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This video is how I look at the origin of information when assessing if the Extroverted Decider Function (Te or Fe) is Masculine or Feminine.
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@micrapop_6390
@micrapop_6390 3 года назад
Your way if explaining OPs concepts is very clear and very interesting, I love that kind of videos !
@multicrogamer
@multicrogamer 3 года назад
Blast first, that's INTJs for you... If you talked to me you would have more questions and doubts. Ne Ti here...
@darialansky6259
@darialansky6259 3 года назад
ESTP here. Yeah, LiJo explains well, ideas are understandable for me. Lack of examples tho... I wish there were more of them.
@tafari795
@tafari795 3 года назад
F-Ti saviour and M-Fe demon seems to be my awkward deck of cards🤷🏾‍♂️
@meghanahanchate8667
@meghanahanchate8667 3 года назад
I was so confused with mine, finally i know i am savior masculine fi😅, it would be of so much help if there were similar videos on other binary coins, especially the observer coins..thank u! Love ur content♥️
@loreta8249
@loreta8249 2 года назад
Amazing! These new insights are very helpful, I can see how this also applies to me as an F Fi / M Te user :) Could you please also make a video about the observer functions in this regard? That would be really interesting to see as well! Thank you for the video:)
@tiernanwoollaston1669
@tiernanwoollaston1669 3 года назад
Haha I tend to get super pushy about the things that I value. Such as media/music taste. So many times I get angry about reviews, feeling like the reviewers missed the mark. My mates are sick of me compulsively showing them my favourite type of music. If they don’t like it I feel internally offended, but don’t outburst as I understand that it is irrational to do so and immature. I also tend to find rational explanation for why they don’t like it, and why I do even though I don’t need to 😂 the worst is when someone talks over my favourite tunes while I’m showing them, and then makes a quick brash judgment that they dislike it. makes me wanna rip their head off 😂 Would you say this is Masculine saviour Fi pushing values backed up by inferior feminine Te seeking tribe validation to feed the saviour?
@franciscomiranda6882
@franciscomiranda6882 3 года назад
I think I get it. Like me trying to get certain folks to understand why certain jobs and career paths require an advanced degree and they not just disagreeing with that societal truth but also attacking me, personally, for having pursued a degree in the first place. It’s a-okay with me if one thinks the way certain things work is open to critique and that the rules/regulations behind it are faulty; just don’t go attacking me on a personal level for having deciphered “the game,” if you will, and playing it to my advantage. “Just tryna help you succeed.”
@mariek.474
@mariek.474 3 года назад
Some people seem to have a perverse pleasure in passive frustration rather than truly improving their personal situation : it's a useless blame game that only hurts its' player !
@franciscomiranda6882
@franciscomiranda6882 3 года назад
@@mariek.474 I like that. “Perverse pleasure in passive frustration.” I would add, as well, their frustration is only ever passive when the “thing in question” is something that involves them personally. IE: something they have full and total control over vs their frustration becoming active and even aggressive when the “thing in question” is something that is decidedly NOT in their control and is external to them. Can’t quite crack that one yet.
@andreagreenwood93
@andreagreenwood93 3 года назад
I truly think some people don't understand the ends justify means mentality, or the concept of not being led by ideals- that it's possible to play by rules because it's to your advantage while at the same time thinking those rules are stupid in principle. People assume if you participate in something you must believe wholeheartedly in it, so they're angry at you for believing in it... When really you might just know which side your bread is buttered on. You can have an ideal that you simultaneously believe is impractical.
@franciscomiranda6882
@franciscomiranda6882 3 года назад
@@andreagreenwood93 and can play to the tune of the ideal until you gain enough actual, practical influence to help shape it into a more pragmatic, effective reality applicable to each and all. But those things can take time. Lots of it. Some folks have patience; some don’t. It can sometimes feel like “hurry up and wait,” but ones resiliency has to come into play.
@andreagreenwood93
@andreagreenwood93 3 года назад
@@franciscomiranda6882 That's very true. And to use the college as an example, changing the criteria for what is required to do a certain job could be an immense undertaking, one where you would need influence. If someone says well I'm not playing that game because it's stupid, well good luck with that, no one else will care and they'd just be shooting themself in the foot to make a point.
