how i transformed my dating life from bare minimum to soft life | jaelahs prayer pt I

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Hey! this is the first part of my dating life transformation series. After years of receiving bare minimum treatment, I finally decided to change my mindset and dating life. i'll be discussing how to transform your dating life from bare minimum to princess treatment. I know the thumbnail kinda glittery but we are gonna dig a little deeper than usual today. I started by doing some soul-searching and praying for guidance. And voila - I began to receive the princess treatment that I always knew I deserved. I open up about how i learned to love myself, dating after divorce (separation), set boundaries and standards to give you some insight of what may be going on beneath the surface. I went from receiving the bare minimum to a complete soft life. I'm just here to be the homegirl i wish i had way back when. I hope you enjoy the video, i hope it resonates and I can't wait to hear your thoughts in the comments! cheers to the soft girl era in real life.
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@allofdestiny Год назад

“Desperation causes you to just pick anything”. In order to fully get out of desperation mode, get rid of everyone who doesn’t serve a purpose. Waiting to receive the same love that I give. This video is EVERYTHING. Thank you 💕

@miami4427 Год назад

The joke in my friend group is that I always date nice guys. And that is because I follow these rules you said in this video. And when I see something I don’t like I simply leave. And I don’t spin the block. I’m honest about my intentions and my celibacy and when guys don’t like that I am happy to watch them leave. That means I’m one step closer to finding the guy that will be okay with being celibate and get to know me for me without blinders on from sex. Sex makes some people very delusional and I discovered that I’m one of them, so sex is off the table and if you violate that boundary I’ve washed my hands with you. That leads to very amicable tie cutting and we both are comfortable never speaking again. Being firm in your boundaries changes your dating pool tremendously because it changes you on the inside.

@natural_nisse5428 Год назад

Thank you!! That’s fr and once we ladies understand this it’s easy

@samonebreenae Год назад

“I learned to love by being used” the way you just spoke to my soul and unlocked something I didn’t even know was there.

@tiffany9087 Год назад

Same!

@penelopelondondior9039 Год назад

Yes

@shelovesthemso6252 Год назад

Hi, Jaelah. I’m probably older than a lot of your viewers. I’ll tell you. You’re hitting the nail on the head. I pray that your desperate/delusional watchers are getting a clear message. If you get through to just one person that’s a blessing.🙏🏾

@ButtaflyEffect1 Год назад

Big FACTZ

@TwinGodesses Год назад

Yes! Her msg made me see myself!

@maliflower8194 Год назад

“Desperate/delusional watchers” Lmaooo 🥴🥴😭😭

@KELSEY-fl3qs Год назад

@@maliflower8194 LMAO RIGHT 💀💀

@AngelaElikya Год назад

So many women are out here acting confident being " bad bitches" but deeper in they are real life desperate, lack self love, and don't know their value... Jesus help us

@Etherealswxn Год назад

Girl this spoke to me!! This was literally my life. I took time to be single, relearn myself and then went back into dating. Dating for a while to also relearn what I wanted and practice being firm in my new boundaries. I’m now with the love of my life. He’s to a T what I prayed to God for. Love this for YOU and ME ❤

@LovelyLeo20 Год назад

The way that I was not ready for this MESSAGE🥺😳😬 I’m working on it and y’all it’s a struggle!

@Thesummersimone Год назад

Heavy on the messing with people just because you are bored😫 I cut all my boredom links last month and am enjoying my time! I went out this past weekend with my sister and had the time of my life🥳 so excited to see what this summer will bring

@miamariee4453 Год назад

I admire how self aware you are! I’m 35 years old and still learning why tf I do the shit I do!

@kiaramb1 Год назад

😩me too lol

@skottie222 Год назад

I'm 33 and I'm soo lost in life rn😔 😢

@teaerra687 Год назад

Same!! 🥲

@AshLiH1492 Год назад

Same!

@kiaramb1 Год назад

Look like we need to start a support group 😂

@natalee3230 Год назад

"Not everyone deserves to be inside of you". Good lawd. I feel like u were speking to me in this video

@Amber.Jackson91 Год назад

Girlll I'm literally sitting here listening really to MYSELF talk because I swear I have said ALL of this...not only to myself but to friends. I'm literally in this season now, God is working on me from the inside out. I'm not dating until I get ME right first. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@Niamirismom Год назад

Age doesnt matter on this channel and I love that! I will be 47 this year and I still relate to you. We are kindred spirits in divorcing, living by yourself for the first time and this journey of self-love. Thank you for your transparency. Your mom/Auntie is watching! Love you!

@deionnamhj Год назад

This is definitely ground 0 to start with. I was on the phone with a man and I just kept repeating I love my peace, I love my peace, I love my peace. I didn’t know why I kept repeating myself until he revealed to me that he is so unhealed right now that he is angry. I’m just thankful that I can now recognize what masked anger looks like, and I know how to move around rather than stay.

