Terrance and Denisha Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli 

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Yes. I agree!

Nah that’s facts

Yes

Lol yes.

The guys who get it...GET IT 🗣🫶🏽💯

She is masculine and if y'all can't see that then y'all are blind and terrance is feminine, "he feels like" (a lot) she is looking for a man to traditionally do what a man does and plan a date, who says that has to be mandatory that a man plans a date, that does not make a man a man what makes a man is standing on your morals respecting yourself enough to have character in a room by yourself and knowing God

She never gave him a chance to! She had already bought them tickets for 2 events! That's wild. Like he said she was impatient. Way too eager and it's giving manipulative. Just watch how she flipped it on him when she made it seem like the 2nd date turned into a pizza hag out, because he didn't want to wait around for her after she was late by 30 minutes! Y'all just want Terrance to accept anything and I don't like that at all. Shawty is a weirdo lowkey if you pay attention and she is manipulative.

She's definitely an amazing woman. Terrance dropped the ball on this one. Still routing for you dude, but he definite has to step up and balance his schedule. Take more of a leading role.

I came to say exactly this‼️ You’re 1M % correct ✅

This the one right here👆🏽👆🏽👆🏽 💯

Definitely lacking confidence because there's no way he fumbled and then making excuses about being uncomfortable with male friends. Like CLAIM YOUR SPOT

Facts that mumble talk was hell of annoying

YES! The phrase is “Too many barriers” NOT barrels.

@@nafeesamuqtasid2320lol

Girl OKAYYYY!!!😂😂👏🏽👏🏽

Right 😂😂😂

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Wellll!! Say sum😂😂

Plot twist: he lining and retwisting his own shit 😂😂😂

😂😂😂 exactly

Hollering

​@@condesabeatriz9303of course she brought him back on the show three times......😂

She was like "Good heavens! what did I just hear?" 🤣

@@BloodLeopard-rm8wg Yes! LOL! Everything checked out with Terrance and this young lady except for the her passing the visual eye test. Terrance is not physically attracted to her and he didn't want to come out and say it. Men don't like hurting women feelings.

lol the real men committee

💯 agree. He not ready!

We not gonna sugarcoat this shit...he ain't into her! She needs to take the sign. I don't care what anyone says about "people must learn how to communicate" f all of that. If we really want something like a opportunity to go on a cruise for free or we want to talk to someone, it will happen even if you're nervous. He ain't into her like that. Just move on man. Because I don't respect a man who just goes along with a woman because he don't wanna hurt her feelings. That's what I call the bf and gf relationship these days. He don't wanna tell her he don't want marriage but he don't wanna lose access to reliable sex with her.

Word

Facts. This nigga dropped the ball. He ain’t ready.

Terrance is no match for this woman

Right!

Alabama vs arizona/California. No match

That was actually my first thought. This would not have worked

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Yes!

Yeah. It was unfair for him. I said it on that video..

Very true, plus they should’ve had one on one dates when he got to the last 3 options. That would’ve helped with the compatibility issues.

Yeah I don’t like how he was blind either

He clearly wasn't having any luck when they could see him 😂. The show tried to give him a chance.

You are so right...they had a good idea what he was like.

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Big time…

You RIGHT!

Maneeeee😂 dumb on his own🤦🏽🤦🏽

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I was thinking this too. I’m not sure if he wants to be chased by a woman because he kept saying how she pursed him when she went on his blind date segment lol

Yall must didn’t hear what this female was saying in this video…yall talking about what arlette did for him 😂that mane dodged a big bullet fashoo

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Agreed. He mumbles, talks in circles and don’t be knowing what he’s talking about

Yes cause his voice just dragging ugh lol

@@ladiet75 exactly! 😂 I'm like, spit it out lol

😂😂😂 that's wrong

he must be don’t like her then

Man the video is 40+ mins and you posted this 4 mins ago. How yall be this fast😂

He’s very passive and women are not choosing him for that reason…

@@its9333I got to the part where he didn’t plan and I was done with him 😂

girl i am disappointed in him lmaooo, he def missed a good one

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😂😂😂😂oh LAWD Terence kills me 😂😂😂

These comments are killing me 😂 poor Terrance

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And kept saying it after she explained what she meant. He just wasn’t getting it 😂😂😂😂

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Right over the kids head 😂😂😂😂

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He took me out with that one 💀And Arlette keeping a straight face thru that 🤣🤣🤣

Complete confusion....!!! 😕

😂😂😂😂 yea bc he said a whole bunch of gibberish

LMAO

Screaming😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

He say too many “like” at least 20 “like” every time he talk.

