You're only scratching at the symptoms. Who made the modern woman; especially the post-modern woman? Who invented No Fault Divorce and who is curiously well positioned to profit from it? Who is pumping women of all ages with affirmation hype and misandry? I can only show the emojis, even though they loudly boast of their achievements in this. ✡🕎 and their enablers, ✝
Yep, 99% of all my replies and comments are deleted. It's becoming useless. All men have are zero expectations,.... zero drama zero debt zero body count. Lol. Just stop it all. Leave us good guys alone, dating is ruined.
@BlackPill-pu4vi Yeah, YT comments have been getting policed like crazy - but nobody in this channels comments doesn't know exactly what is up. 🚶♂️➡️☕️ ☕️ 🚶
If you are not able to leave the country.... Leave densely populated cities... It will better your chances... Marriage is just not a good idea in the USA.. at the moment 😉
56, just had a fallout with my wife where she told me what she expects from me in the future. After 6 years trying to accommodate every stupid thing, she came up with - now she wants to be an equal partner and me backing her in all her endeavours. Among other things. Yeah. Not paying for living in a prison. Thanks - look forward to being free. Give it a year or three, and a robot will run my household and I gladly have an AI as confidant because IT WILL NOT RENEGOTIATE OUR RELATIONSHIP. Yeah, she is not the sexy bubbly personality anymore. Wow. Her bad news? We are financially separate. Zero payout. I will take care of her to a degree, but she is now free to stand on her own and make all the stupid decisions. 8 years being married to her and dealing with every stupid little thing - never again. Never ever. She wants to be a wife, not "married girlfriend". Yeah, and I tried to accomodate her 8 years. Want a woman? I may date or pay. But relationship? Nope. My house? Me and soon my robots. Compatibility is NOT given. Too many lies. Oh, and she lost "her standard of living, her life and her family". Yep. Sorry. Told you - no more Dubai for you. I am SO pissed. And no, the financial split we have cannot be attacked - it is actually in our reference country part of the law (i.e. there is a provision for married couples to declare financial separation) and done according to the rules in a notary. Bad news. She once told me if she ever does not make me happy, she would just leave. Yup. THAT is now happening.
Im born in 1990 and broke up with my ex after finding messages to another bloke , her reaction was to stop me seeing my son so i went through mediation to get some access the mediator (a woman) was biased beyond belief on the side of the woman , so now have no choice but to pay child support out of my wages by standing order each month to her , either pay loads in legal fees to take her to court for parental alienation , or just keep paying and try to forget i ever had a son and move on and just keep paying. I havent seen him in nearly a year . Im dying inside. I lost everything. Just because she was secretly messaging another man . Let all that sink in men out there.
Absolutely true. It's a sad doomer cope version of solving a problem but it does the trick. Liberating. But certainly the permanent effects on human psychology that brought us to this point have to be devastating.
@@infectaphibian Even worse - she may be the one you married. But they say women marry man to change them - men marry women as they are. And now she will gladly explain to you how she changed and expects you to deal with it.
Actually, it would be one thing had I been married over the last 40 years to a woman, had kids and grandkids with her I would not choose to dump her and be alone... but dating someone new... no, just no.
I was falsely accused of sa. Didnt have the funds for trial. Had to take a plea deal for misdemeanor. Lost my license. She was a millenial...most of the sa accusation s that ive seen are from them.
I'm Gen X and glad I'm alone. By the time you hit your 30s. Women your age think that they deserve men out of their league. And act like men on their level are beneath them. And they are going to treat you like garbage to punish you for all her ex's.
Dating Modern Feminist Women is like playing Chess with a Pigeon ... they knock over all the Chess pieces ... then shit all over the board ... and then parade around like they just Won the Game!
My 40s were my best because I could date women in their 20s. Now in my 50s I just don't care enough to pursue women, though I still regularly get phone numbers. Women are just so flakey now. Every girl has some guy she's having sex with every day of her life back to age 14 or so.
You forgot that on top of alllll that, they also have a bodycount of 50+ (from banging every hot dude they could while in College). So even if you "leveled yourself up" in life, women are used up with no pair bonding for the decent guys (with a much higher base level to cheat because of it). They lose their wife material status doing that "hoe phase".
I'm now an old man in my seventies. I've been happily married (widowed), miserably divorced (a BPD ex-wife) and so have experienced both "Heaven and Hell". After my experience with the Family Court system of Washington state, which took my kids and home away, left me living in a car for 2.5 years, and paying 45% of my pay for alimony/child support, I resolved to never get married again. I sort of recovered, and am at least close with all three kids, but would never put myself in a position again where the anti-male/anti-father government can dictate the outcome. I've seen over 50 other divorces among friends and co-workers - all with similar tales. If women wonder why men won't step up, they can look in the mirror - they wanted power, got it, and are now married to the government.
