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Ladka kaa vi dikhao hamara kitna struggle from society to wife everything bas view kelie ladko ko kharab dikhao all are impressed humpe jo gujarti he wo vi to dikhao

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if ur husband can give u a clam life and supportive then marriage life becomes easier and peaceful. House work doesn't matter. Maid also can do that thing. Be happy in life and try to maintain peace in home.

@@priyankapanigrahi6377 goes the same way with women too. For a marriage to be peaceful and healthy both man and woman must contribute sanity.

Yes

Men also thankful not lucky to take responsibility of whole family in terms of income if they doesn't has that income then dog will pee on him and no one going to ask them that how are they

@@rajatkumarmalana2091 sahi kaha apne bhai har bar hum mardon ko samjaya kiun jata h.humari feeling ni hoti kiya

@@khizarhasan1585 sahi he Vai jo vi ho hum hi galat he kyon ki hum mard he and we are not lucky we are bound to do work at any cost

@@rajatkumarmalana2091 ha .aur ek kaho apke India m ek law aya h ke ager wife ager sex na karna chaye use right h .but what about man wo kaha jaye.ager mard sex na karna chaye tu wahi aurat kahi aur mu mare phir bi mard ko kahe ge wife ki needs pori ni karta .

@@khizarhasan1585 nahi India me wesa koi law nahi he bas ye he ke affairs he to by law wo koi problem nahi he after marriage also agar succide kuchh koi karta he to problem he

That's where it NEEDS TO STOP. Don't allow just treatment. Explain politely just like she did in this video.

Even then she listens ki kam hi kya hai ghar mein😭

Most women don't earn equal to husband

I am a Doctor..!! I still have to work full day..! I stay frustrated whole day and it is leading to fight between us..!! Even during periods he doesn't understand..

Because earning money is not her main responsibility, She wants to prove to be equal to man..if she is that capable to perform her household duties and do the outside earning job, good for her!

I hope you know that you are an exception to the traditional Indian mindset. It is always nice to have such examples growing up

@Raghunath Reddy How many men marry a woman who earns equal salary, or at least equal designation. How many men agree if a woman has equal or more properties on her name. Why to take dowry then that too in crores. Let that amount be in the name of girl only. How many men will marry a girl who is superior to them. At that time Male ego will come on their way na. Will you get your sister or daughter married to a man who is earning less or is low in status. In present generation girls are also equally educated, toppers. But still people choose a girl who is less in age as she be a fresher or low designation, low salary. Suck their parents blood in the name of dowry, gifts what not.

@Raghunath Reddy yes people like you want working woman who earnings equally, bring property and fill your pockets. And then you want them to do household work, treat them as slaves. Household work is not a big deal, but then people start talking woman for granted. If they say anything they are called dominating and arrogant. Woman are just expected to earn bring properties then work as slaves at home. What's wrong if husbands helps her, When both are earning. I am not talking about housewives. I am talking about women who are working rather in your language who are earning equally. What's wrong if a working women has her own personality, her own space, her own freedom, needs help with work, looking after kids, cooking. Coming to property there are many husbands who can't bear having a property on wife's name, they cheat and take it. Recently this channel has only put such video you can see that. You maybe free , you may give freedom to your wife , you may feel happy about your wife earnings equally or more than you, you may be happy if she's having multiple houses or lands on her name. But everyone is not like that. There are people who still take dowry or they feel that they will become low. Every man may not be like that and every woman is also not like that there are few gold diggers who just want to sit and enjoy husbands money. But everyone is not like that. But don't generalize it. Only because you had some bad experiences.

@@patriotic190 ye toh sahi kaha aapna , but girls buy them na , if they are offering money they just buy them!! And ladke bik bhi jaate he for lakhs /crores in the name of good looking, highly educated,great bank balance etc..

@Raghunath Reddy bahut bura hua he apke saath lagta he😧

@@patriotic190 ha sahi kaha he aapne, society aise bana dia he ki women need to do household works even if she works out becoz working is optional!! Whereas as male has that choice of only work, and it comes under the husband's choice it's their wish to help in household works or not, whereas women doesn't have that choice,☹️

Then the husband won't cook if she won't celebrate it.

