I think it was disrespectful of Lori's lawyers to be talking while a victim impact statement was being read. She sat there slumped in her chair with no expression. She has caused so much damage.
I noticed that as well. My heart hurts for each family member, loved one and of coarse each person Lori, Chad and Alex murdered or played a part in. I grew up with a Mormon Mom and she is a monster too. She did evil things to me and others and told me constantly that I would never go to heaven because I am not Mormon among many other cruel things. I understand abuse all too well and it truly hurts to know what they did to the children as well as everybody. You learn somehow to cope with what you endure yet you never get over it. So many people think or say just get over it. Abuse comes in many forms and changes people forever. I agree with you. Her lawyers are disrespectful and what Lori said was as well.
@@catzskayour comment broke my heart. Don't you believe those things she told you, you are a child of God and very worthy of having a good life. How a mother could say things like that to her child I cannot fathom. I lost my young son a year ago due to carfentanyl in marijuana, he had just graduated eight years of college. I would do anything to have him back. I'm so sorry for these things that happened to you. You're in my prayers. God bless you honey.
@@JanSPriceman, I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter too (my only child) and I’m just trying to hold it together. I am praying for us all that have to deal with this extend of pain and grief. God bless you and your Family.
That poor kid, It breaks my heart when he said that he has lost is entire family. Colby I would be proud to have you as my family and will happily adopt you!! He has been through so much may God put a hedge of protection around him.
@@richardsenatore4903He didn’t have much of a relationship with Charles, though. And he knows who his biological father is. Y’all are gullible and it’s easy to grift off that, though.
same... it's like he's got to be filled with anger, hurt, love...and how do you cope with that when the person you love did the most evil thing? That's just too complicated and it's not like there's any instruction booklet on how to move on with those heavy emotions. People seem to only feel bad for those kids that were murdered but I feel even worse for the people Chad and Lori all affected...they got to live with those intense emotions.
Shame on the lawyers speaking to each other as the atty read Colby’s impact statement… AND could Lori even be bothered… despicable attitude😡 I’m so sorry Colby for all your losses! 🙏🏻
She is an evil soulless sadistic narcissist who is not crazy but instead makes up lies and fantasies to cover up her crimes. Narcissists NEVER admit they do anything wrong. She did to hurt the victims once again.
@eboston7591he's never had any contact with his birth father and the rumour is it was an abusive relationship. Even if he did, it was Charles Vallow who raised him and he saw as a father. He lost his father.
Those children were always accessories to Lori. Look how she used each one of them. Her brother, Alex, too. Any man she could use. Lots of anger there. Lori The Destroyer. Her sister Stacy claimed their father sexually abused her. It destroyed Stacy's life. Maybe it ruined Lori's too?
And yet he still said he prayed for her at the end. Maybe if people hadn't coddled her, enabled her, and justified her for so long, none of this would have ever happened. Chris Watts' family did the same thing. There is a line that's crossed when you murder innocent children. You don't forgive after that. You don't pray for the murderer's healing. His statement probably gave her the strength and happiness she needs to continue damaging other people. So many of these people are enabled into their worst evils.
Except her gutless, enabling son didn't have the balls to walk into the court to read it, and Lori wouldn't have listened anyway because she's crazier than he is.
Proud of Colby! That must have been heart -wrenching for him but his voice was heard for his brother and sister. Summer disappointed again, color me shocked!!
Yep, and at the end they heard, "I'm praying for your murderer to find peace." I'm sure they probably puked in heaven hearing it just like everyone else did. Child murderers = no enabling. No prayers. Nothing.
@@ko7577to be fair it’s a very tough situation, that’s still that man’s mother. Praying for peace in her life does more for his healing than it does for her. She does not deserve peace, but Colby deserves to move on and heal.
Beautifully said Colby, our deep and abiding respect for you, you’ve shown amazing strength, and compassion during this horrendous ordeal. May you now find some well deserved peace and happiness ❤
Who thinks to ever write this letter to their mother. Oh Lori, you destroyed so many lives to follow a man. Bless this young man and keep your siblings and father memories alive with your children 🙏
She doesn't deserve been call mother, she is a recarnation of the devil, that brought childrens to offer to Satan, meeting other son of satan,that with money and sex, descend in the lower part of diabolic, in jail he will cry to see how for sex,lost his soul ,family,foĺowets
I don’t know how you can carry on with such baggage. He is deserving of all our admiration. He doesn’t even sound resentful. I wish I could be more like him.
If someone kills innocent children, and they're not resentful of it, that's red flag to me right there. Might have inherited part of his mother's demonic, dead soul.
We love you Colby!!!! Been thinking about you non stop since the beginning. So much love to you & your beautiful family. I hope you get the peace that you deserve 🤍🤍🤍
...still can't believe she thought she'd actually get away with the injustices inflicted upon her family members. What a greedy, stupid, clueless blond black widow-plus! I'm almost sure lori now realizes she should have stayed with Charles. He seemed like a genuinely decent human being. My condolences to Colby...
