I am 55 yrs old. This channel is for youngsters, but I watch all your videos because it makes me feel so reassured. That my beliefs and the way I conduct my life is correct. For example today's topic. Whole of my youth passed away doing things for my loved ones. It is only since last few years that I have prioritised myself and am living the way I want to. Am extremely overwhelmed by this video since I can totally relate to it. Can't thank you enough.
Same, maine bhi ese hi jeene ka faisla le lia tha after pandemic. 1. Reduce stress as much as possible. 2. Avoid people that cause stress. 3. Prioritise my health and sleep over anything else. 4. Focus on Career
@@sanjanagrover7436 then we should get married and our 3rd child should marry a hippie in Goa.. ...ye kisney bola ki zumba instructors need to be dumb ? Which book mam ?
I am a mum of 2 kids and a professional too..Hectic Life !! But....4 years back I decided to live for myself and also do allll my duties Efficiently. Living my MYSELF has made me cheerful..younger...and now I really don't care about likes n dislikes of others. My life is BEAUTIFUL 💕 It was soo nice to hear you for the first time sir.
My brother is from SRCC and IIM AHMEDABAD...HE is out of this rat race ..make my trip guy was his batchmate...he is very happy...he has kept a cow at his backyard...he is enjoying his life... people r so surprised when they learn about his achievements.. Even my husband is from IIT DELHI...ALL his life he has worked in senior positions..now,he has left his job and started teaching maths to kids..i can see such a joy. and contentment on his face which is priceless... people call him insane but I know what he has gained..
Who cares what others think. Like Chetan mentioned, its about having that sense of achievement, that feeling of doing what makes u happy is far better than what others think.
I feel that just thinking about future or getting snapped into daydreaming imaging extraordinary things for u would not take u anywhere better than ur current situation, instead of just working for it on daily basis.
Absolutely True !!!! I am 39 Years Old still haven't done this . People around us give us so much pressure and it takes a lot to understand it . Fact is NoBODY Cares aboout You other than YOU !!
i was living for others for 32 years but after my seperation i come to know no one was think about me at all..so i have decided now i will live for myself and make my life more beautiful and happy. Thanks for sharing your story to making me reconfirm that i am going on right direction.
@@vikrantshukla94because maybe the other half was self serving and wouldn't give emotional support . But I'm only guessing. Some people are very cold and more sensitive people don't feel appreciated around them. Maybe sensitive people also need validation from others to feel complete ,which is a drawback too.
I am 64 after retirement I have started living for myself.i do what I like without caring for others. I do my role in family whatever needed otherwise love to be alone in my own way reading writing swimming listening videos talks . don't take stress and don't bother what others think
पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं आपसे ईमानदारी से कहूं तो मैं पहले कभी आपसे इतना प्रभावित नहीं थी पर अब हूं धन्यवाद इतने महत्वपूर्ण विषय पर इतनी गंभीरता के साथ आत्मीयता से बात करने के लिए आभार🙏
ha yrr , and that point ki , U urself will feel ki yr kahi selfish toh nahi ho gaya hu mai , others will tell u ki yr kitna selfish ho rha ... this is the hardest part to calm over .. hope we will work on this and understand these points 💛
I am 56 and I started living for myself from the age of 46. And I am perfectly happy with my present life enjoying working, traveling and doing whatever I like. Chetan you are completely right in your sincere view. All the best friend.
Chetaaaan sir you have changed a lot since nach baliye ! I was a school girl when I used to watch that show and honestly I didn't like the way you presented yourself in that show. You gave wrong perception of yourself to people. BUT NOW. WOW I can listen you whole day. You are so real now and presenting yourself authentically as you are. Now I respect and adore you for how fearlessly you are expressing yourself, your mistakes, your low and highs ! This is helping me a lot !
hello sir, my story is very similar to yours. I was a lecturer of botany for 18 years and living for others and for my image and then left my job and became a you tuber and healer. And Now I am enjoying life and living for myself.
I saw you on TV years back. You weae specs, u we're having less hair on head. Your we're less alive. I am shocked to see you now. It's you. So young, so alive. No specs, no fear, so much confidence. Wow. You changed for so much better. Keep going. Thanx.
Thankyou Chetan sir for giving such superb advice which you learned at 45, but I could learn at 25 , your efforts can save my upcoming years. You motivates us by your own journey you lived so far & you are so true with your words what actually you faced in life. Thanks a ton buddy, you can never imagine how many lives you are improving by your efforts👏. God bless you.
