I've listened to this story 3 times. My eyes are filled with tears always. I miss my mother very very so much because my mother loved us the same as this story. I was the one to changed and bathed her. One time I went to teacher/parents conference and took awhile because there were too many parents, and, when I came home, my mother said hurry to change her because he butt is very irritating and sore. The poop already dried and her butt was all red and swollen. I cried so much. My sister was home and my mother asked her to change her but my sister said she was still busy. Xav txog kuv niam lub neej txom nyem thaum twg ces hlub hlub kuv niam, mob mob kuv lub siab tias kuv twb hlub kuv niam tsis tau txaus.
What a sad but beautiful story. God bless you for taking care of her until her passing. A mothers love is greater than all. She sacrificed herself to support and love you guys throughout. Had me crying at the end.
Ua tsaug rau koj os tus kwv tij. Koj hlub koj niam Sawv cev peb cov tsis tau hlub peb niam. Txoj kev ua neej mus raws txoj hmoo ib nrab, ib nrab ces Yog yus. Cov tau tus poj niam siab tsis loj ces tej laus nrog yus nyob tsis taus. Yuav ua li yus xav kiag los lub neej yuav puas tiag, tsis ua los twb tsis tsim nyog cov laus txoj kev hlub yus. Xav mas tu siab kawg. Mloog koj zaj no ces kuv siab Quaker dhi txog kuv niam tus ncaim kuv mus tau 9 xyoo thiab ob hlis lawm. Koj twb hlub koj niam pauj peb lawm ces zoo siab mog.
You will be blessed with many wonderful things in life for taking care of your mom. Wished we have more hmong brothers like you. A love from a son to a mother is hard to find thank you
Niam Ntsuab Teev, niag tsov tom, cas txawj hais tej txoj neej neeg tu siab ua luaj. Peb quaj quaj qhov muag dig tas lawm os. Tsis mloog los xav xav mloog. Mloog los mob lub siab ua luaj
I didn’t cry until the butterfly. It made me think and missed my own mother. At her funeral, I was able to prepare and pack a last meal for her and I wondered on her road trip back in the other world, did she know that was my meal? I think if this often because I cant cook for her anymore. I ask every Nyab especially married to Hmong men. We are very valuable to our own parents and we know how much love we show them. But to parents like these especially the ones that don’t have daughters. Don’t forget them and expand your light and love to them too. Remember that in their good years how much they contributed to your life to get you where you and your husband is at. Don’t Have them leave this earth in bitterness or regret when they see you love your parents more than them. ❤
What a beautiful and sad story! Such an amazing and brave woman to live a life full of struggles but never let her kids see. May her soul Rest In Peace!❤
What a wonderful display of the power of Love. It can really get us through the hard and desperate times. Keep in mind that there are many different forms of love, and the human mind may never fully encapsulates all of its capacity. But, when we lean its essence at a young age, our lives are enriched, full of wonders, and really takes us to a higher level of living. I'm very happy for you brother that you found real love, and I assure you that you are the few lucky ones. Your mom is a very wonderful and loving person in which you have everything to thank for. Take what you have leaned and apply it to everything you encounter.
This is a sad story. Thiab luag ib txwm tias tsuas muaj leej niam thiaj hlub taus tej minyuam xwb tabsis yeej muaj ib co minyuam hlub niam thiab txiv thiab es Nrog Tu siab mog. Qhov zoo nej cov mi tub kuj hlub2 koj niam thiab . Nej niam hlub nej tshaj plaws koj niam txoj sia es nws thiaj nyoog nyob laus nkoos hlub nej, zov nej tsis Mus ua neej. Koj yeej ua tau zoo lawm mog
Tij laug kj hais tau tu siab heev li os tzoj kev tu ib tug laus mas yog tzoj kev nyuaj tshaj li os tus neeg tsis tau tu mas kj hais mas luag tias li ntawv xwb no tab sis yus tus tu mas yeej yog ib txoj hauj lwm nyuaj kawg tab sis yog yus niam lawm es yus ua rau yus niam xwb kj ua tau zoo heev li os kv twb tu kv niam ib yam kj thiab yus ua tag rau yus niam lawm nws mus lawm yog yus nco nco xwb yus tsis muaj qhov khuam siab tias yus tsis tau ua zoo rau nws no os mog kj yeej hlub kj niam txaus lawm os mog
Tu me txiv ntxawm aw koj yog ib leeg tub siab zoo tshaj li. Tsuj tsawg thiaj muaj ib tug tub siab zoo2 es hlub2 leej niam li koj os. Tsim nyog koj niam hlub2 nej kawg nyob rau tiam no. Koj lub siab zoo2 es thov kom koj tau txais txoj hmoo zoo nawb mog.
Your mom's a loving mother who sacrificed so much for her children ❤️. Your story touches my heart as I lost my mom at the age of 4 and my stepmom abused us kids. Only few moms stayed single for her children's sake. You are a good son and chose to take a leave from your job to care for her. Bless your heart ❤️ 💙 💜 💖
A very loveless and touching story. It's sad that some parents played favoritism and there are some who is like this sister. Brother you did right for caring for your mother. You understand your mother's reasoning for choosing you and your brothers over her happiness and comfort and pleasure of flesh. You valued and appreciated the sacrifices your mother made for you guy's. Unfortunately your brothers and their wive's doesn't shared your love for your mother. Your wife tho she tried but she still only do a hlf ass job because its not her mother. She'll do for her mother but not her mother in law. Such is life
Listening to this got me crying. My mom was on home hospice care for only 2 months. I lived with her and took care of her. I miss my mom very much. I still want to take care of my mom 😭
Brother, thank you for not abandoning your mother. There is no love greater than a mother's. May she RIP and you forever reap the good karma your mother left you.
