Just for what it's worth, this guy in particular appears to have been reinstated with the university. Still got a raw deal on some bullshit, but that's extra-judicial authority at work.
Only due to ongoing legal pressure. Keep in mind, they expelled him after this video footage came out and charges against him were dropped by cops. They still expelled him and kept him suffering, he had to take them to court. Took years, truly unfortunate
She didn't charge him with rape. The charges were brought forth by the procecutors office . She was passed out drunk and needed to be taken to the hospital. Although she personally didn't want to press charges, the procecutors office has s legal obligation to do so if they believe a law has been broken and have substantial evidence to back it up.
In Australia they arrested a man for assaulting his girl and if the elevator hadn’t just installed a video camera the week before they wouldn’t have caught her punching herself in the face on the way down. He got released soon after, but close call.
Don't know if it was the same case but I do remember hearing about that and that the girl took some valuables and left. I don't know if she got caught after or not tho
God damn, some people are really evil. Thank god for that elevator camera. My heart goes out to all the people that got falsely accused of horrible acts like assault and whatnot, it's disheartening.
I got a worse one. There was another case in (Australia) where a man helped a woman who was having car trouble. They pulled into a gas-station where he spent a 2 hours fixing her car for free and on his own time. She hugged and thanked him; he even followed her a bit until she got safely onto a highway ramp and then went on his way thinking that was the last he saw of her. She accused him of sexual-assault. Immediately the cops threw him in a maximum-security prison for (1) weeks before some fucking slightly-above room-temperature IQ genius decided they should check out the gas-station surveillance footage. Just within those (1) weeks, he got fired from his career and his wife divorced him. All because he decided to help a female stranger with car troubles. I seriously wish I was fucking exaggerating. Look up the names "Kenan Basic" and "Caitlyn Gray".
There was this girl at my nursing college that was obsessed with one of the male nurses who work as a clinical facilitator. She stalked him, harassed him, came onto him like a dog in heat. He complained about it, nothing was done except that she got a talking to by one of the college admins. Then nut job realized she was being rejected and started telling people that this guy assualted her in the parking lot. The story was unbelievable and changed with every retelling. But the messed thing is this guy ended up leaving his job because people believed nut job. They made his life miserable. So yeah, women are capable of lying about that sort of thing. Guys please be careful out there.
I always joke about a friend of mine with him, because he always gets so much attention from females, he didn't found it as funny as I did, but yeah :p . Sometimes they are as aggressive as some dudes. At his job there was an intern that sexually harassed him. Nothing happened, but it was really annoying for him. Imagine someone trying to touch your crotch in a "fun" way.... No go....and nobody would have believed him. I am 100% sure....
He can, and will win. That happened here at my school, of course the university immediately sided with the woman. The police sided with the male victim. Of course, once the investigation was concluded, the university had already supported protests against the male. These also include supporting protests against the individual and supporting that he be held accountable without due process. He sued, and had to change his name due to defamation. The university and other organizations settled out of court. Let’s just say, I’m sure that he walked away with a large lump sum, due to the blind support of the actual criminal.
Not a lawyer, not legal advice. If they made public statements about the accusation after the aquittal/dropped case, or he was expelled and they listed the case as the reason, he should be able to sue for defamation, libel, and damages. He should also specifically try to find out the person(s) who wrote and/or OK'd any articles as well as his expulsion and they should lose their job. Preferably, they should be barred from any T9 work at any institution coast to coast.
They need to start pressing charges on the people who are falsifying reports like this. My bf spent a year in jail awaiting trial for false accusations, he was thankfully found not guilty and released due to zero evidence and eyewitnesses stating nothing ever happened. That's still a year of life gone and not a single charge was brought up against the person who made the report. It's disgusting. Very rarely do they press charges on people for falsely reporting this kind of crime.
As a teenager boy my mom is starting to really drill it into my head that sleeping around with girls you barely know will most likely lead to either an std,unwanted children or just wasted time and energy,this video really inforces her message
While I am not a fan of living your life in fear and I think a person should take risks once in a while... your mom is more right than wrong; a lot more right than wrong unfortunately. That's the current state of things in the USA and growingly in other parts of the world.
Be grateful that yove got a great mother. Believe me,sleeping all over the place creates useless relationships. The risks are so hight that that euphoria of sex isn't worth it. Even if all goes well and you marry her,your live;s gonna be hell because of that low quality woman.
I mean, likewise: "It's not that every man is a rapist, it's that any man could be." Bad people will do bad things if it is in their power to do so, and they do not come with warning labels. Know what you're doing, and who you are doing it with.
@@Lurklen i think the first comment referred exactly to this line. It was a bit like: "You see that argument, girls always bring up,... , well how does ut feel when boys use the same argument on you?"
I've been a victim of a false accusation I recorded the girl's confession. Everyone had thought I had done something awful. I then played the recording on Facebook. And guess what happened police charge me for recording her confession about lying without her permission because Pennsylvania is a two-party state.. yeah she got no trouble at all. Lie to the police could have put me in jail for years and they charged me for recording her without permission.
@@Zyllo5164 that’s the problem with two party consent laws. Legally, him recording her confession without her knowledge is reprehensible. It’s a damn joke. The fact that she lied to the police will now have to be taken to court by him in order for her to face ANY repercussions all because of this two party consent crap.
