Glad to hear Jaxson loves school 😊. I know that you will be out of the crazy situation sooner than later. Jaelah you have developed into a Beautiful butterfly 🦋🦋 because you are more aware of self. That is powerful! Enjoyed this, Love the makeup. Have a blessed Holiday 😊
Its very difficult to cope with the fact that men can detatch from their child(ren) if the relationship with mom is no longer. I had to cope with that as well.
There is so much you can accomplish when you put the fear aside. Saying that to say, fear is something that does exist but most times your FAITH will prevail. Whenever you feel weary and afraid, say a PRAYER TO GOD IN THE NAME OF JESUS and your fears and worries SUBSIDE. I did so much praying and faith healing in the last year and a half while purchasing a new home, having most of it renovated and am now very blessed with living comfortably within my financial means and enjoying the fruits of my labor. HAVE FAITH!
Wow you wouldn't believe how many men get jealous of their sons or how many women get jealous of their daughters is the same. Jaxson took you away from him. You became a mother the day you realized life was forming. He was happy st the idea of being a father until he realized the limitations he had to endure.
Totally Understand the money energy thing, like idk how to describe it but I just put in work and things just happen. I walk through the world just knowing things are going to be okay and shit just start lining up.
Jaelah your chit chats are literally the best ! I normally don’t watch ppl chit chats but something about yours eats just like your vlogs !!! I love you girl !😂❤
You spoke the truth! I just quit my teaching position about two weeks ago because I was tired of being underpaid and dealing with HORRIBLE/ BAD students
I never comment, but I just want to say Jaelah you are low key my therapist (as one way communication) because you hit so many points and I feel like my "shambles" (thanks Raven Elyse) aren't just happening to me. Your truth lets me know that I'm not the only one going thru the madness of ADHD, absent father issues and just so many life similarities. Keep being who you are and keeping it 100!!
Was very much outside as kid/teen, hated being in the house lol and it makes me so sad my kids (if I have any) won’t necessarily have the same childhood. I truly believe 90’s kids had the best childhood. And mom shaming def needs to come back!
I’m just gonna say it, you are such a light- it has been a pleasure to see you grow and come into enlightenment and self awareness. Keep going and raising that beautiful boy(and thank you for that word on money girl ) ❤
People really out here just getting pregnant on accident and being like “guess I gotta keep it” and out no thought into being a parent. They treat the child like an obligation and quite literally provide them with the bare minimum: food clothes shelter but no life lessons, like self respect or consent.
The chit-chat OG. I love it here! Definitely felt when you said God ends up working things out every time you worry about money, and you end up asking yourself, what were you worried about! ❤ always happens to me! Much love hun.
I just love you Jaelah, I’ve been following since the first big chop and I swear we have had parallel growth and I just love to see sistahs constantly healing, and putting self worth as a top priority 🫶🏽 internet bestie lol 😅
I’ve been watching you grow so much and even hearing how anointing your house felt so natural to you really opened my eyes on how much Christ wants you. I’m so proud of you mama
Having a scarcity mindset is something I’m trying to leave behind for good and develop an abundance mindset. Worrying about money will keep you unwell so trusting that you’re provided for helps and keep moving the money will flow in. With credit cards it’s so easy to get messed up if not done correctly. If you can’t pay the statement with the money you have don’t overspend on the credit card so the utilization rate can stay low until your limit increases. It will make you disciplined when it comes to money.
Always love and appreciate the fraction of your openness, honesty and vulnerability of your journey. Yes currently standing on business as well and it’s always worth it in the end. I think we as people often forget how our life and evolution is a journey. And our journeys are our own! They aren’t gonna look linear or similar to others let alone our own original expectations and that’s okay.
Girl my son is in a private school. He is 4 as well. I'm like dang tuition is already high and they got something going on every other week. I love the kids and teachers at his school. They keep them nice and innocent. I just love rolling up and you can tell everybody on the same page. Plus it is locked down and safe and secure. Me and my friends check each other when it comes to our children. I love that I can ask them questions, my baby is the youngest, and I know they will keep it real.
It’s beautiful that you are embracing and accepting these standards. It’s the right thing. 💯 I’ll be 2 years of practicing abstinence in May, and I am so happy and my judgement of things aren’t clouded by anything unlike God. I’m proud of you.
Girl I’m done dating too. This ish is trifling! But fr I feel like I’m bound to situationships too & I really do not know why. It’s like repeated cycles. I’m TIRED
I love these vulnerable moments u may feel like it’s doing to much to let others see how u feel etc but sis deep down some of us r right there with u I definitely am frfr u r not alone believe that..Thanks for sharing & being open with us all love these type of sit downs & ur doing a damn good job being a mother trust me I’m a single mom of a soon to be 7 yr old & she has a disability some days r hard & stressful but I pray & I know GOD has us both keep pushing sis u got this GOD bless you both!!!🫶🏾🙏🏾🥰
as a kid that grew up in private school, I can definitely tell you that is where I have seem and experienced some of the most brutal stuff. I was horribly bullied, and we’re not gonna talk about the other stuff 😭 but i’m sure not all private schools are the same
Watching jaelah makes me a lil grounded/heard, I haven’t been watching and when I come back to binge all the videos I missed she’s just hitting every point that I’ve been reflecting on these past months of not feeling like myself. It’s something about her that makes me just wanna go and get my shit right
Dermaplaning by an esthetician. It’s excellent for removing the fine facial hair and then a hydro facial. My combo to beautiful skin. Every 6wks until you achieve desired results.
