Daughters are not automatically the “best”. Sons are also not automatically the best either. Son or daughter, doesn’t matter. The one that will love you will love you. The one that don’t just won’t. You can have a son who loves you very much til old age, or a son that sends you to old folks home. You can also have a daughter that loves you and have you live with them, or some that never come visit you, not even on your deathbed.
Jenny, it's 2023, the Hmong community (especially the older & uninformed generations) needs to know that it's the man's sperm (kab menyuam), NOT the woman's egg, that determines a boy or a girl fetus! Hmong men NEED TO STOP BLAMING THE WIFE WHEN THERE'S NO SON! A woman's egg ONLY carries the X Chromosome, whereas the man's sperm carries either an X or a Y Chromosome! If an X Chromosome sperm reaches the egg first and fertilizes the egg, then the fetus will be a GIRL (XX). If a Y Chromosome sperm fertilizes the egg first, then the fetus will be a boy (XY). NO ONE is to be blamed, it's just random!
I know how you feel. My first 4 kids were girls & my husband did treat me bad but didn’t married another one. But I got really blessed with a boy. I still wished I had another boy but I’m old now so that won’t happen. Glad your happy now.
Koj zoo siab kawg uas kom tau ntsej tau muag los ntawm koj ntxhais pab koj zoo siab os mog. Tab sis koj twb tsis paub txog hais tias koj tau zoo kawg tab sis ntshe niam pog txiv yawg twb tsis tau kev hlub los ntawm lawv ntshe lawv twb tu siab npaum li cas os me koj niam aw.
tiam no cov ntxhai hlub niam txiv zog cov tub vim cov tub yuav mus hlub niam tai yawm txiv lawv thiab txawm tub ntxhai los yeej zoo ib yam yug tau lawv txawm yog tub yog ntxhai los yuav tau hlub kom sib npaug tsis txhob hlub ib tug tseg ib tug lis ib txhia tib neeg
kuv muaj 3 tug tub 1 tug ntxhais xwb kuv twb tu tu siab tias cas kuv tsis muaj ntxhais coob no os tus sister aww nrog koj zoo siab rau koj pab ntxhais os.
Nyob rau teb chaws USA no mas cov ntxhais vauv yog cov hlub niam tais yawm txiv dua li cov tub nyab hlub niam pog txiv yawg lawm ntau npaug. You do not blame your husband because he really wants to have a boy to keep his last name forever after you two pass away.
I have 2 moms and our parents never teach us to hate each other or the other mom. The 2 moms have 7 daughters each n we all get along n help each other out when it's needed. When we plan something, it's usually us girls who plan, and the sons follow. The son never say "hey their bday is coming up lets plan something." It's always us girls who initiate it first. Our brothers also know that even though we are the daughters, they see that we love our parents more, and we do stuff more for them also even if we get married n have our own little family n the sons get married n have their own little family , our love for our parents are still more than theirs!!! So it really doesn't matter if you have sons or daughters. If they love you, they will love you!!!!
Wow…respect to your two moms. Both moms respected each other and taught all you children to respect one another. Tu siab tshaj tias Kuv niam kiag los nws yug tau peb 5 leeg xwb thiab muaj peb niam loj ib tug tub xwb los nws txw peb sib ntxub tag li. Nws Yog niam los nws tseem ntxub peb tasnrho tsuas yog tus hlob hlo es nws thiaj hlub thiab nrog ua ib nqag ib nqag muaj peb si do. Tiam sis Kuv niam twb tuag lawm os.
Txhob tu2 siab rau yus pab me ntxhais os. Nco ntsoov tias lwm hnub koj pab me ntxhais yuav mus coj 7 leej tub los hlub neb es yuav chim siab ua dab tsi no. Yug tub ces lwm hnub tej nyab yuav coj yus me tub mus ua nyab lawm xwb.😂😂😂
Cov txiv neej uas pheej saib tsis taus yog tus ntxhais ua pheej niaj hnub niaj hmo mus ntswb pim tom tej dab tsi thiab txhua tus pojniam tom tej puav leej yog pim thiab xwb Nev cas ho tsis mus ntshiav txiv neej los yug menyuam saib txiv neej puas ntsub tau menyusm tawm ntawm lawv tus qau los cas ho mus ntswb pim thiab xwb
Son or daughter doesn’t matter. Only thaum mus ua dab lawm tsis muaj Tub los hu niam, Txiv los noj tsiab no xwb. Tej no ces tsuas yog neeg hais xwb os yom. Xyov puas nco qab lawm os yom.
Yog txiv neej phem npaum li ko ces yug tau pes tsawg tus ntxhsis tawn los ces muab tua kom tag es tseg tub xwb. Seb ib tsoom txiv neej ho yuav nriav poj niam yuav tau li CAs. Thiab tsis tas li ntawv tus txiv neej ko ntxub ntxhais npaum li ko lawm ua cas ho mus ua hluas nraug nriav raws poj niam thiab ma. Cas yuav hais tau ntshav siab ua luaj. Kuv tuas hais rau cov txiv neej uas tsis nyiam ntxais xwb nawb.
Yug tau tub thiab ntxhais los yog tim tus txiv xwb nawb vim tus txiv yog tus muaj kab me nyuam poj niam yog lub tais cug dej xwb peb hmoob ruam tsis muaj kev kawm pheej muab liam rau poj niam tsis muaj tub...
Cov OG ua pheej tsis xav yuav ntxhais tiamsim hos paub mus yuav pojniam... Xav kom nej mus yuav txiv neej thiaj li tau tub nawb.. Koj niag thaub ruam siab phem kawg tsis tsim nyog cov ntxhais hlub li
Txoj kev ruam uas liam poj niam yug tsis tau tub tseem muaj niaj hnub no thiab. Kuj yog Dr hais tias kab minyuam tub, minyuam ntxhais yog txiv neej tso los tabsis Kuv kuj tsis to taub tias cas peb hmoob muab tshuaj tub tshuaj ntxhais es ho tsis muab rau Tus txiv haus, ho yog muab rau Tus poj niam hais es Tej thaum muab tshuaj tub ho tau tub thiab? Lmao!
Sis Jenny, I’m Looking forward to celebrate with u when u hit 100k subscribers! U have such a good heart to shout out other RU-vidrs channel, vs some famous, greediness RU-vidrs that can’t even “shout out” their own family members channels even though they begged with gifts.
