Let People Dislike You - Don't Worry What Others Think 

“You don’t even like everyone, how can you expect everyone to like you”

"care about peoples approval and you will be their prisoner." Lao Tzu, I thank you and you too..

"What others think of me is none of my business..." - RuPaul

“Be yourself. People don't have to like you, and you don't have to care.”

As my friend would say ‘you can be the juiciest, ripest peach in the bowl and there’ll always be someone who doesn’t like peaches ! ‘

"Have the courage to be disliked." ~Bruce Lee

Deeply unhappy people will always look for and find reasons to bring others down. They are often jealous and can't stand to see others happier.

*"Don't hold on to someone who's leaving, otherwise you won't meet the one who's coming" - Carl Jung*

"It's better to be hated for who you are, than liked for who you're not" - Prince EA

"Do Not Waste Your Words On People Who Deserve Your Silence. Because The Most Powerful Thing You Can Say To A Person Is Nothing"

"Most people who don't like you are really struggling to like themselves"

I am very low on the likeability scale. As a child that was very painful, but as an adult I have come to appreciate my small but loyal circle of friends.

I've been socially distancing for 30 years.

My moto has ALWAYS been: "The fewer people that like me, the fewer "favors" will be asked of me."

If someone doesn't like me, I stay away from from them. Just in case they try to hurt me, in any way.

Life seems better being alone, when no one likes you . But when someone does likes you , they give you hope which is soon broken when that person just abandons you to your own demons and the hatred of others .

I have been accused of being anti-social, I just feel better when I'm not around people.

"Most people who dislike you are struggling with liking themselves" very true.

"If you care about what other people think you always be their prisoner."

This advice is easiest to follow when two circumstances are not prevalent: 1) Being surrounded by toxic coworkers for half of your day, most of your life. 2) Not having the emotional and psychological tools to accept yourself, independent of others.

You have to get comfortable with feeling uncomfortable.

You sound like an old friend that always has something kind to tell me.

If you’ve got self love you’ll naturally attract the people that are meant to be in your life.

“Stop trying to be liked by everyone , you dont even like everyone.” -the truth

Him: "And anyone who doesn't appreciate that..." Me: Fuck em' Him: "That's their loss." Me: Oh, right.

The older I get,the more I realise that I really don’t need that many friends in my life

"To hell with such people who dislike you, you are not here to entertain everyone" - Me 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Him: not everybody is gonna like you Me: *attacked*

The more you love yourself, the less you'll care what others think

"When everyone dislikes a man, beware of him. When everyone likes a man, beware of him."---Confucius

I am autistic and I want to thank you very much for making this video It is uplifting my soul and you are a good person.

My husband is 20 years older than me - we have been married for 19 years and have a 15 year old son. As a family we have always had problems making friends or being accepted by all sorts of groups, neighbors, churches, teachers, doctor’s offices, etc. - our son has also problems making friends. I am the first target when we go to any gathering other than those with close family. People are usually suspicious and judgmental of me. It is all very sad and I came to a point of becoming convinced having friends was not for us and that I had to accept us being singled out because we chose to marry each other. My husband by the way was divorced long before he ever met me and our son is his only son. Being ‘ disliked’ or ‘unlikable’ is a constant in my life…

Usually if someone doesn't like you, it's because they envy you... so it's like a compliment in a weird way.

i reached this point about 5 years ago , stopped being ego driven, stopped critisisng myself and just thought of myself as a decent human being , i stopped reacting to peoples emotional stuff and their projection ...and they hate it , it drives them mad.

Beware of people who are toxic or narcissists because they are the ones who will never be pleased unless they do their own journey of self-growth. You need to recognise indeed when directed criticism is valid or invalid. If invalid it’s important to assertively stand up for yourself and cut out this person from your life if they keep on subjecting you to negativity for the sake of bringing you down instead of helping you grow and improve as a human being in a positive direction.

The ways in which someone judges, dislikes, criticizes or is harsh with you is the same way they judge themselves.

“When you give up needing to have other people’s opinion you find your own freedom.” This is a very important message, especially for the younger generation!

I believe people that seek approval outside of themselves only become miserable because that is not loving yourself. Thank you.

Do not waste your time trying to convince people who are against you to be for you. Ignore, block, and walk away. Do not chase after people that dislike you remember that you don't need to be liked by everyone. It's impossible to please everyone, and trying to do so can be exhausting and unfulfilling

as a youtuber i get hated on a lot, being called a scammer even if im not scamming. Having people say my channel is bad, and MANY more things against me. Thank you for this video, it really made me feel better.

