Marvin and Alexis Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli 

This was the best follow-up from the show. Grown adults, open communication, and transparency. They both know what they want without bending on their beliefs. Two good people overall.

Finally two mature people my goodness can’t everyone be just like them. Bring more people like them, Arlette, no games no immaturity, no waste of time. We need people like them to be more intentional, transparent, mature, and honest.

She has such a kind and put together spirit and he seems humble and down to earth.

I love the respect and maturity. This is what adults do!

This was the maturest interaction out of all of em.

Marvin truly knows how to carry himself & comes off as very secure in who he is. That’s how a real man moves. And he doesn’t bend to others because he’s on his own spiritual journey. Very internally strong dude 💯

She’s really beautiful, respectful and mature

Arlette has been WOOORRRKIING lol all these drops. I love it

The noises arlette makes when displaying excitement for others is so feminine and sweet. Every time hear it I Can’t help but smile 😂

I'm not gonna lie; this was an unlikely duo! Despite them just deciding to be friends, this was my favourite match so far. I love their maturity and openness. I also loved his initiative to take her on a date. I wish the best for both of them!

Arlette is giving us real life glimpses into how hard it is to make worthwhile authentic connections out here in these dating streets.

He is the ONLY guy who did the right thing and had the date immediately, and she's the only woman who wasn't solely clout chasing and canceling plans. Also, the only match that seems to have both individuals mature and level-headed. I wish they weren't incompatible in religious values.

The way they showed mutual respect is what I admire. You can tell they both are very mature compared to most of the catch ups.

I feel like the experiment is less about them finding love and more about them finding out what they like, what they need to work on, evaluating their own preferences, etc.

I like that they went on a date right afterwards. Not straight to social media posting pics and etc talking bout "I'm busy."

Arlette is the perfect personality for this kind of job - she’s a people person who is able to dig and get messy and hype but remain classy the entire time and keeping the order

Such a mature conversation. I’m glad, she is rooted enough in God to test the spirit by the spirit, talk to him, and come to a final conclusion on her own. She is a sweetheart. And he was very respectful.

Arlette is a class act. I'm digging the growth of this platform. The maturity of the conversations is definitely a breath of fresh air.

Alexis seems like she has internal peace. She’s silent the entire time others are speaking. Not even a peep. That’s rare.

Arlette the only one who don’t look different 💀

This was my favorite follow up episode so far! Maturity. Respect. All of it. Both beautiful people who genuinely seem to want to understand each other.

Being friends is the first step. Good vibes with these two, wishing the best for them.

Although this initial match did not work out, Marvin and Alexis are a great example of two people that are ready for a relationship. It's great that Alexis was true to herself and recognised that she needs someone of like faith, never try to force it. The respect, mutual understanding, maturity, intellectual curiosity and willingness to communicate clearly shows that they are both serious about their dating journey, best of luck to them.

I met Marvin on Episode 7 and our backstage interaction was so good he is a genuine person every guy on episode 7 was amazing

I love his communication style. Direct, easy to understand and respectful.

I feel like Alexis was fishing for him to ask her out again, I really do think she is feeling him a lot but she's so strong in her faith that it bothers her and holds her back from him ultimately.

They have good energy between them. They are both very thoughtful and sincere with their intentions too. It is ironic they actually have qualities that make them great for each other.

This is probably one of the most mature adult conversations I’ve heard in a minute. This is a hard topic to navigate and you two look like you’ve done it marvelously. Bravo and good luck on your dating journey ❤️💕

The way there communication and respect for each other already is … man they’ll be a BOMB ass couple real solid

I think everyone looks “different” because the angle during the “Pop the balloon” video is from the side and the catch up video is a front view.

Shout out to Arlette what an incredible host, her feminine energy is so radiant. Always smiling ,always well dressed !! BRAVO 👏🏾

Standing ovation for Arlette you’re spoiling us❤. Wow, I’m impressed with them both. Very mature, respectful, positive and intentional. I just would say the whole “friend” thing is wild 🤷🏾‍♀️ let them go and move on to someone who matches what you want.

