Meet Ellie, Leaving a Legacy for Her Son | My Last Days 

manda gomes I know..I can't imagine being in her position but it could happen to any of us..it remind me how short life really is❤️

I commend this lady for her strength and endurance. Her personal faith in God is evident and a reality. This to me has made the difference where she can face death with the assurance she will be with God and can leave a deep legacy for her son. X

This is a good way to show you just how how short life really is

i cried when he said that

I'm halfway through and been teary eyed the whole time

not one..

Not lord..own karma

Sofia Simon I cried through the whole thing it’s to sad

amen !

Dils Dil how would it be karma getting cancer

Great 👍🏽 worth

You said everything I wanted to say ❤

ArmyNurse :3 glad he has a loving caring dad

I broke at I named her Ellie and that her heart.

😭😭😭

And chacha chicken

ArmyNurse :3 ❤️💪🏾

Right!!! I'm so happy but so sad. She was so strong and brave.

@@Mea_Davis she was. I hope her son grows up to be someone his mom would be proud of. I wish him the best.

Jimin is my cutie pie, I agree!!

Jimin is my cutie pie amen to that your so right to many people moaning over silly stuff watch this and reevaluate your life priorities ❤️

Your right about that

Same I’m pregnant and these hormones got me a mess 😢😭 this lady is so strong and inspirational.

Kat

I don't know why either it just really attacked me 😭

I know!!!

Let’s not forget dad in all this, he’s had it rough too and came out of it. A very loving husband and father.

So true.

And emotional too 🥰💖💞

So true I'm so sad

It was wonderful to see this.Even at upsetting times. It ended up a beautiful party of family and friends having a wonderful time together celebrating the young woman's life .

I agree ❤❤❤❤

Sharon Ojay 😩 Seriously!! I just sobbed so hard!

Omg true I had the longest crying session in my life. I still can't stop. It's so sad but at the same time so incredibly beautiful how she sees the world and enjoy her last week's its just so strong and beautiful.

Agreed!

It always be like that

Agreed

Curlyheadpickle 1980 same here... 😭

I’m crying my eyes out

Worst thing I've ever had to tell my kids. Watching the innocence of childhood wash away in a moment knowing they will never have a normal childhood. Knowing you are causing them so much pain, life long pain, and there is nothing I can do to change it.

that part makes everyone cry..😭

It seems a little passive aggressive, it certainly risks the child thinking it’s the fault of the doctors.

Wa

It will take a really long time before he could watch this and feel happy. The pain of her loss will mean its too heartbreaking to watch for quite some time. But it is rheye for him when he is ready for it

Thats me right now

Me too💔😭

That's mee

Yup. Me too.

It's hitting me hard :/

Jaylen.. if u can see this.. i also agree.. and please know that the angels will be with ur mom♡ she is around u♡ u will see ur mom when its ur time to leave here on this earth... u can also ask her 2 come 2 u and she will in ur dreams... when she does it will be a valadation 4 u from her that she is ok n not far... im so sorry 4 ur loss♡

she has a Jaylen... :-) i have a ♡Jayden... :-) #ThatsReallyCool♡

@@nikkigarcia_2007 Lol😂😂😂 that's so crazy those would make a good boy and girl name for boy and girl twins 😁😁😁😁

jalen* is was stronger than i could ever be

She helped him prepare. Often times death is sudden and kids don't get to prepare. She gave him an awesome life gift.

He is also very young to where I do not think he understood the magnitude of death, kids can be ok, it affects them later after some time, that is why counseling and talking is much needed after the fact.

@@amberlocsaknot kids are devastated by death. You must be talking about babies. This child is old enough to fully understand and feel this loss. I know people who lost their parents young and believe me they understand, and it hurts them deeply. They typically become very angry by 11 or 12, and it's not just puberty. It's puberty and a deep deep hurt they have to work through.

@@yourstruly_777 that's exactly what I said.....you must have not understood??? He knows she is dead but cannot fully comprehend that she is gone forever until he is older, like I said and you repeated only adding an age to your reply?

@@yourstruly_777 you contradicted yourself....if they become very angry by 11-12 than they did not grieve and understand death. I.e. too young to understand the magnitude of death, young enough to know things are changed yes.

