@@zhamu4822SAME but like I’m trans so it’s problematic. Boys like me cause I still have female genitalia, and Girls like me because they’re “experimenting”. Idk it’s just my experience. 😅
as a closeted lesbian filipino its always nice seeing stuff like this because the environment around me is so toxic. love the video its so great, love from mindanao 💜💜💜
As someone who's bi, liking a boy is like "sjshshsjd he's so woarm nd I want him to be engulfed by him" While liking a girl is like "omgomgomg she's soooo pretty but idk if I envy her or want to be with her, everything about her is perfection and I just wanna be in her presence"
im not into boys but it sounds a lot eazyer, and like as a boy its like talk to me for long enough while being of the opposite gender and i will love you despite any looks, like ofc i have preferences but the biggest preference is being loved, so like make me feel loved, thats enough, and its not hard, just say hi and respond when i text and like thats enough, make me feel like someone cares, text me without me texting you first and i will want to marry you, its just like "omg someone wants to talk to me... they are a women... omgomgomg a women wants me of all people to talk to her" also ladies who are reading this if you want any man worth his salt to be locked in for life just say "i feel safer when im with you" or "you make me feel protected" its like the number 1 thing we think about, like if the girl we're with thinks shes safe, and like if you just make us feel like we make you feel safe we will do literally anything for you and bonus points if you lean your head on us when you do so
the first time i properly fell for a girl, my friend (who had gone through a catalog of questionable gfs) pulled me aside and said "i'm warning you now, the first time a girl breaks your heart is unbelievablely worse than when a boy does." and by god is she right lmao (we never got together, but the emotional strain of a gay crush by itself is so so much more intense than a straight one ouch)
@@fork7809When someone of the opposite sex breaks your heart, you can put some blame on not understanding their sex. However, same sex failure is not the same so it's easier to blame yourself, instead.
@@fork7809 Because same sex makes the kinship deeper due to stronger relatability. There's less pretention and relying on putting on an illusion of being a perfect stereotype like hetero dynamics tend to be (at least at first) - you puff out your chest, pretend you don't fart, get insecure of your looks, existence of periods is taboo, the men try to push your limits yadda yadda... There's more camaraderie in "I have your biology, I get it". Deeper the bond the bigger hole is left when it's pulled out. The more depth of understanding there can be the harder you fall. And the opposite sexes don't have that, the healthiest can learn to respect the difference and play around it, but there'll never be the shared experience of being born facing the same risks and treated similarly by society and culture, being governed by same hormones. There is a nugget of disdain and distrust especially with places like reddit or media like p0rn fueling it between the sexes.
@@InternetNonsense i certainly understand the emotional relatability of being a girl who likes girls but by no means does my biology match. i'm trans so for me there's a whole new layer of understanding on top of all of it. it was pretty tricky to understand who i was and what i wanted in a relationship before i figured myself out. since starting HRT i've become so much more in tune with those feelings and just my emotions in general. but that sense of "do i want to be WITH her, or BE her?" god after feeling that my whole life, that feeling is so strong as a transfem. i want to be WITH her, AND i want to BE her. aghhhh
I am a trans man, but I still heavily relate to the experience... Girls are just a whole 'nother thing, especially when you're socialised in an environment where liking them is seen as wrong. But at the same time, it's the kinda thing that turns the whole world into sunnier hues for me. Edit: Happy Pride Month to all the girl lovers out there. :-)
being pan i only realized gender doesn't matter, love is always gonna feel different with different people, always such a beautiful non-comparable feeling tho (not saying everyone should be pan don't come at me pls even tho it would be rad if we all were ngl, either that or aroace)
As a pan person too it’s nice to see others who also feel the same way, it’s an indescribable experience when falling in love with different types of people and it’s truly a gift that I’m grateful for everyday that allows me such experiences. It’s for me personally also allowed me freedom which has lifted such a weight off my shoulders which I’m sure is a very common experience for others in the LGBTQ+ community. I’m not sure if my ramblings made sense but your comment resonated with me
