Men Find THESE 7 Traits Very Unattractive In WOMEN

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Men Find THESE 7 Traits Very Unattractive In WOMEN ...is a dating and relationship advice video laying out seven things men find unattractive in women. When you understand what men want, you can avoid the things that work against and cause him to lose attraction to you. Watch the full video, and keep and open mind.
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@vintagegallerina 8 дней назад

The fact that your instructions and counsel are available to us for free is so special. Your coaching is landing with me and I always leave educated and thoughtful. Thank you.

@vashtikelly6837 8 дней назад

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ agree 💯💯

@marlenelindsey7638 8 дней назад

I love that! Me too! Always open to learning.

@darlenegolden1057 5 дней назад

Yes, I appreciate your help. Sometimes it doesn't apply. But I get a man doesn't want to talk about problems and bs.

@UniqueWiggins-5905 8 дней назад

LOL...My time is precious. I will not waste it on someone that does not realize that I am too.

@ChadKing-x9k 8 дней назад

We already kno dis vid aint bout u 😂 Yo cut off game somethin serious❤

@edmondrealestatejenniferhe6994 8 дней назад

Absolutely spot on!! I was married for almost 20 abusive yrs. Post divorce, I intentionally took the time (yrs) to do the introspection and honest transparency needed to heal in a healthy way from the abuse and neglect…..but I did it because I my life is deeply rooted in Christ. I refuse to drag unwanted baggage and deep wounds into a new relationship. Now I live on a tropical island and life is wonderful with the exception of the occasional hurricane. Far too many men/women today jump into bed after a breakup instead of taking the time for transparent and honest introspection it requires to heal in a healthy way. I mean, who wants to live in constant drama and fight or flight mode? It’s exhausting and my time is far too valuable to throw it away on someone else’s alcoholism, drug addiction, laziness and spiraling chaos? Not me. And, if you’re wise, you won’t either. SLOW IT DOWN. If it’s meant for you the person will wait. If they won’t…..let him go. 20:37 Sadly, we live in a microwave world of instant gratification. Quality over quantity. If a man is extremely handsome typically his heart is crafted from stone and the ugly ones are too lazy to achieve their goals.

@edmondrealestatejenniferhe6994 8 дней назад

@@ChadKing-x9kBless your heart, that’s simply a ridiculous and ignorant statement. If you were on your A game you would actually want a woman who sets achievable goals, priorities, success and excellence AND still has the God given ability to be feminine, present herself well in any situation and attend church because her heart and integrity are deeply rooted in the love of Jesus Christ. When you look for low rent - that’s exactly what you will get. Perhaps if you were to level up you would be better able to understand her statement - and agree. 😊

@ChadKing-x9k 8 дней назад

@@edmondrealestatejenniferhe6994 😂 I kno her personally trust me she on a level some of yall aint she 25 knockin her goals an dreams out da park wit God in her life she dont settle for nonesense

@4EverGr8ful1 8 дней назад

@@edmondrealestatejenniferhe6994 Well said! I'm greatly encouraged that there are other "Women of Faith" tuning into Stephan. Be blessed! 🙏❤✝️

@thewhispercode 8 дней назад

When you allow your emotions to get in the way, you don’t get into awareness. It takes practice. When I pray I don’t ask for patience, I practice it. What men want, will not change. What women want will not change. We have to meet somewhere in the middle and still stay feminine.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Well said 🙏

@trenton12205 7 дней назад

Yes. The games must stop for love to flourish again

@fjean03 5 дней назад

I agree with your statement 💯. We have to actually become what we want and how we want to be treated. And yes it doesn’t happen over night it will take practice.

@karinesavard2016 8 дней назад

When your man is rude to other people it is a good indicator in what mean character he will have with you. In french this is literally called Il a un mauvais caractère. And family members probably waved that red flag in front of your nose. Never ignore this.

@AJweathersby 7 дней назад

Another thing men find undesirable is whenever there’s a constructive and good-faith criticism of women occurring, and some women try to flip the conversation back on criticizing men. To us, it means those woman feel like they’re above being criticized and that they don’t have any desire to better themselves for the kind of man they want. There’s no such thing as a lasting relationship with a man, that doesn’t involve male criticism.