Knew a guy accused of rpe, they found evidence of the girl messaging another girl about how they were going to get him and was laughing about it, he didn’t get charged but his life still got ruined just by being accused. Had to move away to another city. Nothing happened to the girl….
Makes me sick to my stomach. And it's WAY more common than they make it sound. Whenever you bring up false accusations, they quickly brush it up as an exception to the rule. Nah. I'm a woman and I still have my doubts it whenever it's brought up.
I had a similar story happen in my last year of highschool. Had my arts teacher being accused of groping by one of our classmates. During class, while we where all there. There was never anything inappropriate happening, and she was the kind that was on the unattractive side and loved attention. We all knew what happened (and what didn't) because we were all in the same room and he was barely around her. Our teacher was an amazing and outstanding man, I still to this day admire him and thank him for what he taught us. Our entire class went to the principal and backed our teacher up, and offered ourselves as witnesses. She retracted her accusations and made it sound as it was her parents that went forward with it. She wanted to distance herself from it as it never happened. Fuck that.
Girl I knew in college would sleep with guys, then the next morning if her roommates thought he wasn’t cute she would say it wasn’t consensual. She did this so frequently that she was known for it and had a reputation for people to avoid her. Sadly my own roommate had this happen to him with this girl. Luckily for him she was so well known for it by that point that nobody listened to her, including her own friends. Incidentally her twin sister has been charged and convicted twice for domestic violence
And the "Girl who cried rape," is literally making a joke out of women and men who have actually gotten raped. Everyone wants to be a victim, but not a real actual victim.
I agree. So many women claim to have been assaulted but dont know the weight that they carry along with that “badge”. So many sleepless nights of wondering whats wrong with you, or if you did anything wrong, only to mature and hold resentment toward those who didnt help or believe you. Sometimes wishing that the law didnt exist. Or sometimes just dealing with the lasting issues your assault brought upon you. Or wishing you didnt exist at all. I was thinking about it last night. I’ve been assaulted a lot of times in and out of school; raped as well. It’s morphed me into some person who values male attention more than my own happiness, but break down when I get it. Many other issues as well. I wish that any victim out there who was honest-to-god assaulted or raped find peace because all these posers are making it near impossible to get the law involved.
@@zonyae29047 Facts. Being damaged in general really shapes you into something different. People just want the clout and not the consequences. It's almost like people think its a boy scout badge or a pokemon they can collect and move on from.
@@zonyae29047 Same; I'm so sorry. Been having bad dreams, had a complete break down at work (thankfully out of sight), have had flashbacks at the most INOPPORTUNE moments when I was with my boyfriend. It's not a rite of passage; it's not a badge of honor. It's a gaping hole in the center of your life you can easily get sucked back into when you least expect it.
Did I hear that correctly?!?! She never ACTUALLY charged him? The ROOMMATES did? wait. what??!? Someone clear this up for me,please. I am on the Internet and I am wrong.
This is an old story. I believe it was a set up scheme by the both of them and they were seen to be pointing at the individual the had targeted before the girl approached him. That's what i remember reading back then. Probably did it this way so that it seems more legit and is harder to trace as a scheme. You know, like a shooter and a driver going separate ways before doing the crime so they can't be tied to the same shooting so easily
Her roommates never called the cops, her roommates called an ambulance when she was unconscious with alcohol poisoning at the time he left the dorm (which is a damn good thing, as she ended up in ICU on a ventilator). The *hospital* called the cops *independently* asking it be investigated (not *charged* just *investigated* one way or the other to determine what had happened), because she was barely conscious & completely incoherent when they found evidence of recent sex while treating her in the ER, was unresponsive to questions from them as to whether she'd had sex consensual, raising (medically reasonable) concern she *might* have been date raped. The *police* decided, prior to even taking her statement, based on her intoxication level alone not on any accusations from any of the girls, that she was so drunk she couldn't have consented & arrested him before she was even taken off the ventilator. The police had already decided their narrative before talking to *any* of the parties involved & tried to fit witness statements to it after the fact. When the cops showed up at the dorm, the roommates only confirmed the name of the guy, which the police already had from the sign-in log at the dorm's front desk & from the friend who'd been at the bar with her (whose statement was that they'd *both* seemed happy/flirty at the bar & that she had no idea what happened after they left) & confirmed that yes they'd heard the two having sex prior to finding her unresponsive. (There were 3 roommate's present when the ambulance was called, *none* of whom accused him of raping her, all initially assuming the sex they heard her having was consensual & one of them changing their statement at follow-up interview to "MAYBE the moaning I heard from her was distress instead of enjoyment?" - *only* after the *police* said "Did you know when you called an ambulance for your roommate that she'd been raped?" - but stressing multiple times in the interview that it "wasn't a judgement she thought she could make". Incidentally, the arresting officers were recently sued for false arrest, leading witnesses during interview, etc.) When *she* was finally questioned, she stated she was in "a total blackout" of the night & had no memory of him or the encounter. She refused to file charges; the police & prosecuter proceeded with charges without her participation. Half the reason it got thrown out for lack of evidence is that neither she *nor* her roommates *nor* the friend from the bar *actually accused* him of raping her.
