Sister...Please Love Yourself...Sorry, but your husband is no longer mentally & emotionally with you anymore. You need to let him go and You need to be happy. You don't need a man in your life, if he doesn't love you anymore. 😢
Sister- it sounds like you love yr husband so much! But it doesnt sound like he wants to be w u anymore. If u love him that much ua ib siab cia nws mus raws nws txoj kev noauv suav. I think u will feel relieved knowing that u r not forcing him to stay against his will. Who knows, u might meet someone wonderful n u might regret not splitting up w yr hubby sooner. Good luck to u.
It saddens & frustrates me that our Hmong women don’t have the strength to leave these unfaithful men. Take care of yourself and your health! These men aren’t worth it especially when you’re diagnosed with cancer.
So sorry for your loss after 30 years of dedication and commitment to a man. It’s a loss because no matter how much you loved a man who doesn’t love you back, it’s a loss cause and not worth losing yourself over anymore. With your oath and promises, you both can go back to the same place and take back all your words and cut ties with each other in life and death in order to untie the oath you both made, that way you don’t have ties with him anymore, unless you don’t feel that way. Now it’s time to love yourself and yes take him on that offer to have a makeover! I wish you the best and hope you find your peace and healing.
Me niam hluas ua siab loj mog kuv tus ces ua222 kuv mob22 siab tam sim no kuv tso kev plhuav rau nws lawm kuv tsi mob li lawm os kuv rov hlub22 kuv tus kheej tia cas yav tas los kuv tsi hlub kuv li yav no mus kuv yuav tau hlub thiab tsi muaj tsawg xyoo nyob lawm no koj los hlub koj thiab mog tsi muaj leej twg hlub yus li yus rov hlub yus lawm os mog❤
Save your money, love, respect, and take care of yourself to yourself, sister. Better give all that to yourself!!! You are no longer love and care about you anymore!!! Get that through your head and divorce him and get everything you can away from him!! The longer you are with him and suffering you are going to die!!!
Ntshaw2 nyiaj ces hmoov tsis sawm, neej thiaj yuav tawg, los yog muaj mob. If you love him too much, just txaus siab kiag ua txhua yam kom koj tus txiv zoo siab. Yog hlub nws npaum li ko ces yog yam twg ua rau nws zoo siab ces koj txaus siab zoo siab nrog nws kiag xwb.
Couples that live a slpit up life will never last. Ua ntau ces sib nruaj xwb!!!! Khaws koj the nyiaj zoo zoo nawb thiab muab ntsev everything change....
Sister, your husband has jumped off the boat. There's no chance of reconciliation because a third-party has already entered the relationship. Take what you can while he's in love and don't pay attention to your assets. Don't wait till he leaves before you check your bank accounts because it may be too late.
Peb ib tsoom me poj niam hmoob aw txhob sib sib zog khwv os txiv neej hmoob ces zoo thaum pluag pluag xwb os yog muaj nyiaj lawm ces muaj muaj plus khav khav teeb koj tseem yuav tusg es kom lem tus tau koj lub neej niag hmoob xwb twb tsus txheeb ze yus yog nws hlub yus ces ib yam hlub nws xwb hos yog nws tsis hlub yus ces ua ib yam li nws ua rau yus xwb thaum uas nws kom koj mus kho koj ces nws twb tsis pom koj zoo rau nws thisb nws twb tsis hlub koj lawm os mog thaum nws tsis hlub koj ces koj txawm yuav muab nyiaj muab kub rau nws los tsis nqi li daim av peb nti li os ua neeg ib zaug xwb txhob tuag nawb nrog koj tu siab thisb nrog koj mob siab
Koj tus txiv liam no ces dab tuag tshaib, tuag nqhis thiab dab niam ntiav twb yuj tau nws tus ntsuj mus dua toj dua dawm lawm es nws lub ces lam nrog koj nyob xwb mas poj ruam aw. Txhob ruam2 kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej khaws tej nyiaj, tej kub kom zoo rau yus cov me nyuam xwb txhob muab ib lub penny nkim rau tus txiv dev no lawm.