Not even romantic love, even other kinds of love all feel so different! Like, I have friendships that feel like a warm, cozy fire, a home I can come back to. I once had a friendship that was an intense, passionate burning desire to spend every second together, but in a fully platonic way, despite how commonly believed it is that those feelings are exclusive to romance. And I even have (had?) a friendship that was exhausting, draining, worrying, but with all of that still being a form of love, twisted as it had become. But, even then, those words aren’t enough to describe it. It’s like trying to describe how something tastes. You can call something sweet or salty or spicy, but for example, think of strawberries and bananas. They’re both sweet, but no one would ever say that they taste the same. Can you describe in words what the difference is, though? It’s the same for people. My love I have for one person tastes like strawberries, my love for another tastes like apples, my love for another tastes like pure lemons. The way I’ve loved every person in my life is completely unique, and while it has sometimes hurt me, I think every single kind of love was valuable and worth experiencing. Even when it’s gone, even when those people are gone, even when I’ll never love someone in that exact same way again. _Especially_ because of that last point. That’s what made each one worth experiencing. So, romantic love, platonic love, it’s not really categorizing love as much as it’s categorizing how you interpret your feelings and decide what you want the future of that relationship to look like. …oops, I was completely rambling there, sorry about that- I don’t really know how to end this comment off now. I went far off topic from what I originally came to say lol
As someone who used to gush for a girl once, I know the feeling. I did tell her I like her but she said she only saw me as a friend and that she actually likes someone else. Well I kinda expected that. Though in my 17 year of life I did fell in love with a boy that I only saw once passing by my classroom. I really couldn't take my eyes off him. Followed him for days memorized his schedule because his department is next door to mine and I asked him out before the summer began. It's probably his red hair that got me attracted to him. Its so orangey red but when I became friends with him he was this warm fluttering sunset rain shower feeling. When I look into his hazel amber eyes, I feel like my soul is being sucked into a warm ball of feeling. Couldn't explain it right but damn I fell so hard for him than the boys and girls I liked. Soul mate? Twin flames? My forever? Well that was 15 years ago and our kid is already 10 years old
I'm mixed Filipino, and I was listening to the lyrics without knowing Japanese, but noticed a disturbance in the force when I heard the last set of lyrics... I thought I was going crazy, until the comments confirmed that it was Tagalog! This song is so cute and real, and as a pansexual genderfluid silly billy, it means everything. YAYAYAYYYAAAYY!!!
I’m a dude, my girlfriend is genderfluid, and I don’t wanna compare him to a Cis-girl BUT this is exactly how I feel around him She’s so gorgeous and handsome and I love them, when I’m around him I’m literally weak and I’d do anything for her 🧎♂️ EVERYTHING ABT HER LIKE Her beautiful long hair, her laugh, her love for dogs, the way she always checks in on me when I’m out for long, the way she is when she’s excited, the way she gets emotional when she can tell *IM* getting emotional She’s my rock and I love him, if he ever got mad at me id die immediately 💀 I KNOW THIS IS FOR WLW but gosh it’s so relatable Also happy pride month to all the beautiful lesbians or bisexuals (or other) people reading who have a crush on a girl right now Edit: My comment caused some people some confusion, so imma clear stuff up so that more people aren’t confused, since my comment seems to be getting traction! One: Yes, the pronouns changes are on purpose. My partner is genderfluid, so I use multiple sets of pronouns for them sometimes! Two: This comment is just me appreciating my partner: nothing more, nothing less Three: I’m a guy, I’m not WLW in ANY sense Hope that clears some stuff up! Edit2: I’m not replying to certain comments below this because RU-vid’s doin it’s thing where people just turn a regular comment into a issue in the replies Have a good pride month folks! Spread positivity in any way you can! :] Edit: Turns out I'm a lesbian lmao Whoever said i was WLW, you preducted the future, how tf you do that 😨
Love how you made a point of using all their different pronouns! She's really lucky to have you, someone who is clearly, loudly supportive of his identity. I wish there were more people like this in the world! ❤
I literally cannot stop listening to this on repeat. Your voice is so pleasing to listen to and that smooth transition from english to japanese to tagalog is just so clean and works so well with the feeling of the song. I love this.