@mihajlojovanovic7651
@mihajlojovanovic7651 3 года назад
this is a good idea for a video of what to clarify because i see the masculine decider as one the things ppl get the most often confused about since whether it is a savior or demon can impact how pushy someone is on people, like i have masculine saviors (FF Ti/Ni, tribe typed) but i seem like and thought i was M-De for so long because im just naturally a bit aggressive but what i didnt know was that my demons were feminine, while my friend who has feminine saviors (MM Ne/Fi) is definitely very feminine in a savior state, but her punchy side comes out as a demon
@ReginaldDesrosiers
@ReginaldDesrosiers 3 года назад
Ah, really great clarification - the caricature of M-De always being angry/confrontational always felt wrong to me, so it's great to see why the confusion was happening. Also you named dropped GaryVee and you already know my M-Fi is about that lol
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
Thanks Regi!
@breakfastenjoyer
@breakfastenjoyer 3 года назад
i think im f-Ti savior and m-Fe. I have ideas but im very flexible in my approach to what serves the tribe best overall. I sometimes will not budge on certain things but I can be dissuaded or convinced. My masculine or rigid expression of Fe is primarily focused on setting a vibe, if i care to engage it. Im the one in the party making sure everyone feels as good as I do - it’s a sharing of a feeling. I also do this because i try to crack jokes and make ppl laugh, trying to make the room to feel good.
@aubreys1675
@aubreys1675 3 года назад
I've been thinking about this since i watched it this morning and had to come back to share some thoughts! We can think of our masculine functions as shaping the feminine ones. For example, I have masculine Se, so the explanations my Ni comes up with depend on Se. Where i think that feminine Se would be explained more as 'exceptions to the Ni rule.' If i come across Se information that doesn't align with my Ni theory, I modify my theory. As a M Ni, do you find that if you come across data that doesn't fit into your theory, you spend time figuring out how it in fact, does fit in? I've also had a hard time figuring out the M/F orientation of my Te-Fi. I thought for a while that my Te was feminine because I am always open to new and better ways to do things. But now I'm thinking my Fi is actually feminine because my values are shaped by Te. And my openness to new Te ideas is more coming from my desire to find the ultimate Te way of how things work. As I learn more about how Te works, my Fi develops around it. So as I learn more about trauma responses, attachment styles, etc, my values for compassion and kindness and identity are shaped from understanding how people experience these things, for example. I've been following Dave and Shan and though they are brilliant, it's still helpful to hear OP explained in different ways!! Your videos have helped me expand my understanding of their topics!
@Unkownflyingman
@Unkownflyingman 2 года назад
Im deffenetly Masculine Ni and Te,you are 100% right
@Unkownflyingman
@Unkownflyingman 2 года назад
Hey man, i just saw video from OP where Dave is saying that femenine De loves touch people.My opinion is that not femenine De but femenine Se wants to touch people cuz we have visual and testing modality first.What you think about this?
@aubreys1675
@aubreys1675 2 года назад
@@Unkownflyingman With the disclaimer that I've changed my mind about my decider modalities since my original comment, which I am much more certain about, I'll still share my opinion on the touchiness. I have definitely seen the trends that Dave and Shan have talked about (fDe being touchy compared to mDe), with another trend just being if play energy higher, and of course savior feelers. But also, knowing that most of the people I am basing those trends off are women, and that gender norms and culture contribute to how comfortable people are casually touching other people. There are a lot of factors to consider!
@-alfeim2919
@-alfeim2919 2 года назад
There was always something stoic and soild about you, and knowing that you are vegan makes a lot of sense! Very informative
@Diaming787
@Diaming787 3 года назад
As a Ni/Fi savior with masculine Fi, it's pretty interesting to see your point of view about this subject. I do typically push my morals in my case.
@biohazardcel
@biohazardcel 3 года назад
That's cool you're vegan! I am too. I think I'm ti-m and fe-f. You will not move what I believe but I will adapt to the tribes values and feelings. If I understand it correctly.
@user-hl1eo1hz7y
@user-hl1eo1hz7y 3 года назад
One should always be willing to move on a belief. Belief implies doubt. Once you know a fact, then don't move from that.
@SeelenTaucher
@SeelenTaucher 2 года назад
Yes I Love that Discussion. I can feel your masculine Vibes much.
@natebot321
@natebot321 3 года назад
1:57 Just gotta pick out the shovey M Te "No!" haha. Excellent breakdown as always LiJo!
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
😁 thank yoU!
@Edwiness
@Edwiness 3 года назад
Didn't she say "now"?