That's a really good way of putting it. Married to the government and yet all the institutions built by men now turning on men. Goes back to the garden of Eden government playing Satan
Great, except "BPD ex" is redundant. All women exhibit BPD to a man who she loves and then leaves. My ex even told me she had BPD and I didn't believe her. It's just how a man logically describes a woman losing interest (which now happens as a matter of course).
@@bigneiltoo I sort of agree the description is redundant. It is certainly well known that women "turn the page" on a man once they have decided to break up with him; seldom to revisit it (but if a man breaks up with her, she will think about him for decades). Borderline Personality Disorder is a whole different level though - like going from high school football to the NFL Be thankful your ex left you if she had BPD!
@@Morrisfactor There is one exception: if a woman breaks up with a man (who she loved) and he doesn't bat an eye, then after about 2 months she'll come back and be on her best behavior. They have to leave you to test your mettle.
The scales of Fairness and balance are being erased from existence, decade's of warning and the world laughed men off. Dam right Men are taking a life long Vacation 😂
@@russscott6837 what I'm saying is they only started speaking up only for the past five years, they only whine when they get RU-vid views, or now that societies destruction is affecting them
Been single for 44 years. Haven't missed having a wife because I had gotten the baby after the divorce. She wanted to be a feminist. She got her master's degree in her subject. Left with a big tuition bill she never paid off and still she ended up broke. Drizzle drizzle.
All these barely average,ultra boring,and bland women thinking they need or wanting an exciting and good quality man. I have seen far to many couples where the guy is fun,outgoing,and adventerous.While their girlfriends have the personality of a clump of dirt.Those women that just sit around on their phones or sit around and watch TV and complain.They don't want to do anything except sit at bars/restaurants talking about themselves to their friends.Everything is me me me...me me me with them,they are vacuous shells.At the same time they are bored with their boyfriends and life in general.When the boyfriend wants nothing more than to adventure with his girlfriend.It is the women themselves that are boring and causing their own boredom.They can't be bothered to get up off their ass and go adventure with their partners.They have no sense of adventure....and yet these woman still want and long for that type of man that is at all odds with the type of women they are.
@R3GARnator- that's why I rather enjoy a nice beer/steak dinner with one of my brothers or friends on Valentine's Day or Thanksgiving than to give one dime to an untitled female.
What are the reasons men choose to stay single? Can any woman actually name a reason for the average guy to get married? Because thats the real reason. There ARE NO REASONS to get married. It's a dead concept that doesn't work anymore. And romance is dead a long with it.
Correction: marriage is a dead concept in the West. Marriage and family formation still happen successfully in other cultures, which is why they will replace us. History affords no parallel to the betrayal of Western women.
Me, I'm now 55, never married, no kids. No regrets. I choose this path back when I was a junior in high school. I saw the stats & trajectory of divorce even back then.
I'm almost 54, never married, no kids. That said, in the 1990s I thought I wanted to get married. I just never found a woman who was willing to provide value or improve my life. I did love one girl, who I saw off and on in my 40s for 4 years. She was age 20-24 and I was 46-50. Eventually the sex got routine and I realized I had waited too long. She left me and made the right decision. Has a family now. I'll always love her which isn't a bad thing. But I told her on the first date "By the time you get to be my age you'll be half as pretty and twice as demanding, so women my age are only worth 1/4th as much" and "Marriage was great in the days the woman would starve if she left him".
Smart man bud, I am nearly same as you, 44yrs old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible and 304s women were since high school. Were we the ONLY guys who saw female nature at that age?? How could millions of guys who come to the rp channels be so oblivious to it growing up?
I'm 66. I'm not dating. I'm not hooking up. None of my friends are dating. None of my friends are hooking up. But we all know one or two guys. All they do is walk in a room, and suddenly every woman in the place turns in their direction. The desire in the room becomes palpable, and nothing is ever the same any more. You can talk to a woman after they enter, but whoever you are talking to never stops furtively glancing in their direction. They are going through one or two women a week. Hookup, and dump. Never a consideration for a long term relationship because there is a never ending line of women that want them. The rest of us, we get a nice story. But the other dudes, they get someone to go home with. It was always this way, but it was never this bad.
I'm the guy who walks in a room and gets them to go make out. They are still obnoxious monsters. They point to all the guys she doesn't want and says that's why the guy she wants should spoil her. What has changed is women joined larger harems. Historically the alpha had 2 women. Now he has 8. The internet lets it happen without the woman really knowing about all 7 of the other women. In the past it was the barmaid and bartender who knew they both had the same guy.
@@bigneiltoo This -- the internet culture has consolidated the Chad/Tyrone ecosystem into a nice little accessible bubble. Before women could only be with who was available within their given region, now they can hook up with anyone who slides into their DMs that they think is worthy of the box. What's happened is tha 85% of men are being left by the wayside, and as we're seeing, this is not a sustainable ecosystem at all. But, I, for one, am looking forward to the collapse. It has been a long time coming.