That's very good upbringing👍

@@monikaazariah9237 yes I have felt that.

You are lucky

Aur koi bhai hai tumare husband ka?

@@jojo-dr8tp again lucky😊

@Raghunath Reddy video dekha nahi Kya? Girl bhi financially help karti he or normal he ke ladkiya acha ladka dhunde ladke bhi look ke hisab se ladkiya dekhte hi he.

@Raghunath Reddy 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Yup their manipulating as if they cares for their son, bro etc 🙄 as if we are some alien came to their home to work as a maid and saying one tag line my son/ bro doesn't do any work as if a pride for them 🤦 this thinking has to be changed first.In my home my bro/ father used to help us in all works strange when we enter this alien family and all girls didn't choose guy for money wealth etc but choose a guy for his good family name but in reality they won't be without proper information so many parents giving their child to this type of family

@Raghunath Reddy u are partially wrong not every girl choose their partners based on look status & etc etc nor do their parents... Sensible parents & girls choose the man based on his character & family also... & if you are saying girls & their parents should learn something that something is not to choose any man for their daughter rather let them educated as much as the girl want & should encourage them to be self independent & also you guys & family of boys how can they say that girl's parents only noticed money & status then why do they care about girls fair, beauty, figure, hair, & so many things like how to cook,sew etc etc & nowadays jobs also then not boys & their families are greedy ? Not they are in much fault & that happens from ancient days a little bit problem in girl & they will reject her within a second like she is object & they don't buy anything with dispute why then where guys like you are gone...and I am saying this without including The dowry part...you guys want fair beautiful educated hardworking girls as your wife you can worship Goddess kali but can't accept Kali ladki... So please in the name of god Change your pathetic mindset otherwise if someday you would have daughter her life will be miserable... Be more sensible when talking about things like this & before pointing your fingers on someone else please make sure to watch yourself first.

Yup I also think boys parents are the men to hold the responsibility but sad reality they don't think like that they felt relief when their son had been born & because till today our society thinks sons are everything & daughters are nothing so they didn't bother to teach them how to treat someone's daughter & these things mentioned in the video for those parents are like aisa nehi hota hamare culture mein!!!! (Not every parent & not every boy)

Rightly said!!

Which they suck at 🤣

@@praneetaoconnor 100% true 😂

Absolutely 👍

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Mere ghar me to mujh se zyada achcha khana mera 10 year old bhai bana lega lol. Me to kitchen se hamesha door hi rhti hu and mera bhai mummy ka cooking observe krta hai. He's unique lol. Even though Maine hi kind of use first time chai banana sikhaya tha and after that usko kitchen me hi dekhti hu mai maximum😂. He's the best Even though mujhe ittu sa bhi respect nhi krta

Lol absolutely I help a lot more around the house But my brother will help ONE DAY and they won't shut up about it for a week and talk crap about how "little"i help.

Toh bache ko sikhao fir khana banana aur jaruri kaam chahe ladka ho ya ladki. Humre ghar mein toh mere daddy ji and chacha sabse acha khana banate hai aur 10th board ki chuttiyo mein maine bhi khana banana seekh liya aur mujhe sikhane ki jagah Mummy bolti ladke thodina khada banate hai ladko ka kitchen mein koi kaam nahi hai. Par fir bhi maine youtube se dekh dekh kar khana banana seekha Aur job ke saath saath main khud apne saare kaam karta hoon aur teeno meal khud prepare karta hoon bahar se laane ke bajay

@Raghunath Reddy no offence But i just can't think from where did u get these statistics 😂😂 to be fare First of all most of the women getting married don't get much opportunity to work or to live there dreams as a result they end up marrying and in most of the case the guy don't give recognition to her household work... And most of the case family don't take a maid Or if they get most of them only to clean floor, not to wash dishes and clothes, not to cook, not to decorate and take care of home which mostly only wives do and believe me it takes effort....