@djkeith9315 3 дня назад

I would say it reflects on character but it could be a lack of emotional awareness

@karinesavard2016 8 дней назад

To my ex I used to say after his constant complaining about his job, I said, either you change jobs or you stop complaining. 🙄

@clasijasi 7 дней назад

That’s always a pet peeve for me, especially in relationships. If you don’t like something, work to change it 🙂

@TawandaClark-ii9ps 8 дней назад

I have a strong appreciation for guys whom keep negative things at bay. It's really not healthy to have that kind of energy around.

@jennehsmith8170 8 дней назад

Any man with pettiness….drop him like a bad habit and let him go on his way….good luck and good bye, don’t look back!!

@karinesavard2016 8 дней назад

Men gossip and cause more trauma than you'd think. They expose themselves on the Internet. 😅

@noinhibitions7572 7 дней назад

Preach!

@emlinc229 5 дней назад

💯💯💯

@KELLITX 8 дней назад

You addressed the makeup situation very diplomatically. Well done! 🤣

@mariad1151 8 дней назад

On the other hand, too bad guys can't use it to pick up their looks...

@313Mulan 8 дней назад

I literally think I screwed up my chance because I wore a new burgundy eyeliner that I was so excited to wear for my first date LOL. Let's just say, he never called me back afterwards! 😂😂😂

@mariad1151 8 дней назад

@@313Mulan his loss! Joke's on him😁

@abenaavi 7 дней назад

@@mariad1151may be surpised that some men do!

@mariad1151 7 дней назад

@abenaavi maybe mick jagger was the 1st w geen eye shadow. Steven Tyler wore eyeliner. .& won Sexiest Man Alive several times. David Bowie & he was not a pretty... If it helps ...

@HalfSweetness 8 дней назад

🤭 I love when you talk about sensitive topics like hygiene and makeup and such because you start smiling cause you really try to make sure you discuss it gently. I have to laugh cause it's so cute. Nicely done. Lovely shirt your wearing, too.😁💯👋🏼

@klezzaa8957 7 дней назад

Dont be drama queens, dont be always complaining, being rude, having to much much makeup, smelling bad, wanting and searching for attention. Sounds about right! ☺️❤️

@tamaralillard7820 8 дней назад

I do all of these things ❤❤❤ Where’s my husband 😂😂

@katmcc76 8 дней назад

I really like this! What if the person is going through some challenging times? Everyone is not going to be 100% all the time! I believe men should learn to be more understanding with women, especially with hormone imbalances at different stages in her life!

@HapillyMe 7 дней назад

Thank you! Men are too harsh on women. No one is perfect.

@diannearevalo6247 8 дней назад

Hello stephan watching your videos help me understand and communicate better with my husband more I enjoy listening to your videos

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

I'm so happy to hear that 🙏

@ShakiraG9339 7 дней назад

I just feel men need similar advice. I feel like the burden is always on the woman to constantly cater to a man. I love being a woman. I have no issues being a woman. However, men need to allow us women to “be feminine “ and to pour love and respect in the relationship.

@4EverGr8ful1 7 дней назад

The problem is that more and more women have zero standards and lack adequate self worth! Men AND women need to up their game!! 🙏

@roxy7255 8 дней назад

Thank you Stephen I didn’t know the drama one until I saw it. A man I dated had an ex where there was always drama I could see it in his eyes how much he loved and enjoyed drama and was struggling without the drama - huge red flag and toxic trait.

@crystalgonsalves2239 8 дней назад

Positive affirmations for women may be helpful for being more peaceful, positive, and kind. I feel like this is one of the things that helps me stay in my feminine, by starting the day with light and positivity & carrying that energy throughout the day. Thanks for the video! So excited for the event in DC! 🙌🏽

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

🙏

@IsaidwhatIsaid2 8 дней назад

Thank you adding the health and wellness tips that are equally as important to this video.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

You’re welcome 🙏

@fightforhealth1 8 дней назад

Complaining leads to bitterness.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Absolutely!

@shayemissions 8 дней назад

We appreciate you sir! I have gained so much understanding from listening to your videos the last 17 months. THANK YOU sir! Literally life changing! ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

You're very welcome 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

I'm happy to hear that 🙏

@aishabyrd974 8 дней назад

Thanks for these videos Stephan

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

You're welcome 🙏

@sandic8172 7 дней назад

Another kind, diplomatic and informative video that is definitely needed to help us attract and have better relationships with men-- platonic and romantic. TFS! I agree we must be mindful of how we talk to each other. A gentle tone can make a difference when asking for what we need and/or want from others.❤

@ce4139 7 дней назад

Great episode! I’m a woman and I agree with everything you said. I don’t like these things in women as well-friend, foe, whatever.

