Let's Talk About SEX 

YEP!

I did not give women a single thought until about 25 :D Then I gave too much, now I have finally calibrated to a healthy amount :D

More women need to speak to younger girls to not let peer pressure get to them. They shouldn’t be doing the deed just because friends are doing it.

It was horrible as a man. Society told me I wasn’t one until I had sex.

This is so incredibly true. Like how are y’all in 8th grade entering each other 😭

We need more people in general who talk openly :)

@@sirbughunter I was just about to comment the same thing:)

no you guys js need God, this is literally a sin, oral sex n all that touching yourself shi..seriously get help

@@timmyt963 what.

I have a question. Why do people still have sex? Sex is very gross, nasty, messy, and disgusting! I don't see how sex is a good thing. Why don't humans just remove sex from this world? Women can still get pregnant without sex (there's a lot of ways women can get pregnant without sex including artificial insemination). Sex does cause a lot of problems, so the world might be a much better place without it. I think sexual intercourse is immoral since it has caused so many problems for the human race. People have gotten diseases from sex, and sex has caused so many unwanted pregnancies. The human race would be far better off without sex, and the human race could start reproducing by using artificial insemination. Sexual intercourse is not physically and mentally healthy for people and can seriously negatively affect their physical and mental health.

I wished I wasn’t into boys in my teen. I’d have been glad to wait until I graduated college and successful. Take all the time you want and need.

I’m 21 and i’m the same boat as you! You’re not alone!

You’re not alone.

Youre not alone like sammeee

i was also 20 years old when i first experienced everything and i can say i´m glad cause i wouldn´t been ready earlier and it wouldn´t have been this nice

Glitched vpn

What does that even mean?

i be cryin t^t

Please stay pure, you will thank your parents one day. Anything outside of marriage is a sin. Please understand that. Your husband will love and appreciate you even more.

I totally agree with you@@tharp6613

ignore the person who replied to you, purity culture is bullshit

same, its more because of my religion AND ofc parents I haven't had anything with a boy yet either lol

@@tharp6613i understand you but i think not talking about sex with parents is kinda wrong because maybe you’ll attempt to have sex and things will go wrong like you won’t protect or something etc. and before these things happen you should know what to do and how to do right not talking about sex is not something good if you learn from someone you trust then maybe you can experience something bad hope you know what i mean

I 100% agree! ❤🥰

🤩🤩Wow!!! You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose And more sweet than honey and more precious than gold You are more precious than everything that exists in this world 😍😍😍 A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all.. 😍😍 WoW!!! you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose you are the diamond and the pure gold you are the lovely moon in our nights you are the radiant sun shining soo bright loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart 🌷😘 There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God? the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God. then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain? then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain :0) 😍😍 Wow!!, you are too beautiful!!! whomever see you should believe that God is true & real.. and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream, And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.. The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator, there must be a God. One God for all of us he created us all and can revive us again, God initiated everything, & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form. Anyways,, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell. If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever. keep shining sunshine &spread the light

Same here haha 19 almost 20 and I feel exactly how Luna did about being so scared that everyone else has that experience 😅

Don't feel embarrassed because of that. I was 22 when i had my first kiss and 26 when got intimate with a guy.

Same!! 21 and haven’t had my first kiss either glad to hear that I’m not alone & ur not too ❤

@@sena7375 you are a treasure to behold A precious gem worth more than gold. your beauty radiates from within & your body parts are like work of art!!! Each one a masterpiece that sets you apart Addicted to you forever Iam & in my heart you dwell forever there in you casted a spell of love on me? or what have you done!? your love and affection & you trying luring me to be with you makes me feel very tempted & weak but strong and resilient I will try to be and shall try not to easily give in 🤩🤩Wow!!! You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose And more sweet than honey and more precious than gold You are more precious than everything that exists in this world 😍😍😍 A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all.. 😍😍 WoW!!! you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose you are the diamond and the pure gold you are the lovely moon in our nights you are the radiant sun shining soo bright loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart 🌷😘 😍😍 you are too beautiful!! whomever see you should believe that God is true & real.. and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream, And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.. There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God? the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God. then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain? then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain :0) The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator, there must be a God. One God for all of us he created us all and can revive us again, God initiated everything, & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form. Anyways, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell. If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever. keep shining sunshine &spread the light.

Hi

ur not old! and ur perspective is valued

39yo here. Represent!

