Makes no difference, because during our 2 weeks of No Contact, he married someone else. Yep my absence is permanent now!!! Rejoicing in my freedom and healing my heart ❤️❤️❤️. I am comfortable in my own space and have Peace ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾. Be empowered to act in your own best interests.
@@antriggs4190 Yep. He married someone right under my nose. We all volunteered at the senior center. She knew he was engaged to me. He was dealing with both of us at the same time. I just had major surgery and he was supposed to help me with my appointments, getting through the surgery and rehab. But God made a way for me. I am recovering and I will get over this deception. God removed him from my life it was a divine detour/intervention and his protection from the rejection. Karma debts will be paid by them both. I am holding into my faith in God. This was supposed to take me out. But God will Fight this battle for me. I am in a place of PEACE ✌🏾
thats infuriating because you were trying and he was playing. that other woman will have to deal with aspects of his personality that will very unpleasant. you escaped from a demon
@@Mari-lv1rd You are correct 💯. She only knew him for about two months and has no clue what she step into. I'm talking about sleeping with the enemy for real; a Demonic entanglement.
Nah, people really don’t care if you’re there or not. Yet YOU have to decide if they’re worth your time, and how you feel before, during, and after spending time with them.
It also makes them feel safe now to move on . They dont want you messing up their new relationship and it protects the new person in their that you wont go psycho on them. Its not the new person fault you two wasnt a match. Best thing to do is let the person go and work on yourself and learn from mistakes and make the next relationship better.
Your videos were the very first that I ever watched to learn about narcissists after I broke up with my ex narcissist girlfriend back in 2019. Thank you
He starting to reach out to me with small stuff and using my stuff as an excuse to come get it from his house. I told him if he want it out throw it away
You helped me a lot when I’ve separated with long term partner,I knew he wasn’t one for me but still I was hurting then I’ve found you on here and the game changed for me! Thank you so much❤ps.it was 6 years ago by the way but still watching you time to time🤩
This works in the first 2 weeks of no contact. After that they forgot you and move on with their life with a smile. The dumper never, never suffer... It's only a legend for selling ebook to people...
Three years… one hundred people… none of them have reached out. They have forgotten and moved on. I did this as a test to see what would happen and it turns out it happened exactly as I thought it would. People are so predictable.
Don t torture yourself. If they left they don t care about you. They don t miss you. They found someone else. Stop counting the days NC . Just take time to accept it. And slowly move on . Alobe with someone else. Whatever. Save your time guys. Save your heart.
3 months she has been in a rebound now. She reached out 1 time 2 months ago to check to see if I was the safety net. Ever since I haven't heard from her. I think she will marry the rebound. She has already been planned marriage and engagement stuff even a month into her relationship with him. She travels for work so in 3 months they have probably only seen each other not even a months time. So she moved on QUICK. Even though 2 weeks after the breakup she was at my house telling me she loved me and missed me and asking me to have sex. Ever since I haven't seen her. That was 2.5 months ago. And this is the definition of low hanging fruit. Low value man of 32 who still lives with his parents and has a low paying job. No motivation to do better and ugly. And she is beautiful, has an amazing job and 2 degrees. I don't even think he has an associates. He was available because they have been family friends for years. But never been romantic involved. Because he has a questionable past. Unreal. And I'm 6 figure income, better looking, my own house and 2 paid off cars. Yet he is better??
Im in a VERY similar situation. Its been about 4 month's and she got into a rebound. Through out the months, constantly told me she love me, miss me and even had sex a couple of times and Now she's talking about marrying him. He always liked her since MIDDLE school yet she constantly played in his face and doesn’t respect him at all. I asked the SAME question as you, Yet he's better ??? I just dont get it or understand it. It's just best to stay away and continue to build ourselves up.
@@bigmom1sthusband326 it boggles my mind. We were in relationship for 4 years and I had engagement ring for her which she didn't find out about until after she left me. One of her best friends told me she will be back and the rebound is trash and I still talk to her parents without her knowing. They both I think would much rather have me over this guy because they know I could provide for her better with my income and the fact I'm a practicjng Christian and just a good person. If she marries this guy it will be a disaster. She fast forwarded the relationship quick with him and basically got it up to same speed as ours with marriage talk and all that. Mentally immature decision making.
My ex blocked me ..got engaged in 2 months and got married after 4 months...but now I feel blessed he blocked me cs now I see he wasn't a good partner bc he cheated on me and he was way too cruel ...I thank god I'm still alive and kicking
Move on! This woman is a manipulator and psycho. And this new dude is going to go on the ride of his life only to get his heart broken. Stay far away from her if you know what's best for YOU👈🏃
The material stuff doesn't matter to many ppl / women but other than that: maybe he is a good manipulator and he found an opening. Who knows but maybe it will end soon because she knows they are not eachother's equal, mentally.
