Men Are So Sick Of Hearing This From Women 

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Once again a “real man” to these women is a man who will do anything for them and not expect any type of reciprocity

My 6 yearold daughter tried that "you don't love me" manipulation yesterday. I immediately stopped that in its tracks.

I got yelled at a few times by the wife for not reading her mind. I got yelled at even more when I asked her to help with the kids and chores. She finally left us for her alcoholic boyfriend. I got the divorce done as quickly as possible. I went No Contact with her about 15 years ago. Her leaving was the gift that keeps giving.

I just finished a 16 hour work day and I standing next to two other guys. I was waiting for my Uber and a crappy car pulled up with two women in it. One of them also had a small child with them. The other was struggling with changing the tire, I didn't offer help because I was tired, I didn't know them, and I was watching videos like this on my phone. The girl walked up to me saying she couldn't get the tire off... declared, not ask, just said she couldn't get it off. People liked to be asked, not told. I told her I hurt my back at work so I couldn't help her.. she turned away as soon as I said that. She finally got it done and went out of her way to cuss me out...I ignored it. Then my ride pulled up. Best ride home ever. I'm tired of helping women.

Tyler Durden “We’re a generation of men raised by women. I’m wondering if another woman is really the answer we need.”

A real woman knows when her man is hungry so she cooks for him. A real woman knows when her man is tired so she lets him rest. A real woman knows when her man needs intimacy, so she accommodates him. Oops, where are all the real women?

0:30 1. Selfish 2. Entitled 3. Ignorant to the point of delusional

What truly astonishes me is how many women put their random thoughts about EVERYTHING on the internet in the hopes of getting likes and validation for there verbal insanity.

A real woman does not tell men what a real man is. She’s too focused on being a woman to worry about what a man is doing.

Just do NOT help women in general. Problem solved.

The answer is ACCOUNTABILITY If she owns/says what she wants, it makes her accountable for it. Once you specify what you want, you lose plausible deniability later. You can't legitimately keep bitching after you've gotten exactly what YOU SAID you want. You can no longer move the goalpost should you feel like it later. This puts the onus on YOU to actually self-reflect and figure out what works FOR YOU, what makes YOU happy. YOU have to do that work. That's the problem many people (not just 'modern women', but mostly them tbh) have with openly admitting what they want (or worse, why they want it). I've observed this in 60+ men as well as in teenage girls. And I've found that A LOT of unhealthy behaviors are just symptoms of this root cause: an aversion to accountability and the self-reflection it requires. If there's a single positive trait to select for in friends or romantic partners, I'd put my chips on personal accountability (or 'conscientiousness' as Jordan Peterson likes to put it) Thank you for reading this far. Have a lovely day.

I've known women to get upset with a man for trying to offer a solution if they just "want someone to listen", without offering a clue as to know whether she wants help or just wants to vent.

My gf (now ex) asked me to keep her company while she packed to move out of her pre-furnished apartment. She absolutely insisted that she didn't want any help and I should simply relax, "enjoy yourself, watch some tv maybe ☺️". So I did exactly that... and like a year later when we were having an argument she said "back then you didn't even help me at all, you just lounged on the couch and watched the Simpsons" 🤦🏻‍♂️

"Take some personal responsibility" *Modern woman has left the chat*

Most girls seem to think that having to tell a guy what she wants makes it an obligation and not an authentic display of love and care, which is ridiculous. A girl I recently dated ended it with me for this very reason despite doing everything I could to be a good man (opening her the car door, picking her up, calling her instead of texting etc) including dropping everything and going to see her at A&E after texting me that something was up with her health, which she later threw back at me; accusing me of having a hidden agenda. Basically disregarding and failing to acknowledge everything I ever did because of one incident that according to her, gave her the go-ahead to end it. I eventually discovered it was all an excuse to justify her monkey-branching to someone else soon after having decided that she got all she wanted from me. It was the final straw that broke the camel's back and will no longer date a Western woman again.

Many years ago a woman was talking to me about a problem she had. I proceeded to give her a valid option to correct the problem. She fired back at me that she did not want a "solution" to her problem, but only wanted someone to commiserate with her.

The icing on the cake is when you do something for a narcissist without them asking, it doesn't count because "I never asked you to do that".

Ugh, she is annoying.

"you don't love me" is how they start justifying their cheating.

Ugh, that first girl IS INSUFFERABLE. She will end up alone with her cats.

