The best relationship advice no one ever told you 

Kinda bummed there are no captions. It makes it difficult to be able to watch the video.

Thanks Clark! This vid and quote struck true as an arrow to the heart. I needed this today, thanks again!

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Llllll

Good stuff. Very true

When your turbulent an assertive women will come along and make you their bitch

What crap. I am the right person.

But changing who you are to please a person doesn't last unless u change to who u want to be and it pleases them

Lmfao I text my man real quick

Makes no sense

We often want what is peculiar and we cannot fully define ourselves without the help of an outsider's perspective. So I rephrased it for myself: "We attract what we want, we mirror our identity to the ideal person, in the process our ex-identity is over shallowed by our newer portrayed persona, that's why I think what we attract is often different from what we are, we start to see different shades of ourselves through the other person and through realization within ourselves."

Based on this logic, I don't exist.

This blew my mind!

No

Lies that is all I want with I could just clone and marry my self

I love what your father in law said…it may need to become a song of mine ❤️

that's very wise actually, Big thanks to your father 👌

My

Wow that's awesome

You can’t love anyone, that’s not how humans work. We have preferences duuuhhh Your source: Trust me bro

Your right but respect is different from other people.. what is respectful for u might not be for other person?

Respect is good to have in any relationship

​@@noexcuses5524thats why you communicate at the Beginning

I am also single but I need a serious relationship with someone

Exactly great point👍💯

I think I’m happy with an 8

Keep working on yourself. But also know that you’re perfect the way you are and you can be love just is. Despite all the flaws. You love yourself no matter what you are right now unconditionally or where you’re going to be. And know that others can and is going to appreciate and love you the same way. Through the journeys. Through the struggles. You are giving thanks and gratitude for all the abundance you currently have and you are drawing more to. You are bettering yourself for yourself and your loved one, a conscious committed dedication and devotion. Everybody wins.

For some reason, I can imagine this in other ways, including relationships.

Be authentic.

It's both. Focus on improving yourself and you physical appearance

Yeah, definitely. My ex and I were attracted to each other, but our ideas of what it takes to make a relationship work didn't align. I believed that a good friendship, having the same values are key, not infatuation. A lot of people are super into infatuation because of Hollywood, Korean dramas. The world isn't the movies.

You're so right. You must also have shared values, emotional maturity, a shared vision and blendable lifestyles. I learned this the hard way. Chemistry and mutual attraction are not enough to start a RELATIONSHIP. Chemistry and mutual attraction are just enough to DATE to determine if you have the other components. The purpose of Dating is to learn about each other, to determine if you should even pursue a long term Relationship.

I have that we click a little bit but I'm not really attracted to her. I feel like its a chore to date her.

that initial attraction is simply hormones playing tricks on you.

You’re right. 10’s attract 10’s. I’m focusing on myself. ❤️

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I am the right person! Why does EVERY WOMAN! think she is sooooooo much better an EVERYMAN ON EARTH!!! when did this happen ?? That every man is a loser bum overgrown teenage worthless person Women choose there men at the finish line in life. An think that her baby making parts give her some magic key to screw over any guy.

Thanks

Hey are you doing

You’re right and I love your perspective. My name is Steve, can I be your friend?

Hello beautiful

This right here 💖💖 But how many mes can I attract? 😂 cos I had that person then we had to break up cos the circumstances weren't so favouring..distance but I do hope I'll meet them one day. Even tho they legit talked about "getting another girl" right when we were saying our forlorn goodbyes...my heart😂 It bled

Yes! 10s attract 10s!

Hey

Not true I'm poor and I attract rich people a lot lol

Damn I needed this comment. It blew up for a reason. Thank you 🌻

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u 2 brother

this right here

Not to rain on the parade but that's not good advice it sounds nice and driving but doesn't mean much. It gives the idea that if someone tells you something you don't like them blindly ignore them. And in a relationship sense it's not good to listen to everyone but it's also terrible to not listen at all. If someone who loves you have it be dad,brother,sister,mother best friend or watever it offering experience wisdom it's best to have an open mind.

Thank you, but since i'm here...

Yeah it’s better to be open to your partner when you have a thought about him/her

Never again will I be so ungrateful

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Before you begin a journey with someone else its important that you have a great relationship with yourself

Yep. No matter how bad life gets, if you have good communication, everything works. No matter how wacky things get

Say it louder!

I always say comprehension is more important. You can communicate all you want but allowing yourself in the shoes of your partner to understand things from their perspective, even if the communication is not that effective on the other end, will make things easier to solve and to live by.

he spittin

Comprehension as well

Then why I am not attracting people like me..

How do you do that?

Cap

Bs!