Just let him go...your health and life matters more. Love yourself. You don't need him if u have everything already. He won't love u until you love yourself. That is look pretty and stay healthy for you. Men only cares about beauty and that is most men.
Tsam sim no ces koj yuav tau rov los ua zoo thiab hlub koj tus kheej lawm xwb. Yog koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj lawm ces kawg cia nws mus es koj thiaj tsis lwj2 siab
tus sister aw koj es tseem tsav tsheb 1 xuab moo tawm xwb kv es kv es kv tus txiv tsav tsheb khiav kv es tsis tos kv rau 1 txoj kev tsav tsheb 6-7 xuab moo kev los tseem yg tsaus ntuj thiab es kv nim ke tsav tsheb ke quaj twb tsis pom kev tsav tsheb tas tsho los nim ua tiag tsav 1 leeg los txog tsev es twb yuav kaj ntug es kv thiaj tu siab tsho rho nws tawm hauv kv lub siab os sister
Txhob tu siab os niam tai aw twb zes ze nw ntuj quaj lawm lau li ntawv lawm cov nyob sab no lawv lam ntxia nw tuam choj xwb cov niag txiv neej no tsi sawm zoo os kav tsij cia nw mu caum nw txoj kev mob mas nrog yus nyob yus tsi txawj tsim nw thiaj yuav nrhiav tu lo tsim xwb txhob nyuaj siab
Tsis nkag siab tias koj twb paub tias nws lub siab tsis ncaj lawm ua cas nws rov los dag xwb koj tseem mus haus ntshav tes nrog thiab thaum ub kuv tus txiv wb yeej npaj haus ntshav tes tabsi tom qab no nws ua siab tsis ncaj ces niaj hnub no txawm hais tuag los kuv yeej tsis kam haus li as
Cov niag txiv hmoob uas tsim22 txiaj mas thaum kawg yog txiv dev thiab txiv xyobtxhiaj. Sister, txojkev zoo li koj mas nyuaj22 kawg. Koj yeej yuam tsi tau nws lub siab nyob nrog koj li lawm. Txawm nws lub cev lam nrog koj nyob xwb los niag pojntxoog tim nplog twb muab yuj tau lawm ces muaj ib hnub nws yuav ua kom dim plaws ntawm yus li lawm. Kuv taug txojkev kom tau ob lub xyoos tas los no mas sab22 yus kawg nkaus. Txawm li ko los tuav twbywm. Muab koj tej khoom muaj nqis cia zoo, rau qhov nws twb pib zais siab zais nyiaj ntawm yus lawm nawb. Hnub twg zoo caij zoo nyoog lawm mas nws qhov kev yuav tawm tuaj, koj yeej yuav paub xwb22 li.
I feel sorry for u sister. Make sure u don't put him as the beneficiary on your life insurance policies and don't give him your assets. Change all your assets to your kids. Be smart.
Nej Sib nrug mus ua xas ces cov neej zoo khov kho tsawg2 tus xwb. Cov xas drugs ntawd tua, rhuav lub neej txojsia kom puas tsuaj. Koj tus txiv lub siab twb tsis nyob ntawm koj los ntev lawm. 30 yrs anniversary tsis muaj nqis rau nws ntxiv. Nws niaj hnub nyob dag koj tias tseem hlub koj xwb.
Remember in the hmong community hmong women always stay with their husband regardless of wealth and sickness but hmong men, the moment their wife gets sick, they already planning to jump ship that is why hmong sisters you always got to love yourself first. Lady you need to love yourself and divorcé him, your health is more important. I hope you come and listen to our advice.
Whatever happened to growing old together? Nowadays, everyone wants to be forever young. Why? The beauty of life is that we grow old and to look back and say, "Look at all I've accomplished." Instead, we're looking in the mirror, counting our gray hairs and wrinkles. Women, we find older men sexy because they're distinguished. Don't forget you become distinguished, too.
