Lying About a Vasectomy 

Might be nerves. I know I laugh whenever I’m in an uncomfortable situation or conversation.

Exactly...

Or on drugs

And or nervous…

Not in court about whether the child is his or not

Once a woman says that that can never be taken back. She thinks the sh*t is funny and none of this is funny.

Ummm. He denied the baby first by saying he had had a vasectomy

@@hadley407 I never said he wasn't wrong. . I've just seen way too many women throw that phrase around loosely.

@@hadley407 doesn’t matter. The moment the woman says it isn’t his all bets are off. He doesn’t know who she has been with and she has to carry the child not him. Burden of proof is on her. Btw he is also an idiot for saying that.

@@jamescash887 very well put. 👌

Yeeessss, be careful of what you say out of anger, you can say you’re sorry but you can’t take it back. Once it’s said, it can’t be unsaid.

@Kea B Exactly. My grandfather used to tell his children and grandchildren that words can/do hurt the wrong words can separate people, communities & family. Even "The Bible"(for those of us who believe) let's us know this in scriptures like Proverbs 11:13 & 11:17, 15:1 & 15:4, 16:28. I'm sure we all have had experiences that proves God & my grandpa are so right. Words can definitely hurt & separate. Lol. Blessings to you & yours, dear. 😊🙏

@@traciemartin3785 I love that you you reffered to the Father. I wish more people believed.

@@citygirlingraham My Father, Who Is Still Alive, Use To Say When I Was a Kid , Never Say , “ I Hate You”; Because You Can NEVER Take That Back .

Once, You ring that bell, you can never unring it.. -Judge Lake

Yeah he do

And let’s not forget he’s handsome

@@Virgolady1993 yes he is

@@Virgolady1993 Yaaaaaas!

I am..

Agreed!

You’re right. I’ve been tremendously hurt by loved ones, one in particular, saying things to me out of anger. It’s deeply hurtful and makes me look at that person very differently. I feel like we can never go back to how things used to be. They will say ANY and EVERYTHING out of anger to me when they cannot control their emotions so you are absolutely correct in your statement. I also experienced this in my childhood. They claim words do not hurt but they effect even worse at times. People need to realize this and do away with those who don’t mean anything to them instead of verbally lashing at them. They almost always regret it later on.

There's nothing wrong with speaking out of anger. The problem is that she LIED because she was angry. Those two are not the same thing. Anger is a natural human emotion that should be expressed in healthy ways.

Well "we", more like some people.

Tell that to the females

preach!

Right!

That Child Does Not Need To Know Any Of This Foolishness Or Needs An Apology.

I Know right??? Judge Lauren Lake with the dramatics, then huge pause, or commercial, before the DNA announcements!

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I'm kmsl🤣🤣🤣

Yeah, she even called him insecure after the other guy said she was his. This man is bound to her now by a child, but I don’t see any good coming from that.

@@timboslice9905 exactly!! How she gonna call him insecure after her dude got a phone call from another man that's claiming her too? She played that man on top of claiming he wasn't the dad smh. She's reckless and don't deserve a good man as he comes across to be.

Touché

Right?

Nah, she seems like a sweet, innocent girl. She should ditch her "friend" though.

He's NOT FINANCIALLY SUPPORTING HER/THEIR SON.. PLEASE DO NOT SAY... BEING AROUND THE CHILD IS ENOUGH, AND THAT MONEY ISN'T IMPORTANT... EMOTIONAL SUPPORT, BEING ACTIVELY PHYSICALLY PRESENCE, AND FINANCES ARE ALL REQUIRED TO PROPERLY HELP PARENT/CO-PARENT CHILDREN.. IT'S SAD THAT WE HAVE APPLAUD & SAY.. " YOU BETTER BE GLAD THE (BLACK) FATHER WANTS TO BE AROUND" 🙄🙄. I'M NOT PRAISING A FISH, FOR KNOWING HOW TO SWIM.. NONE OF US ASKED TO BE HERE....CHILDREN LITERALLY COME FROM OUR LOINS, WOMB, FLESH AND BLOOD.. IT SHOULD ABSOLUTELY BE EXPECTED & OVERSTOOD... THAT THE FATHER/ MOTHER.. IS TO BE THERE TO SUPPORT (IN EVERY WAY) AND RAISE THE HUMAN WHO LITERALLY CAME FROM THEIR BODIES. PEOPLE TREAT IT LIKE IT'S AND OPTION.. WHEN IT'S NOT. I CAN'T STAND A DEADBEAT MALE/FEMALE..