Same i can't even imagine the heartbreak but i cried so much and i almost never crie during videos.😫😫😖

why?u already know that u ll die one day and accepted it.does it matter when?i grew up with seing cancer around me.almost everyone in both sides of my family,including my own parent got it.some survived,some died because of the late diagnosis.my uncle is fighting with brain cancer and we are waiting for his time.my dad is stage 3 prostate cancer and medications are slowing it down but cant stop it so he ll die in a year or 2 cause he is almost 80.i got used to with this thing so much,so long,im age 44,just waiting when i ll get my own news.so im very carefull.but i prefer to know when i ll go like she did so i wont waste time about stupid stuff.i ll happily make my peace,i ll say see u guys later instead of goodbye to my family and i ll be greatfull to have a chance to do it.

Same. I am a guy and this got to me. I was feeling the pain man..

I'm Casper same! If you don’t cry your eyes out watching this, you are not human. 😔

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Горько и больно за женщину милую но как ей повезло с родеыми и родным с ней милые милые милые Аминь 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖💖Прими ее душу господи

How are u ? :are 6:35 u still with us?

I'm sorry about your sister. Be strong and take care.

@@silentnight9655 💜

ditto

It did the same to this 48 year old woman as well

Ditto

Also this 56 year old woman.

I’m 19 and I’m bawling like a baby rn

Amen!

Okay but you can still be a „real mum“ even if you don‘t think about your kids 24/7. You can still be a „real mum“ and also make time and space to think about yourself. Mums don‘t have to sacrifice everything for their kids, that‘s a really toxic thought. I get that this woman is really inspiring and admirable but we can‘t hold all mothers to these standards...

Marie Morgen oh most definitely, sorry if my comment came off like that. that wasnt what i meant

@@maries.5587 um I hope you dont have any kids because sorry to break it to you but you dont get to bring in an innocent soul into this world and think you dont have to think about them. Once you have kids its no longer about just you in any way or form. Your children need you so its about add about them 24/7 that doesn't mean its less about you but it means they will ALWAYS be included in every decision you make. The lady who made the commment said NOTHING wrong.

Michael Miller I’m sorry if it came across that way, but I never meant to say that parents don’t have to think about their kids. This is so obvious that I didn’t include it in my comment, but OF COURSE bringing kids into the world makes you responsible for them, we’re all aware of that. And I’m not asking for parents to become neglectful and abandon their kids, obviously. What I found problematic about the comment was solely the part about “not thinking about herself for a second” and how apparently that makes her a “real mum”. I commented because I didn’t want mums to read that comment and feel guilty about not completely sacrificing their lives to their kids and neglecting their own needs. When I wrote that part I thought about mums who want to go back to work and not be a stay at home mum, who want to meet up with friends sometimes, who need some alone time after playing with their kids. Nowhere did I say that mums should stop thinking about their kids. But as long as their kids are in safety, I think they’re entitled to breaks and alone-time if they need it. And they’re allowed to still make time for their own needs. I’m only 19 and don’t plan to have kids any time soon but I know that if I ever were to have kids I would definitely need to take care of my OWN needs aswell in order to be a good mum. In my opinion “not thinking about themselves for a second” is holding mums to an unrealistic standard that will do more harm than good - to mums AND their kids. At least that’s what I think. I didn’t mean to start a fight and I surely didn’t mean to accuse the commenter. Your assumption about how I’m going to be a bad mum however was really hurtful and completely unnecessary, especially coming from someone who doesn’t know me at all. This comment was not about me and you shouldn’t have made it about me.

God bless your brother and their son

Ellie was ur sister in law?

@@hollyb98401 no my brother suffered the same loss as her husband! I guess I worded that incorrectly.

BigSister2wkago

❤️❤️

kate rowe deadset on making people emotional tbh

For real. Along with this video one of my recommendations was a video of people reading the last text a loved one sent them. Like damn RU-vid, why you want me to be sad. 😢

Ikr

Forreal?!!!! Like why damn I just balled my eyes out the whole video! This was beautifully presented though! If I ever get cancer and it's terminal I now know how I want my kids to remember me and how to talk about it.

Kate Rowe that’s so weird. How can you cope with that.

Always pray

Amen!

I am a divorce, have three little boys and I am a mini stroke survivor. I feel so blessed to be able to look after my boys. R.I.P Ellie. Best wishes for your son.