That's it! " Most ppl who do not like you, do not like themselves".

This ties in with learning how to not taking things so personally....

The late John Hurt said "In life, it's not necessary to be liked by everyone. And its liberating"

the people who don't like you always think bad or have negative assumptions about you, no matter what you do. There is freedom in that feeling.

It’s not possible to please everyone... so, the best self service you could do is be true to yourself.

I agree with this. The only problem is that when people do not like you, they may become physical or sabotage you. I don't mind if someone does not like me but usually, they will do things to hurt you. If you do not like someone, just leave them alone.

thanks for the reminder. Recently a lot of our neighbourhood community is hating on us for not letting any bulldozers scratch off soil from the dirt road. Our land is cut in half because of a man-made road. We just bought this land. If the bulldozer keeps doing the same routine of scratching off soil from the sides of the road, the slope in both sides will start crumbling and there would be massive soil erosion. The locals don't understand this. They have very little education about environmental protection and soil erosion. They think that we are stopping their "progress". They also want a new cemented road leading to nearby protected mountains. Mountains that have already even been deforested. Nobody cares about the trees, they want the profit. If the roads keep on being built, more trucks and more investors will come. More business people, who will take over the mountains will build hotels and pollute the area. The locals don't know this. They don't think about the consequences. So we're the only ones that are trying hard to stop this and they hate us for it. I wish they would understand. Even if you try to explain to them about this, they will not listen. They will only listen to the government because they believe so much as the government is saying, even though the govt. itself is doing little to protect the environment. Let them hate me. I can die knowing I tried my best in protecting the mountains, the birds, the trees, the little bacteria, mushrooms and fungi, and every little living thing in our area.

I appreciate the message, thank you

Living in a society full of negativity, stuff like this is as precious as a diamond!

Being yourself and not caring who likes or dislikes you actually earns you more respect than somebody who tries to please everybody

I definitely struggle with being insecure and easily effected knowing people dislike me. I try to just lay low and not interact but I still feel exhausted, even, resentful with the fact that I have no interest being in their world yet they find everything I do or don't do to be offensive and fuels their distrust and distaste towards me. When I do try to let it go... the insecure feelings come rushing back as soon as I have to cross paths with them again. Then I'm stuck ruminating over the interaction for another 2 weeks where again I just want to lash out and give them more reasons to dislike me. Nevertheless, I appreciated youtube recommending your video. I needed another reminder from a calm soul with some sage advice. Thanks for that.

"I will only listen to people who truly love me, anyone else don't matter "

When people hate you for no reason, they have underlying issues,not you. It's usually jealousy.

"A friend to everyone is a friend to no-one."

"Letting go of the need to control". That is something I really need. I reckon the desire to be liked by everyone and the inability to allow people to disapprove of you, is an ego thing and a control thing. I think the best advise I received from this is to "let go of the need to control". I hope I can come to a state where I'm at peace with being disliked and just live and let live. Thank u

I searched up "it's okay for people to dislike you" because I found out that two of my coworkers at my new job seem to have a negative look of me. I found out through another coworker, and friend, that they talked bad about me behind my back and it hurt. ruined my whole day. I'm on my way to work again and i needed to hear these words, I can go back in with peace in my mind

I accept the many people who have disliked me and I accept and admit that I didn't like them either.

When I was in my early 20s I was talking to a man who kept frowning at me. i finally said, "You don't like me, do you?" and he said "So what?" those two little words really changed my need for approval. I remember laughing and thinking, yeah, so what?

"They can say whatever they want and it only affects them" - so much freedom in that. ❤

I really never thought about it, but what really makes me feel bad is trying to understand why they don’t like me, or even resentment for not being accepted... it’s like an offense, and I didn’t think they had the right. But what you said, is so liberating... it makes me feel peaceful. I will have to hear your words times and times again because the older way of thinking is to deep, but your words really help to know how to deal with it. 💜

When people dislike you (and your not out hurting others intentionally) That's a reflection upon them...not you.

I wasn't put in this world to be liked or please everyone, so I stay by myself most times and it is PEACEFUL!

This dude is a Real Rockstar seriously thank you man we find freedom when we give them the freedom to think whatever they want

I've learned from experience that when you're your true self (and the more that people dislike you as a result), it only empowers you and makes you far stronger in your resolve and determination as an individual! This is where true dignity and self-respect come from!