@Raghunath Reddy u have such hatred for women, but forget that because of a woman u are here in thid world and talking nonsense about women. U are a gold digger it seems from ur comment and thought process. U can never do what a women does, will u take ur wife's surname? Will u like if ur wife gives her surname to your child? Will u go and live in your wife's house? No never. U wont do any of these and u claim that men are something too Great?have u done a household chore in your life? If u are not married, u should not. It will be the girl's misfortune if she marries u. U are bloody dowry monger it seems.

Fantastic comment Nirmal Kumar.

Correct

Nirmal Kumar g apke jese sab ho

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Same happens in my home too🙄

Just ask her a simple question....*kya mere mummy Papa mere janam hote hi ye sapne dekh rhe the ki mein v kahin kisike Ghar Sara jutha saaf karun*....even not your parents, brought you up to clean the dishes☺️

This is absolutely correct. It’s the mothers of the sons who just can’t digest it when they see them helping in the kitchen. Maybe it’s the insecurity of seeing their son close to another woman...idk.

Because mothers are victim of this instead of hating her ...she was conditioned like that ...

Wht\y should man cook can work at same time !!!! Idiot

Always stay happy and blessed.❤️

@@rahbar947 Thank you so much

Share this video with everyone including your husband who claims that you are the 'lucky' one.

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Yes Absolutely Finally someone said this

Yes,you are right Shreya but society doesn't even try to understand this simple thing...

I m not agree....for urs sentence

@@indranigoswami491 Well,its completely logical,now if basic logic doesn't enter their clogged brain,what can anyone do then !!!

@@priyankabandgul789 Wishing u a good life then 🤣🤣

You should be proud Dear, my Husband also does most of the cooking and cleaning.. accept people around us has always appreciated this, but does that make any difference really ?? It's all about how you both wanna live your life afterall.. God bless you both..🙏

My dad also does cooking and its completely fine

@Unknown so true , found this issue has become common now. We really need some laws inorder to support men

Not every male is ungrateful chauvinist please . Om shanti

@@kris05178 I didn’t generalise!! Unfortunately you missed that!!

What if your husband hires a maid so that he can outsource 50% of his part of work?

@@gohan12991 I think both should hire a maid so that both of them can focus on their careers and there is no chillam chilli on bartans after coming home from a tiring day.

Can't expect in an Indian house hold, it should be made part of a school curriculum 🤔🤔🤔

Maid hire kar le itna problem hai ti

@@gohan12991 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣ek no bhai

@Apoorva Tyagi Usko acchi salah hi di maine. Itna problem hota hai usse to wo maid kyu nahi hire kar leti? Phehle se hi pati itna kaam karte hai, patni se jyada kamate hai, taxes file karte hai, lekin fir ghar aakar wapas kaam karo. Bhaad mein gaya tumhara feminism

@Apoorva Tyagi Matlab husband ghar ke bahar 12-13 ghante rahe aue ghar aakar bhi kaam kare? Waah. Wo bhi to bohot mehnat kar raha hai na. Wo bhi to travelling kar raha hai to uski biwi ko usse support karna chahiye. Jitne bhi mardo ko main jaanta hu hamesha apna time dete hai weekends ko apne baccho ko, grocery shopping karne jaate hai, even weekdays ko milk ya phir kuch lekar aate hai office se. Ab itna to kia na. Aur kitna chahiye?

@Apoorva Tyagi Afraid of equality? Thodi jimmedari rehti hai aurato ki aur mardo ki. Jyadatar aurato ko jyada kamane waale ladke chahiye rehte hai to ofcourse pati ghar pe kam kaam karega. Upar se jab baccha aaega to maa hi uski jyada care karegi na.

Khch nai..sab ghar me mahabarat karwane wale content hai..!!😔

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That's great... And im really sorry about the passing of your mum... May God bless her soul with Eternal Peace 🙏

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Ye sab to mujhe bhi karna aata hai, diaper bhi main apne bacche ka khud hi badalata tha par baad mein meine apne career pe focus kia aur ye sab chor dia. 12-13 ghante ghar ke bahar rehkar aaunga to thodi na ye saare kaam karunga. End mein wife ko job chodni hi padi due to our 2 kids.