Oh hell, I was that guy. Pro musician, golden god in LA. Trust me, they cut my dick off an inch at a time. If you can destroy a golden god you're the baddest boss b*tch ever.
It’s not that I wanted to remain single: there’s no other option in the current scenario. The risks are too high, the reward is nonexistent. The desire for a relationship is not there anymore, simple as that.
Im 56 lost my wife to cancer about 20 years ago. I decided to take a chance and see what it would be like to go out. Never again! I started watching videos like this one to try and hopefully gleen some understanding. Well at least I know im no where near whats deemed a "High Value Man" and im starting to believe thats a very good thing. Everyday I see what a treasure i had.
I MGTOW USA and Passport Winters to the Philippines and fill my Hillside Villa's Infinity Pool with young, slim, fit Filipina Ladies ... my wife looking down loving every minute of it!
After I got out of my twenties.. after my hormones calmed... Besides the obvious I haven't met any women that I actually like.. I'm sure they are out there.. I just have not met one in my 43 years on this Earth
What can a woman provide that porn can't substitute for? Their conversations are usually shallow and their stories all have them as the hero while someone else did them wrong. They never create drama on their own.
I went through a divorce as an 8 year old. It was violent and chaotic and full of enough drama for a lifetime. I was awarded to my alcoholic mother who absolutely terrorized me and ruined my childhood. I decided I never wanted a woman, marriage or kids. All I wanted was peace and serenity. Some call this monk mode, I call it sanity. I avoid women and most people. I live a quiet peaceful life looking forward to the last breath I will take in this clown world.
Similar but my Father was the drunk and an idiot and abusive I'm with you about having a family, rather be single and alone in peace watching the clowns go bye
just a thought I actually think i know how to fix that . Those judges that make those decisions normally stay some kind of judge for life. I think it's high time to start a movement for the kids these judges ruined the lives of to hear from their now adult victim's, cause them some discomfort. EXAMPLE using states lets say if the same low level county judge that sent you to live with mom was running to be a state judge or federal judge now .. how about just taking one day off work standing outside his office with a sign that says judge so and so ruined my life by forcing me to live with my alcoholic mother that beat and berated me.. You would be on the news that night. Once you did it others would follow. This would force the judges to actually consider which parent is actually better .Right now there is this 50/50 crap they are pushing. If one parent is crap 50% of a childhood is plenty of time to screw a kid up for life Make them answer for their crimes. .
I have no male friends that ever survived a marriage - over 35 years, nearly 1000 guys, not a single one; none of my family, none of my high school classmates, none of my college classmates, none of my coworkers, none of my hobby buddies, none of my military service unit members. NOT a single marriage that did not result in divorce, drama, draining of finances and complete bullshiate. There is no good g-d reason to allow a woman into a man's life as a wife.... and live in gf is just as dangerous.
Equality Starts in the kitchen; Date 2 is always the GF test. Given Flour, Eggs, Tomatoes, Cheese, Meat - make me a dish from scratch - because if you can't keep up with me in the kitchen; you have no place in my life - get to the curb, alleys, dumpsters, or woods for the BEARS
Really - America, and the West in general, have become a cesspool of debauchery, entitlement, irresponsibility and failing economics - and it starts with the DEI bullshiate; from education, to corporate culture, to government programs, social memes and pandering media. meh. Happy to have left it 15 years ago - my only regret is not leaving it 15 years earlier. Let it all collapse, ruin, rot, rust and decay. Not my circus, Not my Monkeys.
It's funny I've been thinking the same thing lately and I'm 52.Only 2 couples I know are still together after knowing many couples in the last 30 years! They keep saying the divorce rate is 50 percent but it seems more like 80 percent first time marriage. 8:29
yes. women are literally children given adult status. but they are not adults. if you see them as the children they are, suddenly you'll understand women.
@@SoloRenegade men would do no better if given the unjust preference women get spoiled by... Those who can be grownups despite infantilization aren't common
@@bumpercoach absolutely. With freedom comes responsibility. Without consequences, a person abandons responsibility. And when the gov is handing out free money to those same people when they fail, there is no incentive to fix themselves.
It's crazy that even applies when it comes to stds. That used to be a big factor as to why not to "utilize" them and why they were considered to be "dirty". But now, "professional girls" (at least at legitimate establishments) are tested mandatorily and more regularly than the "normal" fare. Who, btw, may not even get tested at all, though they catch just as many bodies as the "workers" do, if not more.
@@LiberPater777 indeed, the affairs these women are having are based on feelings, emotions, tingles, it was a vibe, one thing lead to another, and bam she's creampied... By the local fuq boy, STDs and paternity in the mix at 30% of tests taken are negative, and dudes are like no I refuse to play
Professional. I hire a plumber when I need plumbing done. I hire a framer when I want something built. When my car breaks down I hire a mechanic. I do this because I want things done the right way, I don’t need a headache when I want intimacy….. the professionals actually make you feel wanted. Unlike a wife…… Why would I not hire a professional when it comes to intimacy? I’m paying in one way or another anyways for a relationship right?
