Matt & Abby Tried To Memory Hole This DellaVlogs Podcast... Why? 

I get the impression that Matt and Abby invited them into their podcast to set them up for failure. Is it possible that they know exactly how Story will be and is being exploited and they don't like it? Matt and Abby surely aren't perfect, but they seem a lot more honest and mature than Bella and Dallin (in my opinion)

Right?! They must not have been prepared for that question!

They forgot their promises because they didn’t write the book, someone else probably wrote it!

Saying they forgot the promises was extremely tacky in my opinion. I agree with you, they should have said something along the lines of it being a personal and private thing. Not oh we forget. What in the actual heck lol not cool!

Agreed, Or "We aren't allowed to share"

Wow that's horrible they replied that

Matt lives for the drams for sure lol. Luckily with guests on the podcast, it’s not at Abby’s expense. It’s a win win for them. They should have influencers on and just sneak diss them hahaha

I also think these guys aren't as close friends as they say they are online tbh especially based off all their body languages and particularly Matt, Abby and Dallin's facial expressions...there was silent judging going on there for sure.

Yep, he's on to them

yes😂😂😂😂😂

​@@strawberrykatnzI think they've grown distant from each other for sure. And I think the adoption and using that baby as an accessory has something to do with it

There is more to adoption than just accepting the first baby. You have to agree to the terms of the adoption, along with checking health issues. It is not a simple yes or no, so please don’t spread stupid rumours.

@@63dkw very true point, however its quite a big coincidence that the "right baby" was blond hair, blue eyes.

Exactly! The children aren't the storyline & the parents aren't "saviors". My best friend in school was adopted and her parents were open about it with her. They just kept it matter of fact style and just loved my best friend every day.

Hey ,we have something in common., Both my brother (adopted from another mother) and i were told about our circumstances as soon as we were old enough to understand.We were told we were specially chosen ,not "saved" too ,which has been such a lovely memory as i`ve gotten older. Like you i rarely think about it ,only really when i`m with a dr and asked about family medical history. LOve hearing you talk about your experience.We both got very lucky.Xox

Your story is heart warming. My husband was adopted in 1946 by wonderful parents. The birth mom’s father was a minister that sent her away when she got pregnant in college. My husband’s parents received a call from their doctor that a baby had been born and did they want him. They picked him up directly from the hospital. He always knew he was adopted and chose to meet his birth mother when he was 60. We thanked her for bringing him into the world and let her know he had a wonderful life. She was relieved to tell her story and hear he wasn’t mad at her. In 1946 it would have been very difficult for a single mom to raise a child when the dad ran & without family support.

@@texasproud8822Such a beautiful story!! Adoption is truly amazing 💕

@@Joy-qw3wmI love it! 💕

Yes!!!! It is driving me crazy. And that poor baby (I’m confident that is a doll though, as she/it never moved during the entire interview). But if that is how she normally acts when she is wearing her, that poor baby. That isn’t nurturing or soothing at all. She is so awkward.

@@kelleyatcthe baby never moved because the wrap looks wayyyy too tight lol

I think Abby is a pretty intelligent person, especially in comparison to a lot of other influencers. She seems to have a lot more empathy for the child than Bella and Dallin do.

@@thecatcat4537 I agree, It's kind of weird to me that they are still close friend with Della! They are really weird and awful

Oh that would be terrible if they meant so little they don't remember. I thought they probably just didn't want to tell them so people didn't call them out

They said what they needed to to get what they want.

You wouldn’t forget something as important as the promises… unless they were never important to you!! You’re right that the mother’s been swindled.

@Ashley-tf4zd Dallin & Bella say in the video that they can’t remember the promises.

@YellowFlowers-hd7cu right but like I said I figured they probably lied because if they said them out loud then people would come for them...

That is such a beautiful story 🥺

❤

Such a sweet story, I'm 36 no kids but I'd love a child. I wouldn't care what race or gender looks don't matter!

