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Hi Breeny, thank you for sharing. I’m experiencing the same pain. I’ve been somewhat in a hole because of it but your share has been an encouragement. God bless you sis
I can hear the pain in your voice, I’m sorry Breenny for your lost of your Granny and the break up. I lost my granny last month in Ghana, I feel your pain and I’m still battling with my depression for years. It has been hard for me this summer. I want to try this therapist you mention. Keep being strong. Much love 😘❤️
I'm so sorry for your pain Breeny :( You haven't disappointed us whatsoever. We have to experience these bumps in the road for our souls to grow. You taught me that! Praying for your lovely heart to heal properly and peacefully. You are a healer!! You've got this 💖
Breeny, you’re human. We love you. We are here for you. Your person is out there, we’re so proud of you! Please don’t feel like we’re disappointed with you, we are a part of your journey as much as you are a part of ours! Sending you lots of virtual hugs and kisses. May God bless you with nothing but happiness, the shit you do for some of us does NOT go unappreciated 🤍
I’m excited for new videos about the topics you described! Many of us have been in abusive relationships and appreciate you’re advice and help. I’m so glad you did not lose yourself and made the decision for YOU…to leave. Find solace in that decision! You are stronger than before! We love you, god loves you! Thank you Breeny!
Aww Breeny you are soo strong and I really appreciate your transparency ❤️ That is alot to go through in such short time. I'm so sorry for your loss. Our stories are similar in so many ways I lost my mom a few months after breaking up with my ex fiance. 2019 was a painful year but I now see that it's something that I needed to go through to become better. I just couldn't see it at the moment. I'm still single and waiting for God to bring that special someone. I love your realness and your videos inspire me. God will definitely bless you !!! Chin up sister❤️
Listening to Louise Hay on RU-vid has been very helpful on my journey after my break up. Try it. It’s very healing. 🙏 Sorry for your loss. Your grandma is always with you/ always will be
Your videos always come in handy. I found your videos when I left a previous relationship that was all around a mess. And now I’m leaving someone who was very emotionally abusive and here you are again backing me up and making me feel like I’m not crazy!! Thank you so much 😊
Better Health is the best. they helped me get through an abusive narcissistic relationship My therapist held my hand as I moved out and divorced. my therapist was a blessing! I learned a lot about myself and my situation to recognize and avoid tocic relationships.
Thankyou for this Breeny I needed this video I’m in an emotionally abusive relationship and I don’t know how to get out but this came right on time still don’t know how I’m gonna break it off but I’m looking forward to this series to gain the courage.
Well done babe, super proud of you for sharing your story in an enlightening way! Take it each day at time, cheering you on your healing journey ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Proud of you for finding the courage to face the truth and reality of the situation you were in and acting truthfully by getting out of it! I think you are very right, we should not wait to be saved by another person, the only thing saving us will be Love, will be God, will be loving ourselves, and loving others! Love is universal. Thinking about the man you dated the last 2 years - I am sorry he didn't treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I am sure God would also want him to realize that and some day be able to treat the woman he is with in a better war. By walking away from him, you are giving the both of you a chance to evolve from the unhealthy dynamic of the relationship you shared, and givin both of you the chance to evolve and get closer to god. So it is actually the most loving thing you could have done for yourself, but it will also benefit him and is the most loving thing you could've done for him. You are realizing that this was not how a relationship was supposed to be, and you are giving him a chance to realize that for himself as well. Even though he didn't treat you right, God loves the both of you and you leaving is an act of true love and following God's will. Strong woman, I wish you the very best.
You dont need to be sorry Breeny you are human that deserve to be loved well, appreciated and respected. Glad you chose your sanity, peace of mind and yourself, over having to deal with this ish long term - God has amazing things lined up for you. Rest in Peace grandma🙏🏽🙏🏽. What a beautiful tribute ❤
Lol this video is all lies. She is lying about her boyfriend being abusive. That is what all women say when they were acting a fool in the relationship and her man wasnt putting up with her fuckery. Y'all will sit there and call men toxic and abusive.....so a man is toxic for not tolerating her acting like an immature child ? lmao
We would never be disappointed in you, we love you for you. And the fact that you put yourself first is the best example you could give us. Stay strong love
I am literally in the same boat as you, going through break up that I thought would lead to marriage. But God saves us. He loves us and He has the best Plan for us. Dont give up on happiness Breeny. You deserve it 💜
Me too. I thought things were going to lead to marriage but after two years, I had to check in with myself and figure out what I wanted. It wasn’t going anywhere. It’s his loss. More room for the right person. Prayers everyone that is going through a breakup.