@@coach20348 Ancient societies like the Greeks and Romans had tons of brothels in their cities, and their prostitutes (Male + Female) were celebrities. The Government nowadays won't let that happen -- but maybe the tech sector will help the lonely men out there with decent sex robots in the next century or so once AI gets to be more advanced.
A very WISE old woman from the past said the following: "Never allow a man too much time alone. He will discover freedom and PEACE, and he will never look back". Anyone that understands Human nature understands this. For me i've been single for 12 years and have completley adapted to be on my own, that's the funny thing about men, we adapt to the world and what it offers. Any man can only take so much rejections, failed relationships and generally treated like an object and disposable untill he reaches "F%^K IT". Once he does it is done. It's just simple consequence.
Add AI to that and soon robots. Household? Ah, robot. Talking to some"one" who understands and is sensible? I give it one year and AI in robots does that. Case closed.
I've said much the same thing... Women used to be told to marry young to have healthy children, it may be true but I don't think that's relevant, I think women were told to marry young because if men reach, let's say 30, and have learnt to live on their own, they won't willingly give up that life for a woman. Today that is reality for many men.
I am a retired family court attorney. Practiced in New York and North Carolina. There is no safe state for men to be married. You can do a prenup and if you get married, I highly recommend it. But every state has alimony/spousal maintenance, every state distributes the marital assets, and every state has child support laws and draconian laws regarding enforcement. Maybe some foreign countries have different laws, but most developed western countries at least have similar laws. The best advice is to not get married, and not to cohabitate because some states have common law marriage. If you want children, do it outside marriage and just pay your child support. At least you won't have marital disputes or alimony or any property to divide. And your financial responsibility will end when the children are 18. Or, do a shared parenting arrangement with no child support, but see a lawyer about that because it could change. Marriage costs on average about $1 million. It is a huge financial loss for men.
How did it feel to go to work everyday and help women break apart families buddy adding to statistics of poor outcomes of kids raised by single moms lol?!
I'm nearly 50 and divorced. I don't know if any of the other guys think the way i do, but i'm suspicious whenever a woman shows interest in me. As a gen X teenager and in my 20's, a girl was interested because she was interested. After that, there were always motives that only became clear after the fact and often after considerable expense. Many women had children they didn't mention, and then introduced me to them, as if i could be guilted into becoming a step-dad. Not a chance. Others had significant others and were trying to make them jealous. It's a generalization, but guys my age know that everybody wants something from us, and we're tired of giving. Some of us have been alone for so long that staying single is an organic lifestyle now. Life is supposed to be a natural progression from singlehood to marriage and kids. The weaponization of marriage and kids naturally progressed to singlehood till the grave, where people still want something from us. For some of us, singlehood is early retirement from the full time job that is marriage or dating. You will find that single men are now doing the things they said they would do when they retired. Just 10-20 years early.
If I'd seen this video a month ago, I might have written the exact same comment. Our generation certainly has brought nihilism to a high art form, haven't we? I expect the current crop of middle school to high school kids are going to eclipse us in this aspect, as they'll be seeing random people dropping ded for no obvious reason throughout most of their lives - which could be a lot shorter than they think, unfortunately. The monastic existence has a strong appeal in times like these.
I was born and grew up in Ecuador as Gen X kid. In the eighties, they literally behaved the way Colette Dowling described in her book "The Cinderella Complex".
I dropped out of the dating scene because after endless rejections, getting ghosted for bullshit reasons, countless foodie dates I’m done. I’m absolutely done. It’s all about getting a fuck in here and there. That’s it I refuse to subject myself to this nonsense anymore. I’m a good dude, always willing to help, hard worker, clean criminal history, I’m knowledgeable in many things like in diy projects home improvement etc. 50 years ago I’d be the “perfect husband “ but not today I’m simply invisible for the most part. Oh and every once in a while I get a chick to give me indicators of interest signs such as eye contact, proximity etc but when I act on them you gets it I get ghosted and rejected. So I was only an ego boost for them nothing else. F this I’m out
It is depressing to see how modern women leave out the men who would actually advance society. The plot of the movie idiocracy seems more and more realistic.
I am 54 and happily married to a wonderful woman. If she was to pass away and I were to find myself on the singles market, I would most likely remain single. I have spent years building my assets to a point where I can retire and live a slower pace. Most women bring with them unruly children, arguments, baby daddies, are generally lazy and come with a mountain of debts that would force me back into the workplace to deal with them. Because I’m a blue collar worker most women look down on me because I don’t work in an office, even though I typically earn more than double what they do. And I don’t want to become a retirement plan for someone that is only with me for what I can provide, and take half on a whim.
Same here, I’m 44, I was previously married for eight years to a unappreciative single mother. I learned my lesson. Lucky for me, I did not have kids with her, and did not own my house at the time. Never again.
