Yes is true ,she is .To her no hush, angry, always smiling on Top loving everyone to Makhumalo unconditional love NO one. Finally no Spirit of Gossiping A Giver ,
Ma khumalo happened to the best 👌 based on the love,caring and more active Ma khumalo is the best 👌 Young,smart and more appreciate her husband all the circumstances and situations ❤️
l so love your level of intelligence and the way you view life as a whole....bengicela the next goal that you are going to add in your life journey, wakhe i-gym kwakho bese you inspire us about the importance 0f building wealth and living a healthy lifestyle....l would love to see you before September usenzele one video sharing with us ukuthi what have you learn about the importance of combining wealth and maintaining the healthy lifestyle at the same time....Phansi nge-1 Pack Phansi! Phezulu nge-6 Pack phezulu! much love my beloved big brother,much love!!!
My dad was a polygamist. And I am still traumatized. When adults make these arrangements they don’t think about the impact it has on the children. It’s not possible to love and respect all the wives equally. And children can see when their mother is the least favorite. And after my dad passed my siblings and I went our separate ways, May dad was the only glue holding isthembu together and personally I thinks it’s sad an unfair on the children.
I know nothing abt polygamy bt looking at the show I always say to my husband bt what abt the kids ... I hv always been concerned abt de kids. Bcz ppl r too focus too much on who's de most favorites or beautiful wife and forget about the the most precious thing in a marriage the Kids ... it actually makes sense of wht u sayn... Am so sorry my dear💕
Ngehlonipho, in your instance, was polygamy the issue or was the polygamist the issue? Let’s not bash things because of singular practitioners. And secondly, let’s heal in private - not on social media
All of them are your favorite but MaYeni is the one, she is so humble and if akuyiyo kuye akuyiyo. Zonke intombi zakwaShibase zinjalo but uthando zinalo azihanahanisi. Uyakuphoxwa nguwe Mseleku.
It's like this. You have a wish list of what kind of partner you want. For most men the list would go something like this. A beautiful, respectful, humble, a homemaker, God fearing, quiet spirit, motivating and supporting, a good mother, from a good background and she must be able to help around the house (have a job). Unfortunately one person cannot be gifted with all those attributes and characters so now you have to decide on someone you will be able to build a home with even if they are not perfect. The advantage Musa has is that he married four wives who poses all those qualities. Beauty and brains probably Makhumalo has, humble and hardworking another wife will have, when he wants to be motivated and cared for someone has that. Most people who are monogamous don't have that opportunity. Basically he's having his cake and eating it too.
If it was a matter of choosing a particular one 4rm where am standing MaCele could be the one because she's the one who allowed you Mr Mseleku to marry the other wifes your family wouldn't be this happy if u happened to force her somehow to agree to this union
I think mamkhulu is yr favorite fair and square baba, coz it wouldn't all be possible without her consent and as a woman myself I respect her for allowing isithembu its not that simple case closed.
You have never loved but you have made friends. When you love, it's with one person. One can't love more than one. But when you have friends you can choose your best friend
MaKhumalo is kindhearted followed by Mayeni! Mamkhulu is very angry and hurting from inside, i understand her pain thoufh she only agreed to isithembu because she loves u Musa, bt she is hurting look veryclosely
I think you should consider adding one more from Kenya 😍. All in all , you are a great father,husband and friend to your family. A man full of wisdom. Salute
I just woke up just 2 tell you that Ma-Ngwabe is the 1 bt all of them have their highs and lows. Thanks mr Mseleku 4 respecting thm by not mentioning names.
Also hate pretenders, Mangwabe is brutally honest, she is not afraid of telling Musa that he loves women, she doesn't agree with anything in order to be considered a good person, she is very calm and genuine
√Who is your favorite wife: • Engingakusho yikuthi every man owaba senhlanhleni yokukhuliswa uMawakhe (a good mother), that man will never go wrong in finding the right wife for himself because he will never need advise to spot for himself the characteristics of his mom in that special woman. • Every Husband's favorite wife will always be his Mother in that wife/wives, uMama uyohlezi ephila phakathi kwamaKhosikazi akhe. Kwaze kwaba neDivorce, shukuthi uMama akaze aphila kulowomuntu wesifazane , wenza iphutha wamuthatha without her permission or uMama wayephila phakathi kuye uSisi kodwa emva kwesikhathi wasuka kuye ngezizathu eziningi ebezingamujabulisi ngoba abadala babona la singaboni khona, futhi bazi lukhulu esingalwazi. • That is why abadala beqinisile mabethi kahle kahle umzali okunguyena-yena odingwa yingane yomfana is the Mother figure, so that young man will go up knowing exactly what kind of a wife he needs to marry to expand his homestead. •And for ingane yentombazane, abadala uzobezwa bethi kumele ikhulele ngaphansi kwesandla sikaBaba oqotho khona izokwazi kugana isoka noma