I totally agree with this advice!!! I met a great man/provider while in the mall! I came into the mall looking basic in my scrubs, all though I do have natural beauty,! I'm glad b4 hitting the food court I went by Sephora and put on a little make up. My hair was already wavy & cute. I didn't even noticed him when I got to food court. While ordering Chinese food he cut the line to pay for my lunch. & simply walked off! I was attracted to him instantly so I went sat by him and struck up conversation. He was shy! He asked me what i was in school 4 but told me it doesn't matter since he preferred to be the provider! Magic words! I followed a lot of ur tips! & my kid and I have been spoiled almost daily! Plus he listens to everything I say. I told him I was watch shopping in mall and next day I got a high end MK watch & bag! My kid got new bed & TV etc. List goes on! I manifested this guy too! SheRa u are awesome and correct on ur advice!! I love Mikki too! God bless u!! I'm going to look u up on FB since I have extra $..😘
You left the hospital wearing scrubs from your shift? That's not classy or hygienic. I can't believe nurses or doctors are allowed to do that. No etiquette or decorum left.
So true. LOL, that's why I thank GOD for my package (mind, body, soul). Even when I was broke it didn't take much to spruce myself up and look like money.
Shera your advice is WORKING! I was on a date with a very successful entrepreneur last night. He walked me to my car in valet & when he walked away, a DOCTOR walked up to my car & gave me his card with his personal number on the back of it. 💅🏽👑
Who commented “pretty women are a dime a dozen??” Stupid. No we’re not. Women are letting themselves go EVERY.SINGLE.DAY talkin bout “we should be loved no matter what shape we’re in” “if he don’t love me at my worst he don’t deserve me at my best” Women are not taking care of themselves
Too bad I found your videos in my golden years. When in my teens I remember women making comments I didn't understand. Like, " Beauty's only skin deep!" Or "A smile will only get you so far!". I had NO idea what they meant till ALOT older. I was extremely shy back then ....at times couldn't even speak I was so scared. It wasn't even shyness....but like panic attacks, fear, withdrawal. I wish I had known back then what it was.....instead I used alcohol, weed, drugs, etc. Your videos are a life saver for young girls, women an golden late bloomers!
The feminists are breaking their backs trying to be men. I have an IQ of 142, but I let my husband be the man, my hero, etc.... I love him and I'm living FAB. Ladies, stay woke and don't let these dusties mislead you!!
Feminists are not breaking their backs to be men. I am a feminist and I have never wanted to be like a man. Why be a man when I have been given the greatest gift of being a woman? We feminists know that we don't need to 'let' a man be a man. A real man is a man without you letting him be anything. If you are letting him be a man, then maybe he is a woman. lol. Plus being 'the man' can have both positive and negative connotation. We do like our men being the man but just not beating us up and letting him drop his pants for random women.
You may have high IQ but your point of view is limited and you’re judging feminists with that limited approach you have. Feminists don't want to compete with men or they don't want to be a man. They simply want equal rights to work, education, health care, justice and they want the right to walk on the streets safely. It's you who need to wake up because not everyone is privileged many women around the world are suffering because of gender inequality but for privileged women like you it's about ”I let him be the man”, ”he is my hero”. 🙄
Amazing info as usual. Everything you teach I've done naturally in life. I figured out at a young age how to use my beauty & brains to get what I want. Manipulation is key. It's so easy. Ladies she isn't make this up. These are facts to get what you want. Good luck to all 😊
StarGoddess Love Hello StarGoddess. I'm a man, and I have to say, I agree with everything she's saying! Most so called women don't get it! Some of them lust to learn the hard way. Some of them have a VERY low frequency, and that's why they attract lame bottom feeding Niggas!
I’m a naturalista and I see a big difference whenever I straighten my hair. I get lots more attention from men. Almost made me want to start perming but I’m choosing to invest in some wigs and clip ins. Your just telling it like it is. Don’t shoot the messenger lol
Another phenomenal video. You look stunning in this video. I listen to Shera every time I’m getting ready. I used to do the bare minimum like the other women I work with do. Now I make sure I look my absolute best. I work around a lot of wealthy men. Shera gives results y’all!
lol its true...the kid thing! I have had kids waddle over to me and raise their little hands for me to pick them up. I was in a cab once and the baby girl kept looking at me cuz I was sitting next to her, then she literally left her mom's lap and came to sit on my lap and lay on my chest! her mom was so embarrassed! I didn't mind though! :) They're always so adorable!