Lawnmowers make me agitated. I hate the sound. My boomer neighbors all have a sickness. A compulsion. When one cuts the yard, they all have to cut their yard even if it doesn't need it. I've never seen anything like it. It's monkey see, monkey do. I think lawns are a waste of time and money and serve no purpose other than holding the top soil together. If I could afford it, I'd rock my entire yard.
One overlooked aspect is that it's impossible to have a long-term relationship with someone who is emotionally based and has full power to change her mind at any given moment. It's pointless. How many times do wmn expect men to do that?!
Not for young people. Literally none of them are not starting families bc of that. It's simply due to low economic opportunities and sociatel disconnect from social media driving all the young people info mad or into rabid narcissists
@@trompell0well that’s completely incorrect regardless of what you read it was told, you are being lied to. Most of us young men are opting out of relationships and marriage because we correctly see it as an extremely bad financial risk where there is a very little chance of success. The reason for that is because of the male biased divorce court, and how family law works unequally. There’s simply no benefit for men to be married in the United States. So literally most of young men are opting out for that very reason.
"Standards" for women is a complete BS line, and are fluid based on her feeling attracted to Chadrone, her time of the month, if she is hungry, if the rent or car payment is due, and frankly how many girlfriends she is hanging out with that day/week... they are not Standards like men wish they were.
Indeed, a woman's ideal man changes every 2 weeks, and back, with her cycle. She wants the Alpha when she ovulates and the Beta provider when she menstruates.
Reality is as reality does. Things are what they ARE! Never what some scatter-brain, (man or woman), feels or wants them to be! Truth and REALITY must be recognized first before correct action can be applied! MGTOW
I’ve absolutely no problem with women having high standards for their future husbands - that is a GOOD thing. What I do have a problem with is women having no standards for themselves. They see themselves as entirely exempt from any sort of appraisal- which is plain mad
@@fifthpint4571 Time to put standards on women. She can't be taller than 5'6, she has to make 6 figures, she has to be sweet but not "too nice" because that's a turn off, etc. Drizzle drizzle
74yrs old here, saw how the whamen were acting in the 50s, young and old, put me off getting married for life, they were cheating just as much back then as they do today. Allso there wasn't a single 11yr old girl in the same class as me that still had her v card.
I'm 53 and that's not true. I never heard of a girl losing it before 13 (class of 1988). Yes, women were still raunchy back then, but the pill changed everything. Maybe women always wanted Chad and cheated with Chad but they married a regular guy. And they were thin and young and had children.
@@bigneiltoo You went to a good school in the wrong time. My school was in the bad area. I would say 25% of the 13 yr olds were no longer a V. But the key was the older men around them. It wasn't the 13 yr old boys, but the men in their apartment complex doing the deeds. That was 1980. Then AIDS came and Nancy Reagan convinced the girls to say no. So by 1988, it probably was a lot lower. I know because I was a young male who was seeking some in the late 80's and it was difficult. I would hear stories of the raunchy 70's and be jealous. The late 80's was a tough time to date if you were 21.
Modern women don’t view a relationship as a commitment, it’s just another ‘bundle of feelings’ that can change in a week or two; why would I give my commitment to that?…
Gawd, is it going to take till then to perfect the design? At least can they be programmed in gourmet cooking, advanced car care and “multiple techniques”?
If a woman isn't soft, caring, nurturing and loving then she is showing a man how she's going to be towards his children. That is dangerous for the children. We're seeing this in statistics with regards to abortions and children's deaths.
Taking care of a guy who deserves it by “mothering him” is a trick that will show us how she may treat our future children, but many women fail to grasp that.
Reason 1 - feminism...reason 2 - metoo...reason 3 - modern female attitudes. Oh, and no-fault divorce, community property laws, 'primary' custody of children and lifetime alimony. As pointed out by others here, roll the bones with all the above or stay single and live in peace and relative comfort. Pretty easy call, really. = )
I've been counseling young men to avoid marriage and if they are going to do it anyway to get a prenup. Using my experience of getting divorced and literally cleaned out by the ex, it makes it more real to the guys. Telling them about losing all financial means to retire and the likelihood of working until death drives the points home.
It only protects what you already had. There is some weird misconception that it protects the assets you build while married. It does not. It doesn't stop you from paying alimony or child support and losing 1/2 the assets you worked for during the marriage. A pre-nup for a young man is usually worth nothing because he has nothing when he gets married. Now if he does have something then it's worth it. But it only protects those previous to marriage assets and most of the time the men mess up and use current earned money for upkeep or property tax on the pre-nup assets and invalidate the pre-nup. If you use even a dime of the marital money on your previous asset you just ruined the pre-nup. She will claim it is now community property since you were using "her" money to maintain it. Be careful to understand what it can protect so you understand what it doesn't protect.