Jamyang Yoesel wow deep

Amen sis

This is so sad feel sorry for her son after watch

How treasured your memories of her must be! Bless you for being the solid support she needed ❤

🙏🏿💐 I’m sorry

Kaitlin Eilers when people are terminally ill they often can feel it coming..

same prediction happened to my relative and my neighbour.one saw it in dream,the other one woke up from the coma and said that angel told him that he ll die 3 days later and told his wife that they also showed him where he ll be in after life.then he forbid his wife from crying after his death.he went into the coma right after that and never woke up.died exactly 3 days ater like he said

My birthday was coming soon and my mom kept asking my aunt about it. She would say "When is the girls birthday?" (I'm a twin). She wanted to wait til she saw us turn 21 before she passed.. She made it, but was in a deep sleep.. She passed the night of our 21st birthday. Best present I could have ever recieved... As messed up as it sounds, It was a good feeling to know she was no longer suffering.

My daughters grandpa passed the day he predicted as well. Just a month ago his last words were "i want to live" which was a song played at his funeral.

I pregnant I cried so hard ..

Morgz Cox he is super strong

Amen

Yes cus him mom will be watching over him.

He doesn't fully understand yet, but I know God will help him.

Absolutely nothing. My God!!!

Me. I'm a guy and I told my slef I'm not you g to cry and now in a mess.

Im not Even half way and i can’t breathe.

Not even half 😭😭

i’m not even a fourth into the vid and i’m balling

I was only a couple of minutes in and started crying

That is also my biggest fear my friend, my son doesn't have a father to lean on or have his back.

@@kellyfostercash8026 you're gonna be just fine. You're gonna find someone to love your baby just as much as you do. I know it ❤️

you're gonna be just fine. You're gonna find someone to love your baby just as much as you do. I know it ❤️

shay Roberts and she said he was like I dnt even kno wher to start, ain’t nothin like a moma, I’m cryin my ass off rite now

that made me think a crazy thought...I would buy him one outfit for every year of his childhood. then my mind went to how the dad is gonna know what clothes to buy him. That's where my mind went. oh so heart breaking.

Yes she is bless have to live your life as if it's your last because no one's the time or day that God will call us home..such inspirational story and may she RIP

@@puffymuffin9064 true

Lord forgive us. Thank you for another day. God bless her baby in Jesus name. Amen.

She’s at peace!!!

I pray things get better for you soon merry ♥️♥️♥️♥️

Bailey Spelt Beefy YES. My mom has been gone for 10 years and I’d give just about anything to hear her voice or watch videos of her. This will be priceless for little Jalen❤️

Jessica Conrad I’m so sorry for you loss❤️

Bailey Spelt Beefy, I totally agree with you. I lost my baby brother Jason in August 2018, then in September 2018, I lost my daddy, then about a week later I lost my own son Cody, he was only 23 and also he had a baby born the same day he died.

Tina Monroy omg I’m so deeply sorry for all your losses. I can’t even begin to imagine your pain. So sorry

@@eviem70 , thank you

Ria B I don’t like how there is 666 likes so I’m liking it so it’s not that number anymore.

666 is not what we have been programmed it to mean....just a simple reminder to keep our thoughts and intentions positive...to be grateful for each other and our Blessings✨🙏🏾✨

Goodbyes are for everyone and they are final . There isn't anything a person can to stop these. I pray you have more good days than bad and more happy than sad

🖤🖤

Waterworks!

it’s heartbreaking 💔😭

He truly loves his wife Ellie

Doctors are legal Killers, doctors kill people legally, doctors kill people by the law, doctors kill his mom, all the people believe doctors are God. Go through much pain being killed by the doctors. The doctor set the date to kill her. I am a researcher on photodynamic therapy, that is using rare earth doped nanoparticles, injected into the blood, circulate around the body, it's a caused of cancer, not treat cancer, she was killed by the doctors.

Taylor Weidler anyone gets tired of suffering with an incurable disease.They get to the point when they really want to pass away

Ya Manz I know they do but having a child and knowing that your gonna die and having to prepare to leave your child is just i cant even put it into words

Taylor Weidler oh most definitely!! I’m with you 100% on that.I feel that way about leaving my family behind.A mother leaving her child I know it must be very very very difficult to leave her child behind.

Ya Manz it has to be so difficult

Phillipians 4:7

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What about no child should lose their dad Or no wife should lose their husband I got ur point though

Ratcoon no kid should lose their dad, but that’s why I put parent so it could potentially be the dad in the situation too

@Sir Bang-a-Lot yea, go back to your retirement home, creep

yeah but God is a cruel dick with a noose around your neck threatening to char you for infinity if you don't see him as amazing for doing this.

Brianna B. I swear to god I feel the same exact way.

SAME.

