Marriage Or Career? | Khatta Meetha Pyaar | Life Tak 

"Jab se pata chala hai Sanjiv Kapoor ladki nahi, ladka hai" the way she so casually swings that 😆

We are first time parents,since 5 years all my in-laws including my husband,kept me busy in some or the other way,we both are doctors,at time of marriage only degree was asked but after marriage I got to know "Ladkiyan chahe jitna padh lein degree chulhe me hi lgani pdti",but I didn't have up,after lot of mess was created by my in laws,my leggings were banned,I couldn't wear gown to feed my daughter,my father in law got into my room at 12.30 a.m. just to cut my gown from siccors, in name of adjustments I faced a lot of mental harrasment and domestic violence,my husband who himself is a doctor is allowed to attend all seminars for me it's a big NO,after suffering a lot I decided to raise voice and my husband it's being 10 months haven't seen me and my daughter, believe me ,m not regretting my decision, because if a wife has spineless husband she can take him alongside but if a daughter has a spineless father, she'll be in utter danger, there by I left that place.

No one should give up...I too left my job because of marriage and now I lost my identity too

It seemed like my story. Thank you for proving me right

M lucky enough to get a husband who is not only my husband but also my guide n philosopher who helped me shaping my career and stood by my side till I got the job. Very few husband do this.

Can't understand why a woman should compromise just because she is married.. Our society really needs a wakeup call. U guys are going a great job by portraying such important issues where women are always stereotyped. Awesome.. Keep it up..

Marriage k wqt boys working, independent woman dundte hai. Or marriage k baad they wnt us to quit work. They should marry not-working woman at first only.

When women don't work and choose to be homemakers, men have a problem with it... They look down upon such women...... When women are career oriented , then too men have a problem 😂.... Bhai problem kya hai.... Jeene nahi doge kya

The removing of the choora I can so relate to it...I also removed it half cos it was irritating me during office nd household work. But it became a big scene at my inlaws. Still they taunt me. Nd please don't expect wife to cook after office hours, sometimes it's not possible.

Right.. My sister in law face same problems in Love marriage and finally ... After 2 years she divorce that person...

M ...one of those happy woman... who look to my career as well as my home... simultaneously... thanx to Allah for getting such an understanding husband

Never forget to give yourself priority first. It is equal responsibility of both husband n wife to save a marriage. I am happy that the girl in video didn't agree with her husband or his unreasonable demands.

Who gave husbands all the right to decide what and how wife should be...aisa hai to first of all be mature then take responsibility of new relationships or marriage

Noooooo wayyyyy......this girl has every right to choose and do her work with same pride and dignity as she was pursuing her career before marriage....totally with her....and only mistake she did was unable to read the real mentality of guy who approached her...she should have made each and every think clear to him and in laws from beginning only...come on guys we girls also invest the same hard work,bear same stress to make our career .We also prefer independency and see our life for a purpose.

if there is a proper understanding between husband and wife then nothing matters

Every married women has also the right to work and live their career for which they have had lots of struggles..so yes it was an extremely good decision to oppose Anuj's thought of view about the job

Bhai, my husband left his well paying corporate job and followed me to another country, where I pursued my career. He took care of home and us, for 5 years. He started working again, when he found something he really liked and didn't come back home frustrated like he did in his corporate job. Life is beautiful with just a bit of understanding and a lot less of ego.

I love the way how this girl shows our women independence through her stern character I just love the way how she does all this,her strict acting stern attitude and that swag personality seriously inspiring!!🌚🌚💜💕

She is completely right leaving career and dreams is not an option

a girl's carrier is the result of all those restless and sleepless nights she sacrificed for that dream job she always want to get. How could she quit her job? She had done everything what a boy does to make his carrier.

But after marrige 95% boys change their statement....ase nh chlege vase hi hoga etc etc bz...

Koi baat ajeeb nai lgg ri. You are correct. Safety issue hota to alg baat thi...but things are different here

Choosing career over saving marriage is really tough but the wisest thing to do.It will inspire others too.

Same story everywhere after marriage most of female's r forced to sit at hme looking at kid's

its time for boys and men to understand that we are not machines to work around house hold chores,we too have a choice to grow in our career.Their moms are responsible for their thinking,its time for us to make an equal dominancy society and not only men dominant society.

I can't believe few people disliked it. They need to rethink the way they think.