I was MGTOW back in the 90’s before it was a thing. I was not going to invite a woman into my life that was going to make it complicated with drama. She had to follow my lead and be submissive. Never happened. I always wondered if I’d regret it later in life. I’ve seen friends get wrecked by relationships so no, I don’t regret it one bit. I worked hard, retired early and my life is peaceful with no drama.
Been thru the mill, Zero interest in gettiing processed by a woman again. My life's goals now are to get slightly better rural neighbors, and a decent garden spot, and an acre to fence for my dogs. After that plant a few fruit and nut trees and take care of them, and just garden for something to do. Not gonna live up to wifey pretensions, a shack or a yurt is fine. Will work on my hobbies, appreciate my dog family, and get a lawn mower to fertilize the garden with. I dont believe in women or the system both are fairy tales... I believe in using tools.
Likewise. Get some land, improve the soil, improve myself, relax, help neighbors. Ignore motor-mouth women. Enjoy wine and sunshine. South of Portugal, anybody? MGTOW.
@@user-td9pg2vg8p Yeah, would have to plant a couple cork oaks there just to watch them grow... Gotta do your part on keeping wine in bottles a thing. Might want a boat too, at least a dory... surely some little harbor where it can rise and fall on the tide between fishing trips.. Always loved how you could time the tide and load a boat on sand and wait a few minutes for it to float. Life dosen't get any better than that.
A passport solves this problem quite nicely. get your passports men and leave the west (and all western / westernized women) behind! most importantly, get away from ground zero!
Marriage in a nutshell: If you do everything right, you pay. If she does everything right, you pay. If you f*ck up, you pay. If she f*cks up, you pay. (Play stupid games and win stupid prizes.)
Never get married guys. If you’re even thinking about it, do the following: Talk to 3 married guys, 3 divorced guys, and 3 single guys. Come to your own conclusion. 55% divorce rate. In all likelihood, you will lose it all because women are incentivized to leave. You could be accused of harassment or worse. It’s not worth it. Keep your distance. Stay safe kings. Mgtow
It's sad that the only thing men really require from a woman is to be pleasant and even that is asking too much for 90% of modern women. Think of all the boxes men must check to even get a girlfriend, whereas men don't care if we have 50 things in common, we don't care what your job is as long as its legal, we don't care if you make 6 figures, we just ask that you be pleasant and men have given up because women can't seem to be pleasant these days.
So now, all men have to be responsible for is themselves. Men no longer need to work for the rest of their lives for someone else to eat. Women have to protect and provide for themselves. Thank you Feminist for freeing men of this burden.
@@creepyrobsta5509 A house AI controlled Robot. Do research on modern Robotics and AI. 2024 level tech is...INCREDIBLE. Just like security systems monitor your home 24/7, so the tech could monitor your vitals 24/7. If something is amiss, it could try to contact you, and failing that, would automatically contact emergency services.
@creepyrobsta5509 Life-alert has been a thing since my childhood 30+ years ago. Literally a press of a button on a device you wear, and EMTs are on their way. And I'm sure they have even better monitoring systems than that now.
I don't regret being single at all. It is not worth it since the government came in between men and women. Older women and my grandaunts advised me not to get married. I am thankful for the women who advised me about marriage not being convenient for men in the Western world.
Only 28 visible comments? I saw a good comment get whisked into the memory hole as I was replying to it. Who wants to bet that there are no less than 80+ hidden comments?
I’ve said it before, but hopefully some newer people will learn something new. Confirmed Bachelors/MGTOW’s are not about hatred. It’s an UNDERSTANDING of many Modern women, popular society, and the family courts. It’s not much of an egomaniacal or emotional argument. IT’S ABOUT COLD LOGIC. Smart guys are not in the market for most modern North American women anymore. While most gals were out spending their 20's partying their ass off with bad boys, working a job, and accepting little responsibility, we cultivated a career. And we worked really really damn hard to get promoted into higher levels of responsibility & pay. Now (I) we have earned several homes, cars, lots of vacation time, and a retirement. We (I) am stable. We want to give a ton of emotional support. We want to love them and be loved. But we know better. The family court system has not caught up with modern realities. The contemporary North American Criminal Justice/Social climate is very much slanted. The courts still treat women as if their economic wellbeing is dependent on the man (it’s not like that anymore.) We risk losing more than half of everything we’ve slaved to earn, and around half of what we will earn. The courts still treat women as victims. If a woman say’s, “He raped/beat me” (1) we are seen as guilty in the public’s eye. Any lawyer worth their salt will tell you when a client sits in the defendant’s chair the jury sees them as 50/50 guilty/innocent. That’s a big jump “innocent until proven guilty.” A false rape claim is not merely an attack on a man’s character. It’s an attempt to kidnap, imprison, emotionally torture, and destroy an innocent man. (BTW, this comes at the cost of the credibility of all women who truly endure such horrors.) It is a profoundly evil act and yet there