As a 37 year old single mom (guess im low value lol) I am very proud of your response. You handled it with dignity and grace which shows your CHARACTER! The younger generation can learn a lot from you
I’m so glad you addressed that with wisdom. That guy is obviously immature and angry/hurt because he can’t find anyone to marry him or even date him. That’s usually the reality behind a comment like that
@@brianm6924 No he’s projecting. He’s obviously a single dude that can’t find anyone and he’s taking it out on her. Because if he had a girlfriend or wife, I’m sure they wouldn’t appreciate him coming online harassing women about their dating life. And yes, that was harassment. She could be getting to know a guy right now and not talking about it, but that guy is too arrogant and entitled to not realize she doesn’t OWE him, a strange dude, an explanation of her entire personal life. She shows us what she wants us to see. So he needs to figure out how to be happy with himself and his life, or he will be dying alone.
The fact that someone came after you with such a rude disrespectful comment when you do NOTHING but put out positive cute and Godly content shows how these red pill “men” are rooted in pure evil. I just loved the way you addressed that mess ! God Bless You 🙏🏾
Ole boy just in his feelings cause he wants her. Men are simple. And she's the total package...who could blame him? But that's definitely Not the way to get the attention of a virtuous woman, which she obviously IS...he must be young...🤦🏿♂️
Niesha has always had grace and class as a independent woman! It just comes with the territory when individuals post their life journey/business on social media. She’s not immune to the rude comments as thousands of other RU-vidrs deal with the same thing. That’s why I don’t have FB, Gram, or Twitter it’s toxic and a waste of my time!
I can't believe someone ask you that. It's no one's business. I've been divorced 9 years. I get so tired of people asking me if I have a girlfriend. I don't because I'm not looking for one. I am content focusing on my relationship with my Lord. God bless you, you are a real encouragement and a great example. And, you are very wise.
I live by "You are responsible for your response" the fact that you were able to read the question and respond in kindness says alot about your integrity. You also built someone's confidence, Made in His image after His likeness. EEEEEEEEEEE
Girl when I was your age I picked up the phone called my mother sobbing about why all my friends were married and I wasn’t. She quickly reminded me most of them also were divorced and remarried. If it’s meant to be it will be. If not perhaps you were called to do something else. I have older parents so I always felt like I was meant to take care of them and I am currently taking care of my 85 year old father while working in healthcare. You don’t need to be married with kids to be happy or complete. It’s your life’s journey not someone else’s. I tell the younger girls your age to go to school get a good job and start saving for retirement. Life goes quick.
Respect and blessings to you. I must have to disagree with you slightly. You said you tell the younger woman to go to school and get a good job. Although I believe they should go to school and earn a degree, I think it should be secondary to attractive a husband first. I think it's more beneficial for a young woman to put the most effort into attracting a decent husband. But that's just my opinion. But I do know: Above all, knowing the Lord Jesus and being born again is of the most important
You addressed the comment perfectly. We are not defined by a shallow preference, what actually defines us as a person is our character and our values. Without that we are defined by cosmetic and materialistic things that can be changed or wavered by anything but when you do have values/character that is what a person is defined to the core that is who a person really is. You explained it perfectly and referenced the Bible as a source to go to, so that there is no question about it the answer is in there as to How one should define themselves. Not defining themselves based off of social media. ANOTHER GREAT VLOG AND VIDEO KEEP THEM COMING. Thank you
Niesha I just love your music selection! You’re always putting me on lol. Appreciate it Also, you are so right! No one speaks about character and focuses on shallow standards. Since being a young girl, I understood that sometimes the shallow things that attracted me to men, never determined if I would continue to choose them. It was the depth of who they were. Enjoyed that topic! Thanks!
Much respect, and props to you. I love the way you turned a "cliche" negative comment into a life lesson, and actually used it to motivate others to find the value in themselves... not by what society (social media) and dating preferences deem as value.
You handled that comment so elegantly. I wish some of these men would stop regurgitating information from the manosphere and think for themselves. They are so toxic and off putting. I feel for any young woman they get with because how will they feel as she ages in their marriage??.
The ignorant comment came solely from a lost being consuming “ red pill content”🙄 May he find god( some form of spirituality), himself & true LEADERSHIP SKILLS‼️ I’m sooooo glad you’re ahead of the curve & responded so eloquently 👏🏽💙🌹
Wifey and I were nodding the whole time during your “character” commentary! Yes ma’am! Also, I am with you on the writing. I attempted to write everyday in March…. …didn’t quite make it ….BUT I got bit done and I think I’ll try again soon! Great content! Keep it coming! ❤
I hear much about being a "high value" man or woman. Your response is the best I heard yet. I also acknowledge that for a young person of your generation, I have much respect for you. Your value as a person is HIGH in the eyes of the only ONE that truly matters, HE that is above all that consider themselves of high value. May HIS grace and mercy continue to be upon you. Please be safe out there.