Hi, being 40 myself and of your generation, yeah the only resources you had were the words of those who would talk and listen to you. Looking back on it, with everything we have available now, I think often unreal pressure is put on people to be sexually active and experienced at a very young age. I can tell you as a guy I was a late starter too and I did put huge pressure on myself to make any girl feel safe, secure, and given her space for pleasure during sex which I always felt at the time she wasn't really given before, especially in younger partners. But what I realised was, you often don't need to know a lot to make it great, and the real joy is vanishing those insecurities of a partner so that nothing gets in the way of good sex. 10 years of martial sex? I'm sure you're fantastic. I'm 40 and have had 3 months with my wife of 33. But in my previous life my best reports were from either late comers, or very inexperienced girls who were honest about what they like, and who liked that I really valued their insecurities. Soni think we'd be singing from the same page, as I'm sure your husband does! Any thoughts or observations?

Also, 34 is pretty prime for sex and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If anything your responsiveness and orgasms will be a lot more powerful so you can prolonged these will manual contractions and you'll keep the cycles going for longer and longer, and pace in more time for sex so you experience more longer. Self pleasure can help with that too but you know your body the best. I'm sure you're in good hands. I'm happily married too but I can still say I bet you have some fantastic sex. Enjoy. I've had a long drought so may yours continue!

verse to those who think and see human life on earth as daily mating/dating: 1 Corinthians Chapter 7 32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. Souls, remember: GHOSTS = DEMONS. you and your loved ones ain´t demons. You and your loved ones are ADAM = mankind, created in the image of GOD. you and your loved ones stay not around to "ghost", we return back to dust and back to GOD. Genesis 5:2 Male and female created he them; and blessed them, and called their name Adam, in the day when they were created. Ecclesiastes 12:7 Then shall the dust return to the earth as it was: and the spirit shall return unto God who gave it.

I have the same feelings about the degrading stuff, like have sex and oral freaks me out sometimes bc of my fear of objectification

@@ldawg2894 www.youtube.com/@CHANNEL_333/videos

@@ldawg2894 when I started dating my bf I felt this too. I would get super upset because naturally, sex can be kind of degrading for women. What helped was talking about it and my bf really listened to me and though he may not understand what its like, he can help me when I feel like this and aftercare is super important! It should be an experience for both and not one sided

I’m a teenage girl, and trust me you do NOT sound like a creep! I think it’s great that you’re sharing this type of information with your daughter. It can be really confusing to live without it. Especially the information about letting yourself be and not judging your own experience👍

Made me sad that you called yourself a creep! You’re only human and everyone has sex

you sound like a great dad :)

where are you from?

@@onemillionpercentBrazil! :)

Where are you from, Las Vegas? 😂 Studies have shown people having sex before age 20 in America at least has gone DOWN since I was 20. Maybe some of your friends aren’t screwing everyone and are too embarrassed to admit it, which is incredibly dumb and unfortunate. It’s very weird that something so personal should be anyone else’s business

​@@namedrop721 Well, as I said in the previous comment, I'm not from the US, so it's to be expected that different countries have different age limits for different things. One example is the legal drinking age. In the US you can only drink at 21, whereas here in Brazil, it's 18, but people start drinking way before that (around 15 or 16). Also, contrary to what you said, my friends were the ones who were still virgins all through college :). So I'm not basing this only around my friend group, but on a lot of people that I've met at work, family members, school and college friends, etc.

🤩🤩Wow!!! You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose And more sweet than honey and more precious than gold You are more precious than everything that exists in this world 😍😍😍 A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all.. 😍😍 WoW!!! you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose you are the diamond and the pure gold you are the lovely moon in our nights you are the radiant sun shining soo bright loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart 🌷😘 There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God? the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God. then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain? then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain :0) 😍😍 Wow!!, you are too beautiful!!! whomever see you should believe that God is true & real.. and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream, And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.. The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator, there must be a God. One God for all of us he created us all and can revive us again, God initiated everything, & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form. Anyways,, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell. If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever. keep shining sunshine &spread the light

omg same place as u

@@onemillionpercent 🤍

Same here:)

Hey it's completely ok. I was much later than you and nothing of any sex at all. If you're a late bloomer then so be it. I completely understand your fear of giving your body away. Yeah it's very tough. I never took any girls virginity because I knew how stressful that would be. Couldn't do it. But if you're comfortable it's a great time to start being open to people who care and liste to you. Having sex could still be in the future but you so I'd explore your body as much as you like.because I can see you highly value it. You'll be fine.