@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 💯

@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 Whewww u said a word here 👏🏾

Exactly!

Because she was already playing games and like he said he already thought she was with the so called friend. Alot of people might of did that to see what she say . But like he said he told her after he didn't

Exactly

He was saying that to test her to see if his suspicions were valid, she just said that to spite him. If she knew the vasectomy talk was bs the right response should’ve been that’s impossible because you’re the only man I’ve ever been with.

He explained why very well! Y’all hate accountability smh

You think?I felt he was stumbling and bumbling trying get his lies out...maybe he can rap or sweet talk better 😀😵

Yeah he really came across like the real deal but he lied about having a vasectomy. I hope that he really is the kind of Father that he claims to be.

Now? That ain’t new

He didn’t lie to trap her. He lied to trick her into telling on herself if she was sleeping with other men. When they had sex, she didn’t think he’d had a vasectomy. That came after.

So you didn’t understand nothing hub

@@timboslice9905 so he played himself 🤷🏾‍♀️ If I'm with a man n only him and he has the nerve to say he got clipped wen ik it's a lie Imma play right along and see how that lie holds up. Play stupid games win stupid prizes and that's exactly what he did.

@@zasmonroe3579 I don’t know. I say everybody needs to just be upfront. But he definitely didn’t help his situation. They both were clowning. All I was explaining was that he wasn’t trying to trap her with a baby. He could have easily just used a condom.

I was WEAK!!!😜😂😂🤣🤣

Did you look at the plaintiff?? He could barely hold it together. Both of them were looking stupid at each other.😂

I’m sure they are out there but they just keep getting overlooked.

Right lol

There are actually a lot of good men out there. The reality is that a lot of women (not all) are attracted to the “bad guy”. I’ve literally been told I was TOO NICE, several times actually, but it was because those particular women didn’t know how to accept a man that worked a legitimate job, opened doors for them, listened and interacted with them during conversation, and didn’t disrespect them in the heat of an argument. Women (most in my experiences) say they want a good man but it seems they mean they really want a guy that’s no good in hopes they can mold him into the guy she thinks he should be.

@@mikemiketrill Exactly, most women want a challenge and they don’t feel that they can get it from a guy who’s already established and grounded in his principles meaning he can’t be controlled or manipulated.

I just like to state that I have one of those good men in my life and we love each other very much and be treats my son like his own

I was trying to figure out why there wasn't any yelling for tht😒

Same

Sometimes JM rubs me the wrong way when he takes such a dislike for the plaintiff or defendant...I mean darn....

Right almost made me be petty and unsubscribe 🤦🏽‍♀️

The plaintiff already had suspicions and wanted to hear if her story would change, I don't see anything wrong with that.

LOL!!!

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You really proud of that…

@@TTHeavensent More like sharing my experience, since it's related to the topic here. Pride has no dimension in it. Keep up!

Right.

Well she shouldn’t have told him he wasn’t the father and juggling 2 dudes lol I’m not mad at em.

@@SD-gf1qg clearly they were both wrong goof ball but y’all only angry at one of them. The woman. Typical.

I was confused too lol I said homie got two movies mixed up

I was wondering!