Very deep I like the whole knowledge of this

Hi I just got my relationship fixed and my ex is back to me and we are living happily like never before i got help from a relationship expert

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Wow I was having thoughts about it.. If compatibility and love have their own parts like yes you can fall in love but the Compatibility part got me. When love happens and you see what interests the other I m sure the other partner will too have patience and also work on the their own selves or icks they get from each other and then the compatibility part just happens with effort and time almost like cultivating the love and fondness resulting with good rapport/compatibility.

Hello how are you ?

Yah it’s true

How do you stop yourself from convincing yourself that it could be a viable relationship when it maybe can’t be?

Hi am searching for love

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@@suzehartman the answer to this is already in the video! Remember that when you’re “in love,” you’re looking through those rose-colored glasses that block out the logical considerations of your brain. Really taking a step back and analyzing who the other person is, as well as talking to a close friend (who’s unbiased) or family member about the other person would be a great start too. Overall, when you feel madly attracted to someone, your brain is going to tune out the potential red flags, and you’re going to emotionally throw caution to the wind. Talk to people who are impartial, and think deeply about what you’re doing!

@@nickgarner6267 Good advice! Helped me a lot :)

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Amen 💐🙌💫Beautiful share 🙌💐💫

Amazing to know.. Glad you'd share your wise bit of experience

Damn facts

Yes yes yes !!!!!! You’re on point ❤️

Ayo congratulations nfs 🥳👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Priceless🥰😂🤣😅👏👏👏👏

How did you know that so quickly? :D

I’ve been told by 2 guys that they want to marry me early on but they always fell through. I guess times have changed and people love bomb to get what they want. Now I will never talk to anyone who says they want to marry me early on.

Chad

My 12 year relationship just ended when I introduced him to an acquaintance … he gone

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Can I ask you a question. Has there been any moments where you wanted to give up because your hurt or you broke up because you were hurt but than got back together ?

Odd… “purity culture” or most Christians I know (especially women) think it’s the end of the world or they’ll never get married if they don’t find their spouse in college.

Love can be expressed in many ways. One way I know is to send it across the distance to the person who is reading this.

So u have to work then on romantic things when honey moon phase is gone…. Otherwise is it endless cycle with dif people.

Based on your own definition of romatic love you have a point. Take into consideration that many people don' t have a clear concept of 'romantic love' and don't reflect on it They often confound it with lust, look at it in terms of getting instead of giving etc... So it all boils down to having the same understanding what constitutes 'romantic love'.

I think people tend to forget when reading something as declarative as “Love is the most important thing”, that that is simply one’s opinion, and many different people have many different views on life. I personally don’t believe love is the MOST important thing, but the people who think that way are some of the happiest

Romantic love is subtracting from another person

Love is a choice and also LOVE IS A VERB

Soooooo true! Most ppl don’t realize the difference between infatuation and love. I wonder how many ppl in this crazy century are lucky enough to even feel real LOVE at least once in their lives. Infatuation is self-centered projection. Love is altruism and faith.

So love is choosing someone over and over again?

Well said. Loving someone is a choice (for a person) and a vow (4fidelity) you make to yourself "to be" with that person in every way every day. You must respect and love the other just like you would like to be respected and loved. If you want to not be cheated than don't cheat, if you want to be respected than respect, if you want to be understood then understand and if you want your relationship not to fail make sure the other person has the same values as you. A relationship stages should be: friendship, confiding, mutual goals, physical contact and the last one should be sex (just like the cherry on the cake) only when you are sure you want a family with that person because nothing could change your mind and you are both set on being as one. A child is both parents as one... if anything had or will come between his parents that child will suffer in some way the consequences, so make sure you will always love the other part of your child (your partner). Also fidelity is something transcendent that doesn't apply only to the future. As their child, would you like to know that your parents had other lovers before they meet each other ... don't think so. Because cheating can be done before you meet someone you'll love, just as after. The rest are excuses.

That last sentence. Best I heard in awhile. I read tarot...thanks I give you credit when I use it. Much love to you

Love is a choice. Love is not a feeling or emotion. When someone says they “fell out of love”, they don’t understand this reality: it was not love in the 1st place. They simply choose not to be with that person any more. This is totally unromantic but its a fact. Love is always a choice.

You're on right track lad

Self improvment

same boat and same age fam. hope you continue figuring it out

Yessssir, keep on going! I started working out every second day while completing NNN and bruh lemme tell you what a confidence boost that had on me, since I was doing it for myself! And like a miracle, a month later I got together with the girl I've been crushing on for 2 years without even THINKING of needing to be in a relationship. We're still going as strong as ever and as cheezy as it sounds, work on yourself, and become the right person like you've been doing the past few months. You'll gain confidence like drinking water and damn is it a good road to travel

Right un the same boat even started doing auto work on a project that I was too nervous to do myself idk it just gave me a new outlook

Did you just kinda lose feelings?? Or kinda decide y’all weren’t right for eachother?