My husband and I have been pursuing adoption for just over a year now. We have two biological little girls and still feel this aching like I know I have another baby out there that I just haven't met yet. It's so painful to see the way this couple is talking about adoption. Like they won some prize or something. It's not right. We've been patiently waiting for over a year, still no matches. We've shown to probably 10 cases and have not been chosen. It defiantly feels weird that they got a match within just a few short months of their adoption journey starting. I read your comment and thought it was so beautiful how you talked about your parents. I can only hope and pray that my husband and I get a match someday soon and that baby will feel so loved by us. Just like you with your family. Thanks for sharing!

⁠@@daliasolomon5168for what it’s worth I hope you get a match soon- I have no idea how this all works but even with my very vague information I was surprised that they got through the process so quickly, it’s just not the picture I have built up over hearing of people adopting.

I bet you're right. I never even thought of that but that's exactly what a rich entitled princess would do since she's so obsessed with looks . I'm calling it right now that this will end badly for Dalin ,Banks & Story . I hope I'm wrong & she grows up . Maybe losing her Mlm business & some $ will wake her up but I doubt it .She's probably going to just adopt again or get a surrogate to ensure her cash flow on RU-vid. I really want laws in place for these innocent children.

Exactly! She is the content for their IG- and YT- Stories. And videos. And IG Feed. And everything else. It‘s their new little cash cow.

I work with kids and have met a few little girls names Stori /Story. I understand it’s not for everyone

Went to school with a girl named Stori. I agree with ya, she had to explain her name every min of her life. No thanks.

Dumb name

Money grab is her middle name lol

She acts like a nanny 🤦‍♀️😂

Yeah it’s very odd. She also seems to treat her baby like a newborn when its clearly not which is kind of weird. I think Dallin seems more normal about it but still weird all around

HAAAA, that is so on par. She really does treat that baby like a 14 year old with a mechanical baby

@@trialsemail2I nanny I wouldn’t want 😳. But, yes!!!

​@@kutie216She looks small like a new born. 🤷🏼‍♀️

exactly,I think she even said in previous vlogs that she dreams about adopting girl with blue eyes,...so yeah she was definitely shopping for a baby that will look like them,and it is sad because so many families would be happy to adopt no matter what gender,eye color,...

@@Alona2811 You're right, it's so unfortunate that just because they're wealthy they can play a game of 'design a baby.' It just shows that they don't care about giving a child a better life, they just want their little Instagram perfect family to show off. There are so many amazing people who adopt with the intention of helping a child, no matter its race, sex, etc, and Bella is taking away this opportunity from them because she wants to play house.

Absolutely ! It's clear they chose her cus she looks most like them. Which is disgusting because most people adopt to have a baby they couldn't have. They didn't adopt and pick and choose to make sure the baby looks like mom.

It’s always about her. I remember her posting a short on Instagram or TikTok or whatever about how they missed Dallin’s brothers wedding because she wanted to go overseas to see a doctor for her to get pregnant. They could have waited and stayed for his brothers wedding but no they are incredibly selfish and only think about themselves. Pathetic

Honestly as wrong as it seems, some people do have preferences and they allow people to choose what they'd love or want. So that's what happened there. They were okay picking only a white baby with blue eyes like their "dream'". She's allowed to not want to adopt one from China or Africa.

Right.?? Absolutely disgusting!! The way people judge on babies looks and won't even adopt them if they're not cute enough is mind blowing!!! Absolutely heartbreaking! If they wanted a baby so badly they would have adopted the first opportunity that they could!

And he did catch on.. like “those promises… the thing you just said was the most important thing… and now you forget?” Uncomfortable.

He kept pushing for those promises, those two dopes were tripping over themselves with nonsensical lies. The whole timeline is off and very telling.

I think this ppl were shopping for a baby and I think they were like "nope we want blue eyes,nope that is boy we want girl", they treated that like any other thing they are buying,if they really want baby they wouldn't care about anything,they would be happy they are having a baby

I bet they turned down male babies. Also, do you remember the scam about the baby mama? They said there case got in the right hands and they wanted her to be charged . They have not said a word about the case. I got a feeling they gave her money, they don't want that out.

The body wrap terrifies me. Babies have suffocated in them and you can see that, when Bella wears it, she completely covers Story’s face and nose.

That was my thought, THEY did not write the promises or put the book together. They had the agency or a professional do it. Otherwise you’d be able to give a general idea at least!