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I agree.

I concur

Terrance messed up. Maybe he was intimidated- it kinda showed based on his response lol

She’s manipulative and a Gaslighter…. Gotta watch the whole thing.

Yeah she seems like a good girl.

he's just not all that up there lmao

Thats part he is to clueless…. His communication skills are lacking

Right I laughed so hard 😂

🤣😂🤣😂 so funny

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And then there’s Terrance. Can’t understand a word he says! Lol

😂😂😂😂 omg! If there wasnt a truer time for this!

Nah y’all forced bro on us

@@nTrubl3hahaha!!! Facts!!!!

@@nTrubl3lmao

Who is we?

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Real tears ok 😂😂😂😂

😂😂😂 That was crazy!!! And he was Dead serious about it 😮😮😢 I’m weak 🤦🏾‍♀️

I kinda thought so too

And him trying to explain it… I knew he was confused

If it was arlette he would have

@@dimitriassession2327😂😂😂 great point

Arlette doesn't want him

@@VendieSoldetrue she’s married anyway lol

Uhm?! Then don't waste ppl's time!! Be an adult!

I was looking for this comment! Why are we glossing over this? 😂😂😂

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Is disciple a denomination? I thought disciple was like all Christians are disciples. Seriously I’m confused 😂

This part!!!!!!! 😂

@@Hisnameistruth exactly that’s why he sounds ridiculous

Actually she took the idea of her show from a Nigerian woman who has been doing this, so if anything, she's the one imitating, but it's all good.

I had to zoom in to see Arlettes face the wheels were turning in her mind trying to understand his explainations 😂

I swear my brain being maxed out

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😂 Psh shi*..

@@Ayomide-nn4yn I know I don’t care 😂

Basically it's a lack of communication and Terrance as a man not being assertive enough! I think they should try again! Denisha is A GROWN WOMAN and she knows what she wants!

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Can they pin comments here? Bc this! Should be pinned!

I’m torn about having only new people appear in season 2. There are a few participants who didn’t find anyone who I would like to see get matched-up… Except for Dr. Elom, he is way too verbose.

@@gemstone786 I'm not gonna flex...I wouldn't mind having Dr. Elom make a cameo appearance lol 😆 😂

@@geraldcoker1677 Nah… the doc needs his own episode like Terrance had. As long as the women know it’s Dr. Elom in advance, that would be an entertaining show for Arlette to do!

Exactly

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Omm you not lying! Watch the entire video and he dodged a bullet from

Thank you I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed that. I tryna figure out what people talking bout, saying that he dropped the ball, he dodged a bullet, she had to many red flags, and I bet she don't talk that way off camera.

Man, me too haha

SAME😂😂😂😂

“sorry guys! gotta go! arlette just posted a video” 😂 frfr

Relax 😊

If I'm free, I definitely try to immediately tune in and if I'm not, I definitely watch when I'm available.

clock that tea!…clock that tea! 😂🤣😂😂😂

You see it. Verbally comparing that man to other men in her DM's trying to make him insecure, & then calling him insecure. #nastywork

Not TWOOOO DISCIPLES😂😂😂 IM FUCKING DEAD 😂😂😂😂

Tough! 😮‍💨

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Both of them

Then he started stuttering and he talk all quiet

I counted. He said "like" 33 times in two minutes.

Don't be like Risoma and have a drinking contest to his day to day speak 😅😅

@@Coachkingrod 🤣

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He wasn't the problem he wasn't interested in her because she had guy friends dude🚩🚩🚩......that's why he never took the initiative to plan a date with her......

Facts

Most likely true. Most guys end up in the friend zone this way.

