If you think Arya is anything like Cat you must be smoking some good trees in that lil room. Citing revenge is a terrible example because what person wouldnt want revenge after having their family murdered? Thats nearly universal
Yes and no arya is actively completely driven by it that has been her character arc. Jon is just as angry about Robb and Ned’s deaths but he has other stuff going on and revenge is not on the top of his priorities. I was suggesting more that catelyn and arya are both very head strong when it comes to what they want or believe in.
I feel like if Ned was fine and can go to the wall he doesn't go because of what's going on. Also who would win the war. Lannister or Starks if Ned was alive