@pimmspimms5462 Abby has started to stupidly copy Bella and also wear the wraps. In their last Unplanned Podcast, Augie was turning redder and redder and had his nose crushed up against Abby’s chest. 🙁

​@pimmspimms5462 yeah you're not supposed to cover the babies face. That should be common sense. They have her face and head way too covered

It's definitely NOT you. She is fricking relentless. Between that damn mobi wrap and the way she holds her almost by her upper back/neck while her head and other leg is dangling. Ugh. That poor baby. I comment in her posts all the time how she's exploited her baby from the moment she met her, and she's disgusting. I literally have to pause the videos I comment on because I can't stand who she is and what she stands for. Let me stop cause I could go on for hours.

It’s not even a newborn! She hasn’t disclosed the age but the baby is at least 4 months old. I have a 6 week old that looks and acts much younger than story

Money was def involved

If you go through an adoption agency, it's possible. They must have already been approved and had all the paperwork in order because they thought they were going to adopt previously. Once a birth mother chooses a family, the process could happen quickly. It happened to family members of mine.

​@@kutie216There was a sign in a baby shower video that has her birthday. I'm not going to share the exact date, but she was born at the end of May, so she is indeed four months old. She was almost two months when they adopted her.

Don't get me wrong, I don't like them at all, and I'm not saying money was absolutely not involved, but the same happened to my parents, and they were far from rich. This was 32 years ago. My parents didn't even have the nursery ready when they got the call. They expected to have to wait at least 2-3 years and literally waited a matter of months before getting the call that there was a baby girl that needed a home. So it's not impossible.

Or wrap that baby properly lmao

That's sad to think about

She repeats that people comment the baby is lucky to have them as parents because everything is about them. Narcissists! All Mormon’s are so full of themselves

I honestly don't think there's a baby in there on her chest. I want proof. I'm so upset.

Oh, he knows!

Maybe this will help Matt and Abby re-examine the friendship.

Exactly!!!!😂

Lmao

No - Matt is just not sharp lol

Omg right?!!

Then finding out your parents profited off of your adoption :/

Good point!

@@chelseayoung8147while you were independently a millionaire nevertheless

I want to puke. I'm doubting that she even has a baby in that wrap.

Congratulations on your pregnancy! Hope it's going well! ❤

Exactly I have a 4 year old and am 34 weeks pregnant and I don’t even share my children online because it’s a privacy concern and what if they grow up and didn’t want me sharing embarrassing pictures of stories or precious moments online . Children aren’t a extension of you they are their own individual with their own personality and ideas it pisses me off when parents think they can do whatever to them kids just because they gave them life

They remember the promises. Like Matt said, they just don’t want to tell everyone. They obviously don’t like accountability!

Do you have a time stamp?

@@deshawnmedlock8457 ummm no but he does it alot in so many videos 😄 especially the Dougherty dozen videos lol

😂😂😂😂😂

I'm fairly new to the whole RU-vid world but can you save this? I hope you get to see this entire video, it's very telling. I honestly can't stand these people. Mostly Della and dufus , sorry I just can't.

He always does. Every video. 😂

Yes! I also feel like he purposefully tried to ask those questions in an innocent or "dumb" way to justify the questions. Because, obviously, "friends" (Matt and Abby) wouldn't ask questions to make their "friends" (Bella and Dallin) uncomfortable. He was asking the stuff that everyone wanted to know so badly and I feel like Abby, based on her facial expressions, was really glad that Matt asked them, because she maybe knew she wouldn't be able to ask them this innocently.

She's very awkward with the baby.

In fairness she hasnt had the entire pregnancy and the hormonal shifts that come with pregnancy, birth and post partum. She had 2 weeks of probably intense anxiety waiting for the call, and then had a baby to look after. Its pretty normal in that situation to take a while to adjust

I agree, I don't agree with them on majority of things, but she's definitely in shock/ trying to figure out how to keep this sweet thing alive. You are waking up every hour to two, having to feed and track what's happening, WHILE going through sleep torture.... It's got to be crazy trying to acclimate to the new life so quickly, and with ZERO hormonal help preparing you. Just because they suck doesn't mean she isn't dealing with hell. Howeverrrrrr, I still think they should have fostered to adopt if they truly wanted to be parents. Babies aren't accessories or a "level up" in a relationship or adulthood.