I have recently started watching ur videos and u don't say fake things which I really appreciate... I am in the middle of dilemma about making a life decision and from past 3 years my life is miserable, health degraded badly and I am stressed even in my sleep.... But listening to ur videos help me change my perspective... Thanks a lot..😇
I am 35 years of age and i deeply thanking you today itself as i had realised and was half way there in prioritising myself however i was still confused till I watched this video 🤔 you made it crystal clear that i am at the right path 😎🎉❤️ …may god bless you with his best 😇😇
Chetan sir....mai 28 ka ho gya हूँ...29 की ओर अग्रसर हूँ , आज से और अभी से मैं अपनी लाइफ में वो सारे बदलाव लाने की पूरी कोशिश करूँगा...जो मेरी लाइफ को सही दिशा दे सके... Sir मैं एक UPSC Aspirant हूँ अभी तक लाइफ में सफल नहीं हो पाया हूँ...जहां तक मुझे लगता है...मैंने इस journey से अपनी लाइफ में बहुत सी चीजें सीखीं हैं , मेरे cousin brother का गेट Exam qualify हो गया और आज वो एक reputed University से Ph.D pursue कर रहे हैं...मैं मेरी family में उनसे 4 Months छोटा हूँ...आज ऐसा समय आ गया है लोग उनसे Suggestions लेते हैं उनसे बात करना prefer करते हैं...All around मेरे कहने का mean बस इतना है कि आज उनसे मुझे compare किया जाता है और कहीं ना कहीं मुझे सुनाने की भी कोशिश की जाती है जब family मे सभी एक साथ होते हैं तो उनको ज्यादा preference और respect मिलती है...हमे इग्नोर कर दिया जाता है और एक अलग तरह के perspective से देखा जाता है....ये सब देखते हुए बहुत guilty feel होता है सर....लगता है मैं हूँ ही क्यूँ इस family में....but Sir आज की video देखकर आपने काफी कुछ सीखा दिया है..बस उन्हें सही ढंग से implement करने पर अपनी सारी कोशिशें लगा दूँगा.....THANK YOU SO MUCH SIR for being such a nice guider and life mentor .🥰🥰
Absolutely right 🤩 I've recently realised the importance of keeping self in the epicenter of my life rather than always living as per others' way of thinking.
While watching this video,I had tears in my eyes and a big smile on my face.It takes immense courage to admit this,forget about discussing it.The best decision i took a year back was to only listen carefully to all that you say and that just changed so much in me.Thank you so much sir.
Dear Sir, absolutely right and perfect advice. I am from IIT Kanpur. Please write something on life of researchers and their family members. Lots of things can be written and people need to know about it.
I'm lucky that I am member of this family. You telling in this video , this things realised me about 6 months ago . From that day I'm live for my self ! Life becomes easy & better when anyone start living for their own self !
it’s absolutely true… i am following you from the seminar when you were in Patna , I guess in 2013-14 and your each and every word motivates me alot to change my life 👍👍 Thanks a lot 🙏🙏
Bahut badiya sir ,main to pahle se hi aapne liye jeeta hu. But aapse bahut kuchh aur bhi sikhne ko mila aaj . Thankyou so much chetan sir aise hi value dete rahiye
Love from Bangladesh Sir....really needed this video . I am in my 20's and I also feel like that I am less living for myself. Though I am aware of this but it is really hard to get over this though I am trying really hard and this video really lighten me up today..thank you
Hi Chethan, I'm also learning to live life from my perspective. What you mentioned in the video is absolutely right. Initially people may think that we are selfish... Let them think. Once we work for our higher purpose, those who can understand will understand. Too much care for others opinions is destructive... Whether it is money or power or anything for that matter... 👍👍👍 Thanks for the wisdom. 🙏🙏
I see you grow tremendously on mental and emotional level. Earlier when you were on nach baliye i saw you quite innocent and naive where other judges were making fun of you, your looks, your hairs, your dancing skills etc but now you are much more mature and peaceful. Hats off to you. You inspire me a lot..
Covid time was very bad for entire world , many lost their close ones. But I think it also gave time to many people to realise their mistakes ,to change their thought process and I'm also one of them . ✨ Thank you for such great contents ! 🔥❤️
You look like a new/different person altogether... I mean it in a very good way. It is evident on from your face that you have been living what you are teaching in this video for a substantial time now. Kudos
Bilkul sahi btaya h sir aapne….. hum dusro ki soch k according khud ko jeete h khud k liye jeena is so important. You are my ideal sir aapse bhot khuch sikha h maine aur sach khu to after reading your books slow down my life to think for my self and ha m jeene lga hu khud k liye thank u so much for landing on this planet. Happy for you mom and dad.
I'm 29 years old and just realised I don't live for myself. Thank you sir for creating content which is no where on RU-vid, it's nice to know you personally and feels great to become better person from your videos.
Your talk remind me of my inner self that i am behaving the same as you lived your life like living for others. Really grateful to talk your heart out about this topic.
