were in the doghouse 😂😂 Thank you, love these day in the life’s. Fox is such a little Ray of sunshine, so happy. So glad you’re feeling positive in your pregnancy, praying for all happy and healthy outcomes 🙏

You are the only RU-vidr that is this raw man, and I love it! Please don't change, this authenticity helps us with our lives and this wild social media platform.

Yep I absolutely can relate with that argument... I just think that men just literally don’t think sometimes, I seriously literally don’t think that they think, like nothing, I mean nothing goes through their heads!!!! Thank you for explaining the whole locking your abs in for ur core strength, it’s so important for people understand how important it is with any exercise, otherwise people just do these workouts and wonder why they aren’t getting any results & that can easily unmotivate ppl.... So thank you, cos I got a lot out that !!! Arrrrggggghhhhhh don’t stress to much lovely, I’m a Victorian and I am finally getting to see my mum that I haven’t seen for nearly two years early next week and then I’ll Get to see my dad...... My sister and nieces and nephews (who r all in there 20’s and 30’s), I saw a few of them when we had all restrictions lifted and even no masks out doors, which was in Feb this year. But that’s all and I miss them all so much..... Soon u guys will be out and free to 💜💜💜 Sending positive happy vibes to U Kurt and Fox and for Jnr bubs too 😘😘😘😘 Love you guys heaps and thanks cos keeping it real..... Sending u lots of love and hugs and prayers from Melbourne ♥️♥️♥️

Foxy is so grown up now! He can express himself fully, a few vlogs ago he was still a little baba 😍 Sarah, you guys are goals!

You’re not being silly. I’m always thinking of my husband first but then feel like he forgets me at times. I don’t think they mean to do it it just comes more natural to us to put others before us

being reminded that everything we see on social media isnt perfect is so refreshing. we need this real raw side

My parents always say they should have argued more in front of "the kids" cos now if they argue, me a 20 year old thinks the world is falling apart. 🤷‍♀️

On a sale of 1 to 10 I relate 100 to asking my husband let’s do something in the morn and him disappearing and doing his own thing in the garage!

Hey Sarah! This is a bit of a strange request but do you think that you could bring back the ‘cheap vs expensive’ series, but have a pregnancy / baby item edition? I loved the video last time

Fox is literally the cutest child I've ever seen

I totally get where you’re coming from! I would totally have done the same thing. But my husband and I have listened to some marriage counselling talks and one thing we learnt wad that it’s good that you set your expectations in the morning, that you wanted to work out, but without giving a time you expected to do it it’s not fair to expect they will come to you about it. It’s called content communicating. When you had finished on your laptop, if you had gone up to asked to workout then he probably would have said yes because you then content communicated with him. But girl, I’ve been married or over 3 years and we’re still working on communication 😂

omg this actually did make me feel normal...like THANK YOU for showing us your house. I feel like I'm literally losing it.

I’ve been married for a decade now and I got mad at him for not doing something I wanted him to do and instead made me yummy snack, but it still wasn’t what I asked him to do! Lol

Your and Kurt’s fight is so relatable!! My fiancé and I only ever have dumb fights and I refuse to ever admit I’m wrong 😂

The exact same argument situation has been happening to me with my partner in lockdown and I have been wishing I had someone to tell me 'its fine, it happens to me too' 😂 thanks for sharing! Makes me feel soo much better (was laughing while you explained this haha)

You're 100% not alone with the relationship stuff 😂

Yessss😄lol my spouse and I work on that too! I always have to remember “he’s not a mind reader “ lol! Sooooo wonderful to see your beautiful families light again! 🤍🤍God Bless!! I think our sons would get along so well lol!

oh my god, i feel exactly the same way you do like sometimes you want them to come to you (given youve already told them so). And most of the time i feel like im crazy to feel that way! But one thing i'll say is whatever it is, never go to bed angry. JUST DONt do it, cuz you never know when the last time you'll see anyone really esp the ones you love, life lets just say is unpredictable. Im saying this from a good place, cuz my boyfriend of almost half a decade is dead, and i was angry at him and it just hurts thinking about, everything. So if you will and can, do take the advice how you will, this goes for anyone that might be reading this comment. Hope you are all well. Tell your loved ones that you love them, cherish all the time you have with them while you still can. Much love everyone ❤💔💛

10000% not alone haha! Had this in my own relationship. My parents who are married almost 30 years are also the same - my dads favourite saying to my Mum is “I am not a mind reader haha”

😂😂 oh my goodness I love your energy in this vlog! Such a fun vlog to watch!

This all makes me so happy!! I am about to start end of year exams and this makes it all so much easier! xx

I'm laughing so much because my boyfriend and I had the exact same fight this morning... over nothing, just because I felt he wasn't being attentive enough. We all do it gal.

Your family is so cute & your unborn child is in my prayers. 💗

Your argument with Kurt was so funny! Relatable.