Stop letting your boyfriend keep you from your husband ladies! Men know right away the women they want to marry and she isn't a pickme. I suggest women read the rules book and not fall victim to treating men like he's their priority when he only sees you as an option.
Lol 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 yes ladies, never settle. Demand more. Let the best man win. Don’t accept low effort dates - it’s foreshadowing of a dusty 50/50 role reversal man.
Even the so called nice guys have a slew of toxic traits and internalized misogyny. It is very subtle because as women who grew up in patriarchal society we have learned that this is just the way men are and we don’t recognize the damage it has done to us in exchange for that dream happy ending. Any way I’m in the same boat, can ya tell? I’m still rooting for you and will definitely tune in for future videos! You are still amazing and strong and beautiful!
So true! This is exactly what I’m dealing with right now. It’s excruciating. I actually wrote my ex a letter telling him why I broke it off, Pointing out the toxic things that were hurting me. He ended up calling me saying how much the letter upset him and made him feel like $&@!, but in all earnest, I had to express it because unfortunately he was so clueless unfair. I didn’t use any abusive language or try to hurt him. I just explained why I cut him off and pushed him away. He was definitely mistreating me and couldn’t even see how badly. (Like some of these things are so ingrained in men by their culture or background or the other men they have been around growing up)… I know he was even angry at my letter, and accused me of further shoving him away, but it was important for me to make it clear why I had suddenly stopped being with him and how hurt I was by his actions as well as how impossible it was to try to just be friends afterwards. (I mean, sure I have been friends with guys I dated that didn’t work out, however, honestly it rarely ever pans out to stay a friend with an ex, especially if you loved then very dearly but they hurt you in huge ways, expecting you to tolerate toxic behaviors or outright none sense. It’s very sad because he’s been my closest and dearest and best friend for 8 years but we couldn’t marry due to his terrible baggage, ridiculously unfair things he was letting be in the way. I know I did what was right foe me. I had to admit I had been tolerating some things I absolutely shouldn’t for the sake of keeping him around so I explained to him why I left. Sometimes you just have to rock the boat even if risking losing that person you live if they don’t want to change and grow up. I could definitely tell that he had never before been educated in these things growing up. So of course he was initially put off by my letter saying exactly how hurt I was and why. No good woman would have tolerated these behaviors and I definitely could not. I think we all need to know if we have any toxic behaviors and things that hurt our relationships because it’s just really a lie to hurt us if we think it’s not going to sabotage us. I learned so much! I am still smarting from it all but I will never repeat the same mistakes or accept the things I did before. I think women really need other woman also. Because we can support each other to help each other know what a good man looks like and what’s good for us and what we do not want. And of course, friendships are so important on so many levels. If anything, I’m an honest and true communicator because I don’t believe in sweeping problems under the rug. I believe in discussing and dealing with them together. If a man is immature or refuses to be able to deal with that then really, he’s clearly just not ready for a grown up, true relationship.
@@Joshesmom what exactly do mean by toxic traits? We should stop with that “all men are evil” talk. We women can also be toxic. Not every male traits is toxic or inherently bad. We are different and we should learn to work together as a team when we are in a relationship.
Really apreciate you not being fake and pretending you have a perfect life when in reality nobody is perfect. Changes are hard for all people but sometimes when you look back you see that it is the best thing that could have happened to you. Love you sooo much queen and stay strong
The quote that got me through my last break up was this - 'you can't ask someone to change their emotions, love is love, anger is anger, it will all come to pass. You can't choose who you love, but you can choose who you are in a relationship with, it depends on how much you love yourself'. This too shall pass Breeny. We are praying for you 🙏 ❤
Lol this video is all lies. She is LYING about her boyfriend being abusive! That is what all women say when they were acting a fool in the relationship and her man wasnt putting up with her fuckery. Y'all will sit there and call men toxic and abusive.....so a man is toxic for not tolerating her acting like an immature child ? lmao
Literally my life story. No one talks about toxic relationships, emotional abuse, gas lighting and narcissistic behavior! I’m so glad you are discussing it, because we are so blind to it! These terms weren’t out 5 and 10 years ago , so they were hard to spot. But now we can go in and go hard and help each other. Amen to the healing girl summer. You talking about the range of emotions!!! I’m like whew girl stay out my business! It all hits so close to home. Sending you so much love and self awareness , so we never have to deal with these kind of individuals again ! We deserve good love, but it comes from loving ourselves! I’m proud of you for walking away and I look forward to the revenge series!