Cov mus xas mas yog tus txiv neej mus ces yuav tau muab sam mam cia mus, hos yog tus poj niam mus ces yuav tau muab ua khawv koob xauv los yog muab sam tib yam mam cia mus thiaj tsis mus ua phem
Your husband is acting that way because he no longer loves you. He has cheated and planning his future without you. You should start planning your future without him, it's sad but the truth is you'll only look forward to coming back to get him after you're gone.....because of the blood oath.
Lawv twb hais tías qub dev qub txhiab qub neeg qub siab nws twb tsis hlub koj es cas koj tseem CIA siab tias nws hlub koj no nas kav tsij hlub hlub koj tus kheej xwb os mog
Not to be mean but he does not love you or see you as a life partner. He disrespects you. He is with you because you put up with his treatment and excuses letting him get away with it. Let him go and in a few years he will submit his story about how wrong he was to let you slip away.
Tus niam tsev aw, koj niaj txiv ko ces dag li dag xwb os. Nws ua tsum ua zoo ko koj tsis txhob ceev faj xwb mas. Kuv paub zoo thiab nrog koj mob siab vim kuv twb raug li koj lawm.
Sister loved your self. Saved those money separated . He doesn't love you anymore don't you get it. You rather suffer and stay with him and he's been cheating behind your back of a smart way. Stop acting annoyingly for him. He doesn't want you in his life don't spend anymore money for his birthday or anniversary party. Leave him before you will get stroke. Believe me I've seen people like you at the end they ended up with a stroke. Think about lady you loved him more than he does. He doesn't cares about you anymore.
omg, this lady sounds like she have no clue at all to even think about doing that blood oath with the cheating hub. like the old saying once a cheater will always be a cheater.. can't teach an old dog new tricks.. hopefully you change everything to one of your trusted kids so he gets nothing from you. but dont be too hard on yourself. sometimes you need to get rid of an issue to have a better, healthy of you!
Cas nej pheej yuav hais tias yus zoo2 hais dab tsi los g dag yuav ua qhov zoo thiab hais lub quaj xwb quaj2 tau ab tsi no na. Thiab tseem yuav mus thov tus hluas nkauj kom luag tso koj tus txiv txhua2 yam teeb meem tshwm sim yog tim nej tus txiv xub mus thab luag xwb ne. Tib lo lus zoo xwb kuj ntxias tau nej ib txhia poj niam lub siab tseem haus ntshav tes li cov laus ruam2 thaum ub tej laus ua es mus cog lus rau dab xwb los niam tias cog lus rau txoj kev hlub no os....lawv g hlub nej lm os g tas nco tej lus cog ntawv g muaj nuj nqis lawm hlub yus tus kheej yog qhov zoo dua..😂😂
Sister, your husband is a narcissist and an emotional abuser. He is also a liar. He is no longer love you that is why he cheating on you. Men's words are all lies!!! Don't believe him!! You should just divorce him and move on. Take your promise with him back before if karma take him he is going to take you. Never maje promises with anyone!!
No. This lady’s problem is that she is not strong enough to see that he was over her long time ago! She’s too blind to see that she’s now only hanging onto the past! 😐
what im saying is....its always hard to let go of a first love even when the unique and perfect, with an emphasis on togetherness, sharing, and communication towards one another or feedback of such feeling from partner have died....first love are strong permanent emotions that stick with us, good or bad, they never die in a sense and its false hope that she is holding on to dear life because from beginning nothing was wrong and prospering, which is the root of false hope, hoping he can be back to normal, but its a little too late to have that kinda hope when his affection for her are slim to none.
Is it me or I feel like this world is really going crazy for love overseas the young the old everybody is just falling for love there 😟 like they no longer care for there families kids etc… what is this world becoming
Your husband’s heart is not with you anymore. You can’t blame anyone but yourself for this. When a couple is separated, one or both will F around. We all have needs and sooner or later that needs will surface when we’re away from our partner. Make sure you’re willing to go all in when separated with your spouse to make money.