@sweettooth471 Год назад

I’m turning 23 this year and I was in a relationship where I was taking care of a man for almost 2 years. Wasting my life and expelling myself for someone who wouldn’t do the same. All out of desperation and delusion that he would change one day and that I didn’t want to waste these years spent. This message couldn’t have been more on time.💜💜thank you Jaelah!

@nicathomAsn6137 Год назад

This hit home.. I got 5 minutes into this video and I was already pausing the video making an appointment with a therapist. Everybody around me is pressuring me to be in a relationship but mentally and emotionally. I know I won’t ever be until I seek help which is what I was avoiding. Thank you.. I needed this

@crystaldesiree9186 Год назад

I promise God makes me laugh damn near everyday. Guess Jaelah’s channel is apart of my journey too! 15 years came to an end in March. I’m LOST! But I’m finding my way back. My pattern I had to reflect on with them is THEY have Daddy issues and I come from a two parent home also. My Dad and I are not close. So guess that means I have them too! Thanks Jaelah for always keepin it 💯

@MsMonique0913 Год назад

This is me 😭 my time is coming to get to my soft girl era. I’m in my healing and situationship stage, but I have sooo much peace in my home now that it’s just me and my kids 😮‍💨

@thelifeilivery186 Год назад

I remember when I first came across Jaelah’s channel, looong time ago. IMMEDIATELY fell in love with this girl vibe and to see her evolve and grow over the years makes me realize it really comes with time. It’s refreshing to see her glowing and happy in so many aspects of life I love that for her and I can’t wait to look and feel like her✨

@capri102 Год назад

This exactly what I be telling my daughter about some of her friend's. I school my daughter on everything and not to be a desperate girl no nobody's attention because she's worthy of so much more. Don't depend on anyone but yourself ❤

@theegiftofgabb Год назад

Come on vulnerability and transparency!! I love to see it sis! I can relate to this 100 percent! I too went through my phase of delusion and desperation; I’m so thankful that God brought me out of it and that I came to realize I’m worthy of genuine love! I’m still a work in progress but I’m not where I used to be!

@shakerajana Год назад

Girllllll this was everything !!!!❤❤❤

@THEEFOREVERBRITTANY Год назад

You’re radiating, a sight to behold friend!! You deserve this

@simplyabena5643 Год назад

Yesss you gave us the tea and I’m here for it ❤❤❤.

@aniahmiles8686 Год назад

I love you Jaelah, you’re making such a huge impact with this video moving forward. You just changed a loooooot of peoples lives with this

@charlenesmith209 Год назад

Wow! Thanks for being so vulnerable, this was deep!

@philanmclane1514 Год назад

Thank you girl🧡 Much needed🧡

@charitylorraine7993 Год назад

Thoroughly enjoyed this video with laughs, tears, and realization 😊

@reesereese16 Год назад

Not my scary ass thinking the 🥷🏾 was writing notes to your neighbor, and he was a stalker or something 😫😫😫. Love when you’re vulnerable with us ❤️❤️❤️

@taikyahhancock3573 8 месяцев назад

Right I’m sitting here trying to figure it out. It had to be him. 😂😂

@jessicahall8190 Год назад

This is good! Such a beautiful place to be! Can’t wait for part 2!

@feyalanice5598 Год назад

the grounding stage is where I'm at. learning to take the love that I give to someone else and also being able to RECEIVE itttt oh wow, this is so relatable!

@neicyk Год назад

This was so good. I can’t wait for part 2 😊

@thatsplm5628 Год назад

Thank you Jaelah for existing and sharing what you know ❤

@keriadominique Год назад

I love your transparency and words of wisdom you’re like a big sister I never had.

@jeniya14 Год назад

Jae you don’t know how bad this video made me cry. I just went through a break up after 5 years together 3 kids together and now I’m trying to find myself again and wondering what was wrong in the relationship that I contributed without knowing. This video is on time !!!

@Calibird2324 Год назад

I didn’t know I needed this!! Thank you for sharing your journey. Can’t wait for Part 2!

@charlenesmith209 Год назад

Girl!! You sound so grown!! I love it and wish a couple of young ladies I know can hear it!! I am so happy for you and the direction you are heading towards ❤

@KimberlyEmmanuel Год назад

This message hit so hard today!!!! Really started crying realizing I need to do better!