It was Menace 2 Society...remember Cain was laying on the bed, ILina called told him she was pregnant and his response was 'what u telling me for, it ain't mine, I had the jimmy on extra tight...then her cuzzin came looking for Cain and caught a beatdown...which eventually lead to Cain nem getting shot up...you must not be a Menace 2 Society fan lol #CLASSICMOVIE

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@@nochtizzle7 that’s true when he said it I immediately thought about that part

Sometimes you got to laugh to keep from crying

@@TyBritt1829 exactly I do that sometimes

RIGHT!

Exactly

Cuz she loves him. Duh!!!!!

@UCMxZaGxxTuSSSq-a__5EZNA I wasn’t going to go there. But boy was I thinking it.

My thoughts exactly but he looks kinda homeless and like he doesn’t work

I think she sleeping with her so called friend and really want him

Small member maybe

She said he didn't take care of his child financially and he never even denied it at all he just left it like it was true so I guess it is. So he may not be the so called perfect man. All men have at least one flaw in them but he is respectful, wants to be there with the child and make it work with the mother of his child and he speaks very well and lastly he is good looking but every man has a flaw somewhere in themselves as do all women. But when you find that someone that you fall in love with , that person becomes that perfect somebody to you and for you. I was shocked at how consistent he was on being with her after everything when in fact he could get anyone he wanted.

So true...

I disagree. I think she cares for him, but if another man told him she’s mine and she’ll always be mine, and she won’t let that man go, that’s not love. It would be the same from the other side.

Good people don’t tell other men they’re not the father when they know they are.

@@calebdouglas7622 you are absolutely right and that's exactly what I said. Thanks for reiterating for me 😁

@@timboslice9905 he didn't say she'll always be mine... he said , "she's my B and she will always be my B". depending on the context, B could be the term used for really close friend. we definitely needed to explore that more. women &gay males often use B as a term of endearment like the some use the N word as a term of endearment. A boyfriend that feels you shouldn't have a close male friend would not understand this at all. and also in court it sounds better and makes you look better if you just give that convo and not say HOW it was expressed. especially when the other person was basically drunk. I can see how this would piss a man off though.

She knew it was a lie. He kept saying otherwise.

Thank you

Girl You R E A D Her In👉 2.5 Seconds!! 😂.... I Luv It!😎

Yes, she would have said "then your vasectomy didn't work because you are the father".

She never admitted to sleeping with anyone else though. Even he said that. Plus he said after he told the lie, he was at all the appointments so she had to have known right away he was lying.

A parent should never make such comments about their child,especially out of spite

@@peacheskong2245 he denied the child first soooooooooo

Seems like he was in a bad mood

@@val3sha I will never tell a man that, but by the way, all my children have the same father! Foolish game!

@@val3sha HE SHOULD HAVE DENIED IT. DID YOU NOT HERE THE STORY????

Man JM is very fair!! He rarely reprimands women!

@@kingjai8609 He is not always fair.

Well, medically you can get pregnant after two hours, however, you wouldn’t know it within that timeframe.

@@deejai1173 nah you get pregnant after 3 days the process of fertilization takes 3 days

It takes 24hrs for the sperm cell to fertilize the egg

@@jessicahonorat5970 24hrs

But sperm can live inside ur body for up to 7 days

Why making babies with a no wife material in the firt place? And there no place for hope when a baby is involved. You get DNA and make SURE in is not yours before disapearing leaving possibilities all around🤷🏿‍♀️

He was playing games too. They both were being childish about bringing a child into the world together.

Well wen u do clownery the clown comes back to bite he was being petty first so don't get mad wen the other person gets petty right back.

Preach

Well said 👌 👏

lmfao so fragile

Sounds controlling but go off 🤦🏾‍♀️

@@Longpipejang you sound dumb considering that I'm married and my kids have a two parent household that's happy. The fact that u think that being financially responsible means you can set rules. As a married couple or any relationship you both have to come together and set the rules not one or the other. But I see you don't understand that that's why you will never have real love only someone who puts up with you for your money and probably plotting on how to play you out your money your not considered husband material you are a trick that's y u attract low self esteem girls no woman who respects herself would let a man run her life just because he has money. If you like being a trick then just say that sir.