I don’t think he seems gay. I think we need more exposure to a variety of masculine aesthetics. He reminds me of the guys in my office, really manicured and precise. He seems thoughtful. She is also extremely intuitive and emotionally intelligent- she knows what she needs in a relationship and can ask for it! How wonderful?!! This couple gives me hope for the state of relationships in our culture. They nurtured that so sweetly 🥰

This guy is stoic lmao. I think its his personality plus the air force in him too

“Do you believe a man can lead without God?” that’s an amazing question and the type of question that need to be asked on dates

They’re so mature and handled this so well ! Very refreshing!

This is by far my favorite catch up episode!!! The maturity was chef’s kissssssss🙌🏽 they are both very great people and I hope they find someone for them!!

We definitely need a follow up with Terrance and the woman he matched with

Because of the way they both handled themselves here together and the fact they agreed to be amicable actually makes it almost seem they could be in relationship

5 months ago you made a decision to do something different and that 5 years of RU-vid really paid off! YOU ARE AWESOME I SEE YOU GROWING SO MUCH BIGGER!! 💓

I love Arelette’s fashion sense. Classy woman 👏🏾.

This is my favorite channel for love and dating! So entertaining & perfectly produced!

This was the most mature one by far. I love they’re energy

Best Match so far!!!!!! They're Both genuine and Mature! I hope it works between them!

I love them. Maturity at its peak.

Wow, these two are the biggest example of not to judge a book by its cover I've dealt with in a while: I had the impression that he couldn't be any less non-plussed by her (or women in general) during the show, yet he's been extremely deferential to her in this video. And she's very thoughtful as well. Wow! Thanks for what you do Arlette, I think you're repairing young, jaded, hearts, one balloon at a time!

No cap I do relate to the face Marvin have it’s kinda like a defense mechanism to prevent being socially awkward but ends up being socially awkward lol

You can’t run a three legged race of faith with someone content to cheer from you on the sidelines. Avoid being unequally yoked. Much respect to both of them to nipping it in the bud. 👏🏾

Why does everyone look different!😂😂😂

His straight face. HE be looking serious af

This is a great example of effective communication people. Neither of them assumed something about the other, they both were vulnerable and transparent about what they felt. I love it.

Nice to know there are at least two contestants that have the maturity and respect to be able to have a date, and conversations without the clout chasing , shade and general mess. Had to watch it twice for the positivity factor.

I likeee them! Soo mature and poise. They both deserve the best

Finally, an adult follow up. I was confused why she matched with him when it was clear from the jump they wouldn’t be yoked spiritually. We are all at varying levels of maturity in our spirituality, however when dating, not believing in the same God should be a non-starter. They both seem sweet and I hope they find a match soon. More specifically, I hope Alexis is firm enough in her faith to make that requirement in her mate a nonnegotiable.

I could peacefully fall asleep to them talking- in a very good way. The energy was soothing & calm between them.

All I can say is wow! 👌🏿 I love the fact that they came into an agreement and transparency. Best follow-up so far.

I love seeing intelligent people interact kindly, for all to see❤. This was too sweet, even tho it didnt work out, theu are so kind and respectful. Im here for normalizing this type of enlightening communication between people ❤

I love Arlette. She presents herself as a wonderful person. Alexis presents herself as a great person also.

This was such a good episode. When she asked his permission to speak on a topic because she didn’t want to violate their understanding. MATURITY. They are definitely worlds apart from other interviews I have seen. Close second is Reia and Marcus. 🥰

I like that she’s true to herself and her spirituality, but she’s human at the same. We need more religious people like her. She’s not being extremely judgmental, she sees him as a human.

They really like each other but religion is very important in a relationship and for them to identify that before hopping in something serious was very smart for them to wait until they can find a mutual ground with each other. Very mature people!!!!

I can see both parties are ready for the commitment, ready to go all in and making things work !❤

I think she is most gorgeous beautiful soul!! She is exactly the type I would definitely 100 into trying wanting the smoke w her and her type! He should be grateful he crossed paths w her. She is beautiful a beautiful soul

I must say that I certainly respect this match. Very mature and refreshing and a great encouragement for me to continue watching the show.

Love the maturity in this catch up!

The was so refreshing to watch. Love the maturity❤️

This was a great one, probably the best catch up yet! They both were mature and thoughtful of one another which was refreshing to see. Seems like they would be a perfect match, but they’re just not equally yoked and that’s ok. I hope they continue to get to know each other and build a friendship.