@Shes_so_fLyy Год назад

Same 🥹

@IAMJVY Год назад

Jaelah…. this is exactly what i needed to hear rn. i’m 24 this year and i’m really in the start of my healing and i just couldn’t say thank you enough for sharing this! can’t wait for the live ❤

@bre9502 Год назад

Oh you just knew I needed this video huh?!? Thanks for looking outt QUEEN ❤😂

@beingaja Год назад

Calling me out is crazy. I needed this. Im happy you’ve reached this level and are helping us ❤

@brittanyfields6336 Год назад

You speaking my language!! I swear this was needed! I really thought I had healed enough being away from Va for 2 years but when I got back I immediately knocked myself into old habits that I got rid of in ATL. Well at least I thought. Here I am isolated & praying I get to a better me & you posted this. Thank you so much for being as vulnerable as you are Pisces sister 🫶🏽 praying you continue your path of healing and happiness!

@LatrellRhochelle Год назад

It’s crazy cause I worked through the desperate & delusional part of me for about 6 months. Early May is when I started to feel like I was finally healing. This message resonates so deeply within me. Thank you 🙏🏽♥️

@luvmemore220 Год назад

Jaelah!!! I’m so proud of your growth, 1st off! Second of all, this was so needed …to have that girl chat!! You preaching and teaching here honey!

@teresai1877 Год назад

Yes, this parenting style can be in mothers or fathers. (It's called "parentification"--> the child is trained to be the parent instead. Roles are reversed. Been through the same thing but with my mom.) Thanks for supporting your fellow sisters in the world!

@itsqueendebae Год назад

This video was confirmation for me that I am on the right path, just as I could feel my self slipping back into old ways. Thank you for this

@debrasimon5443 Год назад

Loved this! Yes, Jaelah! So happy for you!

@myleswren7394 Год назад

Wow! I love the growth and the wisdom you shared and I love seeing you be a boss mom. Go girl!

@user-go7tf2jw3j Год назад

Thank You girl.... This is exactly what I needed to hear.. I just had my first therapy session weirdly last night.. And my therapist stated she felt my soul was in a Pruning season and with that comes self discovery and purpose... This video was right on time

@jabreraven5269 Год назад

Honey I NEEDED this video. Thank you for all of the tips!

@indylo Год назад

I needed this 😅as a Pisces ♓️ everything you said I felt and boy , self reflection is a tough one but much needed . Started cutting people off mid video 😂 thank you 🙏 💗

@nzuzothwala9683 Год назад

How hard is that girl?

@adriennechevell Год назад

I really needed to hear this because I really didn’t know what direction i was going in right now. So thank you for posting this and basically reading me 🤣🤣

@reallymikala Год назад

im in the middle of a transition in my life right now, & this video couldn’t have come at a better time. this time it’s personal 🥹

@skottie222 Год назад

Jaelah...i truly needed this. Thank you 🌹🤎

@akeriashyke6029 Год назад

Ugh 😩 it’s like I’m talking to myself. Working on myself this year is the best thing I could’ve ever did I love myself more, and love learning myself. Love this 🧡🧡

@thereviewer2494 Год назад

Not me listening to the jewels at 2am. Only God knows I needed this. The accuracy of this video, 10/10. Ready for part ✌🏾

@mahoganyvibee9767 Год назад

Hey Jae thank you so much for this video. It was just the confirmation that I needed 💕

@ashleyoya Год назад

Oh baelah! You hit it right on the head! When you start to heal you start to see the things you put up with that your now self would never. Everything is a learning experience! I loved this video fr. I related so much. Let’s stay in our soft life self love era 🥰 muah

@missberry. Год назад

Loved this! I’m so grateful to experience your vulnerability and growth over the years 💟

@asimpson79 Год назад

Go head baby! So proud of you, who you are now and the woman you are growing into. You being vulnerable and sharing your journey is speaking so much life into so many people right now.

@PhenomenalKayy Год назад

Yessss this video came at the right time! It’s so relatable. My self care growth happen in similar stages as yours. I’m in my “Dig deeper with Therapy” stage. I’ve been aware of my problems and BEEN wanting to go to therapy, but recently I had an expected circumstance involving my family occur that has reminded me of wounds I intentionally forgot. This reminder has been so strong things are coming back up in my dreams. I thought I’ve grew over the last two years, but now I know it’s time to REALLY dig deep. I’m excited though. I literally can not wait to talk to my therapist.

@77shiba Год назад

Thank you ❤️ 😊 💓. This is what's needed.. I love you for being so transparent.

@breechardaee Год назад

wow. i needed to hear this. so beautifully spoken. so proud of ur growth, seriously.

@kailahall Год назад

Your growth is so beautiful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing so much wisdom and just your thoughts with us. I’m glad you exist, Jae 💕

@Familywoman2020 Год назад

I'm so happy for you sis..😊.all your love has paid off...❤GODBLESS

@greggytalks Год назад

This was so good !!

@success1743 Год назад

Gurlllll!!!!!!! This video right here was soooo on point. I can relate to all of it. And today is the day I begin to stand firm on my boundaries. This is day one for me - new beginnings. Needed to hear this. Sooo good. Damn!!!!