Reminds me of some guy who used to be a hardcore "believe all wmn" supporter until it happened to him. He met a girl at a bar one night in Toronto. She was coming on to him super aggressively. They went back to her place, had sex & then he left with no issue. A few days later the police were banging at his door & arrested him because the girl claimed he assaulted her. After two months of investigation the girl couldn't keep her story straight. He almost considered copping to a plea because in his brainwashed mind "if she's making the accusation it must be true." The police told him that they know he's innocent due to the fact that the girl had ELEVEN open sexual assault cases in the past year alone & that it was kind of obvious she wasn't all there mentally. Still, it took almost TWO years in court to clear his name & by then he had lost most of his friends, family, etc. due to the accusation alone. The guy ended up leaving town & having to start all over again elsewhere. You can definitely say he will never entertain that "believe all wmn" bs ever again.
When my son was in HS this girl kept trying to sit on his lap and telling him she wanted him to give her rides (he is in a wheelchair). He kept telling her no and she got nasty. I had a long conversation with the school. He is in college now and I am soooo concerned. He doesn’t drink, thank goodness, but I tell him all the time, be very, very, very careful. There are WAY to many fake reports and no consequences for the women that do this.
Holy crap that's awful, man it sucks but women can be awful, my sympathies to you and your son. It takes a despicable kind of evil to try to take advantage of someone, especially someone bound to a wheelchair, and as young as highschool, he would've been labeled horrible things if anything would've pursued
If I was in a wheelchair and a girl wanted a ride while sitting on my lap then my mom tells her to get off, I would be so pissed. Also in high school? I think in that situation you were just too over protective honestly. Your short comment is basically saying because she wants to sit on your kid and she might claim rape. No girl will claim rape on a guy in a wheel chair. I don’t think any girl can be that dumb. But also in your comment I see that you love your child and I can’t hate on a loving parent so keep on keeping on.
@@chrik25 I spoke with school not the little girl. You would be surprised at the things people will do and say to the disabled. I will always have my son’s back.
@@f-jericho4021 I wish.. They won't even name her, even just naming the false accuser would be a huge step forward. They still won't do it because they claim it'll make actual victims afraid to come forward. Which is obviously complete bullshit.
Did she even accuse him, or press charges herself? What was all that about her roommates? Its crazy if she did not, and the police went ahead further with it.
Exactly. Justice is supposed to blind. This auto-believe/guilt thing just because of non-relevant factors like age, color, gender and so on needs to be stopped. Take accusations seriously. Follow the evidence and facts of the case seriously. Do not conduct this in public or social media until everything is wrapped up and ready for court. If the accusers are found to consciously lying and being deceptive, then they should be prosecuted as well.
A crazy ex I hadn’t talked to in years took a restraining order on me out of nowhere. My guns were confiscated and I couldn’t work my job for 3 weeks. It was found without merit, my guns returned and the judge chewed out the ex. I now have to explain it away on every background check I do for the rest of my life. It stays on your record for the rest of your life.
That’s the stupidest part about situations like this. Why the hell is it not wiped from your record if it comes out false? Also sorry you have to go through that man.
@@gregrothschilds8453 it’s a Massachusetts law. I talked to my state senator about changing the law and he was all for it the same thing with marijuana offenses even though it’s legal now here. They’re pushing through something in the fall where these offenses get expunged automatically hopefully the restraining orders found without merit are in there to. It’s really easy in this state to get a restraining order all you need to know is a person’s first and last name, say you feel they’re a threat. You’re a blood thirsty stalker for 3 weeks till it gets in front a judge.
@@quasi-intellecual3790 I was very lucky in three ways 1. The judge was and old black guy who’s been presiding in the middle of the hood forever . 2. My ex had a false rape charge in her from the 90’s. 3. My ex’s answer when the judge asked her “ Did he threaten you at all” her answer was “ He threatened to take me to court for money I owe him” true story.
She didn't charge him with rape. The charges were brought forth by the procecutors office . She was passed out drunk and needed to be taken to the hospital. She told police she would not be pressing charges as she didn't remember the events of that night. Although she personally didn't want to press charges, the procecutors office has s legal obligation to do so if they believe a law has been broken and have substantial evidence to back it up.
It's sad but 100% true. No joke man, this dude was gonna get fucked weather or not the video cleared him or he had a notorized contract stating they both wished to engage in the reproductive act.
This “Office of Equity and Diversity” really should be investigating the roommate, for false rape accusations, and the woman too for not clarifying that rape did not, in fact, take place. If he was expelled on some baseless, symbolic metric, they should be too. In a perfect world, he is still attending the school and she is either in jail or compensating in some other way.
What is the difference here ? where is guaranteed that sober person don't have change of heart the next day or next month for whatever reason ? I don't understand the don't mate with drunk people. Also what if you are drunk that brings all kinds of potential situations. This is so messed up, why can't we be adults, interact with bit more honour and responsibility. It could be really simple " i like you , you interested. no, yes, maybe". Have fun times. Instead we are creating more nonsense..
That's a valid point and it should not have to be that way, but his advice is on a practical level to protect yourself. Think of it like driving down the interstate where the speed limit is 70 BUT it's getting icey and visibility is diminished. You keep going 70 and things might not go as normal.
I stopped donating to USC after hearing of this. Contacted the Provost there, expressed my concern and he actually wrote back….said due to Title IX, they had no choice but to expel him. When asked why the LAPD found no evidence and with the video, cleared him, why they continued to prosecute him. He said that’s the way Title IX works and requires them to follow a certain ‘process’ to continue to receive federal grants, they’re compelled to do so. So yeah….no more money from this alumni.