She has no worries at all, she makes me sick, I still believe there was 5 people that they killed. She is evil to the core. Will she ever see her mistake and own up. NO!!!
Colby, I want you to know you have been heavy on my heart. I have family members that have done awful things and I know what it is to lose your entire family. Stay rooted in Christ, and know that you are so loved and supported by many who have never met you. ❤️
Based on what I have read about the Cox family, from present to Lori's past, there was and still is a lot of dysfunction, narcissism, and apathetic behavior that runs deep. According to others that have known the Cox family and Lori, this characteristic goes way back. Research and investigation into this family dynamic, likely being done now will reveal things that will answer questions.
Other victims of the Cox family. Stacey Cox, Joe Ryan, maybe even another of Lori's husbands, and Brandon. , Melanie's first husband. There might even be more victims that we don't know about. Well, there is her cousin Megan and Megan's family who had to watch Stacey die (murdered?). The Coxs eat their own too, for example, Stacey and Alex?
He's praying for his evil mother. The child killer. Doesn't sound like a sweet brother to me. I have a younger sibling and if god himself hurt them, I would turn my back forever, much less a mother or father. Enabling murder? Not sweet.
Oh Colby, my mom heart breaks. I am so sorry for your tremendous loss and suffering. Words are not adequate. My thoughts and prayers are with with you. You are a good man. Sending my heartfelt love and condolences.
her first born is one of the most victimized ppl of all in this situation. the prison calls alone...where she gaslights him at his most vulnerable. she's a monster and u can tell he's accepted the truth of the situation. the fact he is so brave and honest gives me lots of hope in his years of emotional recovery to come from all this
Lori's mother is the reason the family is shattered. She refuses to cut her loose and hold her accountable. Lori's is STILL manipulating and controlling this family, thru her mother 😡
The only ones that seem to have accepted and processed what happened are Colby and Adam. Summer kind of accepted because she can’t deny the reality at this point, but I remember she always asking Lory to explain because she wanted to understand, like if there was any logical explanation for this. Look like the mom and sister ate super codependent with Lori.
@@suekelley2109 just by the fact that she blames the new husband shows denial. Yes, Chad is really bad, but Lori’s downfall started earlier than that, she has some grandiose thing going on and that is why she ended pursuing loonie Chad. They are both equally responsible, her mom and sister had to accept it literally the day the kids were found, until then she couldn’t see anything wrong with her daughter’s actions and allowed Lori to alienate her from her own son and grandkids. Even now that she accepts Lori did it, she is still distant with Allan, he says they speak mundane subjects and the family doesn’t touch any of this situation with him, she should have realize by now that is the son she can trust and be working in repairing that relationship. Lori keeps being the golden child and maybe that is why the mother didn’t gave a victim statement.
@@lhr8833 I would imagine it’s very hard to except that your daughter killed your grandchildren. It’s human nature to look for a reason, and even the judge said, Lori seem to be a perfectly normal person, and a good mother, until she fell into Chad’s orbit.
Tip of the iceburg. She's a serial killer: Stacey Cox (sister 5/21/1998), Joseph Ryan (ex-husband/Tylee's dad 4/3/2018), Charles Vallow (husband 7/11/2019), Tylee Ryan (daughter 9/8/2019), JJ Vallow (adopted son 9/24/2019), Tammy Daybell (boyfriend Chad's wife 10/19/2019), Alex Cox (brother 12/12/2019) and 2 attempted murders: 10/2/2019 Tammy Daybell and 10/9/2019 Brandon Boudreaux (married at the time to Lori's niece Melani whose mother was Stacey Cox)
My heart and prayers are with Colby. This whole case has solely has been focused on the two monsters that took your lives away, but now I hope everyone can just remember Tylee , JJ , Tammy, and Charles. Just celebrate their beautiful lives. Now knowing that vile woman is never going to see the light of day again. That's worse than the death penalty. Everyday for the rest of her life, our lives move on , while she will begin to realize this is her fate. She can pray all she wants. Thou shal not kill. Also, this being such a high profile case, and now she has been sentenced, I hope they put her in gen pop with all the other prisoners that would love to teach her a lesson. She is the worst of the worst. 😡😡
Colby I'm so sorry for all u have had to deal with and the loss of ur sister tylie brother Joshua Jackson (jj) and ur dad Charles I'm sorry that ur kids will not have the chance to know their aunt and uncle n grandpa I know that u are well aware that God has wrapped his arms around them and will till u all take the journey n reach that garden n be together again I want u to know that I'm sending all my love from Scotland UK and may god bless u and ur family and also kay n Larry n everyone who has been hurt in this tragedy I know it won't be easy n will take time but I hope that u can find some sort of way to move on with ur family I wish u all the best all the luck I truly hope that u can find some sort of peace I also hope that some day u may even have a chance to spk with ur mum n that she takes all help offered to deal with her clear mental health issues I feel that she was led down this dark webbed path by Chad n am not trying to justify or make excuses for her n her actions I just feel very strongly that had he not entered her life this awful tragic n just evil act would never have happened I am truly sorry n again sending all my love ❤❤❤ god bless u all xcx
My heart goes out to Colby. My heart just sinks for Colby. God heal his heart somehow. Lori blasphemes God in the person of Jesus Christ, in the false claims she makes about Him. God will hold her accountable for blaspheming her and our creator.