@Mommianna_ Год назад

18:17 you was speaking right to me and I’m listening! Thank you for this video Jaelah ❤

@anikamyers7529 Год назад

I’ve been following you for years… and this is my favourite video you’ve ever made. Everything you said in this was EXACTLY what so many of us needed to hear. You and I have really similar stories with our babies. Thank you for being a pivot point in my self-love journey. Can’t wait for part 2 ❤️

@eatlivebloom8076 Год назад

Been following this Queen for awhile and between me taking SM breaks and the algorithm, I be missing stuff. The evolution of this woman is amazing! Wish I had this guidance! (I guess I do now 😉) Everything she said. Period. Keep Bl🌸🌸ming!🥰

@b-u-2day956 Год назад

I think I’m the oldest of your viewers and i want you to know that I felt what you were saying. Thanks for the reminders I’m looking forward to part two.

@layah828 Год назад

I love this! Gotta get through and let go of our bs to be ready to receive the blessings

@ohhyeah_jae Год назад

Looking forward to Monday, thank you so very much, as always 💞💞💞

@Imtiffanyleigh Год назад

Thank you so much for this I really enjoyed it. This was what I needed to hear. Can’t wait for the live 😁

@negasienterpriseinc2228 Год назад

I am so excited about how much you have grown over the years your journey is truly inspiring and thank you for all the gems 💎 the tea ☕️ and advice love you sis sending love and light ✨✨✨✨

@ChayilJL Год назад

Hey Jaelah first off girl I love you ❤. I think I needed this and the timing of this video is wild. And honestly want to thank you for this talk and content cause I know it’s changing lives

@tiffanywhite8477 Год назад

🫰 🫰 🫰 Jaelah gurl… this is your niche right here… when I say I really needed this…I NEEEEEDED this 😩… I’m a forever subscriber and have watched from the beginning and I’m not going anywhere…. You have always showed up and never gave up, being so transparent and relatable, giving us all hope.. You touched us all in so many ways… sharing so much of your vulnerable moments with us and it has gotten me through some very very difficult times… I love love love this for us babes… keep going girl… your consistency is admirable..❤🫶🏾🥰 Thank you!

@emochannelashley811 Год назад

I love this. You got so many important points! Keep shining Queen!

@kadeijadalrymple137 Год назад

Thank uu Jaelah really needed this.

@MrsYpennington30 Год назад

This video was excellent! I have truly seen your growth, and it's wonderful to see a young lady blossom ❤ Keep up the good work!

@jazminewalk1593 Год назад

Jaelah girl I swear we been living the same life for the past 3/4 years lol it makes me happy because you’re a phenomenal woman and you’ve learned all these lessons at your age and I’m learning them now too & I just turned 24 I got hope for me! You give the girls hope 😭😘✨

@sapphirenashae Год назад

Wow! All I’ve got is wow. This hit home on another level for me. It really let me know I have some work to do on myself. I’m definitely ready for pt 2

@rayofsunshine1267 Год назад

Facts! This definitely was needed

@ROCKHET Год назад

Yes!!. I totally agree with your perspective jaelah. We have to learn how to heal our wombs and to honer our womb in preparation to adorn it!! We are spirit bodies in physical bodies we all need to realize the trauma stored in our spirit. This is a rabbit hole conversation. Awesome video Jaelah!!. Keep going

@iampreciouswalker Год назад

This was so good 💜

@Kerrington Год назад

Was I expecting to be read for filth absolutely not but thank you Jaelah ❤ Blessings to you and Jax

@jimmychoo0 Год назад

You were right! This the stuff we REALLY needed to hear! Frfr this is the “JUICY STUFF” thank you for doing the work and sharing with us😘😘😘😘

@Alahzey88 Год назад

Thoroughly enjoyed this. Thanks for sharing ❤

@alantralewis8488 Год назад

Girl I needed this! Part two please!

@katherynstewart6021 Год назад

Jaelah is always going to give it to you raw & unapologetically ❤️❤️❤️

@hayc4256 Год назад

Good shit Jae 💪🏾✨

@Sherrelle2007 Год назад

Love this video! Definitely a much needed topic to discuss. 🤎🙌🏾👏🏾

@Gen-vt9nm Год назад

Didn't know that I needed this! ❤

@yoselyjimenez545 Год назад

i loved the raw honesty in the video, so relatable

@juliashelby4802 Год назад

Jaelah!!! This was everything I needed to hear.

@edianethcafita7001 Год назад

This spoke to me differently, thanks jaelah❤️

@toribond5218 Год назад

The whole video was open, honest, raw and heartfelt! 22:10-24:02! And, when you said understanding men are not the answer! That we’re the answer! I’ve had so many OG family members tell me “The best way to over one man is to get under another!”😮😢 Thanks for this video! ❤❤❤❤