I'm Lindsay or LiJo, and I use this platform to speak on personality and Jungian psychology. My purpose here on youtube is to help people understand themselves and others better. I tend to focus on growth related areas where cognitive bias and imbalance play a big role in the misfortune we seemingly ensue.
I was interviewed for the documentary Persona on HBO, and have appeared on many one on one and panel youtube series. I am open to new speaking engagements both live or on video on the topics of personality, cognitive bias, and decision making.
Outside of youtube I enjoy playing poker and chess.
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Yummm... theories. I like hearing ither people's theories, and of course i synthesize my own. I get Sapiosexual rushes when i hear of a good solution! And of course i like crafting my own. So yes i can see how this INTJ Ceack
For the average conscious being an ion, TJ is a very calculated manipulator and I don't use manipulation in a bad sense it's like you said to get what they want. I called them calculated takers, but a highly conscious ENTP can see right through it and either play the game or not so while the ion TJ thinks they're pulling the strings the NTP is deciding whether you're going to allow it I can give you example after example that's why I and TJ females love ENTP nails because they can never quite calculate what works so it keeps them on their toes
My gosh. So, ENFP here - enjoyed this video, wasn't going to comment, but then I saw your Papillion at the end (I have one too!) and felt I had to leave one. I've been looking up INTJ things lately and I can really see why your type resonates with me. Also, I loved Ben's "play ethic" idea - never occurred to me to state it like that - but there certainly is a "correct" play ethic that I value in people. Oh also, the "thrill of the hunt" thing, might be better clarified by explaining it as "thrill of discovery" , because I'm 100% there. I love learning about something I had not even the slightest idea about. Oh and and Ben having attachment to items because of the people and memories involved... yes, I'm right there with him. Ok ramble over :P
Like this one time my friend put me up for volleyball like when I didn't want to. So I spent my whole holiday searching for how to play volleyball and watched so many matches just for a few matches
I've submerged myself in my teenage INTJ self improvement journey and I have struggled so bad with just following through, I planed, I found the most efficient ways, I asked myself wtf is wrong but I noticed my lazinesss wasn't because of a lack of planning but because of a lack of doing, I can't let myself fall into the NI Te loop of infinite problem solving and planification, I have to find ways to force myself to follow through with external pressure because let me tell you the dopamine I get from neglecting routine is too addicting, thank you LiJo once more for being so knowledgeable and useful to the world...
Is this Ni or Si? Searching for a new trending restaurant that I planned to go with my friend. Before I go to the restaurant, I search first which food has the lowest price in order for me to save some money and which food is not recommended by people’s review so I can avoid it. I am very grateful and happy if you replied to my comment Ms. LiJo 😊
I do think there is some gender bias and social typecasting at play. I don’t think men struggle with owning a room as much as women do. When I am not Ni/Fe looping I am killing it with protocols and procedures that get used by countless others. It really helps when someone recognizes my effort and encourages/pushes me.
5:01 your dad is absolutely right about music changing how you think (I was an INTJ studying biology up to college and then switched to a music degree)! It makes systems fully evident in the world once you subconsciously start incorporating those patterns into your plans
I learned of the Ni-Fi loop about 3 years ago, and which was instrumental in seeing what was happening and regaining my objective thought posture. It was as though I felt so hopeless and overwhelmed, I simply ignored the outside world and just let it come for me, come whatever may. Regarding my exiting the loop; I had no idea I was using Ti in this fashion but I was. The way LiJo says Ti users are critical of themselves, I’ve always done that but viewed it as a function of Te, in that my critical view was of an objective standard that I see applied to all humans. Essentially Nature’s Mandate if you will. It just goes to show that even in utilizing Ti, it is natural for Te users to objectify their findings, however internally peculiar (subjective) that they may be.