Hello,thank you for always coaching everyone. This is very helpful. So? I want to share a little of my story of the no contact rule and it does work. So I did this now? Before I go any further? My X? He will constantly break up with me and block me and go and date other women . I would wonder what is going on with him? So? When he was done with the other women he is messing with? He would then come back to me and un block my number from his phone. So I found out what,he was doing. I told him,when I found out he was dating another woman? I said take care of yourself and I hung up the phone. Then went back to him. We talked and he told me,a lie of course. So to make this short. I find out he is having sex with this woman after he blocked me and he told me I don’t want to talk to you anymore?😮I said what? I hung up on him and he tried to call me back and I hung up on him again and that was it for me and him. So? It was hard for me a few days later. But as weeks went by? His memories are in my head. I had to keep myself busy,so I began. I also began to date someone else. Then then end of March 2024(this year).He messaged me,asking me to call him.He sent me his number. So I called and text him first. This is the line he tells me. Well? 6,months from now we will get married. Now he has told me this before. And nothing he told me? He didn’t follow through. So after we spoke he said we will talk again. I text him and of course and called him and no answer. So? I said this manipulative man. I said forget it. I then began to date this man and so I sent my X,this message. I said to him I am going to permanently remove you out of my life and I have found my someone and I sent a picture of him. I told him this He is a good man who loves me and does not look or desire other women. Then I ended it and removed all his contact from my phone and his mom’s number too. He only has contact with me on my facebook. So I blocked him there too. But now his thoughts are back in my head! What is going on?
The message is a bit off, as he said “they will start to wonder if they did something to push you away” always be upfront with your other half, tell them if something is bothering you and request they rectify. Don’t play games and only back off/leave if your relationship is over.
She doesn’t care that I’m giving space. 3 years. She planned this without communicating at all prior. Just time for her to get over me and to the next. Never seen someone go so cold and didn’t even have a toxic relationship or anything at all
But what if she left me because she fears to miss things she want to try like domination etc. I have the feeling she can try out all that because of joyclube etc. and think she will not miss me because she thinks because of that missing fear she couldn't have a serious relationship now. But with joyclube she can have all that she wants I guess and so I didnÄt see that she will miss me with all that distraction ...
I don’t think so that he feels my absence from the day I left his house after a couple of hours he was already in dating app planning to meet up this women
My girlfriend saw him with another girl. I don’t know if it’s rebound, but it’s only been a month. Suggestions? The guy lives in my building too. And he purposely said hello to my girlfriend and he doesn’t even like her, so is he trying to get me jealous because I didn’t message him and I haven’t an in a month -kind of feel like he wants me to message him. I kind of feel like he’s in regret and doesn’t have what he had with me.
Haven't heard from my boyfriend in almost 6 weeks. Why does he do this? He's making false claims about things and I sooner if he really believes these things.
Help me understand this, my girlfriend broke up with me and told me not to call or message her... I respected her decision and went on no contact for 5 months never watched her stories and whatever but I realized she blocked me on WhatsApp yesterday. What does this mean I never mind her since then and she didn't also blocked me since so why blocking me now.?? Please someone should share with me.
She doesn’t want you to contact her anymore. If she wants to talk to you she will reach out to you. Going no contact doesn’t only mean stop reaching out to them it also means that you work on yourself. I recommend that you focus on yourself. Set some goals and work toward them. Go to therapy as well to strengthen your self worth and self esteem because if you liked yourself enough you wouldn’t even notice that you were blocked after 5 months. Maybe she moved on or maybe she realized that she doesn’t want you in her life ever again, maybe she had a realization about herself and it has nothing to do with you. Just focus on yourself and forget about this person and if it’s meant to be it will work out.
She expected you to chase her.. that's the reason she didn't block you before...After 5 months of the waiting period she now blocked you out of anger and again expecting you to chase her.. If it's not your fault,jus enjoy your solitude..If you have done anything hurtful in the past which caused the seperation jus apologize to her sincerely..Ask her the reason for d silence..If she mentions it clearly and if it was your side fault talk openly, apologize and get back with her..All is well
This is what happens when people arent serious, and often are into dating as a game of fun. The guy normally has atleast 30 females phone numbers, facebook accounts, and a whole chip of backbook affair contacts! It seems like his dating game of disappearing is a game of throne! That is the sign of an abusive man! In a long run, the lost is yours to deal alone. Once a guy does that to you. Its best that you would stop seeing him, and just ignore the fact. Good luck!
Don’t feel bad my previous ex fiancé dumped me for another guy and married him in 6 mnths while I suffered ,I was devastated,but here’s the best news she just got divorced to him😂,karmas a bitch
What if they r in a rebound within 1 day bcos I didnt msg him 1st & for a misunderstanding , rejection + loss pain & anger thinking I gave up, after he reached to me with regrer ,love after our 2nd breakup ? My FA came back to me twice after breakups (space) within a month when he felt my absence . But now its 8 weeks for his rebound , is he still in relief stage? :( Im in NC after explaining "Nothing happend as he assumed..etc" with love. He then realised he took a impulsive decision & he responded so caringly ,open the door for my msgs ,but he is still silent (no chat /calls). Will he miss me now too in my absence & come back (if he has a rebound)? :(
Hi coach…after three weeks of a break up i saw today my ex in his car with a young lady.he looked at ma and didint say hellow…iam davistated and i think his moving on😢😢😢
Not really missing them, just curious how are they doing and what’s new in their lifeWould be nice to catch up but I don’t want him back honestly, nothing bad or toxic, just moved on from that phase of life.
He wants both worlds, be wise, and do not block your blessings dealing with a married man. Remember, what goes around comes around. You deserve better.
Should I answer him? He asks me how I am and whether WE Can meet... I am not at all well due to him going back to his ex . It has been really very difficult to accept. Thanks for answering
Do they miss their rebounds too,? ? I feel awful after realising I was just his rebound..he used me to restart his life and then dumped me like garbage
Some people will become selfish for their own benefits, but at the end of the day. They think of their actions when they are alone. Just keep moving. There are men a lot more better for you. Don't wait for him. Know your worth. The relationship to begin with is a mess. So there is no way to continue it.