LOL girl! I totally get the silly fights and arguments! 😆 you’re not alone in getting worked up about little things like that. I love that you shared it with us! I don’t feel so alone when my fiancé and I get into little arguments just like that. 😆

I have PCOS as well & would love to know how you fell a second time, how you tracked your cycle & the research you did that you’ve vaguely mentioned on previous vlog(s) that assisted in you falling this time round x

Fox is one of the cutest kid I have ever seen🖤🖤🖤🖤

being a mum and going through pregnancy isn’t easy, hang in there! you’re doing so well 🤍 looking forward to more vlogs!

I love how raw and open you always are with everything and I totally get it you aren't crazy. Amazing vlog as usual - always brightens up my day to see you and your beautiful family! xxx

I would love to see just long whole video of you talking everything about your pregnancy and answers questions :) 💖

i’ve been watching your videos for years now from when you and kurt were still dating. I absolutely love each and every one of your videos. you are so inspirational and such a beautiful light in this world. you are doing amazing❤️

100% on the argument thing. Been in the exact situation where I didn’t know we were getting a new tv and yes I relate to everything else too!!! Men are interesting

I LOVE the honesty, the realness, and how unfiltered this is! Makes me feel more normal!

The married couple argument is the most relatable thing I’ve ever heard 😂

You are never alone... and not crazy! Glad I have you to relate. The dumb arguments are usually an underlying issue. Stress. You're doing amazing.

You’re the sweetest person. I love keeping up with your vlogs. You inspire me so much to be more optimistic and God centered in my life. I’ve been praying for you and your family for weeks and hope your pregnancy continues to bring you joy!

Kurts “ sorry” at the end, so endearing 😂😇

I feel you hon! This is so normal, and I’m so glad that you are so raw and honest about everything💞

Foxy’ excitement for getting coffee is a real vibe. What a sweetie !

Not alone Sarah! Been with my husband since 2013.. I guess when you’ve been together so long you think you can read each others minds hahaha.. thanks for always keeping it so real and open.

I love that you told us about the fight Sarah. Although you're always real with us, it's nice that you opened up about your arguments too ☺️ Love you!

Is there anything you can/are doing to prevent SPD this pregnancy ?

Haha omg girl you are def not alone on this one, I can so relate to the argument you guys had 😂 and thanks for the motivation to get up and work out this morning 🏃‍♀️ I really needed this!!!

WHEN Mr Clicketty Cane plays his silly game all the kids in the street tTHEY LIKE TO DO THE SAME WASH YOUR FACE IN ORANGE JUICE CLEAN YOUR TEETH WITH BUBBLE GUM FIX THE FENCE WITH STCIKY TAPE BRUSH YOUR HAIR WITH A TOOTHBRUSH FRY AN EGG ON A SLIPPERY DIP BELLY FLOP IN A PIZZA SARAH YOU unlocked a part of my primary school years memories HAHAHAH

im 18 and it makes me so emotional to see u guys sing the songs that i used to sing at foxys age with him 🤧 the wiggles rlly are a godsend

Cleaning vlogs are the BEST - brb, obsessively cleaning over here! Also omg this argument is SO recognizable, we've had this so many times!

Ahhh the bump !!! It’s adorbs 🥰 love your vlogs, so needed it today!!

Seriously such a cute family❤️ fox is going to be such a great big brother!

where did u get the flannel from!? 😍

That rant was sooo relatable in so many ways 🥰 glad I’m not alone

Hello, Sarah. I completely understand what you're saying and can relate to the argument; I used to do this a lot with my bf and it was causing a lot of problems; my counsellor explained it to me in a way that made a lot of sense. It's not about being right or wrong; it's just that men think differently than women. Us as women think about all the things we want to do that day, where they only think about one thing at a time. So, while it may appear to us that they don't care enough to ask, they do care, they just don't think about it. I understood once I realised that was the case, and it didn't make me feel so unwelcome or unthought of.

I had to show my husband you talking about the argument and he turns to me and say “oh my gosh she is just like you and I’m Kurt” bahaha 😂👏🏼

Ah yes yes yes, relationships. From my therapist to you, the mantra is: OVER COMMUNICATE. 16 years together 8 years married and there's never been a better a practice more important to me and my husband. There is no other person who shares this kind of relationship with you in your life so if you have to preface each joke - which totally kills it - or over explain how you imagined the day to go - which at times feels like you shouldn't have to- JUST DO IT. At times we think our partner should read our minds but IT'S NOT POSSIBLE. I like to think of it as if over communicating as a privilege you give to your partner that others don't have the benefit of receiving. Each fight is an opportunity to get to a greater understanding of who your partner is. An opportunity to get closer. AND if you have a really mature argument and recover beautifully, let your kid see how you do it. Restage it if you have to so they can learn how to properly resolve a fight. Just like working out the work is never done, you just get stronger. 👍🏼👍🏼

What was the spray you used for fixed knee? X

LOVE THE HONESTY! Keeping it real is the best & love that I can relate 🤍

You are the best person ever Sarah. You inspire me so much as a person, to reach my goals and to cherrish every moment of my life. Keep doing what you're doing, bringing joy to peoples daily lives. I'm so glad that your pregnancy is going well, keep being the bubbly, kind hearted person you are.