ishadele indoda eqotho njengoyise, ingahambe idlalwa ngamasoka namadoda wabantu ngoba ingalwazi uthando lukaBaba, okuwuthando lwangempela. • Okushukuthi mhlawumbe yingakho abesilisa abangakhulelanga esadleni sikaMama bezithola bedlalwa ngabesimame abasile futhi nabo laba besilisa bengazazi nokuthi kahle kahle bafunani in a woman coz they have no motherly characteristics to assess for in a woman. • So wena waba senhlanhleni ke kuthi ubusiseke ngoMama empilweni yakho usakhula ngoba ukwazile to find yourself four special women that suit your late Mom's character. • Manje kuphinde kube nemfihlakalo nge character kaMama ngoba ayipheli, iyaziveza kubantu abanini for as long as yena uMama nabaDala besathandile kwandisa umuzi wakho, nawe kulindele loko kuthi kungenzeka banganeliseki ngo Number 5 kuphela, mabethanda bangaziveza some more kwabanye oSisi abathandekayo uzithole usuthatha u number 6 no 7 and even more. From Ndlovukazi one of my fans
mseleku usnike excellent answer baba lamakhosikazi asefana nezingane zakho so awukwazi ukuhlakaza mndeni by picking one wife n utshele izwe kuthi she's your favourite Hlakaniphile lobaba
In my opinion as a woman all that matters is how you act around me. I don't have to compete with anyone. I've got so much confidence that it borders on arrogance. Women who are policing their men are threatened and scared. They make mountains out of moles. What I love about you Baba Mseleku is that you let your women do what they love and you even accepted uMakhumalo even though she doesn't have children. You spoil them equally, they are well dressed, nice houses, cars and the list is endless. Rather than to have a man who cheats on you every weekend. There are women who are not in ishembu but their problems can even shield the sun when unpacked. Take a bow!!! You are the MAN!!
Baba Mseleku they are all beautiful but their hearts are not the same they don't think alike even when you speak to them you know very well there is the one that you love the most but that is secret only God knows you can't choose the one what about the others it will be pain in their hearts for ever please dont say anything God knows your heart we respect that Baba🙏🙏🤞🤞🙌🙌
Baba Mseleku i can say to u windoda bcz u equalise amakhosikazi akho.most of al each is a favourite in her space where she is uniqie so amäkhosikazi ayafana bt they play diffeent roles empilwen ka baba
Mina ngiyanqonda angeke ukusho wena ubani omthanda kakhulu For mina umayeni u best ngithanda yonke into ngaye. Kodwa ngingalibali umashobane ukufanele ukuba u MRS Mseleku uyazi umendo usho ukuthini umanomyeni wakho no matter what
I don't know who is your favourite but i really appreciate uMamkhulu noMayeni noMangwabe......uMakhumalo ngyamthanda naye ukuthi angzwani nomuntu wesimame oyiqhalaqhala
Mamkhulu is the one because of she allowed ubaba to take 3 wife's after her yhoooo that woman she is very strong and you can tell that she is a praying woman and she takes care of Sne and her child she is a wonderful woman in and outside
That's why he's a great business man and husband to more than 1 woman. Gift of the gab🤑😎🧐 for his sake I hope it sees him through with the wives bcoz abantu are unpredictable specially women. All the best Baba
Makhumalo is the best she has respect fo his husband she has respect even for other wives. I like her style .She has always smile on her face ,hayi abanye it's not easy to see their smile .❤
Baba umseleku ucinisile konke okushoyo IV been taken buy your words.but wt most I like about u uneciniso abafazi bakho bobane uyakwazi ukuba mela noma sekunzima but you always keep a smile 2them which is more important .they way isthembu ebingingasfuni ngayo but mangizwa amazwi akho if umyeni wam angazi funi I can handle it as long azoba nemali cz isthembu sifuna indoda ezimele cz angifuni kulamba west party ngikhule kahle so umuntu ongangithatha isthembu azongihluphekisa am so sorry.wena bhuti abafazi bakho bahle bondlekile bagcoka what ever they want badla ukudla okay healthy,yes angifundanga mina bcz ngasheshe ngathathwa avanti abadala ngi na 15 but I wish ukufunda kepha my mom akaawo amandla
I honestly love Mangwabe, that girl melts my heart. She is so genuine n kind, doesn't like drama. She is my favourite. Then we have the second wife, clearly heart broken n bitter. As a woman I understand, she will forever be the first wife. I was happy to see her plan her wedding, hope it soothed her heart a lil bit. Makhumalo is the friend kinda girl to Mseleku, the one who he talks to n he knows she listens better n acts fast when told, dunno if that sits well with co-wives 🤷♀️( if they decide to punish Mseleku, dont think she will team up). Anything patterning business she jumps up n that's a good thing considering Mseleku loves money. Macele, hard to say bcoz her personality can be misunderstood, her bossy ness can override n shadow the fact that she is actually an emotional n kind person. This woman is doing a absolute great work on Sne.
Truth is women also love to be married to more than one man. You would wish to take different personalities and characters into one person. Mina nje ngzolobola khona ngzoba namadoda aphezu koyedwa.
Isithembu is not for those who will compare the wives. That's the secret to a successful Isithembu. And it's not for those that don't think highly of the women...it is for the humble loving type not those men that always feels entitled.