Thank you for all your hard work prosecutors. This was a long time in coming and all of us are thankful that this monster of a woman is locked up. May Charles, Tammy, Tylee and JJ rest in peace. MayJJ grandparents heal from all of this. Now let’s go after Chad and Lori’s niece. I think a lot of people are outraged that she is not behind bars yet.
Hopefully with everything coming into the light now more people will be called forward to give an account and receive due punishment for their roles they played in all of this.
Losing family, and in such a horrific way at that, will unfortunately always leave that gaping hole. But I do hope for Colby’s sake he is able to build his own family with his wife and children and know his loved ones live on through him and the love he has for his own children ♥️
I warned alot of people about Chad and that everyone should be careful of him. But I got told I didn't know anything and wasn't spiritual enough to know who he was. Well who was right? So annoying.
These child killers and abusers do not deserve to breath the sweetest air that went through "those beautiful people" hearts. She is as evil and demented as they come.
I pray for you Coby the world loves you so much you now have a beautiful family you made and love you as you love them❤ I’m sorry for you deep pain heal now Peace and love ❤🫶🏻❤️
The fact that he did not go in person to "stand and deliver," shows that he may be in a very bad place, mentally. He had the chance to really pack a wallop - call Blondezilla out for firing that second shot into Charles, and for being present while Chin and Cox suffocated JJ - also call out freaky Mel G, Mel P and David W., saying that THEY knew all along what happened to the children, yet KEPT THEIR MOUTHS SHUT! Faced with these TRUTHS, he could have possibly brought Blondezilla to her knees. Instead, he had someone else deliver the statement for him, and at the end of the day, it made NO impact.
@@nenej12 Yes, and now with two children to pay child support for, unless he is willing to sign away his parental rights in return for not paying 18 years worth of support, he is going to have to be gainfully employed, the lack of which was a factor that broke up his marriage. This is why he needs his Uncle Adam to help him.
God bless this young man and I get your pain as it is personal experience I have been through. The only thing you can do is forgive if you havent and give your pain to the Lord . Otherwise it will eat you up .
Our Heart breaks for you Colby 💔 Stay strong for your adorable little girls and just know the world supports you and the loss you have endured at such a young age. We love you and May your Loved ones RIP ❤
Disrespectful and appalling, the audacity of this defense team. The court allowed that rambling lunatic to speak ITS nonsense that boy deserved the same! The judge should have ordered SILENCE!!!
I would be extremely thankful my children wouldn't know their psycho grandmother!!! She would have murdered them also, her own children didn't matter to her !
Colby is right! The victims of this crazy woman should be remembered! Now that Vallow has received 3 consecutive life sentences, she can rot in prison & be forgotten like the garbage she is!
I made it through my childhood with a narcissistic mother like Lori and my baby's father is still with his narcissistic mother like Lori....I was assertive and emotionally expressive with my mother putting her in her place and scaring her off and my baby's father is opposite and he is passive and emotionally suppressive and his mother's narcissistic abuse left him with serious mental health issues...he split from reality and split his personality like Norman Bates and the other personality is his mother....and his mother programmed him to injure and kill anyone who comes between her sick relationship with her son......so when he feels strong feelings for a woman the mother side comes out and attacks any woman he cares about.....his narcissistic mother targeted me and my baby for elimination just because we take away from her significance in his life....her son has strangled me and assaulted me sexually when he was acting as his narcissistic mother.....so there are still other versions of Lori Vallow out there in the world who need to be held accountable for their abuse and one of them is named Diana Symalla of Folsom, CA.
Colby you are so precious and I am 🙏🙏 for you and your precious family to be able to go on and continue with honor and dignity you stood up for the ones who lost their lives want a real man I would be proud for you being part of my family and God bless you your wife your children he still have a family , Colby and God is with you and your family and you have a life and happiness and blessings ahead of you non of this is on you and you deserve all the happiness and peace and comfort you are a real blessing and man and always remember people love you and condolences to you for your great losses but you will be together again one day and it will be forever don't let this take another live by letting it destroy your life when there's nothing you could have done different you stood up for every one of them in court in front of the whole world that takes courage and compassion and God bless y'all and comfort you in your grieving process and prayers always 🙏🙏 and you are so kind with a heart of gold and blessings to you and your precious family.
Her legal team disgust me, talking through the statement. Shame on them, but I suppose they have no shame if they're prepared to defend a thing like her.