I was the victim of a false allegation. I can tell you it effects me to this day. Twice in the last year someone has brought it up after a background check.
He needs to sue the school for a SUBSTANTIAL amount. Take this all the way to the top. Get his money up and go to school online to finish his degree. These fake cases are crazy.
Exactly what I was thinking, this case could blow out and ignite the revision of Title IX, because it honestly failed this poor guy here. I'm surprised there hasn't been some sort of crowdfunding to help him out, he's been wronged so bad
Im usually not for the race card. But what if we ruin the schoop by claiming it was clearly a very racist haye crime? They did him dirty, so lets do the school even dirtier and see how they like it.
People: “Women can’t consent to sex while drunk. If a man has sex with a drunk girl, it’s rape” Me: “But what if the man was drunk too, then he can’t consent either” People: “Men should make better decisions and not drink if they might try to have sex. It’s still his fault and he’s a rapist” Me: :/
It's literally a sexist law because it's saying women cannot make the decision because apparently like children. And mentally incompetent. She goes to the bar gets drunk with the expectation of sex knowing she's going to have sex then charges the man for raping her.
That happened to my bro on his college campus….my brother is a well respected college coordinator and he helps young kids figure out what they wanna do in college. Her roommate was the one who told the truth and gave facts. All this because he didn’t want to sleep with her. She was highly intoxicated at a college party. She posted letters on campus trying to get sympathy but once the cops investigated they realized she was upset because he chose not to sleep with her because she was so drunk. It was the worst experience of his life and since then he’s gotten married and has moved on with his life and is still well respected. He is going off to officer training school soon 🥰 I’m a proud big sister.
@@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 hard to because it's a touchy subject. I don't know any politician that would touch this topic. So kind of hard to vote on
How does he get charged because her roommates go to the police? Since when can someone else press charges for an adult? Am I crazy? I clearly heard "the girl never went to the police."
Actually that's a valid reason, that's like reporting an assault, robbery, etc. they're the type of crimes that police has an obligation to investigate once notified.... This case was BS of course but it's in the law
I didn't it could be done on the civilian side, but in the military it's a thing. If should over hears or sees something that they feel is wrong they can report it even if the person it's effecting doesn't complain.
@@neharikashimpiger1376 so what happens when both parties are drunk and they end up doing it? Technically speaking you could say that neither could have given their consent so any claims on either parties should be dismissed... yet I'm fairly sure the police and judge would still side with the woman
That's actually the on-campus advice now. If you wake up next to someone after a night of drinking you should both race to the Title IX office. Whoever gets there 2nd gets expelled.
They expelled him because, innocent or guilty, he brought negative attention to the university because he’s enrolled. And it’s totally wrong, but like Aba said, not surprised
The dumbest part is that the ethics committee is gonna decide whether he's staying or not instead of giving the girl the boot for a false accusation trying to ruin a man's life smh
There are a lot of cases that men are wrongfully accused and their lives are ruined. There is no money in the world that can buy back their reputations. And then it makes women that WERE assaulted scared to tell anyone. This is sad.
yeah, and the number is HIGH, feminists deny it and argue against it because ''the number is low'' and ''punishing false accusers will create a chilling effect and real victims wont come out'' . EDIT: since people are saying i made it up and i am getting insulted , or asking for sources, first i cant link any thing on YT for some reason wihtout getting my comments removed 60% against airforce personnel was false ( search UCMJ and Assault Accusations ) 53% of cases filled between 2013 and 2014 were false says DCW ( search false allegations DCW ) another one in the 90s said it was 41%( search false allegations NCBI ) another one ( which feminists use ) said it was 10-12% ( you can find it easily ) something else, only 14% of cases lead to the r@pist getting convicted so only around 14% of cases are PROVEN to be actual r@pe meanwhile 12% to be false which is close i'd say its 50% false and 50% not false
@@seif9923putting women under the law and holding them accountable for their actions doesn't mean hurting them, its just mean putting them in jail for causing mental trauma and torture which is way too much for anyone to handle.
I had something similar happen driving a taxi in 2008. Drunk college girl tried to get me to take her home with me. When I got police involved to ascertain who she was and where she lived so I could see her safely home, she told the cops I was trying to molest her. Joke was on her, she wound up catching seven charges. She was nineteen, and blew 0.21 on the breathalyzer after having drank on her sister's ID all evening. Cop was pissed, practically begged me to file charges for slander and definition. Looking back, I should have, because she probably did it to someone else later. I was just happy not to be arrested for something I didn't do. I haven't allowed myself to be alone with a female without a camera since. Those who get femmed up, eventually get hemmed up.
She’s awful. Giving actual rape victims a bad name. She’s should pay. But you are right don’t sleep with women that are intoxicated. There’s no telling what they will say or do.
@@bryanwoods3373 I'm confused. Why do you believe the girl had anything to do with it? The roommate clearly is the one who accused him of rape. They said so. She is the one who should be punished for the lie? I don't think we should blame the chick who wanted to get laid and had a bad roommate is all I'm saying. Both the girl and the guy sound like they got screwed royally by a psycho with some kind of weird jealousy thing. Super sadly the dude is taking the full brunt of it and that's definitely not fair to be sure.