are rarely any real consequences for women who make false rape claims. (2) If co-habitating, we will be barred from our own house immediately and without a judge's decision (LET THAT SINK IN! WHERE ARE YOU GONNA LIVE?). (3) We will be suspended from our job pending the legal outcome. It might take a year or more. (4) We might have our beloved kids taken away. Put yourself in our shoes. How'd YOU like THAT woman? (That's role reversal for the purposes of understanding.) PROVE US WRONG. PLEASE! The laws need to change. “He wasn’t meeting my emotional needs” is all a woman needs to say to justify destroying a family. “I signed the pre-nup under duress” is all a woman needs to say to get one thrown out. About 65% of marriages fail and about 77% of divorces are initiated by the woman. It’s not the men who are destroying families. Overwhelmingly, it is the women who are destroying families. Yet they show the insanity to deny it. The truth is, in many ways, modern North American women are the most privileged in history. And they wonder why smart men are walking away from this whole mess. They want the privileges and would rather shame men into conforming into doing whatever they’re told to do, and believe whatever they are told to believe. Men see this as manipulation. IT IS. It is also evil. Women like this are not worth our vow. That vow is one they, overwhelmingly, are responsible for breaking. Many Modern North American men see many modern North American women demonstrate behaviors that prove their bad values, wrong expectations, wrong worldview, and abhorred attitude for a relationship, let alone marriage material. Any person of reasonable caution understands that men in western culture must work extremely hard to prove ourselves by achieving consistent results in the face of adversity. It takes YEARS to accomplish this and build their resources. Talk with each other and ask, "How many families have you seen torn apart where the woman initiated the divorce?" 77% of divorces are initiated by women. We all know 77% of men are not the jerks who have it coming. Men are waking up to it and we have women to thank for it. They do NOT love us. When the bank account goes, so do they. (So much for "For richer or for poorer. In sickness or in health.”) Any person of reasonable caution will understand that men are seeing many families destroyed by USERY (born from selfishness.) What makes women think they deserve a good man when they are treating us like this? What makes people believe men aren’t gonna spot this and say, “Thanks. But no thanks. Not gonna deal with THAT kind of self-entitled, selfish attitude.” Men are waking up to it and we have women to thank for it. NOT HATRED. COLD LOGIC. You don't have to sign a contract to prove you love someone. A marriage contract is nothing but men agreeing to legalized extortion, if you don't do as she wants. NEVER get into a contract with someone who is so heavily rewarded for breaking it. The truth is many (but not all) of modern North American women are predatory.... for someone else's resources. And men are waking up to it. We are getting wise to the lies. We’ve seen too many families torn apart. “He wasn’t meeting my emotional needs” is the typical excuse. That excuse is so vague a person could use it to justify mass homicide. Sounds like selfishness to me. COLD LOGIC. Gals, we are not royalty and neither are you. (A)Princesses are not cost effective. (B) Princesses are vindictive. (C) We're not her partner. We're the help. (D) Any grown woman who can actually look anyone in the eye and tell them she expects to be treated like a princess has the emotional IQ of a toddler. Life is about work, sharing responsibilities, sharing accountability, laughing, crying, family, and work. Oh... you noticed I mentioned work twice... good. Cuz you ain't a princess any more than I'm a prince. PROVE US WRONG. PLEASE! Women blaming men for not dating or marrying is like a company blaming people for not buying its products. If you want people interested in what you have to offer, maybe you should offer something of value to them. COLD LOGIC. Confirmed bachelors/MGTOW’s are not mental cases for wanting to avoid all this crappola. It's just the opposite. We'd be mental cases if we WANTED it. WE PROVE WE ARE STRONGER THAN THE SOCIAL NARRIATIVE BEING PUSHED ON SOCIETY! The incentives for men are nearly extinct and the risks are far far too high. You don't get a prize anymore. You get an unloyal jerk with an entitlement mentality that’s looking to take your resources and then some the moment they become bored. PROVE US WRONG. PLEASE! Men do NOT walk away to teach other people a lesson. We walk away because we finally learned a few of our own.
Think of all the demands and requirements women place on men to date or to maintain a relationship. The ONLY requirement men have is that women be pleasant and women can't even do that. It's sad that modern women can't seem to just be pleasant compared to all the crap men are expected to do. That's why there are Passport Bros, etc. because women overseas are nice. We aren't asking for hookers or women who want sex nonstop, we are asking for a woman who is sweet and nice. Western women are beyond redemption for the most part.
When they say “You’re not my type”, what I’m thinking but have learned not to say “Yeah and you’re too talkative for my taste”. I’m sure if I said that they’d go off like a Titan rocket on how they’ve been offended by the smack down.
"And what type is that? Demanding, clueless, and narcissistic?" Honestly? I don't get my ego offended anymore about those kind of responses. I'm not for everyone and that's fine. These days I would consider it a courtesy for someone to say that. Usually you're just ghosted and left on read.