Speaking of males who are stingy with money Before I was married back when I used to look for males who were sexy and I thought had money I went on a date with this black military male I thought was so fine he had a nice car(later found it was rented) had the nice house(also rented) and he took me on a date to DAVE AND BUSTERSSS lol and the bill came to 150 and he complained about giving the waitress the appropriate tip which the restaurant estimated 14 bucks I told him do 30 er 40 since there was a waitress and someone who took the order and the waitress was super attentive despite the place was packed (I live in Seattle so there is only one in wa ) and he complained about the damn 14 which she heard him and ppl already think blacks are stingy when tipping and he ended up only giving her 14 I felt so embarrassed so I just gave her an extra 40 lmaooo I said never again!! I rebuke the dusties
The only time a gorgeous women would not get a job is if there is an actual test you need to pass to go on to the interview process and the women in charge of watching the test looks like a dusty lol
@@phugh3878 That is a very one-sided, prejudicial and unfair statement. Many "plain" women willingly choose to be that way and are not intimidated by "beautiful" young women. So secure in fact that these women don't seek surgery, do 't need to paint over their insecurities nor even need to buy expensive things to make them feel good or to please society. There are so many facets to attractiveness and I personally take God's opinion over man's. This black and white, all or nothing, two-option only choice world we live in is so idiotic and boring.
This is a little off topic but I just had to say what I am going to say. I was in Branson , Missouri yesterday feeling a little off because I hadn't put on full makeup ( because of pouring rain. I didn't want the force of rain to destroy my foundation . Thankfully I have really good skin. ) Anyway I feeling off my game yesterday when I went to the grocery story . I was shocked how other women where dressing. Not single woman over 25 there had a shred of makeup and was dressed unbelievably frumpy. There was even a woman there that I thought was a teenage boy till I say her walk into the woman's bathroom. I was so appalled I couldn't keep my self from saying to my cousin that's a woman I thought she was a teenage boy. My cousin laughed at that and agreed with my assessment. No wonder why I was getting such good treatment from the men in the store. Despite only wearing light makeup and a causal dress I still was one of the most feminine looking women in the store.
Went to a kids karate class and sure enough..the moms looked frumpy as heck. One even wore pajama pants and it was 5pm. When your eyes are opened You sure notice a lot!
What is even your point? Maybe the women don't care about getting attention from men. Maybe they have more to do in life or they are content with their life.
12:12 is GOLDEN! I always flirt with the name thing. I do that naturally cause it's fun for me. Men love it when you're like "How do you say your name again...? or "remind me of your name?" and get a chance to hear me say their name repeatedly haha. That's when I know I needed to bookmark this video! This is GOLD cause some of us do this stuff naturally if in a certain environment.
Was listening to this while getting dressed for my date last night. I swear I LOL a few times. The one thing I did not do was play up my seductive side when I was younger. I would downplay my sexiness because I learned as a child I had more mystique than my peers and even my care givers. That did not stop men from approaching me because I have and will always have that IT factor. I wish my associates weren't so lazy because they could really benefit from Ashera's advice. Oh well. Oh and the haircut is growing out nicely Ashera!
The fact that you need to advertise yourself is dusty. And you putting other women down is also very dusty. I’m sure other people looked at you and thought they were better than you too. “More mystequw” pfffftttt girl please you sound like a pick me. Loser
If you have to tell people “I always have and always will have the IT factor” then you ain’t got it sweetie. Others would be saying it for you. And I’m sure your caregivers or whoever else you saying is beneath you, looked at you and thought they looked better than you too.
Listen to her ladies it just happen to me !! This 6”5 talll real estate investor did football moves to meet me in a upscale cigar bar in Atlanta... when he told me what he did to meet me it was so funny but cute and he’s a man- man ✨✨✨
Literally had a man tell me if we hadnt met on a dating app he wouldve never approached me.. as if i was out if his league. He was 51 im 25, i think he knew he couldnt afford me😢
At the end of the day she's just trying to tell us how to help us feel better about us without validation from men. What is the harm in telling you get up and be your best self everyday? Even if you didn't attract any man you should feel good enough about you that you put your best foot forward. I don't see what the harm in that message it's. Thank you for all you do!