WHEREEE is your flannel from??

All healthy relationships have their moments of challenge 🥰

Oh girl arguing with your partner is super normal. Couples that don't "fight" from time to time have really big issues deep inside. And I do get your point with "I wanted you to come to me and ask me what we should do together" ... I'm the same! :D

Oh my gosh, I laughed when you showed how messy your house was cause if that is extremely messy to you, you don't want to see my house right now 🤣🤣🤣😬🥴 2 weeks I wasn't able to do ANYTHING around the house. It's terrible trying to catch up hahaha. But oh my gosh, the before and after is absolutely satisfying! I too enjoy cleaning things, it's so therapeutic!!

Litterally me in my relationship also with the petty arguments 🤣 😂

Where did you get that flannel from?!

Lol I’m pregnant too and married lol and I can totally relate. I’ve leaned that I need to communicate with my husband instead of assuming he’s a mind reader like me 😝

Congratulations on Fox’s baby sibling!! God bless, have a good rest of the year! ❤️

This is how all of my arguments with my husband go 😂

Thank youuuuu for sharing the REAL side of relationships! we all have moments like that with our partners and it's so much easier to work through them when small arguments & occasional disagreements are normalised! it doesn't mean that something in the relationship has changed, or even that one person is wrong and the other right, merely just lack of communication and a different point of view (something I've really learnt this year). big love sezzy 🤍🤍🤍

The fact that it’s 2021, and our husbands can’t read our minds yet 😂😂😂

Ugh! I needed this today. Your videos are the perfect way to pour some positivity in my life. Our whole family loves yours ❤️🦊

Lol! You are definitely not alone in those feelings. And your feelings are valid. Communication is definitely important and it sounds like the Communication wasn't completely clear even though you did tell him you wanted to vlog today. 😊

I loved how relatable this vlog was! Just went though a break up and I swear you guys are one of the only things getting me through. Love you both and Fox!

This sounds like every argument I have with my husband 🤣

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!! my husband and and I have totally had that type of fight before and it’s always the communication thing 😂 and it always feel so ridiculous after you’re out of the heat of the argument lol

Thank you for being honest ❤️ thank YIU for sharing your disagreements cause personally reminds me that others have disagreements too and that it is normal ❤️ so it’s really appreciated ❤️❤️

Omg girl this type of communication argument is soooo relatable!😭😂

What are the black runners you are wearing? 💗

Keep on truckin, mama! You’re doing such an amazing job, being such a wonderful mother and wife! ❤️

You are not alone lovely!!!! That is how all of my disagreements go 😂 you had me laughing so hard because I related on such a deep level 😂

I have arguments like this with my boyfriend. Communication is key! Too bad we only realise it after the arguments 🤣

I LOVED this vlog, not only was it incredibly satisfying watching the house being cleaned BUT hearing that you and Kurt have similar tiff's like my boyfriend (of 6 years) and I do was kinda reassuring lol. I love your and Kurt's relationship and look up to you two, so to see that you have moments like me and argue with your partner over some sort of mis-communication made me feel so much more normal haha. So thank you for being honest! I don't think you sound dramatic or crazy, everyone goes through little tiffs like this, what matters is that you don't let it go unresolved and you and Kurt obviously don't since you seem to always be the best of friends (I like to think my boyfriend and I are quite similar to you two). Sending lots of love from Maine, USA.

This is the best kind of vlog! So raw and real and makes the rest of us feel so normal!!! Absolutely vibing the honesty ❤️

Need to know where the green flannel is from !!! Love !

Yes yes yes yes yes hahaha I love this whole honesty hour about your relationship and communication lessons, it is sooo relatable and it takes so much perspective and maturity to have the ability to self reflect and know all your “good” and “bad” emotions and how you both react in different situations…it also takes so much trust and love to know you can be individuals and knowing that you can use stress as an opportunity to grow and find a deeper level of connection and happiness❤️ ps y’all the fucking best

You're not alone in that sort of argument! I'm exactly the same and have similar arguments with my boyfriend! Love all your videos sezzy

Omg i can SO relate to that fight! My husband and i have fights just like that. We probably fight about time management the most. So no, you‘re not crazy! Love from Switzerland❤️

omg, I need to know how to do the middle part bunnn 😻

How has your SPD been this pregnancy? Is it hard to do certain moves like it was with your last pregnancy?

As someone who is training to be a marriage and family therapist this is SO normal! Just keep working on your communication and you’ll be fine!

definitely feel that fight🤣 and i’m 19 weeks pregnant! so close together. i’d love to see a what ive been eating while pregnant video!

What is the coffee machine that you use?

I understand! My husband forgets when we make plans and then I get upset, and when he asks what’s wrong, I say ‘nothing’ . We’re working on that too 😆

Omg where is that green flannel from?! 😍😍😍