Wait is it tagalog? I recognize japanese cause i speak it but i realize im not actually sure what ghe ghird and final language is. Please correct me if i am wrong!
I’ve never actually liked a guy in that sense bc I’m lesbian, but I relate to this. I came out really young, so luckily I didn’t have to struggle with my identity for too long, but this fits my personal experience: Whenever I said I “liked” a guy, it was actually because all my friends liked guys, and I thought I was supposed to. Not necessarily a cry for help, more like a cry for stability, and the ability to fit in with others. However, when I like a girl, it’s genuine, and it feels a whole lot different than when I tried to force myself to like guys. Again, I’m a lesbian, so I know this doesn’t perfectly fit my experience, but it still resonated with me, so that’s all that matters :) Happy pride month everyone ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
You knew who you were at a young age? What a loser! /s Ignore me... I'm just jealous. It took me 20 years to understand that I am pansexual and another 3 years after that to realize that I am also trans. Could've saved myself some time if I had just... known.
Liking a girl is the worst you know why you get a text from them and your heart starts to flutter you talk to them and you feel stuff that isn’t there. I’ll never trust those feelings again ever
You are GREAT at drawing tank tops/upper bodies. The angles toward the end especially, I was like, "That's exactly how a tank top/upper body would look from that angle". SUPERB
Muntik ko nang mahagis yung selpon ko nung nakita ko yung notification. Ahh, na-miss ko yung channel mo, Gaille. I love your videos and music. Glad to see you back! As a bi girl, I can kind of relate. Particularly with how my experiences in liking people differ depending on gender. Liking a boy generally feels like (almost) getting struck by lightning. In short spurts, a rush of adrenaline abruptly floods my senses whenever I'm around them. I'm starved for validation, and I depend only on them for it. One glance, one small hint of reciprocated interest, is a trigger that just demands for more. I mainly like the feeling of being the center of their attention, even for only a few seconds. Liking a girl is usually a slippery slope. It's an easy mistake to make when I rationalize my feelings as sheer admiration until the incremental build-up of denial leads to a painful and confusing fall. That could mean 6 hours spent making a playlist filled with more than 300 songs...for them, without the intent of ever sending it. The growth is exponential, and there is no way to pinpoint the line between admiration and full-blown fixation, but what matters is the world now feels alive around them. I feel weightless and light-headed when I'm around them. It's frustrating at times, especially when the desire to value their existence overrides my selfish need for their validation. To like a boy means foolish anticipation. • "They complimented me for my presentation earlier. What the fuck-" • "Shit! We made eye contact." • "Hope they noticed I cut my hair." To like a girl means foolish devotion. • "Seeing them laugh with their friends fills me with unreasonable joy and a small pang of yearning." • "God, how am I the ONLY one enamoured by their presence?" • "I usually hate cheesy poetry, but they seem to like it, and it helps me make sense of my feelings. This is insanity." There are also GNC and NB people who I also experience romantic attraction with differently, but at the end of the day, attraction is personal and varies depending on the individual. In my experience, these are all quite similar and equally consuming yet devastating in their own ways. To be fair, being in a healthy relationship with either is also another experience, but I can't say for sure since I haven't reached that point yet.
@@tintin.0. I think it's fair to say that being smitten with the most captivating girl I've ever met is related to spending 3 hours writing that entire wall of text. It's crazy, what affection does to a person (me).
liking a girl is literally one of the worst and best things to ever happen to me, like i've never been THIS heartbroken over someone (we became an item, then she dumped me) but also no one has ever made me feel this giddy and kilig like ARGAHRAGGHARG
Liking boys give me a STR/Phys Attack buff and liking girls gives me an INT/Magic buff. So I swear me being sandwiched together between the two is just for being optimized I swear.
