I truly appreciate you guys even as somebody who doesn’t fallow Islam I am so fascinated in the religion. I grew up Christian so I know what it’s like to have “girl talk” but it used to make feel so shameful for feeling the way I did as a teen. Thanks again. Sending love
I am also a nonmuslim who comes here to learn. I read so many bad news about islam, but i believe in balanced and diverse learning so after bad examples I also check some positive content
@@eldersrollsapprentice6306 I was laughed at recently for saying that Islam was actually a very loving religion. It's sad. What the media portrays Islam is like portraying Christians as followers of Charles Manson or Jim Jones!
Mubina I absolutely love your eyes you can actually see how your feeling. I don't need to "See Your Face" to tell how your feeling. I can picture your smile, pain etc by your eyes. You both are amazing and inspiring.
⚠️ATTENTION PLEASE ⚠️ 1. This is a GIRL TALK video 2. Before pointing out others faults and sins, take a DEEP look inside your heart, mind and thoughts... 3. Don't judge a book by its cover (thumbnail, in this case)... Jazakallahu khairan 🙂😊
We have discussed stranger topics on our channel.. I am confused over why some people are pressed over two women talking to other girls about these topics :/
@@madihapraise actually misogynist sexist want women to shut up & not want women to show their emotions. Their r some misogynist who r just hating women
Regarding the not praying if you have your period, the people noticing you are not praying, I would think they would assume the men would make an assumption that you were on your period and just not say anything. If they do ask, I would just straight up tell him. I mean sometimes I answer questions like that simply to teach people to not ask questions unless they are sure they want to really know the answer.
This was really cute and informative. I'm planning to marry a man who is Muslim (I'm not) and obviously, I'm not going to ask him the period questions but kinda need to know. I knew about men lowering their gaze I have traveled to or lived in many Islamic countries. I was in one (I believe Algeria) and a man kept staring at me. I was wearing a hijab so my hair didn't show (it's long curly and auburn) and this man kept staring. Finally I mentioned it to the man who was accompanying me and he got angry and told the man to lower his gaze. Anyway, the stare man apologized and asked if I have red long hair. His eyes looked familiar but he had a beard etc. Turns out we knew each other from working together in another country. We had a nice laugh. I just thought he was being a creep 😂
:) My whole family is from Algeria and people don’t even know it exists. My best friend thought that it was in Korea! So glad to see a story in Algeria and that was an amazing story!
Wow that’s how u act because someone looks at you. Seems like Islam is the religion for you after all. 👍 Hope you know what your getting into. Good luck.
I feel like that attitude makes us look weak (the woman tribe). If we are empowered enough we will go and talk to a man even if he is a stranger. I don't think it's gotta do with religion its just got to do with out beliefs and attitudes.
Mubina: I wanted to marry an older guy until I met Garrett and I was shocked how mature he was. Garrett: *screams "wHo cAn sEe yoUr faCe???" while dancing uncontrollably* (btw it's a joke, I'm 100% sure that he's also super mature and wise, love you guys)
I absolutely love it 💕 I'm a 12 ye old Muslim girl and I'm Egyptian but I've never really had a girl talk, most of my conversations with my classmates or friends trying to have a girly talk and like you know, the way you do it, ends up with thinking that I'm a creep or clear confusion, or just them being a friend of mine so I'd have to drift off to a small talk about anything far from what we were saying...but anyways I loved this video and I hope there's more 💕💕
You know, I love this channel, ive never been interested in any religion or even cared to read up on them but I love watching your vids about yours. I may no agree/follow everything but the core values i very much enjoy/agree with. I also love that you arent trying to shove your lifestyle down others throats, too many people do that. Keep being you!
i was born out of wedlock and so i personally see nothing wrong with having a child before marriage i think that we should all support that but i definitely respect the opinion of not having children until after marriage:)
Individuals can make families in all cases, but bringing a child into a committed family with a network of support will always be ideal for that child. We may not agree that marriage achieves that goal and that's okay. Stability in a healthy relationship is best for children and where we can achieve it, we should try.
So you may lucky person In most societies it is bad,although it is legaly Socialy unacceptable , Mum may faced different problems race the child,if dhe kick out of her house,in most asian country it is a common thing, And people will Say child a bastard,so i dont say abortion is good, But it not promoed, Child must have a happy Strong family
@@fairy3560 Ideally, parents would marry in a loving committed relationship. The closest to that a child can be provided without sacrificing peace and love in their home is most ideal.