"That person that doesn't value you is blocking you from the one who will!"✨ If you're going through something similar right now as well, stay strong Queen! You've got this! ❤️
Never in my life have I watched a YouYube video and cried the way I just cried. It's not because I was idolising your relationship or anything...it's because I can really relate and maybe one day I'll speak on it. Really sorry you went through that but I'm really happy you got out. Praying for better for you!
Let’s take a second to thank God that he showed you this man’s true soul. Thank God that you did not marry and have this man’s kids before God showed you. Thank God that you can fully walk away without having to deal with this man for 18 years bc y’all a child. You’re one of the lucky ones. You got out before it was too late. Thank God!
I don’t think people should build up their hopes and expect together forever, that puts too much pressure on the relationship . Life is a journey where you are constantly evolving and as you change your type may change as well. Everyone in your life is only their for a timing so just enjoy the moment and never be too attached to anyone to the point where you end up being drained and hurt.
I disagree. We can make lifelong commitments. You can choose to love forever. The capacity of that love may change. But lifetime loves are beautiful because they refuse to waver through thick and thin.
I somewhat agree. I think it’s better to just take things one step, one year at a time. Don’t pressure each other to make certain year milestones just for the sake of it.
Flimsy "let's see where this goes" works if it's only 2 people. That's fine. The minute you want children, businesses, houses, dependents, and legacy in which your 1 on 1 relationship is dependent on, that ish needs to be defined, understood and with proper parameters and safety nets in place.
thank you for this video. i'm sorry you had to go through this but i pray you'll be better feel better and overcome! looking forward to the new series i know it will help so many including myself.
Hello there fo you need help to fix all kinds of problems in your relationship including getting your ex husband, girlfriend, boyfriend crush within 3 days ???
Don’t worry Breeny, everything will be alright. The right person will find his way to you baby girl, keep your head up!❤️❤️❤️ and may you Gran rest in perfect peace🌟🌟
Had to stop half way through watching because I need to type this: Breeny, don't ever feel sorry for 'disappointing' us because of your break up. You do what you need to do; your are not responsible for our happiness/ expectations on your love life. You do you, the true ones will continue rooting for you regardless. Peace and one love energies to you.
This video came right on time. I ended my relationship of 6.5 years in February and 2021 has been a LIVING HELL! It is so true that grieving the loss of a future marriage and a life together hurt worse than actually leaving the relationship. We had wedding ideas, baby names picked out, the whole nine yards. I only had one stipulation: let me finish graduate school before committing to a marriage. He seemed okay with it, but had a whole other life I didn't know about. I am SO THANKFUL that God 1) allowed myself and my career to be top priorities in my life and 2) I found this out before marrying him. I loved him, but it was all too much. #HealedGirlSummer
I went through a similar situation. My ex had the audacity to have a baby on me and used the baby names we planned together to name his child. This too shall pass my dear, may the blessings of the Lord and His comforting words be soothing to your soul.
That grown boy wasn’t meant for you Queen. God is still working on the man for you. Pay attention to how a man makes you feel when you share your time together…safe…secure…loved…cherished…provided for…etc. Anything less than that…then he ain’t the one.
I have also learned that high expectations from life, people are a big reason why we hit so low when things don't work out. I am trying to learn to keep my mind open to things maybe working or not working out.
Perfect timing, I recently got out of a relationship which I believe was abusive too, or at the very least manipulative. It lasted 2 years and a half. The abuse was really subtle, and I only realized how bad it was after I broke up. Things like being pressured to have sex, being blamed 95% of the time, not paying rent or groceries, prioritizing his friends over me, rarely texting me, etc. The night before I broke up, I felt like I was dying. I gave him one last chance, and he suggested we take a break where we can hook up with others (wHAT). So glad it's over now, and I'm excited to see the "revenge" series!!