OMG FINALLYYY!!! IVE BEEN WAITING IN HELL FOR THE NEXT SONG 😭 I WAS ACTUALLY JUST LEARNING HOW TO PLAY WAG KANG MAG EXPECT WHEN THIS RELEASED !!! GOOD AS ALWAYS FISHY ❤
I decided to tweek the english translation a bit :) just wanted the syllables to match the original piece∼ ^^ *_lyrics_* Liking a boy is a desperate plea to be heard (Bro, hear me out) Liking a girl is a desperate plea to survive (Girl, hear me out!) The thoughts ever consuming and the desperation's looming nothing stops me from collapsing Liking girls is surely taxing あたま が くら くら atama ga kura kura (and my head is surely spinning) いやな よかん が する iyana yokan ga suru (have a bad foreboding feeling) どき どき ふわ ふわ doki doki fuwa fuwa (heart is beating; giddy giddy) わく わく ゆら ゆら waku waku yura yura (so exciting; shaky shaky) at ako ay nanggigil (and slowly getting frustrated) nabaliw na sa kilig (got insane 'cause of such bliss) at bumababaw kasiyahan (I'm more satisfied than expected) naku miss, kaya mo ba akong halikan? (oh god miss, will you kindly give me a kiss?)
It so different, for me, liking a girl than a guy. "Liking a guy is a desperate plea to be heard" I feel like when I was interested in guys, I want to be seen and noticed. I feel like I want his attention and want to be cared for. I liked being with him. It's a feeling of belonging. "Liking a girl is a desperate plea to survive" But with a girl. It comes so much more intense. I felt much more connection with one other. Like she could understand me and I could understand her. It feels so easy and comfortable. It feels like she completes me and we are inseparable. Of course everyone is different! :) I finally found a guy who makes me feel both ways so I guess I lucked out.
What was the difference between guys and girls? Like why is that the case? And what did the guy you're dating do to make it feel the same? This stuff is always interesting to me because I'm pan and don't really notice the difference
I came to terms with my bisexuality a long time ago, but this song unexpectedly reopened some wounds. At the time, I beat myself up for "not being able to choose," or "not getting off the fence." It was a slow, ugly discovery, and learning to accept it was one of the most difficult things I've dealt with. Looking back now, young Amber was an ungrateful little rat. She let that uncertainty cloud her head, and chose not to commit fully to anyone she showed interest in. That kind of half-hearted middling left her in the dust on multiple occasions, lonely and unhappy. Even so, without her mistakes, I doubt I'd be where I am today. I messed up a lot back then, but when I finally got that courage to leap in with someone, it felt like I was finally free. She and I are happy together, and I'm glad we can spend this part of our lives in peace. If that changes, I'll still be grateful to her for catching me.
Man i liked a gal n got rejected.. i couldnt stop being infatuated with them tho… and even after like 2 years i still am… I’m kind of starting to get away from them tho because i well and truly realised that i cant be friends with this person without wanting more, so i rather save myself from the suffering than living beside them in pain. That was true love man, but never returned.
IM OBSESSED WITH SONG I'VE ALWAYS LIKED JAPANESE MUSIC AND AFTER DISCOVERING TAGALOG MUSIC I STARTED LOVING IT TOO AND IT LITERALLY HAS BOTH?? IT'S SO GOOD BRO IM VIBING
What was the difference between guys and girls? Like why is that the case? And what did the guy you're dating do to make it feel the same? This stuff is always interesting to me because I'm pan and don't really notice the difference
@@IamTealeaf Part of the difference is in how as a girl liking boys is the default, so usually having a crush on a girl comes with a lot of worry and shame. You don't know if telling the girl will cause her to stop being friends with you, or ruin your relationship. And for me, I'm usually closer as friends with the girls I have a crush on, so there's more at stake if your friendship is ruined. Meanwhile with boys, it's easier to try and show you have a crush on them, and it's less 'weird' to other people. I've also found that with girls, in really close friendships the line between having a crush and caring deeply for them as a friend blurs more. It can be confusing & hard to tell if you actually have a crush. But with boys, I never really get to the level of intimacy in a friendship that I do with girls (nights at their house, sleeping in the same bed, sharing everything) so theres none of this overlap. And for me specifically, my crushes on girls tend to last a lot longer (months to years) but my crushes on boys have rarely lasted over a month or two. My crushes on girls are also a lot more emotionally intense. And when I spend time with guys I have crushes on, or get closer/start to date them, it's a lot more calm and comfortable emotionally, whereas with girls I'm freaking out in my mind and overthinking everything. Sorry for the super long response lol.