I know Mubina mentioned it’s a girls only video but I learned so much! Jazakullah khayrun to the both of you! Love ❤️ you all so much my sisters. Your brother in Islam from Canada 🇨🇦
I’d assume like if you’re young you can tell your father “hey I’m out of pads can we go get some?” And that be alright Even in our “culture” it’s not ideal to discuss it with men/boys because most are pretty immature about it haha Also the sex thing always makes me laugh cause I’m like?? Well they’re here are they not?! How else are babies made?? 😂😂 it’s just not allowed until after marriage
You should be comfortable enough to ask that from your father or brother. Maybe it’s just me but even though I grew up in a very strict Muslim family my father was very open minded about monthly cycles and giving birth (maybe it’s because he is a doctor but I’ve always felt comfortable enough to ask him anything and he never shamed me or got angry about it.) it really does depend on how your parents are. Alhamdulilah I was blessed enough to have an open minded father and a mother who cared enough to explain everything naturally
I’m glad this addresses the misconception “sexual intercourse is not allowed in Islam” ofc it is allowed, just not till after marriage, how else do we thing we were all made? It’s an act of intimacy.
Great video 😊. It's just a few people in the comments that don't understand. Hopefully, Insha'allah their minds will find the right path and stop being so judgemental.
Thank you ❤️ I was actually surprised to read some of those comments, but what can we do when culture has ingrained us to think periods are a cuss word :/
It is interesting that girls talk are really familiar all over the world😂 Im from Japan, but the content of girls talk are almost same! It is interesting to hear others girls talk and I always love your video💕
Yes I definitely think religious comes in I am a Christian and I want them to have the same beliefs as me in that way I want someone that’s going to help me grow as a Christian that’s just something I look for
Genuine question. You said she wore a face veil in school when you guys met, but you went to a segregated female school. Did she wear her veil in school even around all women? Is that real common with niqabis in female only schools? Or is it common for them to remove their veil after they get to class? Thanks
Mashallah ....i got very happy to see a muslim couple following all the terms and conditions of islam ....and being so practical in all aspects of morality. ..i would like to say there is nothing as good in life as following ur religion and ...being with ur life partner in an islamic way ...stay blessed all time ..
Haha my husband isn't shorter than me bc thays kinda hard as I'm 5'2 but most ppl consider him short , he's 5'5, and its one of my favorite things about him. I can look hin right in the eyes and that's something that made me fall in love with him. Also when I look at tall guys my brain automatically thinks "why is there so much of you" lol. I love that my husband isn't super tall. It makes him more attractive too in my opinion
Hello I love your channel :) I want to convert because I have finally found someone who truly loves me and shows it to me. He’s Muslim and his parents are strict but I would love to make the relationship between us Halal as soon as we can.
That's a big step. I wish you all the best! Do what feels right in your heart, if you're practicing a religion for someone else, it's going to backfire. Do what's right for you and the right person will love you for YOU. ❤❤
I would like to thank you for all your information and the fun way you impart it. I have a much better understanding of Islam now. Hopefully a more mature understanding.
I know you have talked about how men can't be friends with or hang out with your female friends, but could you explain how that works in practice? Has she met Garrett properly, or just a 'Hi' before he leaves you to it? How do you make sure he doesn't accidentally see her without hijab?
Usually it's just working together on school or work projects, like being acquaintances or colleagues. That's how you get to know how they're like. One-to-one conversations or private messages are OK, but it shouldn't become too personal, like convos that become TOO friendly it becomes almost flirtatious, even innocent flirtations, it is still flirting. Like, hijabi muslim women only take off their hijab when they go to the restroom or at home, so usually there's no chance for a woman to accidentally show her hair, unless her hijab got loose after a long time wearing it or accidents, etc. If they know each other enough, they can convey to one another that they're interested in the other person, and see if they'd like to further the connection and get to know the parents/guardians. Anyhow, this is my pov. Others may have different opinions and boundaries.
Where can I get one of those sweat shirts?! J’ADORE LE PULL!! 😍 Edit: 1:50 I feel like that’s important to have in _any_ relationships where you want to get closer to a person (that isn’t already close like family). Maybe that doesn’t make sense, but for example like she was saying about Garret…I feel like Mubina is like one of my “soul sisters”. We have WAY different backgrounds and cultures and religions, but there’s just these things inside her that come out. She can’t hide them because they are a part of _her_ and that’s how God made her to be. But it’s exactly those things sometimes that just click into my life like “woah she’s so different, but we believe the same” 🤯
I love ur channel. I honestly have learnt so much. I’m wondering during the pandemic with face masks do you have to wear them at all and if so under or over your vail ? :)
Girl I'm not from that culture but I was also horrified to mention anything about a period to my dad I just couldn't. I'd use what I could and wait till my mom got home lol
No it isn’t islam was the first one to give women rights. Men and women have equal rights. Stop disrespecting our religion and do ur research before commenting hate
I remember how stupid I was when I was little because I belived my parents when they said that Muslims are bad because a man has many wives. And I felt bad for womens because I tought they don't get enough attention
Yes we are 'exempted' from obligatory prayers since it would be too difficult to make all those positions and to constantly have to wash ourselves for ablution. Not to mention the constant flowing of blood makes it very hard to go through the prayer with full concentration. That being said, we can still supplicate, call upon God, and pray to God by seeking help from Him and just reciting the Quran. This is also very rewarding ❤️❤️ Also, women get rewarded by NOT praying since they are following a command and taking care of themselves during this time. Let us know if you'd want a more detailed video on this topic 👍
Thank you very much for this😇 And Mubina I have question... Your husband was Christian right, but now he's Muslim Alhamdulillah, "Did he Sunnah?" 'Cause in Islam all Muslims do Sunnah in childhood, but your husband didn't, (or maybe he did before) 'cause he was Christian, what he did? I have a boyfriend, he is Christian too, but he wants to become a Muslim, and I want to ask is it important for him?