This is true ladies. I got the attention of Omarion bow wow and sammie backstage. They all said that I was lovely in my pink sequins dress pink pea coat and heeled thigh high 👢
Very true about men preferring straight hair over curly hair. I used to wear my hair mostly straight while I was dating many years ago because I knew that men liked it. It’s unfortunately more associated with looking more professional also, so employers also respect you more when you have straight hair. Now that I’m already spoken for I wear it curly sometimes and straight other times. But I also take good hair of my hair and my curls are extremely healthy. I also workout 4-5 days a week and I’m a stay at home mom so wearing curly is just more suitable for my lifestyle.
It's so different here. Men love curly hair. I used to work with women who all had straight hair and the men would flirt with the brunette with the curly hair and she wasn't that pretty, kind of ordinary but maybe that's what they like. I know a lot of Jewish men who love women that look like that, they don't like blondes.
Caroline Lala I think a lot of times men like what’s different and exotic to them also, so you gotta take that into account when it comes down to who they flirt with. Also, while straight hair is the ‘standard’ a lot of times it can be very aging on some women. So while that woman you worked with might have been ‘plain’ to you, the guys you worked with might have seen her hair as flirty, fun, youthful and ‘different.’ Guys love to fetishize sometimes, lol.
Straight hair? What is this the early 2000’s… It’s all about long hair regardless of texture. Looooong curly hair beats short straight hair. Same with looong straight hair vs short curly hair.
SheRA PREACHES YAsssssSSSSS. " You should have known someone was going to come along and blow you lazy, cheating, ego-ruled men up!!! And ladies a delicious example of what Shera is talking about is Sandra on 227. Maybe a little over-acted- it is TV, however she is a good representation. XO
If a man asks rude or invasive question s, say,'it is a first date let's keep things light or I like to keep a few things private. They, ask too much about y past rly. Say I putter to move forward in my life. And, if they are mean or interagency y more go to the rest room as y pass the waitress order more stuff. And, casually leave him w the bill
I'm retired. So when I meet men and they start asking me how do I live because they obviously see I don't work. I hate telling men I'm retired because they assume I have a lot of money. I don't know how to not bringing up the retired thing so they can pay for everything. They don't want to pay once I tell them retired.
I think that if a person is happy and has confidence in themselves they have no reason to feel threatened by another woman.embrace who you are and just feel comfortable in your own skin and you dont have to feel threatened. Regarardless if a person looks better than you or not. Or vise versa.
If men should ever stop falling for games we are just gonna start being direct and it's still gonna work, why? This right here between the legs. I do direct more often than not and reap the rewards. They credit me for honesty lmao. More like honesty sammich 😂. Idk why these dusties be trying to learn anything y'all ain't never gonna be rich so sat down this ain't for YOU
Ladies, a guy picks on y weight, have him sign y up and pay f an exspensive gym membership. And, if says it is too much,then y make fun of him f not being a true baller. The gym membership is not to loss weight it is too open more doors to meet over men w money.
Where do you find men of means/ rich men in Caribbean island . And does these same tips work for women who live in Caribbean islands as well. Please reply Shera7 😊
sheraseven1 you have to tell us how we know the married men in the crowd from the single guys? Men in NJ won't say their married because they are all big players. I belong to an alumni association and go to gala event. All these damn married men come up in my face and don't care their wife is present.
My sister was and still is a plain, simple woman and she has a great husband who is a great provider. He recently bought her a Mercedes. She buys designer stuff and They have a beautiful house, go to vacations and their kids go to the top rated school. She is not an exception. Many simple and plain women around me are well taken care of by their rich men. I feel like women who put too much effort in their appearance like to think that plain women are worth nothing in eyes of high-quality men and they say so out of insecurity because they get jealous when they see a plain woman winning the lottery with a high-quality man so they like to degrade plain women for a sense of relief by saying such things that they will not be approached by a high-value man or if they are already married their husband must be cheating in them with a hot girl😏
They're not plain to the men they're with obviously. You're the catty one saying they're 'plain' lol. People who write these long ass comments are always projecting they're own faults