Please sis..don't ever let a man pressure you to have sex. Sex is a very serious sin. You literally become one with the other. Body, soul & spirit. Anyone..even a friend or family member who pressures you to sin against God.. keep your distance.
@@danilaroche1156 Thank you. Although I'm not Christian, being pressured to do something so intimate because he needed validation really hurt me. I hope you never get to experience that
I've had many abusive relationships. Physically, mentally..all of the above. I had to dig deep and look at myself and ask myself this: I chose these men so I MUST take accountability & address my brokenness. I did just that and now I'm at peace, in my calling/ assignment and I don't engage, much less date abusive men. I've learned my value as a beloved daughter of God & I also mentor women. For free, mind you. I will certainly lift you up before God and pray for you! You are a lovely woman.
I've had many abusive relationships. Physically, mentally..all of the above. I had to dig deep and look at myself and ask myself this: I chose these men so I MUST take accountability & address my brokenness. I did just that and now I'm at peace, in my calling/ assignment and I don't engage, much less date abusive men. I've learned my value as a beloved daughter of God & I also mentor women. For free, mind you. I will certainly lift you up before God and pray for you! You are a lovely woman.
Dear Queen, I can imagine how hard this whole phase has been and I am truly sorry for what you are going through. I just hope that you find some peace in knowing that things will be okay. You have been one of the people I look up to for so long and you helped me through so much, in saying that I hope this message somehow gives you some form of peace in this chaos. Sending love and light💕
The authenticity, the transparency, the vulnerability, thank you Breeny. Take the time to heal. Don't feel forced to post content. You deserve it. Love you queen ❤️
Breeny, I can't tell you how much you helped me when I was going through a major breakup in June 2019. You literally were one of the people that gave me light and direction in such a dark time. You deserve so much and I know you will receive it. Trust God's timing - you're going to have a wonderful life. Bless you.
Rest In Peace to your beautiful grandmother. She looked a lot younger than 90, but I’m thankful you were able to motivate her to see that age and take everything she’s taught and instilled in you to help other women on all walks of life. Thank you for your transparency and accountability. Sending love and light to you hun. & happy belated birthday as well 🤍🤍
I love you and you never disappoint. I went through a break up 8 months ago and you saved me, I truly believe God sent your videos to me. I have learnt so much from watching you and I’m rebuilding my relationship with myself. Thank you so much for all you do and God definitely has great plans for your life!
Dear Breeny, no one person is worth losing ourselves over. We all want love, is this not how we end up in situations like this? Ideally, we can be loved as our fullest selves. You gave it a try, it did not work out and you could not have known the outcome. You have a special gift. You lift up so many with your wisdom, spirit and personality. Maybe take a break then come back even stronger and know, that we are all rooting for you! x
I am not familiar with your channel's content but i have fully watched this video and it is sort of what exactly happened to me. I felt ... zero accountability in your speech. Perhaps you're not ready to share the story fully but ... was the dude entirely wrong and you entirely right? just asking. Love from Japan
Breeny, you helped me during one of the hardest times of my life. In 2019, I was going through a breakup that I thought would lead to marriage as well. It hurt but watching your videos gave me so much strength on days I thought I couldn’t make it. That light you had in your eyes and the wisdom in your voice helped me to feel that everything was going to be okay. I just want you to know that I’m married to someone who adds value to my life and we have a beautiful baby boy now. Like you said, “A man’s rejection is God’s protection.” Your time will come, and you will know it. Thank you and may you find yourself again. ❤️ HEAL GIRL SUMMER. 2021.
Yes people tend to forget that yes we can get insecure but sometimes is the partner s "behaviour" that make a women insecure. Nobody to blame, apart that discomfort in your body that mean that he is just not the right partner to meet your relationship needs.