This is not a good assumption from this woman in the beginning. I am an uncle of two nieces (child and teeny) and when they have problem I first ask "Show me the Problem." when they can show and articulate it I ask "What have you tried so far?" Then they tell me and then "Maybe you could try this and that first." i suggest them to try things out - then when they still cannot fix something, I come and become the great uncle. Why? I want them to be able to solve things and rely on themselves and learn when its proper to ask for help before giving up. As I don't want them to become losers as adults.

The first thing I picked up on is that she's crazy.

Part of her womanipulation is that when you aren't reading her mind, hyper-attuned to her emotional state and actively denying yourself in order to prioritise her every minor comfort, she'll blame & discredit you for failing her. And when you are being the ideal servant, she'll still not give you credit, instead she'll say "I didn't *ask* you to do those things, you did them because you wanted to, you did them for yourself, you did them for your own benefit, thus you did those acts of servitude to Oppress me"

What's crazy is other women pretending female narcissism is normal and men who can't deal with it are emotionally stilted. It's twisted.

Mind reader here. She doesn't even want what she claims and would reject a man who caters to her

Actually "mind reading" is an advanced manipulation technology. She can always blame her partner that he guessed incorrectly so he is guilty.

2:25 This girl here is very accurately describing my ex-wife. Here’s the short version and you can fill in the blanks It’s a beautiful sunny day. I am sitting in the living room watching television. My wife is in the kitchen doing something. From the kitchen she tells me to take the basket of laundry that is at the bottom of the steps and to bring it to the top of the stairs. Without hesitation I immediately get up and do this instead of waiting for a commercial to come on. I come back down and she is mad at me because she had to ask me to do that, I should have known without her having to ask me. I few weeks pass and we have the same situation with the basket of clothes sitting at the bottom of the stairs and I am watching television. I noticed the basket and decided to go ahead and take it upstairs without her having to ask me. I come back down and she is mad at me. It wasn’t ready to go up yet. We aren’t married anymore, and I am a very happy single man and plan to stay that way.

An NFL kicker tells a graduating class that being a wife and mother is fulfilling, and then the internet goes ballistic. Meanwhile, women can say it's a man's place to solve their problems with money, telepathy, or manual labor, or else he's not "a real man."

these are the same type of women who will complain about the "patriarchy".

That womans description of a narcissist literally describes every woman 😂

I have a lot of sisters so I have learned that women not only expect you to be a mind reader but they think that they are mind-readers also. When one sister tells me that the motive of the other sister's behavior is X, I playfully reply - oh I didn't know that you could read people's minds to know their motives.

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.

From what I understand, it's not that a favour is more meaningful if she didn't ask, it's the fact that many refuse to admit that they need favours or help in the first place. Not asking removes accountability

Guys; how many times have we heard from women "I just wanted him to listen, not solve all my problems"? Geez there literally is no pleasing a wahmon!

My wife and I just have intelligent conversations and we share household chores. We both watch the kids. Yes, she cooks. I wash the dishes. Yes I dig out the gardens. She manages all of the plants. Yes, I mow the yard and take out the trash. She washes the clothes. And we do LOTS of activities together. Honestly, it's bliss having a partner you respect who also respects you. We talk; no one reads minds.

The funniest thing is, how women state they are better at communication, but expect men to read their minds 😂

She wants a walking WALLET

A lot of women want a someone to provide like a father and some want a man to be like a dog that will provide comfort companionship and protection but is also on a leash that they can control. They want a man that they can control which means they don't want a real man because a real man is a leader

"Women will just know to submit, you shouldn't half to tell them. A real women would be quiet and cook" demeaning it is and we are done with double standards

Real women cook and clean without being asked.

A 'Real Man' would want nothing to do with this kind of woman

She is not dating those that offer help, believe it. Don't give them anything they didn't earn. Control your lust and your natural weakness for their beauty. This will liberate you. Dump any woman that disrespects you and never go back on your word.

If a woman says "You don't love me" manipulatively, the proper response is, "You're right, not anymore. Get out of my house."

I actually went out with a psych who, when I asked said: "You should just KNOW!" That told me everything I needed to know about her.

Women giving advice should have to post their life status. If she isn’t happily married with 4 kids, she isn’t worth listening to.

Not only Narcissistic behaviors, but Histrionic behaviors as well.

I'm done with the fixing anything that I don't get paid first to do. Period. You will never tell me again that "I feel like you want me to depend on you." Don't worry, never again. Do it your damn self.

I have two ex-wives, and she just described both of them. I have been single for seven years now because I obviously am horrible at choosing women.

yes, I am sick of hearing the term "a real man".