@dionesk4077 8 дней назад

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 love love love this message & how u delivered it. This messages opened my eyes to a different perspective on how I address people at work. Ive been told multiple times that my delivery of information to ppl is coming off a bit mean and or harsh... and like u mentioned...I didn't see it...but after watching this, and reflecting on how I respond to some ppl...I can admit that I came off too harsh and could have taken a more subtle approach to how I respond. Thank God for tomorrow being a new day..and I get the opportunity to improve and evolve. Thank u again for allowing God to use u to deliver these kind of messages to assist ppl who are on a path of self discovery & evolution 🙏🏽

@saynotohookups 8 дней назад

I hardly wear makeup. With guys I'm generally not into beards and mustaches unless they are done a certain way. Just like men want to know what is underneath a woman's makeup i want to know what is underneath the beard.

@4EverGr8ful1 8 дней назад

I agree! I'm ready to see some "clean-shaven faces" guys... enough of the beards already!! 😁😜

@ladlesandoven 8 дней назад

How can you compare natural beard hair to fake makeup looks.....had any man told you to shave your heard or discard your wigs to see whats underneath???....y'all be delulu

@saynotohookups 8 дней назад

@@ladlesandoven Um, buddy you can't compare a head of hair to a big bushy beard and mustache that covers the bottom half of your face. Tell me it doesn't make a difference when the mustache and beard gets shaved off completely.

@ladlesandoven 7 дней назад

@@saynotohookups shave off all your hair completely before your husband marries you okay... Thanks

@4EverGr8ful1 7 дней назад

@@ladlesandoven Wow, someone got triggered BIG TIME!! We women are entitled to OUR opinions, got it?? 🙄

@jadhirarivera5745 8 дней назад

I really appreciate your content and your delivery. Thank you so much for all your help ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

I'm so glad 🙏

@livinglovinglatora3574 5 дней назад

I have been told by multiple people that I can be rude or a B@!ch😂 I used to think it was funny but now it’s very evident people perceive me this way. I guess I’m triggered even more because these “people” have no idea the things I’ve been through. I just keep my guard up from others so I’m not hurt again by anyone. I know that may be a harsh tactic but I didn’t know what else to do to protect my energy. I was really sweet once upon a time and it has changed. Stephan help!😩😩

@donnatownsendp 8 дней назад

I’ve let go of anything and anybody that brings drama or anything that disturbs my peace of mind. I don’t have the energy for it

@TawandaClark-ii9ps 8 дней назад

Some guys I notice define a "drama queen" differently. For some it's a wider scale than it is for others. ...

@mcleodintl 8 дней назад

I TRULY APPRECIATE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOR AS IT RELATES TO WOMEN REJECTING YOUR OPINION ON MEN😅😂😂 AS FOR THE REST OF US WHO APPRECIATE YOUR COMMENTS AND KNOW WE CAN EASILY CLICK UNTO SOMEONE ELSE, BUT DON'T...HERE'S A HEARTY GOD BLESS AND THANK YOU STEPHAN SPEAKS!❤❤❤

@DariusMooney-b5f 7 дней назад

This video was incredibly engaging!

@genaross1976 8 дней назад

Thank you for what you do!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

My pleasure 🙏

@Portia620 7 дней назад

The opening! ❤😂 toxic men love drama!

@marlenelindsey7638 8 дней назад

Ladies let me tell you about the most beautiful perfume I just treated myself too, as a gift to myself for cutting cigarettes out of my life. This perfume by Gucci called Guilty just replaced my 20 year old favorite (by Givency). I have never smelled such a nice, balanced, subtle and classy scent! GUILTY BY GUICCI!!!

@4EverGr8ful1 7 дней назад

Congratulations on quitting smoking... Bravo!! 🎉🥂

@mitchellepraxcedes6459 8 дней назад

Very useful info❤...thank you Stephan

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

You're welcome 🙏

@kathymanley8711 8 дней назад

🙋‍♀️, I care, we all need to get along and you help me understand men. Thank you!! My question how does 1 meet men when I'm in my 60's. I'm not doing a dating app. Too many narcissist out there!!!!!

