‪@MeetStephanSpeaks‬ 

Most people are married to the wrong people is a true statement.

I can listen to Stephan pour out the wisdom God gave him all day! 🖤 The passion he has when he speaks about love is EVERYTHING! God bless this beautiful man of God.

“If you been through what I’ve been through then you would know that I CAN’T ignore the spiritual voice”!!!!👏👏👏Whewwww talk about it!!! So many gems in this episode🔥

Dating has sadly become difficult in this day and age. There’s still people like myself who desire a healthy relationship/marriage

The issue about sex. It's important that BEFORE you get married, one must address their own internal issues with sex/lust/flesh. Are you disciplined in that area? Have you conquered lust? Have you conquered being ruled by your flesh? Because if the answer is no, we end up hurting each other in marriage due to our own internal issues and battles with lust that we may or may not be aware of. Marriage calls for two mature people and that includes being able to demonstrate self-control and self-discipline of your flesh. If that has not been confronted pre-marriage it will surely show up in many different ways during the marriage whether that's infidelity, addiction to porn etc. It is not your partner that's to blame it is the thing underneath the surface (the lust that brought you two together, the lack of self-control that brought you two together) that needs to be uprooted and healed in order to move towards a healthier relationship in all ways, including sex.

You are killing it with the Guest! First Devale and Khadeen....Now Stephan‼️ 🔥🔥🔥

"Stop letting the internet trick you. The internet is not real life" say it again bro! 💯🇭🇹

Stephan made it all simple. We as people complicate things. Your spirit will always speak truth in relationships and life in general. Wow! This was so good!

“The courage to change course” is so necessary. I left my job after 20 yrs and moved to a different state due to God leading me into His path. Changing your course is not easy and it takes faith and courage. Stephan dropped great knowledge as usual. To add to that, I think if more people surrender to God, do the work, and allow God to lead them to their spouse, a lot of this would be avoided. Great podcast!❤

Men are not the only ones wanting a baddie. Women settle for your personality and humor. We want a handsome man who got his act together. He doesn't have to be rich. I find the men who always want a baddie...are not the most attractive men themselves. Their money is what makes them attractive to the wrong women. Usually that "baddie" is just that ...the one that treats them bad, and takes them for everything. You reap what you sow. It's so much more than looks. This way of thinking is so shallow minded to me.

This episode needs to be nominated for an OSCAR. I was throwing my hands up like I was in church🙌🏾. Great conversation🙏🏾❤️ Thanks Laterras

Stephan speaks on DFW! Finally! 💕 I've been secretly hoping and waiting for him to be on this podcast! And congratulations to me for being the first here to comment! My notepad and I are ready for what this episode has in store for us!

This boy is the truth!!!! So glad he came on your show! He really is tapped in to the spirit. The things he says is beyond him.

This is a whole GROWN conversation. To see and hear black men talking like this is refreshing, healing and gives a whole.lot of Hope. God bless you kings

Marriage is all about service and servanthood. Also, I really like the vibe with you and Stephan. Love the golden nuggets. Would be great to have him back, you’ve just scratched the surface👏🏾🙌🏾

I was so invested. I didn't want this interview to end. I'm going to watch this again. I just kept saying over and over again dang Stephan is made for this. He was all in my business and gutted me like a fish in a good way. Great job gentlemen ❤

Now if you get Tony Gaskins on here, I’d shed a little tear.

The "connection" & "attachment" really opened my eyes. This is a conversation I needed to hear. I would very much be interested in speaking with a relationship coach. I've been single for 15 years with no dates at all. Maybe there are some truths about me that I am not aware of. I'm open to self discovery. Stephan if you're willing to take me on as a client I'm here for it!!

I wish they would’ve touched on male emotional neglect. I would argue that’s just as bad as cheating. A woman has a hard time opening up her body to a man who is not safe for her emotionally. Also financial infidelity is a problem.