Your art style is everything. I wish I had watched a TV show that looked like your art so that I could’ve grown up with watching it. It tastes like oranges
My brain saw the title of the video and the channel name at the same time and I read it as “Fishing like a girl,” and I’m honestly kinda disappointed this video didn’t teach me how to fish like a girl.
at first I I had read "like like a girl", I liked the concept and when I realized that I had read it wrong... I wrote a whole song about it because I felt inspired love when things like this happen♡ also: love the vid! the animation's esthetic is too interesting! ♥︎
Is this love? Help me I’m confused. She’s so kind and beautiful and funny and just thinking of her makes my heart go crazy, it’s such a strange feeling. I’ve never felt this for anyone before what do I do 😭
What was the difference between guys and girls? Like why is that the case? And what did the guy you're dating do to make it feel the same? This stuff is always interesting to me because I'm pan and don't really notice the difference
Oh that's a feeling. I'm trans, so it was a longer way around for me, and almost exclusively attracted to women, but liking women once I was myself a woman just felt so completely different, so much more real. Yeah. Like a desperate plea to survive, to even live if I have the chance. The song is really lovely too!
I can relate a bit For the longest time I thought I wasn't into relationships (and totally uninterested in sex too) before realizing I just didn't feel at ease into the body I was born in Does that make sense? I guess I couldn't really concretely think about a significant other without being satisfied with myself first
@@giuseppeagresta1425 i had a similar experience where i kept trying to live vicariously thru my partner (or potential partners) and eventually realized "hey i don't gotta do that i can just be the person i want to be with." now i'm taking a break from relationships while i figure out exactly who i wanna be and work on becoming them/her :)
I would say that in my experience, liking a man has a different feeling to liking a girl. Liking a man makes me feel like I want them to protect me eventually and fight alongside me in this world and someone who I want to feel happy and safe around and trust. However, there are misunderstandings due to our different biology and brain chemistry so then there are painful times too when liking them. However, there is a mystery that men have since we are different that I just can't stop coming back to since it is intriguing. whereas liking a girl for me feels like a dream and i want to do whatever I can to protect her from all harm in this world and just make her mine completely. I also feel more familiar with women since I am one too and I can speak to them about things I couldn't speak about with a man. We may fight often due to both being emotional most likely and have similar types of hormones, but liking a girl is a softer feeling than liking a man. Both are wonderful yet painful, but it feel different to like each gender.
🤓🤓🤓Men and women don't have different "brain chemistry" and the biology isn't a factor in it either. Yeah the hormones are obviously different but even then unless you are extreme on the hormone spectrum it's inconsequential. Not trying to antagonize you btw but there's just that same rhetoric about men and women being inherently different so it's hard to understand one another. IT IS TRUE, but that's cause of other things, not biology or some fundamental nature humans adhere to. 🤓🤓🤓
@@Asroar There are indeed cognitive AND biological differences between men and women. This is because in nature they are supposed to work together to ensure humanity's survival. Men are more left-brain, logic based, and detail oriented and women are more right-brain, emotion based, and big picture people. Obviously not every man is the same, and not every woman is the same, some women can be logical and men can be emotional, but the underlying structure is the same. This is also paired with societal expectations and traditions as well, so that makes it more exaggerated in many cases. I could be replying to you out of big stupid and not understanding your sarcasm, but yeah felt like I should reply.
@@Asroar There would be some biological differences, as is natural for all living creatures, but also the societal expectations placed upon us. That maybe what OP is getting at 🙂
There do are some personality traits that are easier to find in one sex than in the other, hormones influence the way in which we behave, feel and experience the world; like, yeah, the heart is too deep and the mind to complex to be reducted to biochemestry, but we are our bodies, we are our organs, we are organisms. I also don't think nature is a good excuse for anything, the very fundament of nature is change, the real problem is how most humans want everything to fit into boxes so that they can predict and control stuff :/ Anyway, romace can take many forms and each has a different flavor depending in of an absurd amount of factors that make my head spin and think that there are very few things as chaotically intrincate as it (x _ x) and that falling in love is scary in any case