My aunty have 7 boys none of the boys or daughter in laws able to loved my aunt when she passed away none of the son have nothing good to say about their mom very sad their mom left them with no blessing she took her blessing with her. Daughters will always their moms. Loves your daughters
Peb ntxhob tu siab tias nyab tsis hlub peb niam mog ib tsoom kwv tij ho xav tias peb twb hlub tsis tau lawv txiv li lawv lub siab thiab mog es lawv hlub tau li cas los nyob txij lawv os .vim lawv niam los yus tsuas hlub tau li yus hlub xwb. Es yus niam ces yus hlub yus os es ntxhob tu siab rau lwm tus mog.
You hero mother deserves love from your . Ua tsaug your mentioned how much value love from daughter and sister if you don't have once .3 1 tsoom women hmong mloog tus me niam tsev no zaj tas saib peb cov ntxhais kom muaj nuj nqes txhob xav tias ntxhais g muaj nuj nqes li tub
Wow, I love you brother. From listening to your story, you're a very loving person with lots of patience. Koj yog 1 tug tub uas muaj txoj kev hlub loj heev 6 koj leej niam. Kuv thov qhuas koj thiab thov kom koj tau koj niam tej koob hmoo li nws hais tseg nawb mog. Ntseeg tau tias koj yuav yog tus nws hlub tshaj ntawm nej 3 kwv tij vim koj yog tus take care nws txog hnub nws ncaim nej sawv daws mus lawm. Seb koj 2 tug kwv tij twb g pom koj niam txoj sia ne. Qhov nov twb qhia tau tias nws hlub koj heev.
You did a better job of taking care of my mom. My brothers and I did not care and love her as much as you did. I can understand how yours and my mom loved their children the same. My dad left us kids since I was 6 months old and my mom never remarried just like your mom except she passed away not from old age but cancer. When she died she was suffering of pains and could not said a words or tear. It was so sad to see her slowly dying on her bed. She was all bones. I still miss her until today and by listening to your story bro, even making me miss her more with tears. May your mom and mines rest in peace. I could understand how you feel bro about missing the mom that had loved and passed in our life.
Muaj ib txhia me nyuam ces niam txiv tuag tag mas lawv paub nco niam txiv hos muaj ib txhia me nyuam ces lawv tseem zoo siab niam txiv tuag tag es lawv thiaj free
Hais rau cov nyab khibnyuab ko…nej ne tsis txawj nplig tsis txawj qias tiamsim nco ntsoov tias txog nej txib ces nej yeej yuav tu siab rau nej tus kheej tias yog tim nej vim nej tsis txawj hlub thiab pab tu cov laus es nej cov thiaj tsis txawj hlub thiab tu nej rau yav laus nawb. Nej yuavtsum hlub hlub cov laus tiag tiag nej thiaj tau koobmoov thaum kawg. Yog tias nej xav tau / ntshaw cov laus li pob nyiaj xwb ces txhais tau tias nej yog siab nntxwgnyoog uas tsis paub hlub leejtws hlo li os. Yog nej hlub cov laus ces nej mam yuav tau luag tub. Tiamsis yog nej hlub tsis tau cov laus ces nej yuav tsis tau luag tub hlo li nawb.
Koj niam twb tau koj txoj kev hlub lawm nws tsis tu siab rau koj lawm txawm yug tau ib co ntxhaig los yog tsis txawj xav ces twb tsis tau kev hlub li ntshaw thiab os koj twb ua tau zoo lawm os
Exactly, he is not there to take care of her dad everyday as he expects his wife to do for his mom. In some cases, the mother in law may love her own blood children but treats outsider poorly.
Lub Ntuj tsi Yog lub nyob saud os. Lub Ntuj uas nyob saud Ntuj los Peb hu Ua Lub Ntuj Tabsis Peb Hmoob tsi pom thiab paub tsi txog vim tsi muaj Leej twg qhia rau nej lossis Peb. Tabsis Hnub no Kuv qhia rau nej lossis Peb Sawv daws paub has tias lub Ntuj muaj ob lub nawb mog. . Lub Ntuj thib ib Yog lub uas nyob saud Ntuj uas Peb qhov Muag pom tau thiab paub tias Yog lub Ntuj . Lub Ntuj thib ob Yog lub uas Peb qhov Muag tsi pom thiab xav tsi txog tsi paub rau qhov tseeb, Tabsis Yog qhov tseeb2
Zaj neej neeg no ua rau kuv mob siab thiab tu siab tshaj. Ua rau kuv rov qab nco kuv niam pog. Kuv niam pog wb mas sib hlub tshaj plawb. I will never understand those kind of nyab that they only love their mother and not their husband's mother. I know nland understand that not everyone is a good mother in law or daughter in law. I was so lucky my mother in law was the most gentle and loving mother in law.