It's sad how many bw are obsessed with finding love from a man vs finding love within herself. We come from a damaged community. I tell women this all the time being a girlfriend is a concept made for men who don't have any intention in marrying that woman. Especially if she makes more money than him she needs to date with purpose. Treat yourself like the prize out here ladies.
finally ended a situation ship that I've been in since November of 2019. I realized that its time to require better for myself and I thank God for the courage to walk and I pray for the strength to say gone
We don't do situation-ships anymore. Lol! I've been a lover/mistress of a guy since 2015. As defined as companionship and intimacy but no commitment. I still expected respect, Integrity, maturity, responsibility, kindness and honesty. That's just basic common decency to your fellow human. He maintained that most of the time, but we had a pregnancy scare and he freaked out and behaved badly. I called him out on it and he ended it. It was nice while it lasted but sis it was clearly defined. We grown so we need to set the boundaries of lovers, fuckbuddy, friends with benefits, lifelong committed partners, co-parent, paramour and expectations of such. Regardless of romantic/sexual status, every human interaction needs to be based on basic common decency. if a man won't acquiesce to titles, status, boundaries and expectations, run a mile. He is a lost grown boy and about to play you left right and centre intentionally or unintentionally.
@@marleyhill34 but if you were a mistress then he was cheating on his partner… how can you expect respect and honesty from someone who can’t even be that, for their actual partner? Genuine Q?
@@ib961 a mistress in the old fashioned sense of a love affair not actual cheating. Men remained bachelors but kept a mistress who was not an approved marital match...then eventually they would legitimise and recognise any bastard children born of the affair but both parties remained unmarried. The man I dated was unmarried and without children. He did not have a life partner as far as I and his family knew. His family knew I was the lover/mistress/intimate companion but they never expected children, marriage and living together come out of our match. My father refers to my mother as his mistress. They both live together but remain unmarried. However, my father claims myself and my sister as his legitimate children.
Sorry to hear your loss. I feel like i am the only man that watches your channel. I really enjoy it and I learn some things that I even use in my marriage. I want to hear a women’s side on certain things in relationship. I don’t want to stay in an echo chamber and have biased views on women. Hearing you speak on your experience makes me check myself on how I treat my wife or to display these behaviours. I know I don’t but I like to learn from both men and women relationship channels. Thank you for your work it really helps me.
It’s ok girly I understand, we’ve been so in love sometimes we lose ourselves and we hope for the best but I’m so so glad you realized this before it got too bad. You’re so brave and you got this! 💖 it’s ok to fall back but we always get back up ✨
YOU LIVED BEFORE HIM, YOU WILL LIVE AFTER HIM AGAIN. My motto ;) Luckily we weren't born with these men attached to our asses so we don't need them if we're not better off with them. And always trust your intuition!
The Accountability in the video is ridiculous. The fact that she's doing this when she doesn't owe us anything!!! Like at all but she still took the time to speak to us and explain, motivation and lift. just wow
This again makes me definitely focus on my self as I’m beginning to think that these men are just time wasters. It also appears that they can’t handle a woman who is successful and on her game. They start feeling insecure and try putting you down. I now go on the premise that no man is going to get all of my energy and time. A significant amount will be spent on myself fulling my cup up what he’ll get is from my overflow. So if he decides to leave or I have to end the relationship I’m not going to be devastated just disappointed. They all talk about they want a good woman but how many of them can sustain a healthy relationship without wreaking it?
My condolences for the loss of your beautiful grandmother and enduring a bad relationship. I have gone through the same recently after getting ill with lupus,ending a four year relationship and losing my mother I had to turn to better help.Remember these challenges make us stronger and we will prosper through God.
Girl you have helped me through my breakup and made me the woman I am today and that is self aware and so much more happier than I was!!! Youve got this and like you said GOD is with us and he will lead the way!! Thankyou so much 💓
I Don't know you personally but I watch your channel because I like your content and mindset, My is similar to yours but I just wanted to say just because he did what he did it doesn't reflect on your character just his that probably was inevitable situation meant for growth. Don't let it make you feel like you choose the wrong person he must have came for you to learn a lesson.
It’s very bold of you to come and share this with us especially considering how much you were happy and how much you praised this relationship. I am very proud of you Breeny! Sometimes it’s hard to leave relationships and people because of what people will say. You are a queen! ❤️❤️
Breaking up before you marry bad, now that's a reason to celebrate! Much love and healing to you my Sistah! I pray that you will marry the one G-D has for you and at the perfect time.
This is the beginning of a whole new chapter! I am happy you will move on to better things this life has instore for you. You are a brave smart woman, and the right man will be blessed to have you as his wife.
When you spoke about your ex-boyfriend being sweet, it makes me think about what these men in the manosphere talk about regarding choosing better. It is not always easy weeding out the bad men because the "good" bm, known as the educated lames (which is a ridiculous term) are no better than the thugs. A clean-cut man can treat you well, then down the line become a devil.