When I was around 19-20~ (I'm 32 now) I had a friend named 'Aleks' who was in his 2nd year of university on his way to becoming a teacher. There was a girl at his university that was coming onto him real hard, and they went on a date in the city. While waiting for a subway, they were flirting back and forth and he slapped her ass playfully. They continued on for an hour or so just hanging out until splitting ways. He called me afterwards excited about how much of a good time they had hanging out. Out of no where, the next day police show up at the university and take him to the station, he's being charged with sexual assault and battery. The chick is pressing these charges and he has no idea why. Has to go home to his eastern european family, and explain that he's being charged with sexual assault. His mother is absolutely freaking out, torn between thinking that her son could have done this sort of thing, his father trusts his sons word and hires a lawyer. They didn't have anything to go on, except his story vs her story. So things weren't really looking great for Aleks. (This is a few weeks later, he's updating me on the situation) and I'm asking him again more about her and what happened and he mentions she's a Christian religious girl who writes a religious blog of some sort. I don't remember how I did it, but I was able to find her blog specifically, which she used as a daily journal of sorts, I was able to find her entry for that day and she wrote about how she had a great date with Aleks, and that she was SO into him and it was SO amazing that it was BAD, that she felt incredible shame for her sexual feelings in regards to her relationship with Jesus and all this sort of shit. That she was coming on too hard, and she was seducing Aleks too much that it was the 'devil working through her' and all kinds of retarded religious shit. I saved the entire web page to a floppy disk (still semi-relevant back then lol) and he gave it to his lawyer. The judge threw the case out and admonished the girl for the situation. (lol) But the damage was done. A lot of people at the university just saw Aleks as some kind of sexual predator, on top of that, the university STILL expelled him, just like the student in this video. I ran into Aleks a few years ago, and instead of being a teacher which was his dream (and a straight A+ immigrant student, was going to be there no matter what) he was driving a taxi.
Jesus Christ that is depressing. I hope your friend can some day get some kind of result out of what he went through. Had he ever thought of counter suing at the time?
Had a friend whos husband was weary of being left alone with my kid who was 2 at the time...i trusted him..he was good with kids but he feared being accused of things..thats when i realized that women can ruin a mans name in a split second...i could never accuse someone of something disgusting for revenge...what a fucked up world with fucked up ppl
In all fairness its quite likely that the footage was provided and censored while the investigated was still ongoing and hence at that point she was still a potential victim.
From Aba & Preach's video, it wasn't even the girl in the hook-up that accused the guy, but a roommate. So I guess in this case she wasn't identified but the actual accuser should have been.
They didn't show her face but i did find out her name is arshia ... No last name This is old as hell, so the best i could find was a woman named arshia narula. She's a senior now at USC. This happened when she was 19 so she should be 22 now right ? That's pretty much a senior.
I sadly did have to deal with this. A woman I really cared for went out for the night drinking and she she wanted to come back to my place. Drunk me definitely wanted her too, but logic me knew we were only going far because of the alcohol. So having to do what’s right, I asked her to bring friends with her so we can just chill, and was told yes, just for her to show up alone. I had a roommate at the time, so I told him make sure you pop in and check on us, even though the drunk me wanted to go all the way. We were getting close but I had to pull away because I knew we both didn’t want to go all the way, it was the drinks. I go to the kitchen, and she runs out my house, to tell her friends that were my friends that I tried to force myself on her. Never became a actual case, but trial by our friends where they believed her, regardless of what I said. Literally two months later, she accused another man, which was one of the friends boyfriend of trying the same thing, and that’s when they realized that she made the whole thing up about me. Yeah, it completely sucks to be accused of something you didn’t do, especially when fighting with what your body wants at that time. After that, I never tried drunk hookups again, just can’t allow it anymore.
yep good job on not going too far, as men it is completely against us now. If you intiate sex when the girl is drunk even when you're drunk its automatically considered rape now. I hate how it went from 1 extreme side of how no one believed rape victims to now the other extreme side always believe. There should be a middle ground but I guess society don't want to work that way. Politically, hobbies etc there is never a middle ground.
@@jcman-lp6lg as a woman I don’t understand these standards myself. If you are both drunk, you are both guilty. I personally don’t stay near people who are drunk and agitated. I don’t drink and I believe that staying near a drunk agitated person is exposing myself to a dangerous situation.
Disagree with me but if I was a judge, I wouldn't hesitate to have a woman who just goes around accusing men of rape executed by sentencing. I wouldn't have no remorse for a woman that does that shit. You just accuse guys of rape so I wouldn't hesitate to have her executed in some way.
This case is from 2017. He was expelled and then reinstated when he sued them. They had to pay his legal fees of $112k. But there will always be the stigma.
My twins are 17/yo young men and we’ve raised them to understand a happy balanced life starts by being good to ourselves and good to others. We discussed consent when they hit puberty, but it’s been more over the last two years that we’ve been stressing the reality of this exact kind of situation after a neighbors daughter made choices & got herself in some serious trouble and cried wolf, her parents even knew but had the “not my kid” attitude the whole time. There’s a young man out there that just was blind sided by a stupid choice he made as a kid and he’ll maybe never ditch that imprint of injustice. It scared the everything good outta me for a minute, but ultimately it just was a very stark reminder of how careful they need to be. Thanks for this video, I just popped it on and then we had a good talk. Keep doing what your doing, you are appreciated. Love n Light
When I was in the Marine Corps, we had a sexual harassment class and we were told no to engage on sexual activities we a female who have been drinking. The reason why is because her judgment is impaired due to the alcohol and can put rape charges on you. I did ask "What if the male was also impaired because of alcohol?" Could he be charged since he's also not able to make the right decisions? The answer I was given was "yes he can be charged even if he was drinking" I also asked why could be charged if he's in the same state of mind? And was told "because he should know better". Really?...Really? Bias much?😒
It's crazy how they don't see the sexism in that. Not just because they set unequal standards for guys, but because they assume girls can't make the right call for themselves.