When it comes to “connection” I believe you can have more than one and where we have to be careful about connection is the season your in, because it can be a connection with someone at a certain time and they were needed for that purpose at that time, but then we have to be careful not to pick a connection for a relationship or marriage based on where you are now, you need someone who can handle you in all seasons. Don’t settle in prayer because you will settle in everything else

That interview...I need a nap too!!! The segment where he talks about looking for someone who fits your life before you know yourself hit home so much I'm injured and healing at the same time!!!! God bless y'all!!!

OMG!!!! Laterras!!!! Season 6 is Spectacular!!!! Stephan is another of my favs!!!! I can’t wait to listen to this episode!!You definitely have to get Tony Gaskins on next!!!!

Marriage is two people coming together to serve each other. I learned your singleness you must root out selfishness

The problem is, everyone wants to chase things that are out of their reach. Then the one’s that are close, they don’t like those people. Men & women do the same thing when it comes to dating. Y’all don’t like the people that like you, & the one’s that y’all want usually aren’t in your best interest, but because they give off this “🔥” or “Edge” feeling, that is the only thing that keeps you chasing them. Another hard truth is that subconsciously the people you want are the one’s that you feel are superior to you, not in a sense of thinking they are better than you, but in a sense of wanting their validation. The people who show you the attention you want are always the one’s you don’t want, & the people who don’t give you that attention, you crave it from them. This is why y’all think sh’t is complicated when it really isn’t. You people still carry the toxic mentality that you grew up with “ If a boy or girl is mean to you, that meant they like you” That mindset is one of the most crippling traumas that parents could have ever instilled in their children & wonder why they don’t like the people that actually likes them. You want to be challenged, which is fine, but there’s a difference between healthy challenges & toxic one’s. Y’all are too attached to the toxic one’s & instead of doing the work on yourself & stop repeating the cycle, you’ll forever be someone that thinks “Dating” is complicated. It’s not complicated, y’all just make it complicated. Stop thinking that you can’t have an attractive , fire , healthy partner. Y’all get so brainwashed into thinking that the only ppl who are attractive are the “Bad” guys or “Bad” girls & that’ll never be true. Society has lied to you all & instead of accepting the truth for what it is, do better. Make better decisions, stop choosing the same type of women & men. You people are so shallow & only care about what a person looks on the outside that you forget about the substance that holds sh’t together. Then you want to be the 1st person to scream all women or men ain’t sh’t. Take accountability for the sh’t you keep choosing to put yourself in. Stop thinking there aren’t attractive good people out here , & stop believing the lie that only bad girls or bad guys are attractive. Stop having unrealistic expectations & most importantly LOVE YOURSELF

Love what he said about switching from our lifestyle to God's lifestyle because God's lifestyle matches what's in our hearts. I can relate because I had to transition to a job that provides the freedom for me to work from home, be active in my children's lives and build my household up from a job that I would've been making 2x the income.🔥🔥🔥

Yesssssss!!!! My two favorite men on finding love in the same space!!!! I am so excited and had hoped this could happen!!!!

37:00 🙌🏾 Correction of self is the root of all of our problems.

This was such an amazing episode!! Stephan dropped countless gems and he allowed the Holy Spirit to use him as a vessel of wisdom! This is an episode to watch and rewatch!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

I looooove Stephan Speaks and his books! So glad that you have him on your podcast. May he be blessed with the right woman!

That man just told all my business about my last relationship. There was never any attraction but he was so persistent and worked so hard to get me. Lesson learned! 😆🥰

The Spirit knows, and when it is in alignment with someone, it unlocks the love. It compels you to show and express your love. You are inspired to give, get and do for them in ways that can not be explained. The connection can be experienced at first glance when you look at someone and the attraction does something to you that you just can't explain. Then, when you are around them, the interactions and the dating experiences with them just make your heart smile. Most importantly, the communication feels like you are pouring into each other and enlightening each other. Then, when you both are apart, you feel like something is missing, and thoughts of them have you smiling for no reason 😊

This was an EXCELLENT interview!! I thoroughly enjoyed it! A lot of confirmation of what I’ve heard from the late Myles Monroe and what God has told me. This was God sent!! Thank you!

