He is the bad guy. He clearly never believed that was his kid and that’s why he mistreated her. He should’ve done this before so he wouldn’t have resented her and messed his child up smh
She keeps mentioning him being a drug dealer, as if she didn’t benefit from it? Also, why is the mother acting clueless as to why he had doubts? This ain’t all on the father, the mother isn’t innocent in this fiasco.
And that proclamation shows exactly who and what you are. What does the name have to do with the sperm origination? How trifling do you estimate a drug dealer to be? Seriously, what did your mother or other women do to you and Adrian to fill you both with so much misogyny?
@@yung1717 well clearly he did and he overpaid. Was this case stupid and so was he and so was she yes but the bottom line is he paid and the benefit because I’m sure all that money didn’t go to the kid.
He had a right to question paternity but why wait 24 years? He should have had a DNA test done years ago. Maybe when he got out of prison...He just looked bad....
So the mother names the daughter after another man out of spite. Then naturally the dad questions paternity just like anyone would and now he’s the enemy ? I agree he did wait a very long time for the test but that is still absolutely his right given the circumstances. BM is giving bitter and petty
@@blackestknightx8881 he waited a very long time. But they also poking at him by naming the grandchild by this other guy so I can see both ways. If he was absent at a certain point that’s one thing but naming the child and then the grandkid after another man was rather petty. He matched energy. If he was owed CS he couldn’t have been that much of a deadbeat. And she was obviously living off of him up until he got locked up like the judge said
@@KPbouj Right and it’s like as the man he just supposed to accept all the disrespect and mom can be just as petty as she wanna be even bring the next generation into it and that’s ok lol
I don't even know what to comment about a guy like that. He's just been taking advantage of people his entire life. I'm not even shocked that he brought them to court for that $300. That's just part of his disgusting character.
They on him hard! That yamp named her kids after another MAN but he’s the bad guy? Question the defendant and why she named her kids after another man! SMDH
@@yung1717 she created doubt and as much as she talked ish to him at the end of the show, I’m SURE she was worse than that over the years constantly degrading and insulting that man. The daughter looks just like him and he should’ve BEEN requested a dna test if he felt doubt but he didn’t. Again, what is the reason she created the doubt in the first place by naming her kids after another whole man! Let’s answer the question and stop justifying bad behavior in the name of entertainment and being “cute.” She was just as wrong as he was, she was NO saint in this!
He's an awful, AWFUL father. After finding out the truth, he still refused to hug his own daughter. What a sorry FOOL, and definitely not a deacon at heart 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
@11:22 I get Being upset your dad wasn’t there while you grew up. Granted he was locked up for 16 Years, Don’t be bitter that Your Mom is taking Care of your kids for you and he ain’t helping. That’s your Job. Put your Big Girl Pants on you had them Take care of them Shouldn’t have picked someone like your daddy to have babies with.
@@traceypugh9427 did you listen to her? That man clearly wasn’t a good dad to her. So why would she care about his feelings when he allowed was a piss poor father
So you name your child after your mother’s boyfriend. She wouldn’t be embarrassed or hurt then if he was what ur saying and the other guy was in her life. She’s HIS namesake and so is her child! No embarrassment there. He’s a stranger pretty much. Oh well. Toxic situation created by the person who chose to have her.
@@traceypugh9427 You should not throw lugs at people you don't know. I'd put my standards up against yours or any other female in your family without any doubts about my standing. I understand people and why they do what they do. Understanding doesn't mean condoning.
I completely understand him wanting to know for sure but yeah 23 yrs is a long time even excusing his prison sentence. I commend him for at LEAST paying child support.
You do realize this is a court case? Newsflash, the judge has to be involved, and their thoughts count. When you go to court and a judge is presiding over the case, their thoughts figure into the outcome.
I would have got the dna when she was born flat out. He knew her name then and he definitely had the money. 23 years later, it has to be more to the story
@sereneamani1713 he should have just gon ahead and disclosed it if it was an understandable and legitimate reason. At this point, he just looks like an indecisive fool for waiting 23 years along with monthly child support, just to later to get a DNA test for a child he knew had been named after another man. And he's a deacon?? I would never follow a church leader this indecisive with his personal affairs.
She enjoyed shacking up with that drug dealer when the money was coming in and didn't care about his side chicks he had neither until he got busted‼️Typical gold digger 🤷🏾♂️
This lady got nerve naming her daughter after another man and is in there talking mad crazy!! Wow...he had every right to know the truth even if it was years later!
The plaintiff had every right to find out if in fact he was the father of the defendant's daughter and I'm elated that he found out, regardless of how long it took.
I wish women would stop this type of behavior honestly! All over paternity court you see women not knowing truly who the father is…..??? Allowing all of these men to just do whatever with them and it’s just irresponsible and hurtful later on to the child’s life! SMH! What in the world????!!!! Every time you see a court show it’s the same thing. Then they say they knw for certain who the father is and it can’t be anyone else! Only to find out when the results come it ISNT the one they said and now they knw who it is back home. My GOD!!!!!! Irresponsible for their kids and for their own health!