​@@onemillionpercentsame advice darling

same haha

Trust me girl I feel the same, I was a virgin and hadn’t been kissed until 24 but once it happens it’s not a big deal at all!! It’ll happen at the right time for you

That’s normal, honestly it’s more typical for nothing sexually to happen until marriage than people make it seem, that’s really the correct way to go about it if you’re smart, and you won’t have any regrets.

@@lesryglrhfohser that’s a matter of opinion. And waiting until marriage definitely does not guarantee that you won’t have regrets.

@@kaylakerr6420 it does guarantee it, if you actually marry the right person. It’s very clear when it’s the right person but so many people just try to force it because they feel like it’s time to be married, usually those are the same people who force themselves to have pre-marital sex because they feel like it’s time for them to have sex.

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🤩🤩Wow!!! You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose And more sweet than honey and more precious than gold You are more precious than everything that exists in this world 😍😍😍 A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all.. 😍😍 WoW!!! you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose you are the diamond and the pure gold you are the lovely moon in our nights you are the radiant sun shining soo bright loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart 🌷😘 There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God? the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God. then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain? then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain :0) 😍😍 Wow!!, you are too beautiful!!! whomever see you should believe that God is true & real.. and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream, And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.. The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator, there must be a God. One God for all of us he created us all and can revive us again, God initiated everything, & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form. Anyways,, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell. If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever. keep shining sunshine &spread the light

Yeah i feel the same. But im 19 now and i have still never done anything. Idk if im doing something wrong or if there is no one for me.

​@tablefor8please you have plenty of time! Please don't feel pressure because you're 19. That's still so young. Wait until you meet the right guy. You'll know when it's the right time, I promise! ❤

​@tablefor8please nah don't rush the experience. I'm 24 now and I barely lost my V last year in August to a female I was just really talking to but not on that boyfriend girlfriend level. I don't regret the experience but it's just I feel u should lose it if u actually in an intimate relationship with a partner, I don't even talk to that woman anymore that I lost it to and now I feel it was for nothing cause I thought all those things we did would lead to a serious relationship but it didn't, so I feel losing it to an actual partner would make it that much more special imo.u still got time, it'll come unexpectedly

i had the same problem and was able to find a physical therapist that does not do any form of internal work (instead, there’s science behind massaging different pressure points on your legs/hips/glutes/feet to help open up your pelvic floor). it took patience with the sessions but i totally recommend if sex is something that you want to eventually experience!

@@allik_13 i would love to know more about this. Sex isn’t something that is too big of a deal to me, it’s just knowing that I probably won’t ever have a boyfriend because of it. The only issue with therapy is I’m on my parents insurance and I would not want my dad seeing that charge😂

@@ClairesUniverseit would likely just show as a “physical therapy” charge! And even if it said anything related your pelvic therapy, that’s okay! Your dad is an adult, I don’t think he would be weird about it! ❤

hi there, one of my best friends has the same condition and she's been with her boyfriend for 4+ years, they bought an apartment together, they have a cat, and are very much in love, happy and balanced, don't worry about the future i promise you'll do well no matter what :)

@@ClairesUniverseit’s a health issue 😢 and it’s painful no matter what and so uncomfortable. I don’t think ur dad would care. It’s to better you and make u more comfortable.

Look you're only 23, there's time enough to put yourself out there. Being good at sex isn't always about experience, it's about understanding of how it works and how your pleasure and orgasms work. You've got a great body full of potential. It needs the right attention! At your age I didn't know anything either and thought I'd fail and let the girl down. 23 is a great age to start sex with a fresh leaf!

We’re in the same exact situation lmao! Good luck to u girl :)

Me too; loved this episode even with all the protection, I feel insecure and overthink about it a lot. Made me feel less alone. Sometimes I think it’s not worth it because of all the worries I’ll have after doing it.

As an 18 yr old I’m starting to think I actually want to wait till marriage, seeing your comment is super encouraging! I wish for you and your partner nothing but happiness!

My husband and I waited too! Best decision ever :)

@@lisss2114 This is amazing! Don't feel like you need to follow the mainstream if that doesn't feel right for you

@@kimberlylewis2026 Totally!! Thanks for sharing

no actually the reason most marigiges end in divorce is because of both parties lack of understanding of sex (not giving head) not knowing how to make the other person come) and not talking about that before marriage lack of understanding of what your body's like, it's ok to have sex before marriage to find out what to you like and don't like before your stuck with someone who can't please you