@4EverGr8ful1 7 дней назад

Just go about doing things YOU enjoy! *"High-value Men"* are typically NOT on dating apps. They're out living their lives... taking classes, hiking, biking, playing/watching sports, etc, etc... Don't think most men are Narcissists... the emotionally healthy ones aren't!! Be blessed! 🙏❤✝️

@LarrySnoddy-s6u 8 дней назад

I love the clarity you bring to every subject.

@gmilner84 8 дней назад

Thank you for this AWESOME video. So excited to see you again in ATL! In my opinion, women who are fully healed and ready for relationship don't like these same traits in men either.

@bertbrowm4488 8 дней назад

My family is definitely drama, when I find my man, adios to my family, I cba. I'll see them once in a while

@maryknox1085 7 дней назад

I only wear mascara and eyeliner , I’m good with just that 😊, Thank You Stephan

@msdemeanour 8 дней назад

Ladies, no man finds giant tarantula lashes sexy. Just sayin!

@marlenelindsey7638 8 дней назад

Thank God!

@4EverGr8ful1 7 дней назад

LOL... or *"Dagger Nails!"* 😳👎

@RenataSmith-u3t 8 дней назад

Thank you for this video.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Always my pleasure

@fantasiaroberts5157 8 дней назад

Some very great advice!👏🏾👏🏾 The one with the kids is me, and believe me! it does work😀 thank you Stephan 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🧡🤎🧡👌🏾🙏🏽🙌🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

You're so welcome! 🙏

@youareforgiven2634 8 дней назад

I too feel BLESSED BY BROTHER STEPHAN

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

I’m very happy to hear that 🙂

@donnatownsendp 8 дней назад

I agree…..anybody that’s full of drama is very taxing and draining. #Run

@DCurlsandwaves 8 дней назад

I don’t think women understand the difference between being assertive and straight up rude

@HapillyMe 7 дней назад

I'm exhausted with all these videos on how women should act, or what we should wear. I find it very unattractive when a man does not listen to women. Thst creates resentment. Men, work on being better listeners.

@JStig12 7 дней назад

@HapillyMe What specifically do you think/feel that men are not listening to women about?

@4EverGr8ful1 7 дней назад

*"You Teach People How To Treat You!"* ~ Dr. Phil 💡💡💡

@koolbeans8292 5 дней назад

"SOME" men need to learn to listen AND understand. 🙂

@Time4change111 2 дня назад

Some relationships that I have noticed that failed on the mans part were due to the male being toxic instead of peace, being petty instead of calm and mature, being unfaithful instead of faithful, lacking taking accountability instead of admitting wrong, taking responsibility and correcting his behavior with Grace and calmness, disrespecting the woman, demanding she submit to her instead of both the man and the woman submitting to God then to one another, lying, looking at other women instead of having integrity, listening to other toxic males and females that trick people into trying to dominate, control, be petty, negative, unfaithful and immature that usually secretly causes the other person to loose interest, love and the feeling of safety this causing unhappiness and usually ending the relationship. The best advice is to listen to God and you both learn to love one another like Jesus loved us all as Jesus says. Kindness, calm, productive conversations, peace, patience, maturity and love wins when you are willing to put in the same and grow with the person God has guided you to😎 God bless chief@@JStig12

@donnatownsendp 8 дней назад

Rudeness is very ugly on anyone

@susanpidgeon9683 7 дней назад

I enjoy your videos that come from a male perspective. The way you tell females info is unique and helpful not harsh or judgmental. Thank you! Great job!

@bertbrowm4488 8 дней назад

I do love makeup and sometimes I like wearing lots but usually I wear less. However I try my best to stay close to my natural look, as I wear less. That's true I get more compliments when I wear less makeup. With my ex I wore both less and more and he said I looked prettier with less.

@SyxTreasure 8 дней назад

Can we do a live here just one

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

I’m gonna make that happen soon

@cleovernebaptiste2747 8 дней назад

God don't like complainers Stephen look at what happen to the children of Israel they complain give the glory in every situation, love you Stephen continue to shine

@leontynehudson1748 7 дней назад

I appreciate your consul, I’m not in a relationship. Very informative, and applicable I’ll be ready when it happens. I love PEACE ☮️💫❤️

@4EverGr8ful1 8 дней назад

I appreciate you *"Keepin' It Real!"* 🙏👍

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Thank you 🙏❤️

@Kirk-d7v 8 дней назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks youtube.com/@rcblakesjr.?feature=shared

@jessycars6305 5 дней назад

I came across your videos last week. You are a beautiful spirit and you bring your message very compassionate. Thank you for that. Great content. I have been single by choice and have work on myself for many years. I dont like too much makeup. I like natural.