True 😂

Come on and preach! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 I was looking for someone to see past all the drama & point out what you just said 🤎

@@BreeMecca ❤️

Na...it's not going to happen...as long as it's about status, power, and money....trust, respect, integrity, accountability, loyalty and most of all faithful is out the window....everything is temporary or to say honeymoon (Today's Relationship)

THANK YOU for sharing this. It’s my hope too. ❤🙏🏾

Lol it really did… she explained what a disciple was and clearly said its not a religious title but the walk you have, the practice…. And he still didn’t understand that 😂😂

Yeahhhh it just confirmed that he just claims Baptist

I think he just brought that up to make it seem like she was some kinda religious fanatic to justify him stepping back. 😂

Mine too honestly. Maybe because I’m a basic Christian😂. If someone told me they were a disciple I would have thought they were like some sort of super holy Christian. Like the strict ones who are always trying to convert people and cover their heads in church. When it turned to her going out and partying and drinking with all her male friends who she said likes her then calling him insecure for not being uncomfortable I was even more confused. I feel like a Christian would understand that. Or maybe I’m crazy. Life long Christian here, choir practice, Wednesday bible study Christian…. However I too turn up 😂😂😂 so I don’t tend to lead with I’m super holy because it’s in my heart, not all of the time in practice so no judgement on my part. But I can understand the confusion

The first disciples are the chosen followers of Christ. So any denomination can have a discipleship. That’s where he was confused. But yes I agree, it seems like she still has a lot of growing to do in life and with her religion. So does he.

Yeah.. I truly see both sides.

Listen. YOU are the woman for Terrance. I've seen your comments in previous videos. Go claim your man and save him from embarrassing himself further.

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@@mr_knowitall😂😂 oh wow.. you are quite observant

Equal blame on both sides...she was late and has male friends, and he's not assertive and does not have control of the English language

Agreed too passive.

She seems assertive. I don't see where that is/should be a conflict.

Lol naaaahhh, i assume you been watching. Alot of women popped on him IMMEDIATELY. He is too passive, but height does impact somes decisions.

So true height isn't as much of an issue as people make it out to be it just makes the initial interactions a little abrasive sometimes and even that's not that serious. It's usually people insecurities around height that make height a problem and not the height itself.

Agree. It’s safe to assume the ex-fiancé is the one who proposed 😂

At least she apologized. Who know maybe she was "hurt" by Terrance not showing interest. He actually was the one that eased up communication based on the interview. Not gonna lie I am one of those that was rooting for them.

Facts 😂😂😂😂

truthfully tho if someone is giving you the cold shoulder why would you keep “bothering” them.

I liked this comment and agree with you, I just wanted to say I get her reasoning. I felt like if she'd paid attention to the way he spoke to other women from previous episodes, she would have known that he is not the believer she was looking for. It's more than just being a nice guy, plus her being at the bar with men tipsy posting it on Instagram would've been a flag for me because I am a disciple and I don't drink.

@@Dariuslyneltrue. At least she said sorry. Bro barely even said that

You wanted the good brother to settle because most women reject him do to his height. Hell Naw. She is no top choice anything. This is not prime pickings. He treated the Narwhal as it should be treated. Then to top is off, she is a liar. All that on the set cap is too see-through.

She was 30 mins late, bro left and came back. She compared him to men in her DM's, she says no calls past 9pm even though he gets off @ 6:30, she admits her male friends like her and says he's insecure for feeling weird about that, she blocked him on everything for being late to a date.

Somebody in the comments said he gives teenage boy vibes 😂

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Facts. I'm a grown man and wouldn't want my daughter to bring him home. Eventually I feel like a woman would get tired of him and want a stronger man. It's a lot of women out here who are naturally submissive to guys like me because of how I carry myself. Being short is one thing but when you have it together in other places then it makes up for what u lack.

Very well said I agree

😂 even John the Baptist was a disciple. I guess Terrance need to revisit the good book. 😂

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@@Dariuslynel im on the floor

It's not the same "dommanation" 😂

Smh@ the dudes females give chances to.

She was out after 9 pm on SATURDAY, not during the week when she had to work 39:18

​@@movingforward789 No, she didn't deny what he was saying. She called him insecure but didn't deny she was tipsy with 2 guys. And Arlette gritted her teeth after she commented that. That woman was nasty for making that comment.

@@TLSpurgeonTrue, but what I was saying was that she was out, howbeit with two guys, after 9 pm, on a Saturday. Her rule for not going out late/not talking on the phone late was during the week, when she had to work. Her weekends were open and she was saying Terrance didn't make plans with her, so she went out with two other guys. It may have looked tacky, knowing she was trying to date Terrance, but I get it, Terrance didn't step up (enough for her, in her eyes), and didn't follow the rules (plan dates in advance, don't call/plan dates after 9 pm on a weekday due to her work schedule), so she gave up and took things into her own hands.