When you brought up the portable DVD player in the car girllllllll I kid you not had a blue one loved it watching all the Nickelodeon shows on there I’m with you😂😂😂
If I could like this a thousand million trillion times!!!! Gurrrllll I stay talking about folks not parenting or disciplining. New parenting trends every year, nothing is ever consistent. Folks be so concerned about breaking generational curses, that they’re making new curses and unleashing them on the rest of us!!!! SN: people are wild, I be so into seeing your growth . I literally forget you got a whole family😂😂😂 which is how it should be❤
Finally! I’m not even going to say anything anymore. I’m just going to send this video to the reckless parent I know… when I say it is “ you don’t understand you don’t have kids”
I thought coming in when the street lights came on, went out after my generation. It’s refreshing to see that there were still some parents who made their kids come in when the streetlight came on during your time.
Private school mom that was a private school kid. It never stops lmao even in 8th grade the activities never stop 😂 But it’s honestly worth it. The type of person i am because of private school makes me grateful my parents made that choice.
I found a really good public school in my area for my daughter and I have a love hate relationship with it for the same reasons you do minus the money lol. But Im happy she's getting the exposure and the experience, the kids and teachers are so nice and helpful, but every week they need money lol but idc. I seen the tik tok video you're talking about and I agree. A lot moms response is "well we grew up listening to a lot worse" and I'm like yea, and you see what you were doing in early middle school and high school. People don't understand music is influential and they are conditioning their kids to be hypersexual and not even knowing it. I'm that parent that will cut my daughter friendship if I feel like my daughter or that friend is not a good influence. I'm not having that.
The way we somehow seem connected. Maybe it’s a Pisces thing but ain no way, I should be missing girl talks w| you and when you post you talking about my exact life 🥺💕 #BeenHereSinceTheStart
I was thinking about my generation (someone born of 2001 and see today’s generation) and it’s completely different. Back in my day, we read BOOKS, we would get hyped about the Scholastic book fair. Now, these kids don’t want to read 😭 will honestly bully someone because they want to read.
School in general is way more demanding than I thought it would be. I thought I would feel relieved but the stress creeped up out of nowhere after book character day and cowboy boot day 😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
you talking about a videonow? it was a little tv where you put whatever mini disc to whichever show you wanted to watch in there. my mama ain’t hear shit from me in the car with that bad boy🤣
Guuuurrlll! I'm trying to understand where all that wisdom you project at such a young age, has come from. I will give your props mostly from how you were raised and I will definitely attest that most of the knowledge is a gift from God. You have spit so much knowledge that I CAN RELATE TO AS A WOMAN IN HER 60's, to the point where I feel like when I listen to your articulations of life's evolution and your LOGICAL perceptions as to HOW LIFE SHOULD HAVE MORE COMPASSION AND RESPECT IN IT IN REGARDS TO HOW WE NEED TO MOVE IN THIS WORLD, you make me feel like I am talking to my homegirls in my 60's age group, REAL TALK. Me and my friends that I'm COOL WITH, comment on these same subjects you have acknowledged in this vlog, and gurl let me tell you, PAT YOURSELF ON THE BACK BECAUSE THESE YOUNG WOMEN OUT HERE NEED TO TAKE A LESSON FROM THE KNOWLEDGE YOU SPIT ON THESE VLOGS. You spit to these women that our flaws and mistakes ARE SUPPOSED TO BE LEARNING LESSONS. I'll say this to say, as a women who is now in her 60's, it took me many years to eliminate negative people from my life, whether they were friends lovers or family, and now I have so much peace of mind because if a person is not going to be an UPLIFTER, I cut the cord. Keep dropping knowledge to this new generation of women who need to learn about what their worth is supposed to be in this thing called life!
😮💨😮💨😮💨 I started teaching in 2020 and left this year for the reasons you mentioned. We also gotta remember the kids lived through the pandemic and lost a year of socialization/the influence of their teachers. It’s just a bad cocktail.
Even though we grew up singing things we shouldn’t have been, at least we didn’t know what it actually meant. A lot of his found out in our 20s and 30s depending on how old you were then. Baby we were outside from the time you woke up until the streetlights came on.
I think I have a problem with worrying to be much and things always work out anyway. It’s because I deal with anxiety but I’m trying to be in control of when that anxiety is even triggered. I just want to be ok and know that all things will work out. Because that anxiety makes me start to get irritable and it shows. And some people don’t understand that.
Wow!! That money topic is me all day, another Pisces trait. I’m not rich at all (yet) but I behave as if the money just replaced itself after I spend it 🥴 stressing money will make it run away from you in my mind, just like a man lol… I gotta get out of that habit of not checking my account though.
I think he loves his son, bit it's emotionally hard to around you without everything that used to come with being around you . I hope his coping time doesn't take so long ; that even Jax says fuck it .
I get the same issue with the fine ingrown hairs every few months because I dermaplane. I use the dr Dennis gross peel pads (red pack) and the good molecules niacinamide serum
I think a lot of the problems stem from young people having No respect for themselves or anyone else.They fear Nothing…. Not their parents… grand-parents…family members .Law enforcement even Death. Drugs also play a huge part in the way they conduct themselves. It can get real scary out there.🙏🙏
Were you referring to a PSP when you were talking about devices we had as kids? I remember I got one for Christmas and I watched “You Got Served” on it every day for like 3 months straight lmao.
Jaelah that's the narcissist thing though, they're very out of sight out of mind people & the consideration is non existent .. bc they lack empathy or being able to put themselves into other people shoes ..whatever relationship he has with you and if you don't want nothing to do with him that's how it'll be with the child smh it's sad but you're such a GREAT MOMMM ❤ it's so much I could say cause I can relate real bad.
