SITUATIONSHIPS (WHY WOMEN ALWAYS LOSE) 

How do you know when God is saying NO to someone you're dating and when God is saying YES? What are the different ways you're able to tell?

Breeny Lee is the Jamaica background sold separately ?! (Asking for a friend 🤭😊😆) you are so brilliant ✨✨ keep shining .. ooh deets on the lashes too 🥰

Lisa Zambuto when God says yes about something you have prayed about (because you have to ask Him in prayer first), you have absolutely NO doubt about it in your heart, it’s like an evidence, SO evident that you can’t do otherwise than to believe that it’s like a supernatural conviction, and that peace you have when you don’t worry about anything because you know God has your back . But when it’s not for you, when he says NO, even after the prayer, your heart will still be shaking somewhat, you will have no assurance, No peace regardless of how hard you try to convince yourself

Thank you so much I needed to hear this Keep doing what you do 👏👏

@@karisanchez8383 saaame

De Andria McPherson PREACH!

Tolerate is a big one for me. 😖

De Andria McPherson Preach 🙏🏽

Guys aren’t settling either

But men has to settle down and tolerate right? settle down with a woman who has the DNA of another man called children, and no money and fat...

Exactly 😩

Concisely said

But what if I want some dick too ?

@@tmoneypoleductions9764 😂😂good question

@@tmoneypoleductions9764 it’s not worth your self respect

You're really pretty!😍😍

@@rohmanadeem5504 thank you

THIS. Within a week.

Why do women think they know what a MAN thinks??? Lmfaooo its baffling maybe thats the issues you face in your own relationships cus your busy thinking instead of acting he knows not what u think and vice versa thats y we have communication if he wants to be with u early on he will let it be known but real Men do not rush shit for both parties to learn and validate if its worth it thats what dating is for

Yeah I asked one “where is this going” and he gave me the run around. I left so fast lmao. (8 months btw)

oh gawdd situationships are the worst.

Yes girl! The moment he tells you, "but I'm single". This happened to me last month. Heartbroken and doing everything to stay busy. Keep him off my mind and life for good.

legit

😂😂😂

Yeah your are too pretty but also too intelligent because you know your valur

why do women thing they need not prove themselves? their worth? how far have we fallen in society that people don't know that value of earning something? actually being deserving of something from practical merit.. not just because I say so.. its like everyone is talking magic tricks and no one wants to do the work.. just imagine just for one second a guy said to a woman I don't need to prove my worth.. the whole world would be in an uproar... but then its okay for a woman to do that.. are you people serious right now? Breeny, I am blaming you... quit brain washing people away from responsibility.. or I am telling you that if this is what you genuinely believe? then even your relationship with your Mr right wont last, and I am not cursing you, just don't say I didn't warn you..

Right? they're freaking bumbs!

The heart wants what it wants

The heart really doesn't know. I thought my heart could be protected in a situationship and now I have feelings as if I'm in a committed relationship. I have to let this go. It's so damaging.

Your too good for me. In other words. I'm dumping you...but I don't want to feel guilty.

Also code for I would like to keep you close while I play around. (Not a guarantee he’ll end up with you when he’s done tho)

My last said it alllll the time. UGH how did I fall for it every time.

Yaaass!! Hash tag:Quote of the year

Even girlfriend isn’t enough. Being girlfriend is easy. They try to make you act wifey without the ring. NEVER cook for a man and never wash his clothes unless you have that ring.

@@MmmMulholland even as a wife, it's not my job to cook and clean. This is 2020. He can wash his his own clothes, he's an adult.

That's not true...It's not a matter of being a GOOD woman or man. We all are capable of making wrong choices, or believing in a person who is manipulative. Honestly, most times it is definitely the GOOD woman or man that gets caught up in what seems like settling, when actually it's more accurate to call it trusting. Too bad the disappointment has to follow!!

LiveLife16 If you take the time to step away from the dating scene to work on yourself and figure out why you keep falling for the wrong ones, you will start being good to yourself and you will finally make peace with the mistakes that you’ve made, then you will become a better person. You will attract a good person as you have transformed into a good/better individual. That’s what I meant.

Yahuah Is My Everything I completely agree. Self love first at all times no settlement at all. I refuse to put Myself on sale when I’m Quality full price.

Dominique Smith Exactly 💯 Notice how some products in stores never go on sale. Not that we are like merchandise - but when you know your worth/value and what you bring to the table, self love will come naturally. Eventually you will attract true love because you have given that to yourself ❤️

Yahuah Is My Everything DAMN RIGHT. I REFUSE TO SETTLE FOR CRAP. PREACH!

in the same situation wish I had waited I'm 29 now 2 kids divorced ....hopefully one day God will lead me to the man He chose for me.... happy for you love!