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I just left this same comment😢 still in his kindergarten era😂😂😮

Tilting his head to the side when he talks, too. He shows weakness a lot

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He didn’t do anything wrong that girl had too much red flags

After watch I agree with you but he was taken a back from her

Yea broski ain’t assertive at all! And doesn’t take initiative as a man. He just following behind the woman. I don’t think he actually wanted her tho. When you really want a woman you gone make sure you on point no matter what

Nothing wrong with him being laid back Simple, you alpha males chase women who ain’t even tradition women and you fully attract gold diggers, so what if she planned dates doesn’t mean anything, she needs to go gym and look after her health, it’s always a man’s fault I like that his laid back women ain’t even virgins or traditional at all , dating wasn’t even a thing before it was courting, then marriage, people chat to much rubbish about how a man should be but don’t even do their history of how women are meant to be or how things were 70 - 80 years ago I’m a Man I don’t deal with this alpha male talk On top of that she lost and made a mistake because she talking about god etc so why doesn’t she go find a godly man

@glecservices3114 Yeah, we can tell you're not an alpha because you typed a paragraph full of excuses and no responsibility. Stay single.

@@jlaw346how so?

Took the words out of my mouth!!! Its really giving!

@@TraneikaFuller 👍

I bet she a frea% you can tell

Well said!

I really don't think he wanted her

He ain't into her. I don't respect men like him. He want sexual access to her and pretends to like her and go on dates for that reason but we all know if we want to spend a lifetime with someone or not. Be honest man. Tell her you ain't ready or you feel she isn't the one

How old are you ?😊

He wasn’t playing games, sounds like you need to grow up

Oh damn she did that. She won’t even nun

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More like a rocket

lmao she's beyond childish, and watching this show has shown me how irritating american women are. Every little small thing is such a exaggerated "issue"....to the point of delusional 😅

I wrote the same thing 11 hours later. Terrance Dodged a Narwhal! He make too much good money to settle for a 3.7 out of 10.

I don’t think he wasn’t attracted to her physically but rather felt like she wasn’t genuine he just didn’t know whether she was genuine about her interests in him or even genuine in who she says she is. behind the curtain she was confident and selling herself but when she came out she wasn’t as confident. she is very very passive aggressive and I’m not saying she is a horrible person-what I am saying is that passive aggressiveness makes ppl hard to connect with and they don’t feel like safe spaces because you don’t know which is really them and how they really feel about things.

That’s exactly what it is

Thought I was the only one that saw this .

I said the same shi.

@@xKouture Being honest she is a whole red flag though. She still out playing the field and want to make life convenient for herself

I’m surprised a lot of people not seeing that. They just go straight to judging the man actions. I just think he lost interest, coming from someone that’s laid back

Same here

He def peeped game

Very indecisive, I feel he’s not assertive as a man, he needs to work on himself

Very sad

Exactly 👍🏾 💯

She had some flaws in her ways too but Terrance ain't that into her look wise and he just need to be real and say that. The excuses he used was cop outs just to not say what the real reason was.

@@elleurfavoritestvegan1550 I agree with you. She’s a beautiful woman but I think him being so nice, he was gonna go with the flow even though she may not be his type. But then her red flags gave him valid reasons to say why he disappeared.

@AlesiaDiggs I can definitely see that

I watched the entire video and still believe that Terrance was mostly in the wrong. He did not take the initiative to plan dates, did not communicate well, jumped to conclusions, and didn’t ask enough questions to address his concerns. The lady clearly has a trusting relationship with male FRIENDS. She clearly doesn’t like them like that. Terrance is a new person in her life and I can understand her not wanting to communicate with a male that she doesn’t know well during booty call hours because she doesn’t know his intentions. Also, Terrance asked her why he should pick her during the show so I don’t understand his issue with her asking why she should continue to day him. I also don’t understand why he has a problem with her wanting to date a disciple as a Baptist. Discipleship isn’t a denomination, it’s a lifestyle as a follower of Christ like she said. Nonetheless, I’m still rooting for BOTH of them to find love ❤

😂😭💔 by the way the girls sounded a bit tough at some points 😏

dodged a missle

That's not really disciple-like, she confuses me

Thank you for this! Just subscribed!

Yeah fr. Bro dodged a bullet most def. Talking about she's friends with guys who like her 😂😂😂 man wtf lmao. Good luck to whatever simp accepts that

@@charlesdonawayiii3396 shorty said a few of them. We know that means at least 5 of them lol.