There is absolutely nothing wrong with not getting married in Islam. True. But staying single for the rest of your life and having sex with someone whenever you feel like is a sin. That's very sad
It is said in al-Bukhaari (974) and Muslim (890) from Umm ‘Atiyyah who said: “He (the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) commanded us on the two Eids to bring out the virgins and those who usually stayed in seclusion, but he told the menstruating women to keep away from the prayer-place of the Muslims.”
Hey.. .. someone please answer. It's sab e borat today . It's the 8th day of my period. I just took a bath few hours ago . Then i bleed a little bit . But my period is over . I haven't bleed since 2 days . Am i allowed to read namaj now? Please reply 😞
I'm not fasting cuz of period nd my younger brother asked me why. My granny gave the reply for me that I was 'unwell'. It's irritating when my 24~ yo male COUSIN asked if I was fasting or not. Seriously it was very immature of him that I didn't reply but then he saw my drinking juice so ig he got his answer. I honestly hate when people ask why you aren't fasting/praying cuz bruh why do u think im not -_- ok rant over;
I chose not to have any friends, better that way to stay away from astray people and its easier to avoid peer pressure etc. Im close to my family, in laws, husband and my child. I only need Allah tbh. Friends just waste time and I've had one college friend and she's Pakistani and she knew I kinda likes this boy, he also like me, but she's cheaply jumped in first. Too many users out there and tbh I don't want to involve my precious time with hypocrites. My 6y relationship with that lost soul ended and she also used me and my time to keep her on the right path. I have learned my lesson Alhamdurillah.
I know muslim women aren't supposed to pray while on their period but what if the woman just really wanted to pray at home in private? Would that be considered a sin?
Women can't pray Salah/namaz or the Qur'an. However, women can make duas. There are duas in the Qur'an as well and so if you have them memorized, you can pray it without touching the Qur'an as a dua. There are various duas that are not in the Qur'an as well. Women can also pray Tasbeeh. Search the words dua and Tasbeeh if you don't kow what it is, I don't know how to explain it through this comment.
@Mystic misty Hey I heard we can't use gloves to touch the Qur'an because it becomes part of what you are wearing. You're supposed to use something else which you are not wearing such as a scarf that you aren't wearing, or a cloth that is not attached to your clothing, etc. Have you heard of this from anyone?
My dear sister Love the way you are spreading the knowledge of Islam may Allah grant you numerous blessings Also I have a request there is youtube channel by could you please reply to him as he is proving hijab is not essential to muslim women with baseless examples and spreading the false message to many people.
Salaam Iman, We usually don't respond to people disproving hijab because most of the time they have their minds made up and are looking for attention, which we don't want to give them (you know what I mean?) -- if they leave a comment on our page we can take action but for not we will just keep spreading knowledge from our lens InShaAllah. We will continue letting people know that Hijab is indeed a part of our faith. ❤️
@@MehdinaTV ofc sister I have tried replying to many comments on why hijab is so important but they possess a different mentality of not learning the basics behind our religion. a larger platform would also not change the mindset of people who are brainwashed Keep doing the good work. May Allah bless you immensely
@@infinity6747 don't take her words out of context Hijab is very essential in Islam it is the choice of Muslim women who wants to wear it or not .Those who don't they are answerable to their lord Opting something as choice or not a choice doesn't dim its importance
A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) asking how the Prophet (ﷺ) worshipped (Allah), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, "Where are we from the Prophet (ﷺ) as his past and future sins have been forgiven." Then one of them said, "I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever." The other said, "I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast." The third said, "I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever." Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) came to them and said, "Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers). Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 5063 In-book reference : Book 67, Hadith 1
How do we go about the halal way of talking? I thought girls and guys couldn’t talk or can we talk just in public places?? I’m a new Muslim please help me figure this out 😊
It depends, you can talk to boys only if it’s necessary, you’re asking for something or you guys are working together. But you can’t be friends or hang out together outside work/school :) Hope I helped youu