Then she should’ve never said that he wasn’t the father.

i think if the best friend says she is my B, then its done, you have to choose for all our sakes

Or all three could have a conversation like adults and establish boundaries within their relationship and friendship.

Sometimes there's a friend that has a cross vibe with the boyfriend or girlfriend. Why maintain that type of tension in the relationship. If your man is your man or woman and you trust and see a future with him/her then one may have to cut ties or loosen them. It's the cycle of life in friendships. Every friend may not be a good friend once you fall in love with another. Choose wisely, pragmatically and sincerely. This guy is a keeper. I've been burned by BFF male friends once I've fallen in love.

Y’all females never hold other females accountable …. That’s wild

She was trifling to play the kid wasn't his, that's when your playing with the child's life n that's low

And He lied for a very good reason. It was smart. Because if she didn’t say it had to be his kid and he was lying about the procedure then he would’ve known that she was messing with that man or another man. That’s why he told her that. That was a smart move. That’s also why judge Mathis didn’t trip. He explained that but all y’all heard was “oh judge he lied”. Typical.

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@@pat22nasty facts.. that woman toxic and a pos

They really like each other, so great to see love in it's many forms in action.

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Jeradethedrummer

that’s exactly what I was thinking… I’m like she keeps eyeing him and then that kiss. 💋 sealed the deal

Exactly. She was gushing.

She is rocking her haircut .

That man is the pill girl she blushing hard

So a lot of women would beg to be with a man who lies and play games instead of being grown and talking about his concerns. Naw sis that ain't it.

Yeah there's no way to know that soon.

Exactly a real grown man would talk it out not play games cause now he played himself and she let him. Like oh ok u clipped huh hmmm well ig it's not yours 🤷🏾‍♀️ let's see how that vasectomy lie works out for u 👍🏾

He played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. Why lie why couldn't he be a grown man and talk about his concerns. He decided to b petty and she was petty back that's his fault

@@zasmonroe3579 whaaaaaaat lmaooo

@@zasmonroe3579 PETTY isn’t sleeping with multiple people not knowing who the daddy of ya kid is….

@@pat22nasty when did I said that it was reading is fundamental love 😘😂 neither one said she was sleeping with multiple ppl so don't make stuff up to prove a point. Like I said since he wanted to lie n b childish then y can't she b childish right along with him. If u was paying attention which is clear u wasn't she never doubted he was the father

@@zasmonroe3579 keep carrying your battle shield for the hoes

Right

No, he doesn't

Thank you.. Jeradethedrummer look me up

😬i hope not

hunty i was thinking what did I miss in the movie … i thought I was needing to rewatch

I wrote in my comment above that she plainly said he didn't provide for the child at all financially and he literally didn't say anything back and let it go because he didn't wanna lie under oath. But JM was wrong for only being mad at the defendant when you also hurt your child when you don't provide for that child. The child ain't even old enough to remember her saying that to him but the child will grow up to know who the breadwinner is. JM never said a word about him lying only interrogated her and I just think that was wrong of him. It seemed sexist which this is not the first time I've seen him be sexist towards women either. He didn't wanna let the woman hardly talk at all but allowed the man to talk the whole time and he said I don't mean to interrupt and JM said please do cause she told the truth she said it 1 time because he told her he had a vasectomy to start with while they were arguing. This is a mistake that a lot of women make and I dont agree with it but men shouldn't get off the hook just because JM thinks that's worst than any other lie the man told. Also let me add that her smiling and stuff was out of disrespect or thinking anything is funny i think for 1 she is a happy person in general and just smiles all the time and for 2 she is still in love with him and projects that into laughing and smiling like teenagers would. But she is just happy and making the best of the situation no matter how much JM keeps throwing off on her and saying stuff to her. You know she could've denied the whole thing of saying it but she didnt that's why so many people , women in particular, lie so much to make judges is because of judgment from them.

If another man calls you and tells you that your woman is his bitch…I’m sure you would be filled with confidence. Right, Ike?