DONT HOOK UP WITH ANYONE AT THE CLUB. doesn't matter if she says she wants to, doesn't matter if she said its ok, doesn't matter if you like her. Even if she only takes one shot dont risk it.
Hey my guys. I looked into this and the latest update is that Armann was reinstated about a year after being expelled. Essentially what happened was a court ruling mandated that these Title Nine cases have more protections and proper investigations and proceedings when somebody is accused of this type of misconduct. That's a big win for True equality and protections against baseless accusations. Also the title 9 coordinator sounds like they're narcissistic trash.
In theory I agree with you but it would make actual r@pe cases skyrocket. Remember it's the accusers word against the accused. If a someone truly was assaulted and there isn't sufficient evidence or there isn't sufficient admissible evidence that would mean that a real victim could serve jail time and a r@pist would walk free
The reason you don’t arrest is because you often can’t prove without a reasonable doubt of falsehood. We also don’t want to dissuade victims from coming forward
@@Lisa-iw5yx at best the accused should be able to counter sue or sue them after the fact which would then allow her to gather up whatever evidence she may have for why she falsely accused him.
@@farmersgrip unfortunately other universities who haven't blacklist him already, will certainly do it if he sues the university. They won't say it out load but you know.
As a women, I’m terrified that my younger brother might encounter psycho girls like chick. Just because you regret the hookup that you instigated, doesn’t mean it’s assault.
The girl didn't cry rape, she didn't even press charges, it was a roomate who told law enforcement or informed them of his identity. they never said why they suspected him of sexual assault.
That's messed up getting expelled. Recently i heard of a guy who go accused/charged because "she was too intoxicated" but he was MORE intoxicated tests showed (both allegedly consented)
I had a false claim in the military also. Was doing the right thing, being a DD for the base. Young females calls the number, I pick her up and bring her back on base to the dorms. Video evidence cleared me. I never stepped foot in her room. Camera in the hall showed that. I lost trust in females at that point. Been doing me since.
Yeah, serving in the military will do that to you. Back then, I always thought the false rape phenomenon was something mainly confined within the military organization for whatever reason. Then realized it was just a microcosm of a wider, global issue in many modern western societies.
@@yadanie6194 I knew then it was the new “Social experiment” testing grounds. All males had to attend SHARP training. Sexual harassment and r*pe prevention. Ya that was the start of me also.
This is what happens when a girl in inebriated state gives consent then when sober regrets her decision and cries s3xual assault. Man's life is screwed up just by mere allegation.
Which is why people shouldn't accept invitations of sex if someone is in an inebriated state. Even if someone is grinding on you and reaching for you pants, if they are pissed drunk them don't fuck them
@@jeremiahnovember2617 at that point it's both your faults not just the man's, if both parties are drunk it's not your fault, but if one person is sane and the other is drunk then it's the sane person's responcibility
@@jeremiahnovember2617 Yes i get that but im going under the assumption that the person your interacting with is pissed drunk while your still relatively sober
I have a relative that was raped, and there wasn't enough evidence to convict the rapist. The amount of emotional turmoil they went through is heart wrenching. Women who lie about this shit are doing a HUGE disservice to real rape victims who haven't gotten justice.
I lost an internship a few years back when I was falsely accused. I was away from the office at a funeral the day this "supposedly happened in the bathroom of the office" and I was fired without due process the next day. Thankfully, the video evidence showed the truth but I haven't been the same person since. The anger I felt was unholy and it reminded me that everything could be taken away at a moment's notice. Keep up the good work yall!
What I don't understand how her roommate could report this? Like how does that even work if it's not even the girl he had sex with pressing charges? Idk what the motive of these girls even was...the whole thing kinda seems like the dude was being set up by someone outside of these two girls.
"What I don't understand how her roommate could report this?" It's like someone concerned reporting domestic-abuse. Like, you have to understand that sometimes in legitimate cases of domestic and/or sexual abuse (especially in the long-term), victims tend to suffer from delusions/illusions to protect their ego from anymore suffering and/or from fear of more punishment from the abuser ("She/He didn't mean it.", "She/He does it cause she/he loves me.", "It was my fault anyways - I should have known better", "If I do, she/he says she/he is gonna kill me, the children, and her/himself after this blows all over!", etc.). People are taking advantage of a well-meaning system to achieve their own personal gains.
If more women would ostracize the women that do this and make them martyr's and really hold them to the fire.. then it wouldn't really happen because it first starts with the women holding each other accountable.. because coming from a man it gets labeled as misogyny and toxic masculinity
"If you're MGTOW or Red pill you're an incel" "who hurt you" Please men learn from other peoples situations. Don't let them guilt you into keeping your guard down. Same shyt happened to me. I haven't been right ever since. From a good guy ready to help anyone to not trusting anyone ever again.