Thank you sis, you kept it real classy handling that comment about High Value and explaining what it REALLY means. There’sa LOT of talk out there about this, and I agree it can make people feel less than… So thank you, This was right on time for me
I’m behind you 100% when it comes to value & character. You covered the subject with dignity, truth & maturity. As for Starbucks illiteracy…I’m in the same position…tall, grande, venti. Please may I have a large cup of coffee?! 😆😊 I tried the flavor you had. It was good. Second time I ordered it, they were out of oat milk so I substituted almond milk. Not as “rich” but still good. Keeping you in prayer. Stay safe. God’s best blessing to you.
Great video. As you said high value is way more than what some of these people are talking about. Value is subjective. What I "pay" for one thing may not be wat someone else pays. We can see a different value in the same object. It's the same thing with relationships. We all place value in different ways. No one way is gospel. Great answer by you. Have a great week. 🤟🏿
I think you are making successful decisions,keep it up it pays out in the longer run. Hope you and pepper (your baby) have a great week and God is the light of the world.👍👍🤩🤩😍😍
i agree with you, value should came from your own inside growth. thinking too much about what others say can really make you hate yourself, i use to be a victim of this.
I finally found you again! I lost my old RU-vid when I switched phones. I watched your videos for months when I was preparing for trucking school. I’ve been OTR over a year now.
Niesha, my young sister Preach, hearing you speak, is truly the wisdom from God, what a delight to know, whose you are, that God has blessed, have a blessful day 🙏
Ms.Niesha, don't stress on the things people say in the comment. The person who wrote that comment mite just has a crush on you😄. Always remember everything is your timing and God timing. Just keep grinding and stay safe.
I have the same problem at Starbucks haha. But I think it’s good you addressed standard’s because if those are the only things about a person someone decides to have a relationship with a person for, they’re in that relationship for all the wrong reasons. I think society telling us we will be miserable without someone is part of the problem we’re busy trying to be the best of the best and waiting to find someone who can offer us whatever we want. We want to look good and find someone to make us feel good in selfish ways. It’s so sad but maybe more will learn this and change.
We are socialized to have a clock on what our lives are supposed to look like at a certain age. It causes so much trauma in our communities for a lot of different reasons. We are free y’all . Remember that 16:01
Amen 🖤 Well said! Hardly ever do you people speak of character or God/religion. These things alone help mold and shape one’s morals and values. Judge them by their fruit!
Amen baby girl!! You really hit the nail on the head. Especially in this post Kevin Samuels world. I think he missed the boat on Character and your relationship with God.
I enjoy your music and way you film your videos. It's so relaxing. Thanks for sharing. I like that you watch crafting videos too. They are so addicting. I think I'm subscribed to 20 crafters.
Loved the vlog! Thank you for that inspirational word at the end. Always have standards and never settle or bring yourself low to meet someone else's deficit mindset or mediocrity. ❤❤
Your comments as to character are right on point! Physical attributes and one's financial status can change throughout your lifetime, but your character is always with you and can enhance or limit your life and relationships. To GOD be the glory!
Niesha…. Thank you for this. It’s obvious that we ALL are beyond someone’s preference, but with the propaganda that plagues the minds of so many, it’s hard to remember that moral. GOD bless you and your audience, wishing you nothing but the best.
That come back for that comment was heavenly sis. I love that you speak as if God is next to you and proud of you. Our lips do not belong to us, we were created to serve and get close to The Most High because we can not love anyone unless we love God, then ourselves.
Niesha, I’m so impressed with you. Your maturity and depth of character is light years ahead of most people my age (and I’m 52)! I agree with everything you said ~ different strokes for different folks. Marriage and children may be the ideal goal for one person and an absolute nightmare for another.
❤ Love the way you handled that comment. The maturity level you brought is off the charts. Exactly take your time and it will come to you. Making a comment like that person made sound so selfish with no maturity. I think you dropped the mic on that 🫳🎤❤❤❤
High Freaking Five Neisha!!! You are definitely a high value individual. Love how you handled that and said "your value is more than someone's preference". 🙌🏼 Keep walking your God provided path. Much Love Much Light Neisha
I wish that I had your wisdom at your age! God bless you, sister… you spoke no lies… and if more of us had that level of understanding, we wouldn’t place ourselves or our children in sad, unnecessary, and sometimes dangerous situations. I pray that God allows your wisdom to continue to grow and that you continue to heed to His word.
