What makes these women think they are deserving of such a man? And even if they DID come across such a man what makes them think he would be attracted to them?
Perfectly said: Same goes for Black woman hating on white women. What makes her think that the brother was ever going to be interested in Black women like her.?
doncalypso I don't know about you guys, but to me there is definitely a shift taking place- where the focus of relationships and dating is going back to men. Not what it's been over the years with entitled princesses, S/I chicks, etc.
Uncle Rom this shit is sooo deep. I think what people don’t understand is even rich, celebrity, musicians, artist, athletes, and etc… Are still human everybody got some flaw or disadvantage to them all of us do. I don’t know why women want the perfect man with her imperfect self! It’s literally human nature for men and women I say all the time” The most smart mf in the world and the most realistic ones” Look im 23 and young cat and I had to work to get mine coming up wasn’t always easy at all. I’m grateful for the girl I got now and work to be the best I can be everyday!
Has anybody ever ask these sisters what they have to offer the perfect man? Get real, many of them are a 7 at best, but they want a 10! They make 30,40, but seek a man making 200k or more with the Armani, BMW, home. Them, they got a (section 8) apartment, a kid or two and bad credit lol. But she act like you are the invisible man!!
Rom, I'm not even sure what to do, get a white or Latin woman? They don't seem to be as hard core as the sisters. Women come up to me and just start talking, but never a sister, smh!!
Hannibal1 Many brothas have said the same thing and yet American black women will go on national TV and say they can't find a man. Keep in mind there are many beautiful, intelligent, and friendly Black women from South America, the Caribbean, and Africa, oh yes Africa. Motherland curves are no joke. Plus foreign Black women have a tendency to show respect from the jump until you give them reason not to.
Rom, one of the best quotes from ur article "One, the Black relationship discussion needs to go beyond being the same old trite quoting of dubious statistics and really needs to go deeper into subjects we may be uncomfortable talking about"
That's the reason I stopped doing relationship panels. We really need to go deep which includes the affect religion has had on relationships. Indeed a significant portion of relationship dysfunction can be traced to religious indoctrination.
@@RomWills ...but what religion? Are we talking Christianity as the bane of Black existence? Or the religion of Athiesm? The feminazi cult? There are MANY religions that people follow.
Unc I been watching your videos for a while now and gain a lot of wisdom but I am finally understanding although you can be select woman by nature want men to pursue/chase them even if a man does not want to do that
Uncle can you do a video on when your trying to get with a woman and she says she needs time to work on herself. Example her excuse she just got out of a relationship she wants to be single for a while. Even though you know that your a qualified guy and she tells you this. thanks
It's true. A guy that rates a 6.5(looks), with a good job and is intelligent is usually standoffish with women that are his equivalent. He is usually aiming for the Pinkyys (phat asses) or super pretty women. Some 6.5 woman think that they look better than they actually do, so they aim for the Richy Richs and the pretty boys. IT'S A MESS!
I have situation where this girl thinks I'm the perfect guy for her, and she's constantly stating how much the guy before me was the "wrong guy". I did the choosing, but I'm not so sure about it now.
Well you chose her back. Trust me she chose you first by thinking you're the perfect guy. If you have a bad feeling back away. Don't regret it later on.
Not perfect but one who will give her the same respect. You can't expect her to be loyal and faithful if you won't be. I've never had a perfect man in my life but I gave opportunity and chances.
Rom Wills I don't and never would if I know of it and just because someone has an opinion doesn't mean it's only their experience. I have a large family of women about 20 I know what I've seen over the years. Good men like that are scarce and deep down I think you know that and the truth will set you free.
***** The scarcity thing is in your head. I've known dozens of Black women who had several progressive Black men as suitors. They knew that Good Black men are not scarce. Now i'm going on what BLACK WOMEN have told me. Plus I've SEEN how men were around these women. Their experience is as valid as yours. So what are they doing?
Rom Wills Unhuh. We out number you by 2 million. Then more of you are locked up or not on your feet (yes I know you've had help). But believe that if you want. I have no problem just admitting there is some jacked up blk women with funky attitudes but trying to get any blk man online to admit any shortcomings is damn near IMPOSSIBLE. That says a lot!
***** I notice you really don't answer my questions which says a lot about your integrity. Do yourself a favor and just move on. Seriously. I don't have time to play.