I'm 40, I don't have any kids, I don't want kids, and I can hold a baby more natural than that.

yeah they definitely would only want a white blonde baby

It gives me vibes of someone cosplaying on how to behave like (she thinks) mothers do.

Yep!

Yes he does. And the looks.

Matt doesn’t actually like them, and that says a lot about them!

Pun intended or not? 😂 “totally different Story” lol

Yeah as soon as the kid has their own thoughts and opinions, they’re done lol

@@hayleytarnasky6654 I get it, and I don't think so. 🤣

Am I the only one that thinks it looks like a fake baby?

A totally different story lol that’s great but my thing is who names their kid story 🤣🤣🤣🤣

That's probably a reason why this was deleted because they realized she would most likely see it. Cause I bet she watches everything to be able to see her baby she gave up.

@@kimberleighe_anne Yeah I totally agree

What is also really sad is that she’s probably a very young woman. Maybe even a teenager. Think about having a baby and all those hormonal shifts, being a teenager without a fully developed brain, you’re being given Percocet for pain. And they want you to sign your baby away. Adoption exploits mothers too. Nobody talks about the pain that these poor women go through. Not even fully knowing the gravity of what they’re deciding until it’s over. Did you know that most woman say if they had about $1,500 they would feel confident to keep their baby? Why couldn’t Bella and Dallin just donate to this woman they love so much and help fund her as a mom?

@@Jennwarner1988 I totally agree with you. It is heartbreaking. I think well off people exploit the hardship of people to gain their nice little family while they rip someone elses apart. I'm watching a tv show called Fat Friends at the moment and atm, the storyline is about a older woman who gave up her son for adoption when she was 15 like 30 years ago and even though she is a older woman who's married and has had other kids, she can't get over her loss. That must be what people really feel like

Yes!

Yes their whole ‘friendship’ gives me weird vibes!

I think she has realised just how dangerous and fake family vlogging is. Good for her honestly. Hopefully this message is passed on to Matt and her friends.

😂 That is funny to think about

Yeah there's something about her that even tho she would typically be kinda annoying...idk there's something that I can't put my finger on...idk for lack of a better word its something slightly redeeming idk hard to explain but she seems like she's a lot smarter than people probably give her credit for or that she might come across as....however that's also not saying much compared to Matt. He's annoying but he's honestly not that bad and I don't think he's as shitty as a lot of others (duh 😅) but idk they used to be a lot more cringey for me but lately not as much but that's probably cos they're so young and still have a lot of maturing to do?

ITS WHAT THEIR GENERATION CALLED THE COOL FACTOR BUT YOU CANT STAY THAT WAY FOREVER LIKE TANA MONGOOSE IS A PRIME EXAMPLE OF THIS TREND

You're right, it seems that across the board they all have a very teenage-like mentality. Very immature group of people.

They are definitely emotionally stunted. They peaked in highschool and were never able to move on from there

I totally agree. I wonder if it’s because of their “jobs”. They haven’t had to really evolve or mature beyond what teenagers do. It’s so cringey. I cannot imagine any adult watching this content. Their audience has to be 12 years olds.

@@saramcdonalds427 makes you wonder if its for camera or is this really them.

@@kay-bc3vlno the babys government name is actually Story Belle

@@kay-bc3vl oh pls I just realized what you meant 😂

Yes!!!! My first thought in that very first shot at the start of the video. It’s a doll. Period

And it never moved. Not once.

*30:36* you can clearly hear the baby grunt…they all 4 acknowledge it.

100% agree with this

Yes!!! He has a major speech impediment, which makes me feel bad for saying it's hard to listen to him...but he's just a goober.

Everything about Dallen is just not good. Lol the hats, the voice, the dumb face. I didn’t think you were allowed to be Mormon and also dress like a f*boy

So nasally 😂

If he was a good dude, no one would care. But since we are here, in the comment section below this video, I think we can all agree: His voice is pretty annoying.

I used to watch them a year ago and even I, for whom English is just my third foreign language, noticed their vocabulary is very limited: they always day something is “cool”, “sick” or “surreal”.