There are no women left worth helping.

Not only are most men tired of hearing this Alexander but in many situations in the workplace, in the neighborhood, or while traveling this can be legally dangerous to men to offer to help any woman that they don't know. I still remember 2 incidents where this proved to be true. The first was my friend who serves in law enforcement. He stopped to check on the safety of what appeared to be a stranded female motorist on a rural road. Thank goodness he was wearing his body cam. He helped changed the woman's tire and she left seemingly grateful for his help. Later in his shift his supervisor met with him and informed him that this woman made claims of inappropriate behavior during this traffic assist. His body cam proved this to be false and saved his reputation and possibly getting terminated from his career or being arrested. The woman went to jail for filing a false police report. The second involved my cousin and the college where he teaches. A female student tried to lure him into an empty classroom under the pretext that her friend had passed out. He did the smart thing and did not enter the classroom, he called for help in the hallway where there were other people and telephoned emergency medical services. The student looked upset when many people arrived to help and there turned out to be no friend in the room who had passed out. Any man has to be constantly wary of these types of situations occurring and navigate as best they can to avoid legal and/or civil proceedings that can literally destroy their lives.

A real man doesn't care.

Nah, I don't want to be controlling or presumptuous, I don't want to mansplain. A real man gives you space to solve your problems your own way. That's leadership.

When she acts this way, explain once she needs to stop, the next time leave. Never look back. All that is there is pain. Leave.

First girl (4.5/10) shouldn't be making any demands at all.

8:35 ohhhh hell no!!!!! That behavior is repugnant. And the way he baby talked her begging for it to be OK. He's encouraging that childish behavior.

No respect. No help. No courtesy. No compliment. No looking. No empathy. Literally n0thing for them. Instead,a wonderful life n peace of mind. It's your choice.

They want offered help so they don't owe you... aka "I never asked for your help !"

You got that one exactly right! I immediately thought she was talking about my narcissistic ex!

See now I was told women don't want you to solve their problems. They want you to listen. Women are such great communicators.

0:10 I'm a man. I'm a natural problem-solver. I *am not* a problem-seeker. I only solve the problems that I *must* solve to move forward in life. I don't go out of my way to incorporate *unnecessary* problems into my life. And I certainly don't go looking to solve other people's problems, esp. women's. I only worry about my own problems, and I don't want you to be one of them.

The only question with these vamps is how many SSRI's they're on.

This reminds me of how women only want that one very specific guy to approach them and ask them out. Anyone else that tries is "creepy, weird, inappropriate, socially inept, etc. etc."

Double standards always: “Women reiterate that they are not there to be your mom (supporting and helping both of you be better together) , but they want the man to fulfill being their father (pay all the bills and fix all her problems)! !

Everyone is the main character in their own movie, but they think they are the main character in other people's movies.

She does not want to communicate her needs because her feminist handlers have taught her to never ask a man for help. Partly their ego and also to make men feel useless and insecure. “I don’t need a man,” and “I didn’t ask you to do that.” Make them ask you.

Give them NOTHING!

Great video once again! It's great to see you calling this BS out!! Everything you said here was absolutely BANG ON!! Great observations!! Thank you so much!

Absolutely agree women are narcissists to varying degrees. I’ve lived my life I’m on retirement now. I live in joy alone. All the women I’ve ever known, and I include my mother, ex-wife, and girl friends are completely obsessed with themselves. All the women I’ve know were toxic. I’ve known a couple of toxic men but in general women win in toxicity. All the misery and problems in my life were created by the women I’ve known. It took me a looong time to break out of the female spell. The witches manipulative spell… All the best Alexander, great videos. Men need to wise up. Just to protect themselves.

It's no longer good enough to be 6'6 Chaddeus Vladimir Thunderschlong III with the 12" personality of Tyrone Tyreesius Dickerdown Brown, have the status of Baron Oilrigs Goydollar Sr and the millions of dollars of Lord Nigel Pennyworth Bankbalance all rolled in to one. You also have to be Charles Xavier pre-wheelchair.

That woman who explained narcissism hit it right on the head. I’ve never heard a better definition.

Alexander, this video is above average. Succinct, informative and not too long. Bravo.

The reason women don't like to ask what they want is simple - it's about power and manipulation. They won't tell you, but will expect you to provide it anyway (and be annoyed at you until you do), so that when she disrespects you, or worst cheats on you or leaves you; And you respond with "How could you do this to me after everything I've done for you?" she can reply with "I never asked you to do those things for me." to dodge accountability and disguise her lack of honour and her selfishness. It's to ensure she can always retain her victim status in the eyes of the public even when she's the oppressor.