oh it makes sense i do browse alot of films in yt and put them in watchlist but then only being abandoned for several weeks.. i have no interests of them anymore,, it also happens when i browse games in playstore i screenshot the games i would like to download and once again i lose interest after all, ending i upload all the screenshots in my cloud storage before i delete them in my memory card
No one will ever know that I have liked them, there, I said it. Ok, maybe a few. But only a few. Do they even remember me? I guess I will remain, forever remain for every day. The last exit for the lost. Sure those are lyrics, but, "would you pay life's pleasures to see me?" "does it hurt that I want you to remain?" "In the places, where love is born" "ritual playthings, up and down the hall" ... "all that remains, forever remains" Closer and closer, Cthulhu calls we're getting closer, I can see the door see the music of Fields of the Nephilim. we're falling from Exstacy, like changelings...
Going back a little bit, Ne ga che cha la ga. also, what is with the old ST:TOS lighting? Something I could never do was to be noticed, even though I wanted to be, but only by few, not many. I guess my social anxiety has been conflicting with my INTJ-ness.
From some point really early on in my childhood, for me to be in the spotlight was somewhere near death, so this is like a three or four decade thing for this INTJ. But what the hell does that matter? The boy is just shy. He will grow out of it.
Thank you LiJo for this. INTJ having a lot of problems with the worst part of being an INTJ and this helps me understand myself and start to change by incorporating more humanistic parts to my life. At times I’m scared that being an INTJ will mean I’ll be alone for the rest of my life.
I’m just finding out about Personalities. At 37yrs old I always been self aware of others the world around me and myself but I thought I was the way I am strictly due to ME. If that makes sense. 🤔I’m watching this video hoping the next thing you say doesn’t apply to me because this whole thing is tripping me Out. My wife is like 😮😮 now I understand why. Thank you for your content 👍
Holy shit dude i thought i was having an issue with backwards rationalization or I had a higher self pulling my strings or some shit. Thank you for making this video!
My god, how can you be so cute, awkward and obnoxious in the number of legs on a spider totally unique ways? You are an utterly fascinating human. You'll probably never read this, but keep up the good work! You made a new fan today.
I love you. - Random INTJ internet dude (who is probably not your soulmate, but might be an interesting guy to talk to, bounce ideas off of and see where things go) P.S. I know the secret ingredient to make really good scrambled eggs.
Extremely helpful.. Just had a difficult difference of opinion with someone, and couldn't understand why, but the fi/fe differences between us, explains why we were at loggerheads... Very helpful in this moment! Cheers 🙏
5:34 As an INTP, let me help you Abraham Lincon (an INTP) spoke against Slavery (an Established Practice at the time) INTPs entertain ideas regardless of Utility or Emotions. It's highly unlikely that an INTJ would have spoken against Slavery (an Established Practice at the time). Because entertaining this idea wounldn't have Utility to them. They would be busy thinking how do I Trick the System (Te) to my own advantage. The Ti for INTP results in "It doesn't matter if it is the Norm" or "Challenging Society / Rules" And with the help of Ne (endless possibilities) we usually conclude at the most correct Result (free from the Influence of Emotion, Utility, Norms/Society)
I read to kill time when I'm stuck at the desk at work - with nothing else to do. I will re-read the same five or six books because their depth and weight are sufficient to recapture my interest. My favorite novel is "World War Z," because it begins at the end, when the war has been won. I work a job where no one is around, so I can recycle story ideas I pretend I came up with but are actually reimaginings of things I read years ago. In some ways I feel like I have PTSD without the need to freak out. My line of work is all about completing a task just so I can come in the next day and do it all over again.
(I look all the time and you just dont see anyhting new. Kidna useles function? When u dont look, alteast ull find out something about ur pattern in ur head is wrong for some reason so you can improve it. If someone tells me there wasnt bird outside i might find out something useful (of why). Better then to look. Its like remembering math solution to example instead of learning specific math. Mabye you should use it in scenarios where ur completely lost - where even seeing bunch of examples might help to findout whats it about. )