@natebot321
@natebot321 3 года назад
@@Edwiness oh you're right, I think she did say "now".
@livebetterhealthcoach9197
@livebetterhealthcoach9197 3 года назад
Great explanations!!
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
Thanks Heather!
@hollo0o583
@hollo0o583 3 года назад
I NEED SENSORY EXAMPLES!!! TT-TT
@darialansky6259
@darialansky6259 3 года назад
YUS
@CrazyChris73
@CrazyChris73 3 года назад
Definitely masculine Ti and feminine Fe. The tribe always moves for me or gets kicked to the curb.
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
HAHA PERFECT way of saying it.
@bananewane1402
@bananewane1402 Год назад
I am completely chill about other people not being vegetarians but I will get super pissed off if someone tries to argue that vegetarianism includes fish eating. That is PESCETARIANISM.
@elliottcomer5352
@elliottcomer5352 2 года назад
"...I'll tell them all day and what the truth is..." Even when she's trying to be diplomatic, Lindsay somehow manages to deliver the shadiest line reading of all time. Brava!
@TheRealFlenuan
@TheRealFlenuan 3 года назад
Demon masculine Fi (with savior feminine Te) can be a tricky one. Check out how Kamala Harris argues: she funnels her personal emotions from when she was a child all the way into her lead-Te arguments, and the part that really stands out and she gets almost emotional about is when it comes from that masculine Fi at the bottom.
@user-hl1eo1hz7y
@user-hl1eo1hz7y 3 года назад
Great content. Definitely something to think about
@sofia8574
@sofia8574 3 года назад
You can’t do this with us, LiJo!😂😂
@minddazed
@minddazed 2 года назад
Very useful descriptions!
@wynstansmom829
@wynstansmom829 3 года назад
Te-rrific content, LiJo “We should know what our convictions are, and stand for them. Upon one's own philosophy, conscious or unconscious, depends one's ultimate interpretation of facts. Therefore it is wise to be as clear as possible about one's subjective principles. As the man is, so will be his ultimate truth.” ― C.G. Jung
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
WM 🖤👽🙌🏻
@jovynabong3858
@jovynabong3858 2 года назад
Well explained but I need more explanation to understand the concept.
@darrenchappell5184
@darrenchappell5184 3 года назад
Question: I thought the M-Fi pushes on itself and not the tribe. Does it do both?
@orangeziggy348
@orangeziggy348 Год назад
I have the same question.
@Ella-gi3xb
@Ella-gi3xb 2 года назад
Oh my ti is definitely masculine lol although I feel like the whole m/f thing definitely pushes stereotypes but I do see myself as a very pushy individual when it comes to my logic but I mostly go with the flow when it comes to others’ values or their preferences. Also don’t know about my ne-si axis tbh
@gigglesmcdounut723
@gigglesmcdounut723 2 года назад
Okay so I'm a M- Te and F-Fi. Though, on some topics that are a strong moral point for me I stand my ground and will argue the point ,but I get way to emotional. Trying to work on getting my point across without feeling like I am personally being attacked.
@kr-666
@kr-666 3 года назад
Te all day all through out the video Fi, crawling out of it's shell says softly "I'm a vegan" ALRIGHT LET'S GO TE
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
hahaha I'm seen
@aubreys1675
@aubreys1675 3 года назад
This was great! Thank you!
@Andrey-oh5jt
@Andrey-oh5jt 3 года назад
Thank you for good explanation!
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
Glad it was helpful!
@andreagreenwood93
@andreagreenwood93 3 года назад
Well I'm a little confused... I'm INTJ and I am definitely more unapologetic and give no quarter with my Fi values (even though I don't use them as often as Te, I think of them as like stepping on a landmine), and more laid back with my Te. Even if I think the logic of something should be obvious to the whole wide world and something will turn out dumb I'll usually let it go because I often feel pessimistic about convincing someone their rationale is inadequate... I figure they'll probably just get emotional or offended and I don't want to deal with that so I'm rarely pushing Te. But... I don't expect other people to take on MY Fi values, I don't push them in that sense. I figure someone else can be free to value different things. Like, I wouldn't eat foie gras if the President himself or the pope etc served it to me but I don't care if they help themself. I'm just uncertain because even though my Fi is like if you don't like it there's the door and my Te is like let me gently try to steer you in this direction, it's not like I'm telling anyone you must value what I value.