Who said she was drunk?

Interesting how she's out late and getting tipsy and drunk and talking bout she want a DISCIPLE 😂 I would've tell her I was a Baptist too 🤣🤣🤣

@@Tony_Wes 😂😂😂 ong bro, that's diabolical work

and she called him insecure for that? she is crazy, good luck finding some simp whose okay with that

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Good observation

I don’t know how people have missed all that

Bingo!

What are you talking about. She literally said she has strong boundaries for not only her guy friends but Terrance as well. Seems like a lot of yall are misogynist who don’t understand that men and women can be friends without perusing one another sexually or romantically. Too many dumb people trying to give dating advice ig.

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No rebuttal here. The fellas took a “rizoma” level “L” with Terrance waffling this lady’s time.

What was a carefree, lack of initiative we mistook for humility

Too many red flags with her

Yeah I think he just want's to be coddled and get laid without having to put in any work.

Indeed

Yup.

@@sixteen.candles.4644 what business is she standing on? going out with male friends after booty call hours? THat business? She's not relationship material and bro sensed it from jump, that's why he didn't bother with her

That’s the main thing, I loved! She kept her boundaries and she wasn’t waiting around for him or anyone (booked and busy). 😂

what business is that? Entertaining other men and going out drinking and clubbing with male friends while being a "christian women" who's dating lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Damn. Simple minded sheesh. But I get what you're saying however he is an electrician.

She's defintley not above his league, ran thru in college, he friends on ig looks like hipster doofisis, whyte female friends using her to feel cool, overweight, uses filters in all her photos. There's plenty that puts her in the "D" league!

You really think he's not in her league?? Smh.

What about yo baby daddy tho??

Is she ???

I swear!!!😂

I was looking for this comment 🤣🤣

This comment!!!! I was LIKE sir!!! I couldn’t deal with that lol

For real!!!!!! 🤪

It sucks because he could use that voice of his in a sexy way but nooooooo it's "like" "um" Idk" ect

He absolutely dodged a bullet.

​@@TSidezRight but majority of everyone blaming him in the comments no one is pointing out the red flags she had like guy friends that liked her and then she contradicted herself when Arlette asked her if she was sure her male friends views her as a friend.....

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He might have dodged with this one but that doesnt excuse his passive behavior and lack of communication

@@addicted2truth408Exactly💯

Y’all only taking everything she says about Terrance got it

Well said. Terrance needs to be more than just a nice guy. 💯💯💯

@@Wedat24 He never denied anything she said lol which means she was being honest. We also have a few episodes to see his personality. He's a nice guy and nice guys finish last.

@@Coachkingrod did you finish the whole video?

@@Coachkingrod the last statement is true but she knows what type of guy Terrance was cause I’m pretty sure she watch the episodes with him

She’s nasty

Thank you!!!!!! *throws up hand* 😤 CAUSE IT WAS ALL A PLAN TODD CAME UP WITH TO COME TO YOU…WIT…THE BULL-SH- 😂🤣😂🤣🤣🤣

It’s not an issue if she hasn’t had relations with him. Attractive woman and woman general always have orbiters because guys will play that role for the long run. She didn’t hide it but if she’s pursuing Terrance then Terrance should’ve focused on that fact. She did compete with 4 other girls to date him.

She belongs to the streets!

@@AlwonDomz Yeah I don't see anything wrong because she was honest.

I agree with you she's a red flag.

Agreed

He didn’t want her lol

@@daneatz1995i said the same thing. If a man want someone he’s proactive. Period

@@bellezaiconik yeah💯 all that other stuff he was saying about disciples and her having guy friends ect was all bs 🤦🏾‍♂️ he was just making stuff up lol

“Apply pressure” 🤣🤣🤣 who else am i thinking here…

Exactly he didn’t make any moves because he was not attracted

Exactly they both weren't feeling each other just getting away from loneliness for one and getting clout for the other

Dating don't work no more for most people strictly cause of scheduling, lack of mutual communication & understanding, AND women & men are entertaining too many other people at the same time. 80% of men & women are fucked in this society when it comes to dating and finding someone long term. All the sex in the world won't satisfy most people cause that's not the end all be all. It's a black pill ALL of us have to swallow (PAUSE ⏸)

fr everyone on Terrence neck because he can't plan dates. When what she did is actually toxic behavior.

😂😂 the Tyra voice…. IYKYK