But THAT isn't THIS. She knew who her child's father was and the child's father was who she said it was. If you watch closely, it was the plaintiff who cheated during their relationship. Not her. Maybe I am missing something. What does your comment have to do with this case?
irresponsible women! That’s what my comment has to do with!!!! Having children by men they either don’t know or men they aren’t sure who the father is! If she knew who the father was WHY would her child be named after her ex??? These people are slow! They act slow! Anyone who defends them and their choices act just like them. Apparently!
@@sereneamani1713 that's a stretch. "Takes care of me *and* my two kids". Notice that "AND" word. The grandmother is not babysitting 2 kids AND her 24 year old daughter. When the 24 year old daughter said "take care of" it's clear she means that she and her 2 daughters live with grandmother, who pays all the house bills and helps with the grandkids.
Not attacking him after giving him reasons to believe what he believed. And then the daughter naming her kid after the other man is crazy . They’re all wrong.
He has a right to know but he should've done it from day one. Maybe he sick and tryna get his business straight as the older folks say. Or he getting an inheritance thats supposed to be split between him and his kids and he tryna cut down on the funds 🤷♀️ something not adding up.
Don't the mother or stepfather for being rudely to the father. The was also unkind to the father. His daughter is going along with her moms views and her mom is supporting her two children out of wedlock. All sadly presented.
The daughter her self said they have a bad relationship what are yall talking about.. he wait 23 years to get a dna test it proves he is a shitty as person
I kind of get where he’s coming from, but twenty three years is a long time to wait to have a DNA test. But let’s not forget he was incarcerated for sixteen of those years. Maybe if he didn’t get himself locked up he would have done it sooner. But end of the day he’s only got himself to blame. The defendants actions by naming her daughter and her daughters child by her exes name was downright wicked and vindictive, and would definitely raise suspicion in anyones mind. I’m glad that at least he got his answer. What makes him look worse though, is having the gaul to ask for the overpayment back, considering he hadn’t paid anything for sixteen years. He may have wanted to satisfy his own suspicions with the DNA test, but by asking back for the overpayment, he showed that he has bitter feelings towards the mother. Naming those kids after her ex has really hurt him deeply, and she did that out of sheer spite because he was cheating on her when they were living together. She even had the Gaul to invite the same ex onto the stand, wow she foul and still bitter. Hope the daughter can find it in herself to forgive him, but by the way she looks so brainwashed by the mother, I doubt she will.
If he was incarcerated for 16 years, and he hadn't paid in 16 years, it stands to reason he was unable to pay because be was INCARCERATED. The fact that he did pay it off and in fact overpaid tells me he was paying regularly after he was released. There are people out here who still owe tens of thousands in child support. My exwife's father still owes back child support which now directly goes to her since she's an adult (43 years old right now). He deliberately works cash only jobs and gets paid under the table to avoid garnishment.
The plaintiff had every right to question the paternity of his daughter . Although, he was late with DNA testing. The defendant named his daughter after another man. Then the defendant is petty !
I asked my mom a while ago if my dad would’ve asked her for a dna with me would she have complied she flat out told me no &nd said he would’ve had to leave her house…that really made me suspicious cus girl what 🤔🤔🤔…anyway my half sister agreed to do a sibling test with me so only time will tell…
I think that's the general sentiment from most women. They get offended at the mere idea that a man wants to confirm paternity. My now exwife and I had a hypothetical argument about mandatory DNA tests at birth, which I was for, and then she got offended when I said I would request one just to prevent any future concerns about paternity that could come up later.
If he was in jail for 17 years the child was almost an adult when he left. Meaning he probably never had the resources to try for a paternity test while he was in prison. She probably didn't sue for child support until he got out because she could still sue even if the child was an adult at that point.
The mother was hurting her daughter and embarrassing her even more. They both would rather fight with each other, then acknowledge the young lady’s feels 🤔😒😒😒
I think the daughter naming the grandson after him really hurt him. That's probably why he bought up the DNA test after so long. He feels betrayed by his daughter also.
If I the plaintiff I would, one humble myself, two apologize to my daughter and her mother, three forgive her the overpayment and four profess love to my daughter to reclaim her trust. Humility is power not weakness. It's human nature to recognize one's mistakes to learn from them and move forward. But if you are drunk with pride, you can't see the truth and accept it.
This whole case is a mess.. the mother is embarrassing and clearly hurt.. probably more than the daughter. Hopefully the daughter will heal and find peace because it should have been her expressing her feelings.
I mean I understand to a point why he questioned it because naming your child after your ex is diabolical. But where my sympathy can’t go is him waiting so long 23 years . I mean even if he couldn’t do the test while in jail he could’ve did it as soon as he got out if it bothered him so much . Just a mess .
The mother not making it no better with that attitude. I could tell she was just looking for a high roller when they were younger. Her attitude is fucked up !
i mean, he literally OVER paid so he wasnt completely inactive.. he shoulda questioned way sooner but he didnt neglect his responsibility. mom's a jokes. now what you got to say?
