Diminished self respect?! I’d call that the beginning of Wisdom. Unmet expectations: On our life, I’d say we ain’t all that capable of persevering our life. Expectations of others, I’d say they can’t give us life either. So let them off your hook. Ever consider that there is a sure foundation to begin with from the start of your reasoning? What if who you are is Good and Perfect by the Hand of the Lover of your soul?