My former husband exactly. So now I watch what they do and how they refer to other women and other men. Do they call other women bitches and other men bastards. Do they put down other people? Do they regularly make friends quickly due to charm but also quickly end those friendships for alleged slights. Do they talk about themselves positively? Do they compare themselves negatively to other people? Do they avoid conflict? I was dating a guy who earned 90k (more than enough in London for a single man with no family (his mortgage was like £800 and he had no dependents or debt) but compared himself to friends ( the friends had a wife and children to support) making millions. Are they patient or are they easily frustrated. I just dated a guy who immediately started to say that I was "stubborn" and that he was "correcting" me. Put downs on the first date.....um... no.... I'm going on a second date just to see if that's really the way he relays himself to strangers or if it was first date nerves. If he does this again on the second date it's going to be a no.
@@marleyhill34 omg sis! You’re so right! I was speaking about this today. If they’re not a good person (I know it sounds so cliche, but loads of people overlook it) then they will never be a good person!! I think a lot of people make the mistake of thinking “he’s not like that towards me” etc. If he has a child he hardly sees, cut him off. If he talks bad about women who clearly haven’t wronged him, cut him off. If he loves attention from women or just LOVES sleeping with women a lot , cut him off. He will eventually move on from you, to the next one as he doesn’t have morals… (I’m talking from experience)
@@ib961 I'm 40 next month. It is only from years of relationships and dating different men that I can pick up on these subtleties. You have to set your boundaries and expectations and what you can cope with. I've been married before and I just went on a second date with the guy above. He keeps referring to me as his wife. I have zero intention of getting married again and certainly not to a man who hasn't divorced his first wife and hasn't seen his children face to face in person and given them a hug in over 2 years! What the actual hell? He could continue to try to "correct" "stubborn" me but clap clap Sir you have work to do to deepen you life. I've put too much work into my own life to let some guy come in and mess around with it. Even though I had the title of mistress/lover for the previous guy, he earned enough, had no children, had his own car, home and friends and wasn't lonely or desperate enough to come into my life to cause problems! Very little drama! Why would I invite drama into my life which I've built alone for nothing? Some people can handle a lot of drama. I am not one of those people. I was a very public lover and there was none of this ridiculous sneaking around that most of these cheaters do. I absolutely refuse to be "discreet" about it. Any married man who stepped to me, I said I need to speak to your wife alone first so she can look me dead in the eye and say they have an "open" marriage. All the married men I've had contact with scuttled off.
@@OO-bh8jg it is not easy at all and it also takes courage and conviction to cut off a relationship early because you can see the road bump and road blocks down the road. I've become expert at just letting people and things go because it's not worth the destruction of your mind, body and spirit.
Thank you for sharing, hearing other women's stories is so healing. Last year I also grieved the end of an emotionally abusive relationship. Now, one year later, I am mourning the loss of a beloved furry family member. Sometimes I don't know how I'll get through, but when you share your story, you also share your strength. ❤️
I'm sorry love. I'm happy you saw the light at the end of the tunnel. We always get at that cross roads. And it changes when you identify the reality of what is happening and pulled yourself out. You pulled out to save yourself.
Yess Breeny. We are only leveling up from here on out. This really resonates with me because I was in a gaslighting situationship where the guy was projecting a lot. He said I was triggering his fear of incarceration b/c I brought up that he was pressuring me sexually, when I was already committed to God and sex only after marriage. He was blaming me for my feelings and opinions. Manipulation comes in different forms. Had another guy who justified cheating and in the same yr, my grandma passed away. It is a lot to go thru but we need to recognize our value at all times. Thanks.
My deepest condolences Breeny. I can relate to how close you are with your Grandmother being raised by your Mother and hers. May you always feel her presence throughout your journey. In this life and after. I’m proud of you for going through this process. You are still very young, wise and beautiful. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. We send you so much love and light Queen B. ♥️
I’m so sorry about your beautiful grandmother’s passing and also your breakup. Thank you for sharing your truths. The verse that really resonated with me during my breakup (9 weeks now) is “Hope deferred.” I received a deeply meaningful message about this with a new I understanding. You saying this means a lot to me.