Definitely the best follow up interview so far. I was really just wanting back to back pop the balloon episodes, but this interview has kind of changed my mind 🤔🔥

this is the best catch up thus far!!!!

This was one of the best after show interviews. Super emotionally intelligent and self aware. Seems genuine.

I really like them both. Two adults actually acting grown, while communicating and being transparent yet accepting.

Arlette on way to 🐐 status she got somethin wit this 💯

Mutual Respect & the best relationships start out with a foundation of friendship and grow from there.

This was the most mature and reasonable follow up I've watched yet. They had a date talked about life and where they are at and made a decision to be platonic, this is definitely my favorite episode.

She brought the strongest testimony by who she is. Sis, 💪🏾 Love the adults being adults on here. Shout out to both of you. 👊🏾👊🏾

Best update you all have had yet. They tried it, they enjoyed it , but it was just an underlying layer they just couldn’t come to an agreement with at this time and that is fine. Things such as religious and political views can mean more to some people than others…especially if you’re seeking something long term. Loved it

Amazing follow-up. Made me emotional because this is rare. I love you both with the love of Jesus. God bless you all. He’s a gentleman and she’s a wife in this description.

The only two that actually came to take a shot at love . And not clout …. Respect to yall for coming and respecting arlette show .

Absolutely, beautiful.... God sends you people to assist with that walk .... I love it! Alexis is wholeness, beauty, she is a wife... A proverbs 12:4 type of queen.... Her husband is on his way and I'm glad she has discernment on her course,❤✨🧘🏽‍♀️

I feel the need to say this to all of the contestants on the show. The mission of the show is to pair men and women together for a potential relationship that's both beneficial and rewarding for the couple. Finding a suitable mate is very nerve wrecking and daunting. My expectations as a viewer is for them find an attractive person, go out on a date, get more personable through communication, take an assessment, go out on more dates. Then, come back to the show and update the viewers of their current status. Sounds simple, right? In real life, these things takes time. Whatever your station in life with your journey, purpose, hopes, dreams, etc, finding a significant other is very complex. Not to mention, fate, the spirituality, emotional, aspirations the other person may have or don't have. Are people willing to compromise? Are people just the "open/shut" types? So far, this is as good of a favorable update status that actually went out on a date following the show. I hope they can find what it is that they're looking for in one another.

The most mature conversation on this show!

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 kudos to these two. Real life on display

I see him realizing how great a woman she is one day. I wish them all the best. Sometimes great relatirelationships start with great friendships and I appreciate both of them being honest with each other. What a great basis for a great relationship they have already built even if it will be just friends. But, I definitely see more on the horizon for them.

She’s wonderful. I genuinely hope she runs into a wonderful man 🤍

This was so beautiful and encouraging to watch both at the same time. I was in a similar situation like this a year ago and it was so jard to walk away from because the person was so amazing minus a relationship with God. What i loved about then is that they stood their grounds abd didnt go into it inspite of their differences, cause it would have been such a difficult situation. Kuddos to them and I wish them all the best ❤

This was so refreshing to watch. Grown. Love to see it.

Very good looking couple. Both seem mature and level headed. All the best to them.

Why can’t I remember these people until I see a glimpse of their previous matching videos ? They look different esp the girls.

This the type of sit down we been looking for❤ Arlette slay every time 💚💛💚

Most genuine connection I seen after the show

The women on this show clearly only come to play games and promote things

Ouuu love me some b2b content! Thanks Arlette

Marvin has taken time to work on himself...it's evident. Well done brother. 🫡

He’s a good guy. I really appreciate the transparency in this episode and the emotional intelligence exuded. There were a lot of people in the comments dissing him because of he’s not overly religious like the other contestants. Black people are not a monolith. Learn how to respect various perspectives without dissing people.

Arlette is giving us quality content fr fr.

Love this. At least they tried

I’m loving these back 2 backs. Sealing my evening. Gone Arlette!

This the most mature dialogue and interaction I’ve seen on this show

I knew this couple was not going to work when they matched on the episode due to their religious differences. I don't know why they did not pop they balloons during the show.

This was a good one. Nice interview 💕