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I definitely agree I don't recommend marriage at a young age either I married at a young age myself live your life, travel, establish your career, find yourself and keep your options open its not a time frame on relationships/marriage

But you were perfect at 21 and you told everybody that he was the perfect man.....so it is your fault you choose him and pùsh him to marry you....maybe you were the toxic one not him.

@Natural Beauty26 It is funny to hear women blaming men when you are the onw who decided who is going to penetrate them....and later on claim the one who penetrated her is a filthy man...lol

I agree. We are not here to impress and chase them. What one man won't do, another man will. Most of the time the guy wants to be with a man... not you.

Honestly. Reality literally mike Tyson sucker punched me on Valentine’s Day. I was in a situationship for over a year and I held my feelings in for that length of time because i knew he didn’t feel the same way about me. So I jumped the cliff n told him I loved him... on Valentine’s Day. And he looked at me like I was crazy. He didn’t say it back. And I went above and beyond for him n he literally said were just friends. One day I’ll look back at this n really talk about this. N save someone else from this bullshit.

I love this

IKR, They should just man up and own it instead of pretending to be something their not

It’s the truth tho. They don’t want a relationship with you. It doesn’t mean it’s something wrong with you though. It most definitely could be him. HE just doesn’t see it. Someone else will see it all with you.

Dana Müller ❤️

Dana Müller girl same with me I’m 19 now and I haven’t had sex in almost a year I feel used and abused smh

Dana Müller I did this during my teen years

Dana Müller so relatable I think for me sex became something we can be a part of and move on from it like nothing like men do but it’s a highly spiritual act that can make us feel so unworthy and used.

Dana Müller I also struggled with this and haven’t been intimate with someone for almost three years now. Better without tbh... I feel much more calm as a person, less stressed. Hope you’re okay 💖

Amen you can say that once again!!! 🤙🏾💯🙏🔥❤ yesh!!!!!!!!!

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Love that ✨💚

What I didn't understand I have to concentrate my English 😂😂😂

So many comments with women saying they r in situationships and have been for months,years! This is exactly why men don’t feel the need to “act right “, going on actual dates is foreign to them ,n they expect sex with no commitment. Stop moving this way ladies pls. We can’t even blame men for expecting so much for so little. All this bs about the guys ending it n girls are left depressed n heartbroken is so unnecessary! When u set te boundaries n demand respect, it feels so much better when the ball is in ur court. Call the shots and end things before u become sum guys pay thing or just STD- something to do. Take back ur power! Situationships are a No for me. The woman doesn’t win in the end when the guy uses u for fun n then puts u bk when he’s done. Be hard to get!

Nah, why change a man if you can just drop this and find you another one?

Cherry Tung - The Frugal Designer Handbag Lover Absolutely my point! The right one will be ready for you! 💕

Well said

have a nice day Thank you! I have a great rest of your week! 💕

But haven't you noticed the man might then change with another girl after saying he cannot/won't change??I don't see it as win or lose i see it as timing. Everyone has the ability to change but its all about timing. I find that some men can be very prideful in not allowing others to influence them, themselves and some women can be very passive aggressive projecting what they want onto others.

true

Khafi Kareem, i love ya but you still ignored her message and messed up on Bbnaija but i do hope that you rewatch this vid and learn from it for real this time

Your picture 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

It's true

I know how you feel 🥺

You are so STRONG keep it up beautiful

Did he ever contacted yu?

I am sorry men are such jerks

Update?

@Love 23Amazed thank you! but sometimes you get caught up in thinking that's the best you can do. I know better now :)

Ryan Reid Ty

Ryan Reid thank you 🙏

🤯... I wasn’t ready 🙏🏾😭

Ryan Reid fuck, yes! 🙌🏾

Ase 🙏🏽

Then why bother？

@@Melly16yr10 I think that may be what she’s trying to say here. It’s true though. Why bother? You know who you are, if you spend time telling someone who you are instead of walking the walk what really is the point?

@@bigdumby7019 Good point and question 👍😁

What's the remedy then?

@@chiomaanyanwu5322 Leave. Or that's what I did anyway. You do you! :)

Titomi 🤣🤣🤣

How are you now, Hun? I'm about to do the same, and my heart is already breaking.

Hope you two amazng young ladies are ok♥️

@@AngelBien Omg same am currently in a situationship, not doing this shit ever again.

You will Be great ☀️☀️☀️

@@AngelBien Deep breathing, classical music will do more for than any man 🙏

simp

Brandon Reynolds really?

So True!!

True on the other hand a lotta men struggle with commitment imo a relationship ain't difficult if it's so hard for you to only fuck with one girl you got a problem talk to a psychologist about it

Refreshing to have honest mature men like you. Because at the end of it all...it is not about sex, race or whatever. We should all be treated well. None above the other. Happy weekend!