Wow I swear God is really opening a lot of His daughters eyes. I put a full stop to an emotional abusive relationship in June as well. I stayed in it for a year and I said no more, it ain’t worth it! Honestly you’re better off being alone and healthy than to be in a toxic relationship. Can’t wait to see your up and coming content!
@@gaitsmarialegae8080 I agree I've noticed so many of my friends including me recently have decided to work on ourselves and move on from unhealthy relationships.. after years of settling just realizing that there is better out there and that we also need to address the issues that made us stay
It feels like we're all being put in a place where God wants us to recognize Him in men and if we no longer do, to leave. Your situation is exactly what I went through.
@@gaitsmarialegae8080 the only thing I did wrong was put Him first before God and myself. Like Breeny I too lost myself in the relationship letting this guy slowly change me. But I have learned a lot from it, saw a lot of unhealed trauma I still had and now I’m allowing the Father to truly heal me and have his way!
Don't be yolked, ever again, with unbelievers! Men who seek God earnestly, will not mistreat or manipulate another person's heart or emotions at any expense. Men of God will rather amicably end the romatic pursuit and remain brethren, than to be corrupt and be a stumbling-block as a bad example of a Christ-like person.
Yup! After nearly 5 years I’m single again. My mental health and self worth is most important. You will pull through babes ❤️ Edit: I’m so sorry for your loss love! 🌹❤️
You have helped me so much! I also have to stop letting ppl I date use my self awareness against me. Thank you for inspiring us through such a tough time. I’m so sorry about your grandma 💔
Breeny you’re story’s definitely not over. God’s not done with you big sis. Yes ‘big sis’, you’ve encouraged me so much and have contributed greatly to the confidence I have now. God’s still writing your story, and it’s gonna be great, trust me! You’re so strong, honestly😭🙏🏾💖✨
Your memories of your grandmother brought me to tears my grandmother passed away 5 years ago and the pain is still fresh I have to live with her gone, but I’m happy that she is no longer sick it was extremely hard to see her sick. She was the only person in my life who truly loved and cared about me.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful grandmother. I know she is looking down on you with a smile and is very proud of her strong granddaughter ❤️
Yes the best teachers are the ones who experienced it and learned and are learning from it. You are incredible. It takes so much willpower to get out of these difficult relationships especially when potentially blinded and maybe in denial. Thank you for being authentic. Your courage to express your grief and vulnerability is amazing. You are incredible. Appreciate you. 💙💖💚
I love you forever breeny. I'll support you forever and I'll be rooting for you no matter what. You're my big sis that I never had. You have no idea how much you helped me get through my many seasons, and reminded me how to be self-aware and know my value. 🥺❤️
Omg Breeny, you can never disappoint you. God is bringing someone better and the perfect match for you. Eyes have not seen, ears have not heard what God has in store for you Breeny. I love you soooo much. Sending you love and hugs. You are going to come out stronger. Love you Breeny my big sis ❤️🥺
Breeny, my condolences for your loss 🙏🏽 I will be 1000% honest with you. I do not believe in coincidences. There is a pattern with a lot of inspiring and motivating women being abused by their boyfriends. Maybe jealousy? It’s like they come at us like Megatron. You’ve been one of the women that have helped inspire and keep me focused throughout my healing journey. Thank you for your transparency. God will heal your heart in due time.
@@AllThingsTiffanyTV believe me, it’s like they enjoy tearing women down so they can feel more powerful/important. It’s VERY REAL out here. Any woman who expects to be treated with basic dignity and respect will begin to question their worth overtime. It happened to me.
@@brittaniquehoneyghan I'm currently trying to date this guy but I have more currently going for me in my life than him. All he does is work and sleep/rest. I am beginning to think that those that say practice Hypergamy may be onto something. It's not about money. It's about whether he is really looking after himself mentally, physically, socially, spiritually, sexually, and financially.
I’m so sorry to hear about your grandma and sorry that your boyfriend turned out to be a counterfeit. God is still with you and everything will work out in the end 🙏🏾❤️
I'm very proud of you. You took a hard decision, but you know that everything happens with a reason. And thank you for sharing with us; you teach us even now not to accept less than we deserve. You are amazing.
Soo sooo proud of you. God is really working for us sisters this year I left a emotional abusive situation aswell just before summer started the hardest thing to do but I’m healing and I’m happy God saved me before I created further damage to myself. Will be praying for you sis ❤️