It’s only right you bring on Tony Gaskins next !!!!!!!

The wisdom and knowledge God gives Stephan to utilize the gifts God gave him is remarkable and inspiring.

Wow this explains why I got divorced. I married someone I wasn't attracted to period. The reactional choices happened because of the initial action. Thank you Laterras for this. I can pray clearer now. Plus the end about love and the timing of love all I can say is....... BRAVO👏🏾👏🏾

at 1:10:25 This is why love is hard to find because people do not have the patience to learn what a CONNECTION is. I don't have enough time to write about the fears humans need to get passed to have true unconditional love. When I finally come to union with my divine life partner, I'm going to preach about love until I'm back home in heaven. WE NEED MORE LOVE HEALERS!!!!!!!!!!!!

Stephan has so much wisdom. I love his advice and the humility in the way he gives it.

I believe Stephan is operating in his spiritual gift. He has such insight into relationships and how people think and perceive things regarding relationships. I am so glad you had him on here! Y'all had such a great conversation!

Stephan is one of the very best around. The reliance on God's Wisdom makes the difference. God Bless!

This was so impactful and spot on to the real realities of dating in today’s society. Stephan was walking so heavy we could have passed the offering plate! My GOD, this was a blessed episode that if watch with wisdom, you will gain a greater perspective! Thank you both for your truths and willingness to be vulnerable before many.❤

I could barely believe the notification!! Laterras R. Whitfield and Stephan Lavoisier together in one space sharing amazing insights into dating and relationships! I thoroughly enjoyed this, so proud of you both. You’re right, there are harsh realities in dating. Continued success to you both!❤❤🎉😊

I have been waiting and hoping that you would interview Stephan. Stephan was my coach and he really helped me navigate my life and my divorce. He helped me find me. There were so many gems dropped in this episode 🙏🏽❤🙏🏽

I'm having a hard time picking which episode is my favorite from this season! Soooo many rich interviews.

I love the ending. It lit up my spirit. The adopting of two boys. I strongly believe in family even though I don’t have my own children. What attracts me to a man is one who understands the need of building children up for a future of functional adults. I loved the whole show but the ending, I loved most of all. Blessings to your venture.

I love Stephan Speaks!!! I have 6 of his books. I have listened to him for years on his podcasts and UTube videos. This is the BEST episode ever. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

These MEN have helped me on this journey no doubt.

I absolutely love this!!! This hit me in so many good ways 🙌🏾🙏🏾 I don’t want to be in a marriage with one person and my heart is with someone else and I don’t want to be married to someone and his heart is with someone else. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Loving the Guess you’re having on the Podcast. Please Bring Tony Gaskins Jr. We waiting.

The revelation in this podcast with Stephan and Laterras speaking as men about relationships is life changing! There are so many unspoken truths that both men & women need to hear. Thank you for letting God use you to heal us singles who want to be married out here. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I LOVED the discourse.❤️🤩❤️

This episode was so insightful. It really resonated with me when they started talking about the high powered woman who really wants to be a homemaker. I am a 29 year old attorney (I’ve been practicing since 27) and I really struggle with feeling discouraged because of the reality of the smaller percentage of men who would appeal to me just based off my career and earning potential.

This Brotha here! 🥰🙌🏿🙌🏿. Showing Big Love to Stephan! The message in his ministry is so impactful! HEALING from 💔 is crucial to getting to one's true self. Hopefully, men and women will hear this segment with a ready heart to heal and get on board with their purpose. 🤎 🙏🏿

“Connection supersedes so many other things. When there is a connection, it almost always come back around. Connection cannot be created, nor can it be destroyed. It is spirit. It’s here. It is a matter of: Will you embrace it or not? Most people are not embracing it.”