Nim yuav yog neb lub neej zoo zoo es lwm tus xav los rhuav os. Tim koj niag txiv dev Liam xav xav mus noj yam tshiab sab nrauv xwb Sav. Ua neej ces yeej muaj hnub tshav hnub tsaus sav.
He doesn’t love you anymore. Why plan an anniversary party to mask a loveless marriage? You don’t need to show or pretend that your marriage is perfect. Be honest.
Koj tsis tas yuav get ready rau koj lub party tseg koj tej nyiaj .qhia koj paub tias yog tham tham hluas nkauj thoa. Deev hluas laem ces luag yeej tsis hlub koj lawm nawb.
Kuv tus txiv yuav Niam yau 3months before our 40th anniversary in Laos. It broke my heart ❤️he promised to love me forever but as time passed he’s changed
@@evabhmongocadventure9831 You have your reasons for staying in that relationship but if I was in that situation, I'd leave and maybe find a new man. But maybe your husband still loves you enough for you to stay. Hope it's all good for the most part for you.
hahaha tej niag cog lus haus ntshav tes ko ces nws tsis ntshai li od cog lus rau ntuj 6 av kom tuag kiag los neeg dev aub siab ces yuav ua ua kom tuag kiag mus thawj dua thiab los qub aub qub ntsws qub dev qub siab tuag pes tsawg tiam los yuav rov ua dua od mog.
Your dev yog ib niag cheater, nws tsis hlub koj lawm. Me viv ncaus aw tsis hlub yus los kavliam os mog TAKE CARE KOJ TUS KHEEJ XWB , nws tsis hlub koj lawm los TSUAV KOJ TSEEM CIAJSIA ES KOJ TSEEM UA LUB NEEJ TAUG KEV HAUV NTIAJ TEB NO XWB ZOO DUA neb ob leeg tuag lawm os mog. Kuv mas ntshaw2 kom kuv tus txiv tsis hlub kuv es TSUAV NWS MUS UA LUB NEEJ TAUG KEV HAUV NTIAJ TEB XWB CES KUV ZOO2 SIAB DUA TXOJ KEV TUAG OS MOG. Txhob tu2 siab os mog.
Ntuj os ntuj es...tus me niam tsev thaum koj tus txiv tag siab hlub koj lawm muab nws tso mus koj tsi txhob khuv xim nws ntxiv lawm koj khuam nws cia nws xeeb txob xwb yuav tsum hlub koj tus kheej thiab vim koj tsi hlub koj ne...tos nws saib koj qe qe na..hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej txhob hlub koj niag txiv dev liam ko ma.
I just wasted 41 minutes listening to this story that has no meaning. To answer that lady's question....was 30 years of marriage worth it? No, it wasn't! You just wasted 30 yrs with him and sounds like you're gonna waste even more years with him until your last breath. My advice to you is leave him and just live a peaceful life with your children and grandkids!
Sister never believed ur husband…..When they design to make so many’s Facebook account because he’s cheated men. You have to love yourself and care about yourself rather than choosing someone is hurting you.
These women sound so pathetic. No wonder their dudes get bored of them. I would, too. They sound like they have no backbones, no brains, no self respect, no life other than them old cheaters. Of course, thaub yuav ua cas nrog koj zoo siab txog ua party 30 years anniversary naw. Thaub laus yuav koj vim thaum i koj mos ab, tsam no koj pog laus tag, ntsws tag, tawv nrwg tag, 30 xyoo thaub dhuav koj tag thaub twb nrhiav tau niam mos ab tshiab hloov koj chaw lawm es koj tej party 30 xyoo thaub cas xav tshwm ntsej muag koj tej nyuag saw kub 20 npaj nim yuav xauv tau thaub taub hau qau nrog koj nyob naw. Saw hlau luaj caj dab twb xauv tsis tau na.