@@gohan12991 yahi to problem hai tumne kyu nahi chodi job ussne he kyu iske jagah koi maid rakh lete ot dono milke apne baccho pe dhyan dete

@@ashanasinha671 kyunki main ofcourse jyada kamata tha aur mera career usse better hai. Normally ladkiya hi job chodti hai kyunki wo baccho pe jyada accha dhyaan deti hai.

Phehli baat , tum aurato ko jyada paise kamane waala ladka chahiye rehta hai, agar waisa hoga to wo jyada ghante kaam karega na. India mein men 55 hrs average pe kaam karte hai aur aurate 39 hrs in a week. Isme travelling ka time nahi include hua hai. Matlab mard 13 ghante ghar ke bahar rehte hai. Ofcourse wo ghar aake thodi na kuch kaam karenge. Aur bacche hue to fir daycare, unki padhai, pta meetings sab kuch maa ko hi to karni padti hai.

@@gohan12991 Kon si duniya me ji rahe hain aap?? Aaj ki tareekh me ladko ki ye demand rehti hai k unko working wife chahiye taakey ghar k tamaam expenses ka bojh dono mil kar uthayein. Jab ladko ki aisi demand hai to ladkiyo ka bhi sochna sahi hai...k phir ghar ka kaam bhi dono mil kar karein.

@@khadeejaansari9860 Haa to working wife sirf isiliye chahiye ki chote mote kharche nipat jaye aur kabhi aadmi ki naukri chali gayi to fir 2-3 mahine patni ki salary se aaram se kat jaye. Ladkiya aajkal 2x 3x salary maangti hai ladko se in Arranged marriage. Ye sach hai. Aur mai apni hi duniya mein jee raha hu. Corona ke phehle 7:30 am ko uthkar 8 baje office ke liye rawana hota tha. Fir 7:30pm ko office se nikalkar 8:30 ya phir 9 baje ghar pohochta tha. Abhi kya mai 9 baje ghar pohoch kar khana banana shuru karu? 13 ghante bahar raha to thakawat to hogi hi na. Sirf 2-3 ghante milte hai baccho ke sath aur patni ke sath time bitane ke liye. Thodi na mai raat ko bartan dhote baith jata hu. Par tabhi bhi main apni wife ki respect karta hu ki wo shaam ko jaldi aakar, daycare se humare bacche lekar khana banati thi sabke liye aur bai aakar saaf sfai karti thi. Sirf mujhe sat Sun free milta hai wo bhi second sat and 4th sat holiday. Sirf uss din hi mai apne baccho ke sath time spend kar sakta tha pure din. Beech beech mein wife ki thodi madad bhi kar deta tha jaise plumbing ka mano jhol hua, ya phir breakfast banana par mujhe weekends par to wife aur baccho ke sath time bitana jyada pasand hai, chores karna nahi kyunki meri wife ko time milta hai baccho ke sath aur bacche jaldi bade hote hai. Main hi akela aisa mard nahi hu. Aise metro cities mein bohot mard hai jinhe 3 ghante ki travelling karni padti hai aur 10 ghante ka kaam. Unko bologi aap ghar aakar bartan dhone ke liye? Thankfully meri salary thodi badh gayi to meri wife ne bhi job chor dia kyunki bohot hectic ho raha tha uske liye. Main usko hamesha raat ko sir aur shoulder massage karta tha kyunki wo itni tired rehti thi. Abhi wo utna tired nahi rehti kyunki bhaag Dowd nahi karni padti. Hum husband log bhi to taxes karte hai, investments karte hai. Uske liye bhi research lagti hai acchi khaasi to husband bhi help karte hai, family responsibilities lete hai.

@@gohan12991 Itna lamba jawaab likhne ka time h aap k paas.....matlab bartan dhone ka bhi time nikaal hi sakte hain aap.

प्यारी हो 👌🙏💐