@DanceMotherSuperior
@DanceMotherSuperior 3 года назад
I am very much the same. Except when it comes to how others treat children. I will be in their face for as long as I feel it is needed to reprimand them for mistreating a child! M-Fi for the mighty shove!
@easilyiguana5837
@easilyiguana5837 2 года назад
Thank you
@Nyalloyd
@Nyalloyd 3 года назад
For NeTi (masculine Ne and feminine Ti) Do you think it would/could make sense my savior feminine Ti to feel like no one wants to listen to it and feel an outward sense of inferiority when it’s expressed, but wishing desperately to share itself and engage in idea sharing? I’ve been unofficially typed NeFi, but it makes no sense as I am incredibly unaware of how I feel (it’s very generalized and I know I’m good or bad but not much beyond that) and my entire value system is ethically based (and I fight tirelessly at my work solving problems for people at work - it literally is my job)I always feel like I’m arguing with people if I ever share my thoughts and so I don’t share my thoughts because of a profound need to protect the vibe in a room. But then I’m disgruntled because I just wanted to have a conversation. People always stereotype ENTP for being brash and insensitive and although I often am that internally and it can leak out, my priority is to keeping the peace.
@glueball214
@glueball214 2 года назад
Mucho helpful, and starting to see why you say triangulate so much XD
@gr5839
@gr5839 2 года назад
Super helpful!!
@orangeziggy348
@orangeziggy348 Год назад
This was helpful but I also am visual and I would wish to see visual examples.
@loganbyrd2024
@loganbyrd2024 2 года назад
I really haven't looked much into the system, but I'm probably Feminine Demon Te and Feminine Demon Sensing ... I'm unsure if the sensing is Demon, though--a lot of what I associated with demon sensing sounds more like feminine sensing.
@paulbruce5414
@paulbruce5414 3 года назад
Watched your videos, so I love your channel. Heard you were vegan, so I subscribed to your channel. Sincerely, A typical Fi-Ne vegan
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
Team 🌱 👽✨🙌🏻
@פוליטיקטינסקיקליינר
Amazing video thank you
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
Glad you enjoyed it
@thobiasknudsen1730
@thobiasknudsen1730 3 года назад
Much easier to understamd now
@techlizay485
@techlizay485 3 года назад
True
@Kamir530
@Kamir530 3 года назад
can someone please finally explain feminine and masculine system?
@ironicfist399
@ironicfist399 2 года назад
ENTP here (Ti over Fe) and yes,... I am more reluctant to have my own ("flawless") logic challenged, so I keep quiet when people make fallacies or whatever, save for a snark little smirk that drives everyone's testosterone toward punching me..... but I do get confrontational in social situations when my "position" in the circle gets threatened. So, I think I push with that demon Fe? More like childish Fe, it's probably 3rd
@2sunalibar
@2sunalibar 3 года назад
Thanks a lot a lot a lot
@alexhendry2120
@alexhendry2120 3 года назад
Me, who just doesn't like to argue: 👁️👄👁️ (I'm definitely masculine Fi though 😂. Great video Lindsay!)
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
Haha!! Alex I bet if I pressed you on the right topic as it relates to your M Fi, you would tell me a thing or two 😂
@alexhendry2120
@alexhendry2120 3 года назад
@@InternetLiJo guess we'll have to see 😂
@orangeziggy348
@orangeziggy348 Год назад
what if you are FI and you push your morals onto other people Except that your morals are also Tribal morals, so they are both Self and Tribe together, then how do you tell whether you have Masculine TE or Masculine FI?
@jamesspartin117
@jamesspartin117 3 года назад
Me having masculine Fi seems pretty obvious to me. Now i just have to figure out if im Oi or Oe 🤔.
@MichaelWilliams-bx2ty
@MichaelWilliams-bx2ty 3 года назад
did you take the chavasana sound from yoga with adriene?
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
Nope! This is a song called Lush from Four tet
@MichaelWilliams-bx2ty
@MichaelWilliams-bx2ty 3 года назад
solid eff
@MichaelWilliams-bx2ty
@MichaelWilliams-bx2ty 3 года назад
@@InternetLiJo i like it
@ArasheNorto
@ArasheNorto 3 года назад
What about Masculine Di demon and feminine De savior?! 🤔
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
That might be another video!