@tobeywan8331 8 дней назад

Hello Stephan, upload videos on the men's channel more plis!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

I’m going to get back on track with that

@Zodiacconnections 7 дней назад

Thank you Stephan for this insightful video! As a relationship coach and astrology enthusiast, I appreciate your balanced approach to helping women understand what works in relationships. It’s true that even if we’re feeling fed up with dating now, those feelings can change, and it’s great to be prepared. Your point about avoiding drama and striving for peace is so important. For those of us who follow astrology, it’s interesting to note that certain signs, like Libra and Taurus, naturally seek harmony and balance in relationships. Let’s all aim to bring more peace and positivity into our love lives. Thanks for always pouring into us with love and helping us get what we deserve!

@islandgurlgj 8 дней назад

This is why I do not watch shows like RHO whatever and Love and Hip Hop. Reality shows in general. I quickly stopped when I caught myself mindlessly mimmicking their mannerisms and ways of speaking. It is very easy for exessive consumption of this type of media to bleed into real life.

@empressnaja 8 дней назад

Broken people are just that broken. You just got to recognize the signs. Broken people love other broken people. So they could ruin their lives, they feed on it like a fungus

@Kirk-d7v 8 дней назад

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@4EverGr8ful1 8 дней назад

That's exactly why it is imperative to find healing (seek therapy) before entering into a relationship, right?? 🙏

@empressnaja 8 дней назад

@@4EverGr8ful1 Exactly this why I advocate for it.💯😏 Therapy could and has help me so much 👍🏿

@katrinanelson6175 8 дней назад

This is really good... greatly appreciated.✨

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Thank you ❤️ I’m glad you found it helpful

@katrinanelson6175 8 дней назад

@@MeetStephanSpeakswith some, lol. 😆 It's all great though. ❤️

@KP_FruitsoftheSpirit 8 дней назад

It's a sensitive subject, but you delivered it well, Stephan. It hard to say it's wasn't Kosher.🤭

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Thank you 🙏

@KP_FruitsoftheSpirit 8 дней назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks My pleasure 🙏🏼

@Ivy_Citrine23 8 дней назад

Thank you stephan ❤your videos it helps a lot for me. I'm dealing a toxic man currently..😪Extremely rude, and manipulator😢

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

You're welcome 🙏

@debbiebramwell 8 дней назад

Why are you dealing with this man and his toxicity?

@4EverGr8ful1 8 дней назад

*"You Teach People How To Treat You!"* ~ Dr. Phil 💡💡💡

@JacquelineBeavers 8 дней назад

Why are you dealing with him if he is toxic and rude. You don't know how to take out the trash?

@JacquelineBeavers 8 дней назад

@@4EverGr8ful1 Preach!

@donnatownsendp 8 дней назад

Proverbs talks about how a wise woman buildeth her house & a foolish one plucketh it down

@aishahadjoua5485 8 дней назад

Thank you Stephan. I understand and appreciate the information. God bless you! Aishah

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

My pleasure 🙂

@opalbeach9626 8 дней назад

My teenage son Always do things when I ask him sweetly and say thanks . You catch more bees with honey than vinegar.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

🙏

@JacquelineBeavers 8 дней назад

That's one thing I disagree with. I shouldn't have to tell you more than once to do something and I'm paying all the bills and taking care of your dusty ass. I'm going to ask you nice. Once, then you are going to face some repercussions. That's how my parents did it and it's good enough for these youngins today too. I'm not begging you! As for a man, if I even have to tell you once, BRO you got to go. You are not going to lay up on your ass and not contribute to every aspect of the household, just like me. Go find you a mama to wipe your butt. Periodt!