Last years of gen X here (1980). Divorce and working with a majority of women for years has taught me how evil and terrible most women are. Much less stress and much easier to be better off financially without women.
I consider myself right in the middle between red pill and black pill. I learned that no matter how much I self improve and put myself out there I just know I'll never be good enough for what these women want. (What's the f***ing point?) I lost the genetic lottery. I'm not in a position to find any decent places to meet women. (Not interested in drinking, clubs, bars, raves or any of that nonsense anymore.) I'm minimalist and frugal which scares most women away. (Sorry that I'm not impulsive, flashy and irresponsible with my finances.) I have no desire to have kids. I'm against marriage. (It's a rigged institution.) I've been by myself this whole time and seem to be doing alright with no women around me. It is what it is. This world was not meant for good men like myself.
sadly, many nice man suffered badly from complicated,endless demand,unreasonable, treat me like a Queen etc women,after a while I realized the dark side of having high maintenance women..They chant.."ALWAYS MAKE MORE..SPEND MORE.." or I m not interested, what a human life is this, just consumerism..😪
Do you know HOW LONG $1.4M lasts a Conservative 1.5% drawdown rate because he has a pension AND social security? I'm not splitting ANY of that with another marriage.🤣🤣
I dont like feeling alone. Thats why I dont bother. I might be alone, but its nothing conpared to feeling alone with the available options. As a result of being with them.
Men traditionaly had joked about not getting married and made fun one to another when they did. knowing the few good advantages things this used to have men still married for good or worst but now with this changes given to us by wemen have made it too easy to deside not to marry any more Thank you, Thank you and Thank you
1) Standards way too high (for some), 2) Infidelity/cheating thru the roof/out of control, 3) Women (some) marry and divorce for $$$$$$$$, 4) Way too much deception/lying, 5) trust issues with kids being their own or another guy's kids. Way too much headache and heartbreak for way too little. Both sides at fault.
All women think they are a 10 so they only want to date guys they deem to be 8-10. So an average woman who is say a 6 won't consider a man who is a 6 thus women are lonely or get used by 10s and the male 6's are lonely because women will not date them. Women have an inflated sense of themselves and they are delusional. Meanwhile, the only thing men want from a woman is that she be pleasant and 90% of modern women can't even just be pleasant.
A good relationship is better than being alone, but a bad relationship is much, much worse. It's fairly simple. Personally, I have never had a relationship with female that added value to my life or shown appreciation or respect. It's just take, take, take, take, and offer very little in return. I am better off in peaceful and secure solititude.
Reason 1. Be happy. Reason 2. Spend less. Reason 3. What I want when I want. Reason 4. No worries. Reason 5. Live Love Laugh. Reason 6. Have real friends. Reason 7. No fake smiles. Reason 8. Better sleep. Reason 9. Random road trips. Reason 10. Mental security.
It’s not just marriage is on the decline. Real world interactions have moved to online. Society is video taping you outside of your home. Your home/apartment has become the only safe space to live
I think men have a sort of "monk" mentality sometimes. I often dream about a nice, peaceful place where I can practice my craft with no interruptions. So, yes, I believe men would be prepared to go their whole lives without a woman in it. Not all, but many.
I think going on alone is much easier for men. Our survival mode doesn't depend on someone like women do. Men don't like stress or chaos, we have routines, and responsibility to do as needed to provide for ourselves. And be content with very little. I feel blessed. Lol.
The overwhelming majority of the reason of why I'm in my mid 40's and still single is because of the likelihood of losing it all after divorce. If I don't do it in the first place, then no one can come around and undo it on me... I'll just stay out of bounds and watch the game from where I am. I also repel the majority women that I come into contact with due to the fact that I'm epileptic; I have seizures that I cannot anticipate and because of them I do things that I'm unaware of and that I cannot control. I don't drive or work because of this fact. Even when I did work, I was fired from every job that I had as a result of doing something that I could not control as a direct result of a seizure that I could not anticipate. So, I'm not going to be the one to be able to provide due to my health. Twice I've been arrested for doing something that I wasn't aware of due to a seizure that I could not anticipate - once was for breaking and entering (because I was unaware of what I was doing I don't know why I broke into the home that I did but apparently I thought that it was my own and it wasn't) and the other was for assaulting a police officer as a result of a seizure. If I can break into someone's home as a result of thinking that it was mine and not know it as a result of a seizure as well as assault a police officer and not know it, then I'm 100% capable of assaulting a woman as a result of a seizure as well. Because of my health I'll just go MGTOW for the rest of my life and quit getting rejected by women due to things that I can't anticipate, can't control or that I'm even aware of what I'm doing.
I'm sorry to hear about your M.S issues. The fact that you have been dealt such a lousy card but instead of being bitter, you are trying to create a better world is admirable. Sometimes just providing an understanding feminine voice can bring comfort to a Guy who might be struggling. Thank you