When in doubt throw them out. This applies to spoiled fruit and nuts and people.

When people don't like me, I know I'm doing something right.

i like this human. this human makes me smile.

If you’re watching this , this isn’t a coincidence . We’re the chosen ones 💪🏻

One of my favorite sayings at work is "Don't let anybody steal your happiness." People can only make you sad if you let them.

"That's their loss" is the key phrase to this entire video. I offer what I've got, if you don't like it, OK, keep looking.

You cannot control other people's jealousy and insecurities. They are the unhappy ones.

There will always be boatloads of people out there who hate your guts and who wish the worst upon you all the time. Simply living well is the best revenge you can take against these shitbags. Ignore them, don't ever give them the time of day, and keep living life to the hilt!

It takes a lot of energy, time and mind space to get everyone to like you and you get so little in return for that huge investment.....its not a good return when you add it all up....invest in yourself to get more out of the day.👍 Be good to yourself everyone.😊

Some are addicted to blame and rage. Makes them feel alive.

And that's why I simply just DON'T CARE what people think, especially if it's negative💯

It's hard to walk away from a conversation if the one who hates you follows you around seeking to destroy you.

My Grandfather once told me, "When someone criticizes you, they are looking in a mirror."

When people don't like me I find it quite liberating. I don't have to waste time trying to please them at all I simply live my life the best way I know how and eliminate their negative presence Works amazing🤭

95% likes on this video because people agree with him 5% dislikes are people which truly get it.

Real freedom means that you don’t need the approval of other people to be happy.

Ive been seeing this kind of message all around ..i guess the universe is really reminding me. It's time.

I finally learned to let go of that codependency after 40 years. I've been completely solace & free for over 6 years. Blessed Be🌟🙏

Being kind is good but I learned that I am whole and love myself to not care what they say. Keep smiling and do not consume other people's evil energy

Exactly, look how some evil people hurt Michael Jackson when he was alive ,he was kind,lovely,maybe a little childish but innocent ,he had such a pure and beautiful soul he was a nice person the media disrespected him and treated him badly.we didnt deserve him ,i know he is dead but i can't understand why people are evil.i love u Michael❤❤❤❤❤rest in peace 💖💖💖

On one of my DMT breakthroughs there was a lady who told me "You have to live life like a Christmas light. Some people don't like Christmas lights but Christmas light don't care, Christmas light's gonna keep shining bright and happy as can be!"

When other people's disliking of you actually leads you to discovering your true self :)

You may feel bad that people don't like you, but you also get out of helping them move. Totally worth it.

For people who do not like you - Silence is golden You don't have an obligation to justify

They compare themselves with you and when they realize that you have better qualities, they start disliking and hating you. You may not even know they exist, but they know you and boy do they hate you.

"You could walk on water, and trust me, MFers would say you're walking on water because you can't swim." -- David Goggins Haters gonna hate. Just keep doing you.

As an Asian, I feel this wisdom is deeply missing in my culture. We care so much about what people think of us. And in our culture, we pay so much attention to other people.

If people don't like you don't take it personal as they often don't like themselves ❤️&☮️

As a people pleaser I find it very difficult to let go. I constantly find that my energy goes into defending myself or continuing to help others that are just abusing me. This lesson is something that I'm learning takes courage to embrace. It's time.

When someone is angry, unpleasant or negative to you, instead of feeling angry or upset by the actions of others, l feel a sense of their loss and compassion because they are suffering in their own life. We all have the power of being present in understanding and compassion towards all of life and even people who are different from us and are not friendly. Bless them and release them. Stay tuned into your life and this moment of being alive and being free of outside distractions. Relax and enjoy your life and be your best friend.

" what you think of me can't hurt me, what I think of you can kill me" -some old timer

I've told people for decades now...if given the choice between being liked or respected respect wins hands down. I don't need you to like me. I really don't care if you do. But if you respect me long enough, you may end up liking me, but if you never respect me you liking me isn't real. So its a no brainer to me.

This isn’t a video you watch once. You have to play this every week at least

Didn’t look for this page but it found me I’m glad it did needed some insight on this issue for years

I always get the feeling that I am the most uninteresting person and people just don't want anything to do with me. I'm not likeable and I guess that's okay because that's who I am.

“You can’t be everybody’s cup of tea. Nobody’s everybody’s favourite so you might as well just make it how you please” 🎵 - Kacey Musgraves