Me tooo starting today I’m going to be more grateful for the things I have and not take anything for granted

Same i look at life different because of you

There people talk so much bullshit. Nobody changes the life by watching a video. Tomorrow they are gonna be the same, with the same worries and evilness.

Same. To walk towards death with SL MUCH grace....what a beautiful human ❤

you have a lot of compassion and empathy. It is a good thing.

I bawled and had to stop the video for a bit to gather myself to continue watching . Luckily it was right during the part after her son spoke during the celebration of life and stripper came out . Lol 😂 my tears turned to a smile seeing how happy she was :-) she is an amazing woman

Your son is a beautiful legacy.

this is so lovely, but hOW DID YOU WRITE THIS ONE WEEK AGO THIS WAS RELEASED TODAY,,, I'M SO CONFUSED.

Suh Dude they probably disliked it because it made them cry, not because they didn’t like the video. Some people just become extremely emotional when hearing about these situations.

Suh Dude dont worry about those people because they are just agent of devil.

They are trolls who survive on reaction, don't give them any.

It’s ‘robots’ like when you have to do those catcha thingumbobs

@@janebeth1844 😂😂😂 i learned a new word tonight. Thank u 😊

I know...

deciphermy soul same, it’s really hard for me to cry but I just felt tears falling down my cheeks 😞

Me right now

The father is "Crying" but there is no tears

@@catharineburke4494 people grieve in very different ways. i think you should consider that just because his process is different, that doesn't make it any less genuine or valuable.

Yes

Yes True Mothers Loves is Always Forever!! 🌹🌹🌹🌹

Words for wisdom and more.

She's in a better place now. Idk know how old you are but I know it is one of the hardest things. Stay positive and live your life to the fullest.

stay strong ur so brave

Judith Giller-Leinwohl rest in peace to your mom who is getting protected by Angles

Rest in Peace Ellie

My mom passed away in 2012, and I miss her very much and think about her everyday. :( You're so lucky to still have your mom.

He is very young, but in the future he is going to miss her and cry.

My mother wrote me a beautiful letter. I took care of her for her last two months when she was dying of ovarian cancer. My father had just died of cancer of the pancreas. i Don't think my dad really believed he would die but my mother seemed to know she hadn't much time left. She prepared me for her death well, probably better than my dad prepared me for his. When my mother died I was sad but not shocked because she had prepared me. I didn't believe my dad would die until the day before he actually died. I think its so important to prepare your loved ones when you know death is imminent- like Ellie and my mom did. i wasn't a child when they died- I was 36 but there was still a troubled child inside of me.

Totally Fantastic But So Devestating Made me cry 😭😭😭💔💔💔

@@brisingarinstaridavis7084 Stupid and pointless emojis

@@claudiakrizay *Chill, it’s a way of expressing emotions that can’t be read.*

Yes she did!!!❤️🙏🏽

Yes😢

Mads Derrico yes

I did too. This is very painful for me to watch 😢😢😢😢

Yessss goodness 😍

I wish my dad could have prepared me for this...but unfortunately nobody knows when his/her time has come to an end. He passes away and left me as a grownup (w/my siblings) and lets say my life spiraled for the past 3yrs. Ellie, you have done a marvelous job raising Jalen and instilling in him what you’d want him to be in life. God Speed, Ellie.

OMG you too? Yea one minute I was crying then she had me laughing.

Yes :)

Bri _210 ik 😭🤧❤️

My mom's gone so be gratful EXTREMELY 😭💜

My dad just passed away from cancer enjoy every second of life

Joseph Vincent My condolences ❤️❤️❤️

Joseph Vincent im sorry for your loss my condolences go out to you and your family🙏❤️

Laci Gonzalez same bless Ellie

Laci Gonzalez me to

Same

Same

same

Hello Lisa

@@christophernewton7056 hello

@@lisamcilvainartpage8838 how are you doing today?

@Jase he’s good we are still friends, never went past that. He has a new girlfriend and they are happy

@@brooklynsofyasamaniegoervi995 Good for him, that girl is a lucky little girl. He seems like such a sweet little boy.

​@@brooklynsofyasamaniegoervi995 how old is he now?

Yes me too. Omg I'm going to enjoy every second of my life!

Me too. Im just so grateful now for everything i have.

I am absolutely weeeeeeeeping :’(

How can i be so selfish to complain about just small things !!! Be strong boy !!!

Shelbi Gray yes me too I just cried! Omg

Cheerios for realll

Cheerios same I was shook

Bro saaaame

Definitely was thinking the same thing

That's so sad

Me too. It’s right where I lost it.