There is an absolute need to keep young, beautiful and fertile women like yourself invested in coupling with these men. In case you are not aware, there is a prevalence of women refusing to mate and marry these "high value men". Frankly, he insulted you first then questioned your niceness as a means to whether you will answer his insult or not. I would not have answered him you are much nicer than me. Be aware.
Was so blessed my your response on the age comment. I had my daughter at 28 and wasn't planning to have any. We were birthed with a God plan. Marriage is not a walk in the park especially if not prepared. Enjoy! You are young!
Hi Neisha, I am not at all surprise of your spirit, class, grace and intellect. You come from a long line of that from both sides of the family and your number one GOD! Well said cousin. It amazes me everytime I do get a chance to watch you look exactly like your mom. ❤ and blessings.
Lady N, I'm over 50+ and have been following you close to start, very proud of what you do. (Hair Locs, what's best for dry scalp in your opinion) Stay Safe, Relationship will come in time🙏🏾💯🌹🙌🏾✌🏾🤣
Love is patient and love is timeless and love is precious niesha I see your loving yourself first and loving your soul and your devoted to your faith in what God has for you in time he will bring the love of your life in time and believe me people get married in late 30s,40s,50s no matter what God brings love to us when he’s ready too I truly just believe your time of love is coming soon but your just simply beautiful soul who is spreading love with your positive auroa and Gods message through his word keep on being healing and comforting soul you are true definition of 👑 hope this message reaches you out of love and must say you handle that comment with great maturity wishing many blessing and great love along your journey 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hey i know you’re probably super busy but just wanted to say definitely miss the vlogs. I catch myself binge watching the old ones. If you ever feeling up to it gotta throw out another for the fans. Keep working hard
Sorry I haven’t been watching your videos lately but I haven’t been forgetting about you. My schedule has been crazy as well. All the things you said in this video you said them so well and you’re an inspirational to a lot of people. I hope everything is going good with you and your current job, company that you’re working for, take care and God bless.
Keep doing what you've been doing to gain and grow the success that you've been accomplishing so far.... Some of these people are just regurgitating stuff that they've heard from other people that they think sounds insightful learn to ignore random comment stuff....
What i found is eat b4 u start work, ill have 1 or 2 chicken sandwiches & be wide awake my entire trucking shift. B4 i used to struggle to keep up mainly due to boredom h coffee dont work on me neither do energy drinks but the simple change of eating b4 work now its nice smooth nights.
So let’s say she took that comment seriously.. what do you men expect her to do? She has to pay rent & healthy men with character are not falling out the sky. Enjoy your peace sis.
It's kind of like the same way when you were in high school and the Guidance Counselor would try and guide you to plan you future. Niesha's look, smile and personality is very nice, warm and inviting; there are establish men out here who are looking for those traits to have as their wife. I think that it is a disservice to Niesha for you to imply that the peace she has by herself with Pepper is all she needs as long as she can pay her rent. And as far as "a healthy man with character", no one is perfect but that doesn't mean two people can't be perfect for each other.
I just wanted to let you know that everything about you is beautiful and inspiring. As a 22 year old black woman, you Miss Niesha K encourage me and I look at you as a role model. You doing what you do in such a graceful and feminine manner makes you stand out so much to me. Let’s not forget how you carry yourself with the armor of the Lord, you are loved by God so much and I see his glory all over you. You are always GLOWING! When it’s time, God will bless you with the husband that he made just for you! You live without fear and put all your love into God, yourself and your family. I admire you and that danger zone mess doesn’t apply to you! God walks with you! Hearing you speak about the comment reminds me of song called : Confidently Lost by Sabrina Claudio. “ I'm alone but I'm not lonely Comfortably indulging And tryna get to know me I'm just an outline of what I used to be Constantly evolving Steadily revolving I am confidently lost I don't need you to find me You don't define me.” You are doing your own thing and growing everyday, there’s nothing wrong with that! That comment didn’t phase nor DEFINE you, because you know this already and you explained yourself perfectly ! Continue to do what you do and stay blessed! MUCH LOVE, From Texas!❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
1 of the reasons i watch your videis, is b/c its the opposite of those woman vs man high value videos. And yes i mostly chuckle when i watch those high value women videos. And let's be honest they're mainly talking about us,"black men/ women. I'm so glad that me & my wife get along based upon helping each other. it's never been about money. It makes me laugh!
It’s crazy how insecure these men are. They fear being alone and is projecting that on you. How does your life affect him? why would he even thought of making that comment? I just don’t understand.