@bryancamareno2831
@bryancamareno2831 3 года назад
It's tricky business. I've got Feminine Te savior and Masculine Fi demon. It's like being pissed about something that's legit important to you, but you're not allowed to feel your anger. Instead you have a pleasantly polite and civilized inner "anger management counselor" throwing a thousand convincing logical statements at you about why you shouldn't be angry until it goes away. Except it doesn't really. Rinse and repeat that cycle and you can guess the emotional monster that creates. Speaking from experience. 😅
@ArasheNorto
@ArasheNorto 3 года назад
@@InternetLiJo awesome!
@ArasheNorto
@ArasheNorto 3 года назад
@@bryancamareno2831 tricky indeed, it's funny, I'm the opposite of u with the exception of decider genders; F-Fe over M-Ti. Have the same sensitivity over stupidly/simplistically expressed language and concepts (and my double blast isn't helping!) meaning, I don't rant, I rage! lol! And then almost immediately I have to deal with the guilty conscience! *deciders have a hard time understanding this* 😁 On the contrary, when single, I'm more often than regularly (!) busy flirting and making others believe I'm a genuine lover! (and my Ne isn't helping!) meaning, I don't flirt I converse unwritten poetry (with Ti adjusted metaphors and literary devices) it spells awkward… in full-capital! *** Over the times however, I've decided that I've had enough of falling in love at night and not knowing what to do with the recently aquired girlfriend the day after; so embarrassing… again, full-capital! 😐 It's extremely hard to control the Fe urge. Weirdly enough, since Dave says masculine Fe means u can control your feelings, this is supposedly, courtesy of feminie Fe! Anyways, glad to see a fellow cognitive behaver! lol… nice to meet you, my name is "a Clusterfuck of Cognitive Attitudes!"
@bryancamareno2831
@bryancamareno2831 3 года назад
@@ArasheNorto "a Clusterfuck of Cognitive Attitudes". 😂 yeah, I know what you mean.
@mtdarkness82
@mtdarkness82 2 года назад
I think the functions themselves have a masculine/feminine bias, and we have a masculine/feminine bias ourselves, which reflects our choice of second function for our savior animal. By choice, I mean the impulse that orders our function preference within our own minds. So Shannon, Te-Se started masculine Te and went to Masculine Se. Because she has both the tendency and preference for masculinity, more or less, she takes more of the same. You, however, lack the initial cognitive framework for masculinity, but have the conscious preference for it, so while you started off with feminine Ni, you on some level, prefer the stronger, masculine Te than the passive Fi. At least, that's what it seems like from my gatherings, so far. For me, Ti tells me when things in the world are wrong. From there, I can explore the possibilities (feminine Ne) or just use my memory to determine what it likely is and just go with that. (Masculine Si) If not that, make another conclusion. Not very open. As a man in touch with his femininity, I follow my Ti with Ne. I choose to live a life of conscious, interested curiosity rather than closed, know-it-all approach to life. Neither is wrong. But from Ti, one was a (more) extra masculine choice, the other a feminine. Just my views and experiences. Something to consider.
@mtdarkness82
@mtdarkness82 2 года назад
The initial masculine/feminine bias to the functions seem just how things are, but our association of those functions with men vs women is not. Would women be less hesitant to accept a masculine function set preference early in life if it wasn't considered "masculine?" Does this, across our society, make men more avoidant of the introverted and feeling functions simply because of the stigma against soft men? 🤔
@Takosaga
@Takosaga 3 года назад
Push information and than get pissed when its not considered
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
THIS
@dannyman2k
@dannyman2k 3 года назад
Yeet!
@rankfall15
@rankfall15 3 года назад
So I have masc Te as a demon, oh fuck am I screwed? 😂
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
Lol my mom has M Te. as a demon too !!
@marshallrobinson1019
@marshallrobinson1019 3 года назад
It all seems a bit too complex 😕
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
No need to dive too deep too fast. Sometimes you just have to skip along the surface and absorb what you can.
@marshallrobinson1019
@marshallrobinson1019 3 года назад
@@InternetLiJo Ti go [inaudible]
@cymbol73
@cymbol73 2 года назад
This is needlessly complicated.
@bobyrob9261
@bobyrob9261 2 года назад
What would an ENTJ with F-Te at the top and M-Fi at the bottom be like??
@w67rfhv114bjhjhbjhjvjhvyuvhjhk
@w67rfhv114bjhjhbjhjvjhvyuvhjhk 3 года назад
Vegan gang
@InternetLiJo
@InternetLiJo 3 года назад
Kale yeah.
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