I'm so happy this interview finally happened. What a powerful collaboration. Stephan Speaks is the Truth!!! He definitely blessed your guest mic tonight. 🥰👍

So good❣️My God. It's the WHOLE PODCAST for me. What a blessing. I love how Mr. Stephan was listening so intently. What an ep. so many gems. God bless and keep you both. THIS is what walking in your calling looks like.

I would have loved for him to be more vulnerable about his story instead of these advices that we already heard online, good advices and nice episode still..but I do understand that he wants to be private too

Love this podcast and love Stephan speaks!! Two men of God on a platform is priceless!! Thank you for the wisdom and reality checks! ❤🙏🏾❤

Thank you for clearing up this ridiculous ratio of women to men which just psychs up women into believing they have to choose anything because the options are few. People are still finding people to commit to. Don't compromise, just be patient please!!

This was so good! The piece about connection in our spirit before our brain catches up was powerful. I also saw myself in Stephan's description of how an unhealed person responds to a relationship with no red flags. So grateful for this single season, where I'm doing my work to be the person God created me to be.

I LOVED this interview. Very informative, powerful, honest. Every second was golden. I have been following Stephan for years, & have been listening to DFW for a couple years now. 2 amazing kings. 🖤

So many gems in this one. Must rewatch. Thanks for walking this journey of healing out with us

Stephan is truly a blessing from God His Testimony, Authenticity and way of Communicating & Teaching is filled with rich wisdom that I've been grateful for since about 2017 when I started following him heavily. Thank You for this episode.

I truly love that, connection vs attachment. I have been attached to looks and potential and ignored red flags and no spiritual connection. Leveling up when u learn to separate the two. Loving this interview!

Can i just say this season is a reflection of prayers, its been prayed for thats why with every episode there is so much wisdom to take home. Love love every bit of DFW, thank you Laterras ❤

Just when I think this podcast can't get any better. Man that was good! Stephan kept it LIT! So grateful for truth being spoken and lived out.

I don’t even know what to say!! This episode was on so many levels confirmation of what I’ve been praying about. That how I feel and my thought process wasn’t abnormal. This episode hit everything I needed!!! My God!!! The part about the spirit knowing even if it doesn’t make sense to us was it for me. This is helping me know that I am on my correct path also that God is with me and he hears me and this was his way of showing me!!! Thank you Lord for this confirmation I hear you!! Thank you Laterras for all you do and for having this platform. May God bless you and continue to keep you.😊

This podcast blessed me so. Stephan, you answered so many questions for me. So many of them do, but today Laterras, spoke volumes. Thanks Kings!😊❤️

RC didn’t just have her heart, she had his or that would have never worked. It has to be reciprocated, that is a MUST❤

In each video I’m blown away! The guest, the well thought out topics, the gems dropped, the wisdom you bring, and the glasses! My guy keeps on a fly pair of frames! Come on now!! 🔥

There needs to be a part 2 to this.

I thoroughly enjoyed this episode! The gems, the laughter and everything😊 💕 Thank you Laterras and Stephan 🙌

Yay!!!! We'll, sir, it's about time! I can't wait to watch!!! Although I'm an almost three-year student of Stephan's, I never get tired of his wisdom, experience or counsel. What a great mix here today, gentlemen! THANK YOU! 👏🏼👏🏼

I have been anticipating this interview in my spirit since last week and so happy it’s finally here. Amazing counseling. God is good!

Stephan is such a treat to listen to. All that wisdom & the way it’s broken down is very understandable. Another great episode!! 💜❤️

Please bring Stephan back on the show. I really like his perspective ❤

My two favorite 🤴🏿!!!! Yaaas, thank you for coming together to chop it up and share wisdom, truth, and encouragement with us!!! I appreciate you both 🙏🏼💖🙏🏼

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation, it gave me a few things to think about. Thank you for being open with your work. Blessings to you both!