Votes for Breeny for starting a podcast thumbs up If you think she should! ❤❤❤

Yes plssss

I knowww

I need to get out of my suituationship

Hope you made it out!..

Grace girl the dude I was seeing last year didn’t even buy me nothing for Christmas but yet wanted me to buy him something worth 60 dollars lol ( I just brought him a 5 dollar soap but ended up using it on myself cause I didn’t get my gift from him) and when Valentine’s Day came he didn’t even buy me nothing I showed him a bare that was only 88 cents and he said “I ain’t buying that shit” let’s just say I dumped his ass soon afterwards never again ugh and he claim to be “religious”

@@shutit4024 leave his sorry ass! These men are trained to give you the least and then expect the most. This dude offered to buy a popcorn as a kind gesture, but when I actually said yes it was clear he didn't want to lmao. So I just said forget it. We have to do better! These men are trying to play us for our goods, and do the least for it!

Grace oh trust me I dumped his ass he wanted me to hang out with him on his birthday and thought I would “give it up” just cause it’s his birthday nope! I didn’t hang out with him I said I was busy lol but yeah and he tried to get me pregnant before ( tried to trap me) but my dumb ass couldn’t see it back then..but I’m like if you don’t want to be with me then what was the point of trying to get me pregnant ?

@@shutit4024 Oh my he sounds like a terrible person. Glad you left him!

Grace he was and thanks!

J O my situation exactly

❤️ this comment. The heart always does what the heart does. You start spending time with someone and before you know it you are 'in love' with someone who you shouldn't be with

true

J O dammnn this spoke volumes

This literally just happened to me I got attached because of the attention I got and when it stopped I got so sad but I didn’t even really like the dude 😫

ChYnasa , well said. In fact all that needs to be saud. I hope everyone listen to that comment & rethink a lot of stuff. Grace to all. gh

Well, i wonder what your opinion would be now...

Roberta E I wasted my teen years on fucboys I’m still kinda mad about that because I should have been enjoying my teen years and maybe having one relationship but nope I was never taught anything about guys so I found myself into 2 situations but now I’m 19 and learning but I just wish my mother or father would of told me about guys and it didn’t help having a couple of friends being pregnant and still getting into relationships. I want to get married in my 20s but as a teen I wanted to settle down still

@@shutit4024 ...you have plenty of time to meet Mr. Right. I didn't marry my beloved husband until I was 30. He was a real man...worth the wait. But cancer took him from me 2 years ago, and that painful lesson has taught me more about love than any other thing in this crazy life. Be patient and the right man will come to you...and never take him for granted 🙏😌

Roberta E I’m sorry for your lost

Roberta E thanks for the advice 👍🏼

U ain't alone . We are always with you !

God has a man for you don't give up hope. :)

Miss JayLeanne your not old, but listening to Breeny you are getting wise😇

I'm 23 and I feel the same

I am 19 and I am so tired of dating (I barely have participated in it)

Same with the men lol

Keke_SA same situation. He “loves me but is too busy for a relationship” after 8 months finally admitted to myself it wasn’t enough. 😭

This is good I'm in this same situation right now

@@jboy98ful You can leave. You have the power to & although it'll hurt, you'll surely move on. If a man has not made his intentions clear, that simply means he's not interested in you - you ain't the one he loves. It's painful to hear but lady, that's the plain truth. You're more than a situation-ship, you're a Queen. 👸

omg i love this i went through the EXACT same thing

Really? Because I felt like my friends with benefits was a situationship

Permanent Outsider right I hate that shit or when he says “oh we not in an relationship you can do w.e” boy it makes me so mad lol

Same I’m same age going through the same thing

NubineQueen ! Same from when I was 15-18 😔 I’m 19 now I only been in 2 and the last person I was in an situationship he tried to get me pregnant (trapping me) I soon dump her afterwards but the crazy thing was he didn’t to be together with me so I didn’t understand that at all

It is extremely hurtful it’s all fun and games but it’s literally playing with fire and the pain that comes after isn’t even worth the “temporary fun”

Same I hated myself because it was going against my grain and I knew I wasn't being treated right

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I wrote sooo many poems its very sad :(

😭🤣*the poetry bit. 😩🙋🏾‍♀️

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Love this comment

Of course you do!

Everyone does ! You deserve to be respected

Amen

Same for me

In your 30s and on men only consider you a pump and dump. that's the truth

@@Alyssa-tu2kx Stop subscribing to incel ideology. 🤣

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Hmmm. You were having a relationship on your own...

