@@robertrosales9641sorry to hear that, I am in the same situation you are. I made bad choices and know I'm paying the consequences. Give her some time and keep trying to communicate with her. I wish you the best and hopefully everything works out for you and your family.
My goal is to make it enticing enough for my wife to come back. By working on myself she called off divorce and committed to marital therapy. I want to get to the next level.
One of the reasons that I hate content like this is i am 18 minjtes in and there is almost no useful information so far. Alot of words, very little information.
Tell him things you'd like to add/change to the marriage and ask if he'd like to participate in the exercise it only has to be one thing if he doesn't participate he's not ready or maybe not willing to change but patience and humility are key
Nathan and Cody awesome job. When Nathan said lots of people are feeling like they don’t have any more yes left. That’s me. When Cody said his wife emotionally drained him. That’s my husband. He said no to couples workshop. I’m saying Yes to solo workshop. I will save up my money and have a great weekend learning about myself. Thank you Marriage Helper.
Finally when I am calm, some crucial questions in my mind after basic pies videos are answered in this video. Thank you so much! I dont know how to join workshops at one oversee country during the time of economically crazy though times (dollar is pretty high and I can not pay here, so I am listening free ones) . Thank you so much for your helps❤
So me and my wife are separated out of state, she says she is not ready but is possibly okay with me visiting for a weekend, but now hesitant. How do I handle this?
My husband has been having an affair since September 2022. Last year he made feeble attempts to want our marriage but went back to the affair partner! We are now waiting for the last part of our divorce to take place in July. It’s not something I want but his actions don’t show he wants to fight for me or our marriage. He seems to unhappy and miserable about the situation. I’m trying with the PIES but feel time is running out. Do I ask him if this is what he truly wants?
My husband has been having an affair since September 2022. Last year he made feeble attempts to want our marriage but went back to the affair partner! We are now waiting for the last part of our divorce to take place in July. It’s not something I want but his actions don’t show he wants to fight for me or our marriage. He seems to unhappy and miserable about the situation. I’m trying with the PIES but feel time is running out. Do I ask him if this is what he truly wants?
He won't know. The affair is like dopamine addiction. He needs to work on himself to get to the bottom of why he allowed himself to cheat. Yes, your marriage was over before he even cheated. He was miserable for sure. We all are before we do this. But the only thing you can control is yourself. Move on and maybe he'll come around. But know this. Even if he decided to work on the marriage, he has YEARS of inner work to do before he can even contemplate working on a marriage. So you'll be on standy for YEARS and YEARS. Find some way to be happy.
Guys all due respect but this is just filibuster your running on with nothing that gets to the point of your topic it looks like this is anther site just trying to get a check from utube and this is so sad because people who are really hurting an looking for help are being mislead like fish or cattle being loaded on a truck tobe sold
Horrible. What an evil man he is. She wasn't doing anything wrong! How is cooking in your OWN HOME a reason to be killed? Take his badge and put him in jail and see what he does when he feels threatened by his hot jail dinner each night! So sad. God bless this woman's soul up in heaven. She didn't deserve this she wasn't doing anything wrong. WTH?!
I don't know what to do my soon to be husband. Is chatting with one girl and say that they are friend but i find out that they are dating.he keep on telling me that he just messing around with that girl .he says he wants to be with me but i dont trust him and don't believe him .
At least delay the wedding until you get clarity. This is a red flag. Calm your emotions so you can think it through. Do the hard talk and see how committed he is. Losing a guy is a lesser casualty than losing yourself.
We offer a solo spouse workshop as well. It's the exact same information and workshop, but made specifically for 1 spouse. If you'd like to talk to someone on our team about the solo spouse workshop, you can click here! bit.ly/4aDw2cp
I definitely don't want to stay married. But I don't have a place of my own yet. He squandered a lot of our money. And also gave me a cancer virus. But I don't have the energy or money to fight him in court. I HATE how so many men talk about there being risks to marriage for only them! HA
My husband told me a week ago he blames himself for all the problems we had. How do i get him past the guilt to realize it was not all him and we can work on this together. We are scheduled for finalizing divorce on june 5th and I want him to want to stop the divorce. But right now i am not walking away even if the divorce happens.
Dont see any of this helpin revive and restore a marriage a wife compleyely destroyed with her lies and violating her vow that she promised FOR LIFE. And now everything is a complete mess and she wont even work on anything to make right what she ruined.
Nathan said they’ve been ‘doing this’ for 30 years. How is that possible when the internet hasn’t been around that long? Marriage Helper did not exist 30 years ago!
He's referring to the work that Dr. Joe Beam and the team has done for the past 30 years, and our 3 day intensive workshop has been saving marriages for 25 years!