In the end it's better to find a girl thats compatable, that helps you on your path . Im with a girl like that and i was LOVE but didnt last long BC i realize we're not compatable

You people are so lost and delusional. This generation doesn't know what is fighting anymore. In the very first little frustration, disappointment or if things aren't perfect or aren't your way, you just give up. Só fooking sad.

Kinda really hard for me to believe that you were in love… do you know what love is? Love never dies, and love becomes pain and agony when you are not with the person you love. For the rest of your life.

If you actually loved her, you wouldn’t have left her

True, which causes me to analyze my past relationships.

You are right and I love your perspective. My name is Steve, can we be friends?

I totally agree with you on that and I would like us to talk more about this

How are you doing?

Hello beautiful

What does that mean?

Not always true

Not true at all lol

Cap

Y’all goofy

Super weird how that happens

@@user-qe7bt9dz1l I totally feel you. Check in with your energy as your manifesting. Is it too strong? Is there a strong attachment to the outcome? Are you TRUSTING that it really is on its way? Are you letting go? When we are manifesting from a place of lack, our energy can feel needy/clingy. This could cause a repulsion effect to what we are desiring. Honestly the letting go, is the key that most people are missing in their manifestation techniques. I mean think about it… someone that is desperate for your attention is normally pretty unattractive. But if they are rooted in their own confidence then 🔥🔥 I hope all that made sense

Hello,how are you doing today?

you don't Need* love

Nah,, more like when you decide to relax regarding it all... then boooom ...

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How do you know you are compatible with that person?

I don't think alot of people do know the answer to that question when they think they love someone. I think we choose people based on emotion and feeling as opposed to what fits logically. I dont really believe in "matchmakers" or " love gurus" but I do almost think it takes a third party who has no attachment to the situation to help figure out what who is "compatible" with whom.

Please how do you know you’re compatible with the person??

@@TammyKaren-ut1ih I don't have the correct answer to that question. I feel like I touched on that in my reply above.

It’ll find you without you even looking.

Yeah, that is my current mindset, which is ironic cause I'm a person that loves, love. Funny right lol

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​@@ChillinLikeBobDyllan if you are good looking

@@ChillinLikeBobDyllan trust that. I took a year to myself and told myself to embrace being single for this period and just work on myself. Just casually enjoying myself out with a friend one day, the best woman I could’ve asked for came up and found me. Good things find you when you stop looking so hard

That is beautiful! What I will strive for.

You guys are fiancés and have known each other for 12 years and have 4 kids?

Engaged for 12 years?

We’ve been engaged for 2 years. Together for 10 years. And have 4 children !

Love this. Stay engaged... keep sth to look forward to. It's important.

Waw ❤️✨

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This is beautiful

how lovely, I would love this as a wedding quote or vow thank you for sharing your beautiful words

get some bitches lol

Hope you feel better soon!

Hold out and u will see the light

great advice in its own right! good idea, i’m there right now. not sure what this “relationship” i’m in now is. most likely nothing. seems like she really isn’t interested.

peace and prayers ❤️

make sure to listen to my remaster of the 'drive' soundtrack if you do

True. And most times meet people that just turns our world around and we can't help but love them and love ourselves more for loving them. Love is like an ocean, you just can't measure it's depth

Hello

How are you doing?

You’re right and I love your perspective. Can we be friends?

How i make myself love of my life...how??????

This is toxic positivity

No. Thats bull. Focus on what you want to see in the person u love and change into it. Ur not supposed to be an egoistic narcissist

I've known a guy like that, he's currently 30 years old, Virgin and never been in a relationship but he's very nice person to be around and talk to. Don't do what it is said above

Hello 😊

What a great start. Kuddos!

Did you stick with IT?

Agreed brother. We all gonna make it

For sure same here i went through hell due to my last break up

We were together for 2 years, and I spent the next 3 years sobbing. Now i am as happy and satisfied as I have never been. Wounds will heal eventually

I think that's a good sign to work on yourself and to stay out of relationships for a while. Being content and happy alone (being good enough for yourself, as you described it) are the most important gifts you can give yourself. We've been sold a shit bill of goods in the phrase "you complete me" when in reality we are the only ones who can complete ourselves. And if we don't take that time we'll constantly search for others to do it for us... Aka codependence. Cry, meditate, pray, allow your pain to speak and tell you why it exists and move on when you're ready. And know when you do heal you've become a stronger and better version of yourself.

Yeah, I've been working on myself very hard the past three months and considering a relationship with a lady who I might otherwise have thought was out of my league. We'll see. Aim high, right?

Hello how are you doing today?

Love this🤍

Holy shit yes, that exactly the way I can describe this as well!

Amen

Could you explain the energy?

What about his energy was off?