So many comments with women saying they r in situationships and have been for months,years! This is exactly why men don’t feel the need to “act right “, going on actual dates is foreign to them ,n they expect sex with no commitment. Stop moving this way ladies pls. We can’t even blame men for expecting so much for so little. All this bs about the guys ending it n girls are left depressed n heartbroken is so unnecessary! When u set te boundaries n demand respect, it feels so much better when the ball is in ur court. Call the shots and end things before u become sum guys pay thing or just STD- something to do. Take back ur power! Situationships are a No for me. The woman doesn’t win in the end when the guy uses u for fun n then puts u bk when he’s done. Be hard to get!

Yesss🥺❤️

I agree👍

then you'll be post 30 as your dream man who doesn't tick 50 boxes fails to materialise then say "where have the good men gone" and be like most bitter careerist women who dated the alphas in their 20s and now cant get commitment from one so their only option is settling for a boring beta male, which they dont want to avoid so keep getting older, bitter and more past their prime.

Brandon Reynolds Good men come to you when you aren’t looking for them💀😂 A woman who loves herself isn’t searching because at the end of the day we love ourselves enough to not even need a man. But a good one will come anyway because our self love makes us 10x more attractive. If you have to search for a man you prolly already lost🤷🏿‍♀️😂

Indicaap0ppin Agreed 💯

@@indicaap0ppin662 Great response.

That’s normal I was once the same way but you have to experience and talk to different guys before you can really know what you what sometimes.

okay.. yours I can respect.. not some of the other people's comments. please look for my replies in these comments if you want to understand.. but that guy you like is probably someone who got heart broken before by a girl that thinks the world revolved around her with no effort, just because she is in her peak fertility and every guy is in her DMs.. love is work, its a team, no one is a table, you both need to bring worth to the table, and understanding, loyalty, just like you want him to be understanding of your needs you need to understand his. most women like to make it seem like guys get more out of sex than they do and there fore that's all they need to offer.. that's very stupid.. one needs to offer more than just the physical.. but above all, be loyal to each other, and this isn't just about sex, its more on going through life, because life will offer challenges that could break you two apart, and you need to be strong together and that will tighten your bond even further. I am actually very proud of what you've done, how you've lived, your a germ believe it, definitely the top 1%. 99% of this commentary section is full of imposters and I was ready to give up, and stumbled on you.. thank you for being my hope. most of the other women want the power with no responsibilities... as if women don't have a role to play in all this..... and Breeny is being a yes man telling them what they want to hear so she can sell hair pieces, she isn't really helping, but bless you. you don't have to have sex with the guy you like, just be there for him, and when he is ready, he will come, that's if you want him still. just a tip. man react well to support.

I’ve never been in a serious relationship and I’m 21 as well

Delaney Graziano I am with you girl !

Exactly what happened to me last year.

Same... I was heartbroken

All right !

I swear shes literally pressuring people out there

@@rahmafiakhatib3328 no she’s not

maybe, just maybe...its not the 20 men that you've been thru in life...maybe

Facts for real. You hit rock bottom. Thinking you can handle that shit. Your heart want what the heart wants.

no no… you already had those, that's why you got into it in the first place, or why you didn't bother to look for a good guy in the first place while you were in you peak fertility and every guy was in your DMs, and you called it wanting to have fun.. why do people like lying to themselves, or blaming something or someone else instead of themselves?

Dont waste your precious young years on him, he ain't worth it ❤

@@msbabycakes Thanks😊

Jikittgreat, SAVE YOUR SELF. THE MAN THAT IS CREATED FOR U FROM THE BEGINNING OF TIME WILL FIND U. & LOVE U AS THE Lord love's u. U are worthy to be love , & care for & about. Began to cherish your self. Grace to all. gh

Preach, tell the true!. Ms. Breeny, lives will be change for the better!. For life. !! Think about it. Grace to all GH

jokittygreat1 trust me do it it’s better when YOU END IT don’t end up like me all bitter and still hurt do it you don’t want this to be gone too long then if he ends up cutting you off then you’re feel sorry for yourself

End it and block him cause he'll definitely come back to confuse you with romantic gestures with no substance. The man for you won't make you question your decisions. ❤️❤️❤️

Yeah girl end it. You’ll save yourself the heartbreak

Crowned In Beauty 😂😂😂

LMAO

Crowned In Beauty fr fr ... I was just thinking that to myself lol . I was recently in a situationship with a guy after my divorce and I’m thinking 🤔 okay this should be fun cuz I don’t want a relationship just yet but I do want someone to kick it with ... and the fact that I’m so used to being in control I thought that I could have my way with this one but boy was I wrong he flipped the script on me .

Adose of Tequila it unfortunately always happens. I don’t know what in use make us think we are in control in every situation but the heart mannn.

I messed up when I told him I liked to be in control. lol

Miss Kenyetta YES👏🏽👏🏽

Lorraine Gold you his rib you not his. he should be looking for you not you looking for him. If you keep working on you he will find you