That's what India demands..not that stupid submissive portal of dumb ladies more... great concept..loved it ♥️♥️♥️

One advice for girls !!! Never leave your career for marriage. It's your basic survival asset and identity. I know, at some point, women need to take career breaks or avail for work from home jobs/businesses. But if your husband and/or in-laws expect to leave your career permanently, never ever do that. Housewives ko milti kya hai taane sunne ke elava. Apni mummy ko bhi bht bhugat te huye dekhi hun. Aur ab unhone humesha mujhse kehti hai, ki ladkon ki tarah ladkiyon ko bhi independent banna zaroori hai. Main yeh nhi keh rhi hun ki families ignore karo, but kisiko apna survival asset aur identity mat cheen ne do. Aur families maintain krna dono ki responsibility hai. Money is not everything, but without money, you are nothing, koi aukaat hi nhi hai tumhara !!!

M a single independent girl n I know the value of being independent I can never trade this happiness with anything stupid like this...very nice message

Career is more important than anything ❤❤...& no one should quit their jobs for such a stupid reason

every woman should be financially independent, whether she is single or married...

both can go hand in hand although its tough but nt impossible..its always possible if the husbnd is supportive..so hsbnd also decides this..

I understand the things. The passion, education, hard work. But being a girl I would like to add on that marriage is not something you Live alone. It's a walk of life holding hands of each other. Hence sit, talk and come to a conclusion. *Shouting is not an option*

I just loved the Sanjeev Kapoor wala jawaab😂

अरे ..my husband does all household work with me ,we both are professional and we are best friends .

Self respect is more than anything in this world except GOD🙏😇

I am not even 2 minutes into this video, and I say women should work. I live in the city of Bangalore, and living in a city like this with a family cannot happen with a one person’s salary. However, it isn’t just about the money. It is far more complicated than that. We NEED to change with the times, and women need to have financial independence in today’s day and age. That way, in case the marriage does turn toxic, women are empowered to walk out of it with their head held high.

Dislikers must be conservative boys!😂

She is soo right. I think no one is right to control someone life, like her husband was trying to do.

A man should change his way of thinking. Why always a girl will sacrifise every tym. Today's world girls are as equal as boys.If a guy has this type of thinking , then he should marry a girl who becomes housewifeband manages the houseold chores. That's it

The perfect line at 8:46 !!! Girls should remember that !!!

This is so true in today's life for a lot woman. Great video

when I was a baby my dad said to my mom that one of have to leave the job, and then said that he will. he took some holidays in starting, I was so attached to my mom that didn't ate food and said "mamma". my mom had to leave her job and dad continued. now my mom is happy being with her kids. but the thing I want to tell that my dad said that he can also leave his job and my mom can continue

everyone is complaining about their situations. if a man has a problem it's better he should marry a girl who doesn't work. 2nd suggestion required if the wife is working what husband should do except supporting how he handle wife and Childers if he is doing the job as well?

Bohot acchi content thi. Loved it

Woman working after marriage is fine but why being the housewife is showing very low being house wife is not a easy task

Very well said....i left my career for family,my husband never support me and now husband and kids say....do something earn something for urself.....even after 25 yrs ...how can i now🥺🥺🥺

Yes that is right . All girls must stand for our career

I love u team...💘💘 Such fab content.. protrayed amazingly.. i keep watching ur video till late nights.. can't get enough.. ek aur ek aur.. bore b nahi hota.. great job👌👌🙌🙌🙌

The people who are disliking this video .They might belong to her husband character.

Dude. Imagine a man reaching home after work at 12:00 or 1:00 at night... Doesn't a woman feel alone? It's not the matter of gender. The timings are so fked up whether it's for a man or a woman.

This is what I think that before marriage , we should try to understand our partner completely , try to know about their opinions , way of thinking , point of view about different things and situations...and firstly before marriage we have to decide that we are ready or not ready to make someone a priority of our life above than anything or any other person... In this video , girl is not ready to make her husband a priority of her life bcz for her , work is more important... so every girl has to discuss all the things like this before marriage from her partner And in the video boy is trying to control his wife. He already knew about the job of his wife and if he had a problem with that he should tell her before marriage... So the conclusion is before marriage , try to communicate with your partner. Don't be so fast in taking your decision. Test your partner in different situations . Bcz it is important to have conversation. And comment section me kuch logo ke disgusting comments pdh kr too lgta h ki India ki youth generation ki soch kafi peeche rh gyi...It's 21st century guyz , both men and women are equal in every manner. It's your way of thinking that creates the discrimination between men and women... BE A MAN , A REAL MAN...Be a man like your wife and daughter have to be proud of having you in their life...☺

Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice... Only God can save our country.🤣🤣

Girl,I appreciate your decision.Even today,many boys thing that marrying a Government employee girl or a school teacher/professor is good,but marrying a Corporate sector girl not good enough.If u do survey u can check it out ,in Private companies there are few girls working (age group-40-50),most of the girls quit their job at the age of 35-40.