Awesome 👍 video Chetan sir.... RU-vid per first time aisa laga ...jaise kisi ne sachhe dil aur atma se koi baat kahi ho....I have no words for your advice 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
To be honest, it is very scary to start thinking about living life the way we actually want to live, it is very inspiring that popular figure like you are acknowledging real things 👍👍
@@lalita6252 Keeping yourself busy in improving yourself and spending time with positive people and books of wisdom will help for sure. And since it's function of brain to generate thoughts , let brain do it but you keep doing things which are crucial for your growth as an human being. Try it and celebrate life in a cheerful manner 👍
Tnq sir, i also experienced it. I think, khud k liye jeena chahiye or mujhe lgta h aapki life m sbse jyada important apke goals hona chahiye jo ki apneaap se bnaya ho n ki kisi or ki opinion pr
listening to you. has ofcourse had profound effect. I'm pretty much putting everything into execution that i had wanted to ever since i started listening. Keep em coming.
Dropped out of my college because i was not not happy studying what i was studying and the mental breakdowns i was going through for something i didn't care a bit about,Now i am preparing for something i am passionate about and which aligns with my future career.Thanks Chetan i appreciate your efforts for making such great videos.
So this one is really interesting hear me out!,while i was in bangalore where i was still attending college.This one evening i called my dad spontaneously and said him everything i was going through which at that time only my mom and my two sisters knew about but they couldn't just go talk it behind my back to dad cause he might get inflamed so yeah i spoke to him about it and i had only put up 2-3 sentences and got me entirely even more than i knew for what was going on with me and why was i facing such things and he asked me to do whatever is the best possible thing i could do and not to worry he sent me money and asked me to party hard not and that was like an eye opener i have something to fall back upon.Left college partied with my friends for that entire week came back home and now i am preparing for colleges in delhi.
I kind of started living for myself a couple of years back after I read Ayn Rand. She has improved my life just you have sir. Thank you to both of you!
You have made money success in life so its easy for you to say it. But if we start living for ourselves. We will be satisfied with very less. We won't grow in life. For ex: If someone is making money to help others. He is living for others. If someone is making money to spend like rich buy expensive things. He is living for others approval. Whatever we do in life it is attached to some purpose. And that purpose involves so many other people. IN any case if we strive to grow and do more in life. We are caring about others. We can't just sit at home and record videos and think we are living for ourselves. You have made money success in life so its for you to say it. You should say live for your family and loving ones. THat makes more sense. Think again. Thank you
bro i will not write very much bcz i don't feel to . i will just say ki think again what he is saying... he doesn't mean ki u should not think for others well being,. He is saying ki , 1) don't work for other's approval etc , do it for ur love and interest. 2) put urself first than others , this is the hardest part to do bcz we have been taught to think for others first since childhood but that give rise to expectations from others which hurt often, frustration etcc
Thank you so much sir.....itna acha lession dene ke liye🙂🙂 apne liye jina kitna importent hai. Ye mai aaj aap ke duara sikha.......apne liye jina zindagi ka sabse bara sukun hai❤️🙂
Refreshing Chetan! Very profound but very spontaneously said .... I hope younger generation, for that matter person of any age may get clarity and inspiration and start truly living life without baggage!! 🌿
Inspiring video...l waste 50 yrs of my life for those close relatives who give no value to me but in my heart i had fear to loose them ...but during crona i watch so many motivatonal videos that i realise to live for yourself
Agreed sir, I feel it's like a ladder. Pehle khud ke liye jeena aa jaye and khud ko samajh le, tabhi sahi mayne me family, society or country ke liye jee sakte hain hum...Thanks again!!!
Bahut bahut shukriya Bhagat sir.... Haan reels ki wajaye long videos se jada sekhne ko milta h... Love you.. Mujhe es video s kafi madad mili.. Bahut acha lgaa ... Khushi or santosh ki prapti hui.. Dhanbaad ❤❤❤
You have validated everything I'm going through currently, having arrived at this point by taking a similar call. Thank you so much for articulating in such a way that resonates with each person on an individual level.
This is Really the Most needed topic to be discussed I started prioritising myself more these days i avoid toxic people much socializing feel calmer but retaliated with backlash people calling me selfish introvert and even insane
You are a true and highly motivated person. Earlier I m not used to live for myself but ofcourse, now I live only for myself. I do feel happy. Much love from London Chetan Sir ❤️ God bless you
Yes , I started living for myself from this year + lockdown also ... It's really really tough to live for yourself without caring your closest one that what are they ar thinking about us & stopping not to do such things or behave in such a way We daily learn something new with the help of such teacher ( You (great person+ great experience) )