We need people like Alexander more than ever now in this spiritual War we are living

Certainly file a lawsuit sir. My then girlfriend got pulled over by New Mexico State Police when we passed through a DWI checkpoint near Wagon Mound. She was driving and once we were through and far enough from the checkpoint, she too started warning other drivers of the checkpoint by blinking her lights. An NMSP unit driving on the opposite side observed her, stopped her but let her go after I explained that she was checking a light malfunction.

My dishwasher stopped working...so I kicked her out.

Women expect men to read their mind. However, tell your woman often "I know what yer thinkin." This will confuse her so much and make her wonder if you really can read her mind. The last thing a woman wants is to have a man know exactly what she is thinking. Never give her proof though.

Any woman starting with "A real man should..." should be automatically ignored.

There Are more narcissistic people these days, there are so many "influencers" pushing entitlement and "if your man doesn't do xyz he doesn't deserve you", and normal women are being exposed to more and more of this and start to think this is alright or "normal" these days.

you and the lady who talked about N. are only youtubers I have listened to who really get it. I have been studying this topic for over 25 years. Thanks for sharing this.

_Evil._ Selfish, banal, venal, base, imprudently childish. But hellbent on diverting the world from this truth.

Damn, so many women do that "You suppose to just know" crap. My greatest frustration is "The List" that most, if not all women have. 1. You must know what is on the list at all times. 2. I will never really tell you what is on the list. 3. The list will change without warning. 4. If everything on the list is not done, when I want and how I want; I will be upset. 5. Don't try to get ahead of me about what is on the list. 6. For the most part, I will wait till the last minute to surprise you with a demand from my list. I like watching my man jump through hoops because it is part of my control over him. 7. When I tell you how I want it done, it will be the hardest way possible because that is part of my control over my man. 8. I will brag to my girlfriends on how I made him constantly walk on eggshells because I can. 9. Finally, even if everything is done when I want and how I want; it will still never be enough because I just keeping adding to the list. What do you think gentlemen?

I had the hardest time figuring out that the ad wasn’t a joke.

1:51 - This one is the worst. Glad I haven’t had to deal with this personally

Yeah I failed my mind reading course. I had to turn in my wizard hat.

Modern women can not be pleased.

wish i had a time machine and learned this a long time ago. great channel

Jeez, that's definitely my ex. It got to the point where I was developing an ulcer and my stomach going into knots just hearing her. Then I get hospitalized because of blood clots in my lung and was unable to respond for a few days. When I was released she went ballistic on me. When I told her I nearly died (the doctors said if I was an hour later I would've died) she said she didn't care if i lived or died. Unfortunately that was the last straw and I haven't talked to her for 7 years. You don't tell that to somebody.

That movie The Break Up With Vince Vaughn was ahead of it’s time

I found my wife in the Philippines. She is very Christian. She is submissive to me. She takes care of my needs without question. She supports me as her husband. In return, I make sure she is taken care of and protected. We show each other our appreciation.

Did not know I was clairvoyant, WOW!

This works until they only want to vent and don't want the problem solved. Then we are not in "in tune" anymore. Which is most of the time unless it's a broken disposal or something.

We love to categorize things because that makes us believe (falsely) that we then understand everything. "Narcissism" is nothing more than old-fashioned selfishness, which is the killer of all serious relationships and sadly, our human default.

Thanks Man your channel is great.

I literally tell my daughter "Do not announce needs, tell me what specifically you need or want from me." I do not want her growing up expecting that she should just get what she feels like because she has a need. I want her to know that communicating with me (and by extension her future husband) will enable her to get her wants and needs met without guessing games. I honestly think parents should do this more. Don't start listing off foods/games/things for your kid to pick from. Have them figure out what they want specifically from you and then request it from you with polite language. It teaches them through action that they get rewarded for taking the time to communicate properly.

It's not just girlfriends. I get this treatment from weird female neighbours or women in cafes, public places. It's such an epidemic the attitude has spread to doing this to people they don't even know!

No, we get belittled at for 'mansplaining' and 'infantilizing' by most 'modern' women by helping without being asked. And if we do help, we don't get thanked and it's a win if we don't micro-managed or snarked.

When I told my ex-narc that I was no mind reader, her response was, "You should be able to anticipate"... I swear this is true. You can't make this up.

It reminds me of the old line "if you don't know, I'm certainly not going to tell you!"