Thank you @LifeTak.... Our society and the people seriously need a change in mentality.... It'll come only when we'll stop compromising.... Why only a man's career is important post marriage and not of a girl? Don't understand and unfortunately the scenario is really sad... ☹️

Too good man just amazing💕😍

i really appreciate the concept. Nice video. ❤️❤️

I just watched one video and kept watching on binge. Combination of superb acting and mind-blowing concept is fabulous.👍❤️

Yes of course❤ You r absolutely right.

Owsame concept. Need more video like this.

Why they always shows husband dont want their wife to work..instead there are men and in-laws who are very supportive also.

Awaaz Uthao and DON'T Compromise your CAREER ever..!

Awesome ! And, very true indeed. Excellent masterpiece !

I highly appreciate working woman, her thoughts also.

I think u are absolutely right.... And u are so cute😍 i luv u so much by the way my name is Anushka

Fully support the woman in this, she deserves her career.

I m literally impressed with this video.... Very nice.. 👍👍

Bilkul sahi jawab diya girl ne. I totally support her.

Yes sister, you are right about what you are saying in ending. Really nice message 👍.

Itni dikkat thi ladki ki job se to job na karne wali ladki se shadi karta

Jo marzi keh lo Zada paise kamane ka pressure humesha ladko pe hota hai Ladke chah k bhi ghar nahi sambhal sakty atleast jb bache sambhalne ki baat ho tab toh kabhi nahi Aapme se jo bhi single log is comment ko padh rahe hain me onko kehna chahunga k os ladke se shadi karo jo aapse zada kamata ho taaki aage chalkar jab aapko thode time k liye job chorni bhi pade toh problem na ho Aur jo ye femenism ka argue karna chahte hain vo ye samajh lein k Ladke na toh bacha paida kar sakty hain na hi onko initial stage pe sambhal sakty hain

True. I truly admire this bold step... Bcoz I also took onr

That's very correct one must speak out and stand for their rights! Equality must prevail and males must understand it that we are both worth equal of doing same things

Nice concept 100% agreed, women should work after marriage. Good luck guys👍👍

Partner ki baath manna matlab compromise karna nahi hota and a actual partner will always appreciate u in every situation

The essential thing-speak up for your self. Ghar bachane ke liye chup rehna koi samjhdari nahi jaha dusre ko uski zimmedario ka ehsaas nahi or apne sath valo ke grow karne se problem ho

dude everything comes last when compared to someone's career whether a girl or a boy it's your career over everything else in the world i don't know how you guys can manage with people like this

😂 3 rd clss mentality people's 😂

Much appreciated ❤️ lots of love you. Really very nice in current scenario

He knew her even before marriage,he met her at her workplace and he has objection about work... If he didn't like her job then he shouldn't have married her at first place 👍

Of course women should do work even after marriage👍👍👍

I really understand this..bcz m also from same Field

So true n real subject.. you got a new subscriber

Such a right way of self respect,hats off

अजीब समाज है लडकियाँ पढ लिखकर नौकरी करे ।मगर शादी होते ही अपने सपने भूल जाए।नौकरीपेशा पत्नी नही चाहिए थी तो शादी क्यों की।जो वजह पति दे रहा है. वह तो बहुत ही हास्यास्पद है।

I am facing the exact situation in life.

Aaj k time mei aisi kafi ldkiya hai jo ghar pr rhna psand krti hai agar husband acha kmata hai or family mei inlaws naa ho to ldkiya ghar pr rhna pasand krti hai ...

Awesome concept yr.... Love you guys 👍👍👍

There is a limit....from both sides after marriage

Career is important for gals to stand up on there own

You did right,I'm proud. All women's should take these steps.

Girl should have to choose career first than the marriage.Bacause it made you independent and no one can restrict you for anything.

I think career is 1st options for every gawl

Excellent content ma'am. Lots of people sometimes forget that everyone is depositing lots of effort, hard work and dedication to develop their career and end of the day women sacrificed their career in the name of taking care of family. It is completely unethical to ask women to sacrifice their career. May be our society was initially designed from this perception but now time is getting changed and it is up to the women to voice out their opinion and save their career. After all if both husband and wife are working they can have the better future in terms of financially and their kids future will be more secured. Splendid and awesome content. Lots of love from Kolkata.

Wonderful video u r totally right....I appreciate 😍🙋

You are right in every way. Totally agree with you 💯

For me , LOVE is Priority Happiness of my Partner

Though both can and should work for more affordability but at the same family equation should be kept in tact. Meaning one should not be at the cost of another.

Gud msg dear....bt am lucky to have understanding husband....who appreciate my career always....

Married a wrong person is a poisonous,I wish my husband could change his mindset.🤞