I kind of believe they don't remember.. Which us way worse 😳

If they lied, thinking this would actually make them sound better that say “we cannot share that info”😂What idiots

Not a chance between those 2 idiots they couldn’t remember the promises they made. They are terrible liars. Wouldn’t it be like forgetting your wedding vows? And only weeks after you made them?

But how would she then show us she is a caring Mother??!!😁

They are idiots who are completely removed from reality. Having enough money and resources to offset the sources of commonly felt struggle certainly makes things easier. Their circumstances are wildly different than the average caretaker of a newborn child! Their situation can't be compared to others, especially people who carried and birthed their children, and it's insulting to attempt to do so. They need to shut their mouths about it and stay in their lane. Their lack of understanding what makes their situation different is un-fucking-real and makes them look like morons. I don't have and never want kids, i will never live that life, yet i can still conceptualize what makes it hard and why they have no ground to stand on here! Let's see what makes their situation "not that hard" shall we? -no physical damage to your body, zero recovery physically and/or mentally. -no feeling of loneliness or sadness from lack of support for YOU during your time of healing. No wishing that someone would ask you how YOU'RE doing after a difficult, traumatic, and mutilating experience. -no flood of hormones and altering brain chemistry that change your thoughts, behaviors, and mood, literally altering how you experience life. -no dependency of the child to YOUR BODY, which leads to my next point... -no loss of autonomy or agency to create and sustain the child's life, a major contributor to PPD. -no worry about finances -no worry of maternity leave or other work related issues. Do i have any leave? Is it enough? Will i be ready to go back when it ends? Will i be treated the same when i go back? Will this effect my chances of promotion? Am i going to have to choose between my job and being a parent? -no worries about childcare as related to work or otherwise, there will always be the option for hiring a lot of help for any reason at all. -no frustration or guilt with getting behind on household or business tasks.(due to unlimited access to said help) -not having to breastfeed, which is a full time, 'round the clock job that requires a lot of effort. No issues with under or oversupply. No frustration with a baby that won't latch, or guilt from not being amazing at it or just not wanting to do it anymore. No complications or discomfort that come with breastfeeding, and no restrictions on food or drink that can effect quality and supply. -no sleep deprivation. I don't believe for one second that they don't have a night nurse. -lastly, and this plays into the massive amounts of help they can afford, no feelings of being overwhelmed, not having enough support, or feeling stuck with no options. They can take breaks from parenting whenever they please, and had to sacrifice nothing to become parents. Not their time, not their bodies, not their financial security, not their jobs, not their lifestyle...nothing. These two bringing a baby into their lives is more appropriately compared to someone adopting a cat. Life is different, but also not really, and no shit it isn't that hard because the cat isn't dictating your schedule, altering your livelihood, or interfering with the ability to care for yourself.

Yeah I saw that too. As someone who had a really rough pregnancy, traumatic birth, and then NICU stay on top of that…. It was rough arriving at having our firstborn. Even when she came home, I was recovering from a C-section and the stress of other things happening made it such a rough transition. So for Bella to act like “oh hey it’s not so bad!” Felt like such a slap in the face. She didn’t even acknowledge WHY it’s so much easier for her and acted like it’s just her being effortlessly amazing. Hated that video.

They've got a nanny

I'm adopted and my adoptive mother didn't bond with me at all so that was nice growing up.

​@@SassyUnicorn86a night one I bet because if you're up all night you do not have the energy to go to the gym and all the travel all you want to do with a newborn is faceplate your bed for a straight 8 hours. They're so dishonest it's disgusting and I feel so bad for the birth mother though I suspect its actually been a surrogacy

Well you do know what crap is in there....that's one thing I actually agree with doing ...my pets get bottled water...tap water u do know is the same as whats in the cistern in your toilet...

​@@tashaax1993xanimalloverx and YOU know that people aren't going down to natural springs and dunking single use containers meant for sale into the water, right? All bottled water comes from a tap of some sort, and many bottled waters share the exact same source as tap water. Shit, more than half of all bottled water is literally packaged tap water from city lines. Potable drinking water comes and goes through different lines and are subject to different treatment standards. (The source may be the same, but in that case it means your toilet water is the same potable quality as your sink water, it's just collected in a toilet, making it undesirable for drinking for obvious reasons.) It is true that not all tap water is created equally, though! Quality, treatment, and source vary greatly, but in modern developed areas your sink water is perfectly safe and kept seperate from waste waters that would pollute the supply. If it's just a matter of preference, enjoy your bottled water, nothing wrong with that! But let's not pretend drinking sink water is the same as sticking a straw into the toilet bowl, or that bottled water springs into existence without a bunch of man made processes to collect, treat, and package it.