Something like this happened to me in highschool. Some girl I never knew, never talked to and never touched went around saying I touched her butt. Bad enough I wasn't liked by many people but imagine being looked at as a predator. I was lucky enough for this not to get in any legal trouble.
Those who make False allegations should face whatever charges, their victim was facing. I don't talk, look or even be around drunk women. I did 3 years in the Military and one of my battle buddies had a women lie on him just to go home. After the truth came out she still didn't face any charges until he sued.
Women who do this should be charged with the same amount of time in prison as what she was claiming happened. There’s no consequences for false rape allegations . That has to change so it stops
As a woman this is very upsetting for me to see there are so many people who do have sex crimes done against them and who cannot get justice but for her to be able to hide is ashame.
Drunk or not a woman always..knows what she is doing..the fact that she was alone it was plan...They were focus enough to take a cab and take him to their dorm..He probably was on a dean list or something..and the girls wanted to get rid of him..
Drunk girl: gets charged for drinking and driving and is held accountable. Drunk girl consenting to sex: absolutely cannot be accountable for her actions. Why?
Because common sense...??? It's the exact same thing. Alcohol fucks up your state of mind hence you shouldn't be driving. Alcohol fucks up your state of mind hence your ability to consent is called into question.
Because people under the influence can't be expected the make rational and big decisions (like having sex) because you cant know if that is the choice they would make while sober. Not to mention others can take advantage of them
@@CrabQuesadilla i was curious if that was the case. I had a friend of an ex go to my coach after we broke up. I got in shit and my ex had to step in and stand on my side lol
@@yadanie6194 Not really because if they are both drunk their memory would both be sketch at best. She couldn’t accuse him of anything because they both decided to get so drunk. But she also can’t say what they both decided to do after reaching that point. I hate the double standard where if both men and women are drunk is still in the man to be held responsible.
Guys: I know it's the heat of the moment, but just don't - go home and take a cold shower. Ladies: it'll be better when you are sober or at least in a relationship getting drunk with your man, don't do the random hookup cause you not ready.
That university should be closed down for sexism. Daring to expell him is ridiculous. They should pay a hefty amount too and she and the friend should land in prison instead.
@@messyangel1169 imagine expelling people over a lie. Entitlement much? Something needs to happen. Cutting out the cancer is a good way to get rid of it.
"He did nothing wrong". The feminists reply, he was born a man that's crime enough. Crazy backwards world we're living in where immutable characteristics are again being shoved to the forefront of politics and justice.
I told my son this when he started college: don't date, don't hook up, and dear lord don't talk to any drunk college women. The environment on the American college campus is completely toxic for men. The only safe way to approach s3x and relationships for men at college now? Don't engage. Walk away. Because you'll get crapped on for doing nothing wrong. Now generally, most men don't need to worry, because the modern girls on college campuses are only hooking up with the top 10% of men anyway. Why? Tinder. Bumble. Hinge. Go have some drinks with your friends, and completely ignore the sloots. End sermon.
I think college culture is toxic for both guys and girls. Men risk having sex with girls too drunk to consent and women risk getting raped. One day people will grow tf up and realize sex is serious and can't be done at random like that or under the influence or with strangers. And I'm saying this as a 19 year old.
@@PermanentHigh then you don't understand the severity of the situation at stake. You rather have this guy getting into problems for no reasons instead of simply staying on the side??? Jeeezzz where is the common sense nowadays?!
@@ak14serko44 yea it is dumbass advice, because stories like these are often embellished and exaggerated with how frequent they are. I went to FSU, shit was like the fuck-capital of Florida, literally never heard of anyone getting accused of shit like this unless there was some actual rape/abuse involved.
@@ak14serko44 That's retarded. Like I said, it's like telling someone the world is dangerous and to stay locked up in their room. What this guy is advocating for is for his son to have stunted development. Telling him not to have sex in college without offering any alternatives is fucking stupid. The son is gonna be an adult baby when he gets out of college, with no experience with women, and that will make it even harder for him to get laid as a maladjusted adult. Sex is natural, and so are women. The better advice would be to be careful when picking partners, and to avoid drunk girls or party girls. Life doesn't magically stop at college. Your experiences determine who you are. Being some grown ass virgin who's never interacted sexually with women will make it even worse for him as an adult. The advice is fucking stupid
The problem is society let’s these women get away with false accusations. Too many times guys are accused and their lives are ruin forever. I guarantee you this guy will never live his life the same again after this incident.
the rest of his life this'll be with him. No one will remember the nuance of it. He'll just be the "wasn't that guy on tv for r*ping a girl?". Same if the University never took him back. And there is no recourse for the women that almost ruined him. Just an our bad.
Statistically only 2% of rape allegations are false. I’m not advocating for women lying about getting raped but it’s not as big of a problem as you think. Rape perpetrators are rarely charged, the whole system needs to be fixed.
@JOSEPH STALIN that is absolutely not true. Most women never get justice for sexual crimes committed against them, they are stuck in limbo and rarely result in any actual punishment. I’m not saying it’s right for men to be falsely accused of rape or sexual assault but it’s just not as prevalent as actual rape cases are.
This is just awful, women can bring anyone down. I don’t even have a doubt in my mind that all that happened in the room was consensual, she gave her consent obviously and indicated her intentions to a friend. No, you can’t change your mind in the morning when you sobered up and call it rape. It’s crazy.
