Another little slice or perfection. Thank you! Lovely place you’re moving. In (kinda) response to your question; I’m in my 40s and I have no idea how or where to make new friends. I think this is one of the few instances where being male (at least where I live) is a disadvantage. We are solitary by conditioning, it seems.
Oh wow! Thank you!!! I’m glad you like it! It’s such a common topic even more with the pandemic, but it truly puzzles me. It may also be that I have a very idealized definition of friendship that belongs more to my teenage years. Regardless, it’s hard to meet new people and make new friends to hang out without scheduling things 2 months in advance 😂
To make friends in your 30s, you want to try and find a Third Place. This is a place that is not home, not work, and you are also not obligated to spend money when you go there. It needs to be close to where you live so that the people there are your neighbors, and it'll be easier to strike up a conversation. Many US cities lack a Third Place, but we must always try to look for one. For some people this place is a local pub, but for me it's a cafe/record store called Central Records.
That’s such a great idea, I didn’t know of that concepto but I’m already picturing what my Third Place will be in the new area I’m moving ;). So you play your synths and wait for somebody to approach, right? ✨👌🏻 Thanks for the reply!
@@bunguoffice Sometimes people do actually walk up to my table and ask about my synths, but I also try to chat with people when I'm first walking in or ordering food/coffee at the bar.
He venido a devolver el comment, he conectado mucho con este video, la música es genial. : ) Acabo de mudarme y creo que necesito también el manual de como de hacer amigos a los 30 😅
Real, estuvimos dos dias y poco y fuimos dos veces a desayuna biscuits por 5pavos de un drive thru de alli q tiene fama y ufh que peligro el de pollo frito jajajajajaj ✨
how do you make friends in your 30s? i dunno man. i'm 38 and i made and lost a friend in these last 8 years. just keep searching for those 100 weirdos who are compatible with you in any given geographic location we're hard to find