This interview was so very much appreciated & needed ❤️ 🙏🏾 🙌🏾. Also, that letter was so very beautiful 💗💐

Speechless. I am speechless. This episode spoke directly to my past, my PRESENT, and my future. It is a masterclass in and of itself. You did it AGAIN Laterras! 🎯💯 Thank you🤗

I listen to this episode a number of times! The need to do purging of your heart prior to dating is so real! You need to be spiritually prepared for “your person” is so essential! This episode dropped so many truths!

So many great things were discussed. Definitely saving this one to listen again. Great seeing you both in person on Saturday. God bless and keep you.

Thank you so much for brining him into your show. I'm greatful to God for this connection between you two. There were a lot of gems thrown out here. Thanks a lot.

Very interesting to watch...Stephan listens very well. He processes information quickly...Great interview...This spoke to me. Its so relevant and real. Powerful interview. Thanks so much

This was AN AMAZING podcast episode!!!!!!! Thank you for the gems and wisdom dropped in this conversation!!!!! Many blessings to the both of you Kings

I enjoyed the episode. With great work comes great reward. Thanks for all you doing and allowing us to open up and be real about ourselves.

OMG, I'm so glad to see Stephan on the podcast today!! I know that it is going to be a awesome show!❤️

Absolutely Amazing!!!!! I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of this conversation. Stephan may God continue to Bless you and all of your endeavors... Continue to be Bless!!!! 💌

This episode was everything I thought it would be and more! One of my favorites so far. May God continue to bless you richly for sharing your journey with all of us.❤

Oh Boy!!! This is the DFW that I was waiting for with @stephanspeaks.. what a blessing. This was long overdue, thank you Laterras for having him on your show. He is dropping gems a d I"m just absorbing every thing that you guys are teaching us on the game out there. Love you Botha ne keep sharing your knowledge, experience with us. We are healing every day ,❤️👏

I would never ever, ever 💍 to a man. I would stay single for life before I do that. The Bible said he who finds not she who finds. That's crazy to me.

This was such a wonderful episode. Definitely worth a replay! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥

Loved this episode. He addressed a lot of my questions. Thankful for this podcast.

This really open my eyes to a lot of things I wasn't paying attention to. I used your Podcast to help a friend. May God continue to Blessed you..

So true, if I would of married the friend/man from 2019 & 2020...I am honest that I knew we were not equally yoked but I wanted it. God covered me and I learned about me. I will forever cherish that time because we were friends and had fun but God wasn't pleased. I know my life would not be in the space I'm in. Completed inner healing counseling for one year, wrote my first book (Lonely Sunday via Amazon); got rid of 60 lbs and working on more with accountability fitness coach, eating, etc. I'm so happy looking back. Traveling the world 🌎 and believing my husband will see me and I see his heart 💗

This was a great episode! Great collab! More with you two speaking together...♥️

This has been a phenomenal season thus far! So much wisdom spoken, especially the statement that people marry the wrong people. Thanks again for another great guest!

My two favorite guys!! EPIC episode! Love the wisdom and insight! Thanks for the stats on dating in ATL. I’m hopeful again! 😊 Stay blessed gentlemen! 🙏🏽🙌🏽

Another one of my favorite people to watch on RU-vid! I had tears in my eyes on some of the things he said. Awesome interview!

Lord JESUS those jewels were spilling OUT I couldn’t even contain it all at once!💕🙌🏽 I’m emotionally worn OUT! This was so GOOD. As a single woman of God, I appreciate real conversations like this with no sugar-coating. I learned SO much and took away a lot of information. I follow Stephon as well and he is an AMAZING life coach and ALWAYS dropping knowledge. I appreciate both of you King’s and love and appreciate BOTH of your ministries. I need to go back and replay this!

Excellent excellent excellent,..video,..brother Stephan is always on point,..and always tuned into the one SPIRIT OF TRUTH..thank you both!!!

Thank you ! I love the explanation about love in the spirit. It’s in the spirit before physical. So you can express it through words and through actions.