Exactly its not rape when someone changes their mind in the morning after all is said and done, that's regret not rape, they shouldn't ruin someone's life because they regretted their actions. If someone changes their mind before the act they should communicate that and whoever they are with must respect that.
@Paige Whitaker boy she said no after they raw dogged. It doesn't matter when she changed her mind. If a guy says no DURING sex, it's not taken seriously but a woman can say no ANYTIME. That's bull.
@Paige Whitaker First of all I never said “she has no right to revoke her consent”. I do not believe someone that eager to have sex earlier in the night is likely to withdraw their consent later in the room, it just doesn’t make sense to me. Is it technically possible? Sure. Is it likely? No. But I am not ignorant, I have reasons for the opinions stated above. Let’s assume that after displaying her intent publicly to many people, a girl changes her mind in the room, how do we prove she was raped? What kind of evidence would we need to prove that? No witnesses in the room obviously, only witnesses saying she displayed her intent to have sex. What we would need then are signs of physical force to prove that it happened, nothing else can prove it. I assume that was not the case here since he was cleared of all charges.
@@BansheeVanRaven but only women have actual legal standing in that - drunk women cannot give consent, but drunk men can. Please try and find this scenario the other way around, where a guy after a night of drunk sex claimed he was raped, and was taken seriously.
@@Dimensionalalteration of a hot guy who was tipsy came and wanted to get with you and you agreed cause you loved who you just met it’s gonna be harder even as a woman, please just stop
Consent goes both ways. Women need to hold themselves accountable when they get drunk and insinuate to a drunk man that they want to have sex. You can’t just have sex drunk then when you’re sober, get upset, and accuse the other of rape. Women will get drunk and act like they don’t have to be consensual but if a man gets drunk then you damn well better be sure the girl wants to have sex or avoid it until you’re sober.
Simple: Don't play the game. If you want a date, do find a partner on a sober environment, go shopping, a neighborhood gathering, on a church/synagoge/mosque/religious building, etc. Never go to a bar or a work party to get laid, specially on a work party.
Even that's not safe. I know a woman who asked a guy out for coffee, then invited him back to her place, had consensual s*x with him, then several days later claim she'd been forced upon.
@@silverfischdotnet no place is 100% safe. You could be a hermit for the rest of your life and never talk to women again. Will that be the "safest" option? Yes. Is that healthy? No. As a man, a life with 0% risk is not worth living. So choose the least risky environments when finding women, and live your life.
@@silverfischdotnet One night stands are at the highest risks a man can take for a few years now. I simply just avoid the trouble, and seek a partner if you are really looking for companionship other than s*x, that means dating without s*x until both of you are at an understanding of where the relationship is going. I for one I accepted the world as it is, I decided to live a monk live, more money for myself and my elderly parents. If you really want to do the nasty, check if it's legal where you live to pay for a pro, if not, take a sabbathical and check the nearest country to do the deed.
They need to start prosecuting these women that lie about things like this. Keep in mind after all this the woman that made the claims hasn't received any legal reprocussions.
FAKE a hate crime … GET CHARGED with a hate crime! Same goes for any CRIME THAT IS FAKED, because faking a crime IS a crime & should be prosecuted accordingly!
No one cares if you're Black. Just make your statement. You saying you're Black like rape only happens to black women. N yes, I'm a black man. There's no need for caveats. Just say what you want to say.
@@odizza1688 Huh? Nowhere in what she said insinuates anything what you said. You should look into why her saying that triggered you so bad, also the IRONY in you mentioning you're a Black man lmaooo. The jokes really do write themselves.
The fact is that the University gets to make their own judgement and I cases just like this all over the country, the GUY is always the one who gets expelled.
Actually, very few cases result in someone being expelled because it's a he said/she said argument. Because of the video, they reacted, though in a different way versus authorities. Bottom line, there are real cases of rape that occur on campuses and when you get cases like this, it makes it harder for other true cases to get resolved.
@@stephaniebrizard8657 there is a case right now where there was audio evidence that a rape did not occur and the school refused to hear it and expelled him anyway. He's suing them. Schools should not get to play judge and jury. There was another case that the woman accused THE WHOLE fraternity of raping her, they were all expelled only to find out later they were all out of town at an event the weekend that she claims it happened. Yes, there are plenty of cases where false charges resulted in men being expelled.
@@stephaniebrizard8657 also a point I didn't address the first time around.... Two statements can be true simultaneously. It can be true that rapes happen on campuses, and it can also be true that false charges happen. Everyone should be angry about false charges bc they take time/resources/attention to the real issues.
Really my biggest problem with situations like this is that majority of the time, both ppl are usually drunk and not thinking rationally so after the night happens, people love playing backseat detective and just assume that the guy was targeting her. It honest to god scares me as a college student that this could happen with how easy it is to be accused and I could be expelled even if I didn’t do it cause there are still ppl who will end up saying “Nah you just got away with it” or “why would she accuse you if she didn’t do it”. I know I shouldn’t be that scared cause of course majority of girls aren’t like this but the fear is still there. I just hate the double standards. It’s so messed up.
@@feliz2564 For me I never want to sleep with a girl unless I’ve been dating them for awhile and known them. I’m never having one night stands ever. Not risking it.
@@gregrothschilds8453 Oh yeah man same. F that. No amount of desperation is ever going to make me consider that option. The negatives out way the positives.