@nikki1400 wow well u need to so more research ....the amount of chemical that are put into tap water to make it drinkable is bad enough....

Something very strange going on here.

It's ridiculous. It's like a new purse for her.

Have you seen her videos where she makes "mom coffee"🤮 the way She is Holding the baby is SO disturbing

Why does she have it up over her head it looks so tight I am surprised the baby doesn't suffocate.

Yeah and that’s not a newborn lol I wore my third in a wrap like that for like… a few weeks. Then he wanted to be put on the floor lol or in his rocker or in our other baby carrier. He was crawling at 4mo and walking at 8mo because he got so much time to move around and get strong… it’s concerning that - I think the baby is like 4mo??? - is in this tight wrap like the baby could go into a regular baby carrier at this point if she really wants to baby wear a lot. But honestly during this whole podcast baby could’ve been on a mat on the floor or just… in her arms if she wanted to sleep/be held. It’s so weird.

This!!!!

I don’t know what the reasons were of her pedo friend mom, but I imagine there are many reasons like exhaustion for example.

I thought exactly the same it screams xanny memory to me

I hope this is the case😂 and i noticed matts contemp for them at times too😳

😂😂😂

100%!!!!!!!!!! That would boil my blood, pregnant and ready to pop. Messed up, at least LIE and say it's personal between them and the mom!

Imagine how sweaty that child is smh

That wrap gives me anxiety. It's so tight😞

I know someone who either wore or wrapped their baby all the time & baby got pneumonia bc his lungs didn’t get to expand all the way. I think baby wearing is great but this looks wrong.

Because that moron is clueless doesn't even know what year it is.

That's what I said look how tight it is over head I have never seen anyone do that she can't even move

I think this also could be part of why they deleted this video.

SAMEEE at first I was like... why does he hate everyone?! But now I see it all so clearly and he's SO RIGHT to be exposing these terrible family channels 💯💯💯💯

@@kaycho717 absolutely!! I was so blind to the BS before.

I used to watch a few of these families one day DCP popped up and after 5 hours of watching, I unsubscribed to all the family vloggers I followed. I too at first thought he was a complete A-hole. Sorry Josh, I think you're absolutely wonderful all you do to bring awareness to child exploitation.

@@jlp0174let’s not exaggerate. He is doing great work with these family vloggers exploiting their children but I have personally heard him saying 3-4 misogynistic stuff in his channel and many have said he is a homophobe and politically leaning very right.

@@martafiord 🙄

Idk I was super lovey over nieces and nephews just like I am over cats and dogs or anything innocent and little that needs protection in the world. But I’ve heard it’s even more so with your own but this Bella comes off as a fake user that’s just exploiting that poor innocent child. People that can’t love a child like their own have no business adopting though that’s for sure.

Babies with special needs are often harder to place. Sometimes, it's because a couple legitimately can't afford the medical bills involved to give that child proper care. Sometimes, it's because people just don't want to deal with that and will wait for a "perfect" fit.

Because this baby girl is the beginning of their new story arc. She's just a prop/accessory in their storyline.

Bella said she had that name picked out since she was a teenager

Because every locket tells a story

In the same video also! They contradicted themselves in a matter of minutes😂

When i first read that i thought you meant literally 😂 bcuz he's always barefoot on the podcast!!

Poor girl/woman!!!

It absolutely does not look real

Because she's mental.

What’s going to happen if Story is some how not perfect when she grows up? Just can’t imagine them being genuinely supportive off screen and shitballs if she’s a member of the lgbtq+ community! Bet organic hand crafted food & clothing and homeschooling will be high on the list of must do’s + employing a multi lingual nanny.

right! she's so dumb to say that.

Bc Matt playing dumb but he's on to them.

preach!!!!!