Marriage Be Hard Podcast | Chance & Tabitha Brown 

I can see what she saw in him.

For real for real 🙌🏾

Oh...Kay! Straight up facts 💯 👏🏾👏🏾

You took the words right out of my mouth!

Facts!

YES. 🙌🏽😍 That’s the type of love I want.

She told the story of the early days and she use to ask him about marriage and it didn’t happen and she stated she got to a point she didn’t care about asking him about it anymore she “just wanted to be with him.” 🥰Your comment made me think of that. Them just wanting to be with each other is pure and beautiful

I love that !

A lesson to be studied 💯

@@nicolejames3054 I was just about to say something similar to that...I want to be more like that...

He been a police officer for probably about 15-20 years. He definitely learned skills that studies people.

So important

He’s very much like my father stern in the face , a man of few words but gives the best advice and shares great words of wisdom.

😂🤣

Right?!! Yes Chance!!!

I was the same way hahaha

A man who is lead by God, who prays for and leads his family to Christ will most definitely have a woman in a daze. It is so beautiful to see it! I agree with you!!!!

I love it. I respect her for that so much ❤

I love this about them. I believe she’s learned this from Chance because he expects her full undivided attention and so she gives it back in return ❤

Yaassss it’s the respect that she is able to have for him❤️

Rigghhhtttttt!!! #RESPECT #KING/QUEEN

😅😅

That part!!!!

Multiple studies have shown that women live happier and healthier lives being single then being married. Statistically speaking, women are happiest when single and childless in today's times. Also, women can have friends and biological family that they share a life with. We as humans need the presence of other humans in our lives yes. But we can live alone. We don’t need romantic relationships to survive. We do need love and support, but it can be from friends and family. It does not need to be from a romantic partner. Studies also show that single women are far happier than their married peers, and that married women lose out in career earnings, career trajectory, health, and life expectancy compared to those single peers as well. Married women tend to age more and have more health problems than single women do, and a lot of that is because of the stress that comes from being in a romantic relationship. Married women live shorter lives and report lower levels of happiness than women who never marry. Also, according to many studies, women have higher rates of depression when married. Over half of all women today are single, by choice. Statistics indicate that single women tend to have the highest life expectancy on average.

At that just beautiful and wholesome 🥰😍

Awwww that is so sweet🥰

Especially the Brown's.

@@belindalindsey7056 last Lloyd Webber

This!!!

My grandfather was like this. My grandmother, God bless her soul, was his everything. He literally was #teamfuckthemkids but he loved the grandkids (us) though lol.

Chance is legit 25 yrs old lol

Kids grow up and make their own life and family. But a husband and wife is forever. Marriage vows are between the husband and wife. Children are a byproduct of that.

Right

God bless that!

That was over 15 years ago

I used to do that to my mama too, she always made my stepdad plate, I hate it, I was the same way as choyce

That was hilarious😂😂😂

😂😂😂😂😂

Think it’s simply due to them just being true to themselves and not worrying about what others think or want to hear. Just sharing their experiences both good & bad. Love to witness it…

Go for it!! You won't regret putting the work in to not just exist in your marriage but thrive in it again

hugs

Restore your blessing Sis.May God bless you and your union to be what God designed it to be❤

Lol nah they just looking at that wedding nd being in glam lol

Facts

Exactly

Well said!

For some people they are excited about the wedding and forget that there’s marriage after the wedding day.

Love.

If I can ask, why did you decide to get married ?

@@thessysasa 1999? Why bother now🤣🤣🤣 I think she forced him to marry him🤣🤣🤣

@@thessysasa I hope you aren't asking that because they don't have children. Plenty of people want marriage without children. It's not a big deal.

@@lisacox3750 I'm not, so no need to assume that ;)

This. As someone who is getting married & someone who hasn’t had a great example, I look at them like my aunts and uncles with the good marriage. I like that their friends all show how multi-faceted a marriage can be and that it’s truly not a “one-size fits all”.

I second this! It’s Fri-Yaaaay anyway. I didn’t clock in to work. 😂

@@Love_intentionally_ Listen...I am sitting here refreshing every few seconds like we don't have an entire 15 minutes to go. They might come on early and I don't wanna be caught in work related activity and miss ANYTHING

Same and same! 😂

​@@chicenalee4459 Is that a live?

MY EXACT SAME FEELINGS🙌🏾❣️ THE PREPARING🙌🏾

Yes, they are a great couple to learn from. I love them.

I know! It's so interesting to go back to Kev's 2013 videos and see how Melissa has just blossomed! 🌸

Yeah it’s so amazing to see her growth. I went back and saw one of those early videos and she was very uncomfortable on camera. Several of those Love Hour videos early on were audio only with a picture of them. I don’t think she really ever wanted to be on camera but with time and experience she’s a pro now. 💪🏾

@@makreviews2146 this is my 1st time seeing their videos, and I'm like she's really good. She must have grown a lot, because she's a pro to me!

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This the one! I feel seen sis!

We see each other 😉

Yessss!!!

“Unconditionally”? 🤔 I’m on my 27th year and marriage definitely be hard. But it’s a daily choice for us both. I know for sure there are conditions for me to continually make that decision though. Just to name a few, respect, loyalty, emotional intelligence/availability, maturity, and commitment. Nothing in my life has been unconditional except for the love I have in my heart for the children I bore from my uterus. I completely understand that all marriages are absolutely not the same, but I don’t understand having no conditions on maintaining it in general.

You are absolutely right. Maybe unconditional was not the correct term because there are definitely conditions. I mean…deciding to love someone in spite of their imperfections and when it’s hard to.

@@theprofitpenthouse Thanks for the reply. I understand and completely agree.

Yess the nwigwe’s!

Yuppp

Yes!!! Both of those couples would be great.

I'm hollering 🤣🤣🤣 Gone ahead and slide your debit card into the card reader 🤣

dont push them... tryna pile too much into one thing. they already talk about the stress of having to do that in so many other areas. let's just appreciate this gift they gave the way they gave it✨

@@jck_777 I know it’s unlikely. But it’s wishful thinking.

Exactly!!! 😂

Yes, this right here! God answered, and gave you a reset.

@@lalalittle3900 Amen!! He really did.

You speak facts. My husband and I are introverted and really did need the time together. God, gave the world a chance to literally stop, smell the roses and look at whats happening and been happening around you.

@@pmccray551 Yes he did! I'm glad you and your husband had the chance to refresh as well!

Tab=It was hard because we didn't know who we were... I accepted it so long because I didn't know I didn't like it.

That's the key at any age.....talking things out.

You and I gotta have the same mom then, bc she told me the exact same thing 💀