🤦🏼‍♀️

Maybe that guy is recovering from a bad breakup, if he voiced it out to you and openly expressed that he needs time to heal then that shows that he’s a good person, you two may not be ready to be together but at least he’s showing enough maturity and honesty to work on himself.

Same situation I'm in a complicated relationship with a guy actually he was my school crush 😂, but we met again, he has some trauma his going through and same here me too that's why it's complicated cause we both afraid of falling in love again but actually we both enjoys eachother company very much. I don't know what will happen but I'm really hoping best for both of us

Same

God this comment hit me in my soul ♥️♥️♥️

Same. I loved someone who would not come out of the closet and was desperate to appease their religious family. I got tired of being hidden. It's definitely not enough to love someone. An incompatibility can ruin a relationship.

Maybe you just weren’t ready for each other. Maybe later in life you will be ready for each other. When love is real it cannot be broken. Sometimes it just takes time to catch up with each other they you both need to. And maybe there is someone who is way more suited for you. You never know. Just don’t give up hope. Hope your heart heals soon.

same here but it gets better

You are right about that most relationship suck

Happy weekend

Where are you chatting from

No bitches?

Nice thought, but not exactly applicable for people on the aromantic spectrum.

It really does not work like that💀 being delusional about one’s pain doesn’t mean it’s actually been resolved

i kinda get where that is coming from but telling yourself that certain pain doesn't exist can lead to you bottling everything up and then it gets *really* dangerous. it's okay to acknowledge that you're in pain and work on it without letting it control your life. you don't have to be okay all the time to be successful.

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@@thuydungie yes this is a more balanced way of seeing it, feel the pain but don’t let it consume your life

Emotional Suppression 101

Hello,how are you doing today?

Omg, yes!

I hear ya sister! And feel the same! 🥰

Yeah your right but I need someone to feel up the empty space in heart

But… still you are on here. I’m not meaning that as a slight, but there must be a part of you that knows you wouldn’t say no if the right person came along.

Hi can we chat on hangout

Yeah I had same issues with my woman too but I just have to keep my faith up and keep being the best version of myself if you don’t mind we can chat a lil bit

This is what my parents warn me about. That if you pick the wrong person and love that person, it will hurt to leave them. Their advice is to make a list of non-negotiables that are heavily based on logic and yes and no answers. Things like, do they want kids. What is their religious faith etc, then you can build love on top of that. If you fall in love with someone that doesn't meet your non-negotiables, your relationship is already a failure. It's only a matter of time before the love can't cover for that non-negotiable.

You will be ok! Just keep working on yourself. You’ll have good days and bad days but overall never give up. Things will be ok.

Damn this is exactly what im going through (plus a baby) with someone and glad to see we have arrived at the same place.

Sorry to hear about that, try to stay strong!

Just went through this last night… hope things are easier for you by now. Brighter futures ahead 🙏🏻

Oh my gosh, that is exactly what I needed to hear! God bless you!

is it possible if i wanted to ask you to elaborate more on the difference between love and lust based on your experience and perspective?

​@@illy_lia i will answer, if I may. To me, lust is just a strong physical attraction, or infatuation. Love is soo much more. It's truly caring for a person. Wanting them to be happy and doing your best efforts to make them happy in every way possible. It's oftentimes putting their wants and needs first. It's respect. I can go on but these are the main points

Aww yay, so happy you're best friends again!

Currently dealing with this

I definitely agree with you not every friendships lead to love. Are you single please?

Lol co-depend on u.

How are you doing pretty

Love can be expressed in many ways. One way I know is to send it across the distance to the person who is reading this.

How are you doing today getting nice to see you here I’m I love the video I’m single looking for serious relationship I’m be single for over a good 6 years I don’t see serious relationship I’m looking for relationship

Hi there

Hello

You sound toxic.

The fact your autocorrect went from better to batter just shows how much you love your profession of being a chef 👨‍🍳 hehe ☺️✨

OMG! You are so funny and sweet. Such honesty!

I also started off my relationship with Rose coloured glasses, now I am focussing on myself more and levelling up, I see him wanting to do the same. I’ve definitely been slacking, it’s so important to keep developing yourself when you’re in a relationship because it’s so easy to stay still and be comfortable. I prioritised my partners life/problems over myself at one point.

I've been making some massive strides in my life this year, and my 3 year relationship just fell apart over Christmas because she was too afraid of her insecurities to 'level up' beside me. I'm glad there's a success story out there.

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I feel you

I Agree that self love is vital but True love still exist 😊

I'm so happy to say this I wouldn't have done it if not for the God's sent man that helped me with my relationship thank you once again,his channel ( Dr osayande great powerful healer )

That’s so real..

thats a whole fact.

Hi there

​@@BrianOwen-nj1nnrizzler

falling in love isn’t a choice, but commitment is

Become the person your Soul needs or become the person any Soul needs?

Bro for real I was like that too.