@wendykaranja4801 4 дня назад

You are doing an amazing job and are good at it thankyou for your invaluable nuggets Thank you for being a barak to us ❤

@kearalove751 8 дней назад

this was a great video!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Thank you very much 😁

@sandyhugheskawaii8730 8 дней назад

All great advice!🙌🏻 I want to give some tips for other ladies even though I'm mortified to comment publicly about this topic.😂🤭 It has to do with the hygiene topic that Stephan mentioned. He may not realize that some women are easily irritated by soap down there. I know people have different opinions about whether or not to use soap in that very sensitive area. I am in the soap camp but I know that some people are easily irritated by it. If that is the case, whatever you use should be fragrance free. You can try a castile soap with oils in it, like Dr. Bronner's unscented liquid formula. Or you can try a soap with a super gentle surfactant, like Cetaphil moisturizing relief body wash. Never wash up inside, if you know what I mean. Then afterwards, you can moisturize with coconut oil. It's solid at room temperature, so it's easy to work with, and it's safe for that area unless you are allergic, of course. I use the one by Spectrum because it's marketed for skin/hair care, so it's in a tub with a wide opening for easy access. I hope this helps someone.😄💖

@RMMomma4Eva 8 дней назад

Vinegar works wonders. Dilute if sensitive. And it's okay to wipe it outside and spray it inside, just don't put it inside more than say once a week. Less if sensitive. But it is needed sometimes.

@natnel617 8 дней назад

Epsom salt and tea tree baths also help. Helps keep bacteria and thrush at bay as well as keeping one smelling fresh.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Thank you for your feedback

@mariacolucci6958 8 дней назад

Thank you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

You're welcome! 🙏

@user-bm3lv8xk8s 7 дней назад

i have an open mind i want to learn

@rl798 7 дней назад

I'm an authentic person. Better than a fake person. If people don't like it then just keep on walking, I don't want fake people in my life🤨

@barbara-annperry5941 8 дней назад

Me and my friends all know that us women have a psycho gene. We say release it to your friends and once you have calmed down, then talk to your man. I say phone your friends and ask for an exorcism lol

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Lol 🙏

@barbara-annperry5941 8 дней назад

@MeetStephanSpeaks Hello from Scotland by the way

@patriciabukator2622 7 дней назад

Haha good one🙌

@ClassyWithChrist 8 дней назад

Can you make a video on where to find these types of men you always talking about in your videos.😭🤣🤣

@JacquelineBeavers 8 дней назад

Amen, and again I say AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@theemajesticbeauty7236 8 дней назад

😂😂😂 🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾

@Cindy_Love_2025 8 дней назад

Excellent video 👏🏼💯❤️ I love it❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it

@Cindy_Love_2025 8 дней назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I love all your videos & posts… it’s encouraging! You always give wonderful godly advice too. God has His hands upon your life & what you’re doing! God bless you! ❤️💯

@donnatownsendp 8 дней назад

AGM: Attention Getting Mechanisms doesn’t always work

@SelinaMucera 4 дня назад

You are amazing at what you do Stephan thank you for your invaluable nuggets❤

@Redford444 5 дней назад

Great content

@jaclynh.y767 3 дня назад

i think the proper mindset is to focus on your growth as a person and knowing yourself. the right man will be attracted to your inner beauty and your genuine self

@KathrynForsythe-c8n 6 дней назад

This video was incredibly well-explained.

@sss_tan 8 дней назад

Stephan, I love your videos. Could you give advice on timeline of dating - when should you have sex, when should you ask him what questions when getting to know each other first, because I feel like a lot of women struggle with this and to not scare men away. I would be really thankful...

@brittneythompson2041 8 дней назад

Hey Stephen, there are videos people are making of “why men are not approaching women anymore” I understand there is bad women out here, but not all of us are bad. Not all of us are the Sexyy reds or 304s. I feel like social media has ruined some people’s view of dating. This is coming from a 20 yr old. Wondering will I find my person? What does this mean for us young adults coming up?I’m not like some of the women that have all of the unrealistic expectations.

@RMMomma4Eva 8 дней назад

Yes you're going to meet him, he's going to find you. So you want to work on yourself so you'll be ready when he arrives! Create a good career for yourself, a home that's comfortable and organized, a reliable car, maintain your health and grooming, don't sit in the house, and incorporate Stephan's tips including from this video. And it will happen, a good guy will see you shining. Just be patient and work on yourself. Quality far surpasses quantity. ❤✨🙏🏽✅

@brittneythompson2041 8 дней назад

@@RMMomma4Evathank you so much! I needed this 🥰❤

@vaksehund2 4 дня назад

Bc I came from a 90% dysfunctional family & most of what came out of our mouthes was negative I took that with me most my young adult life. Until a class mate told me I was negative I never analyzed the words I spoke. Then & there I changed the words, not my thoughts though. I've only recently given that to Jesus completely, not expecting change to happen by itself. What a relief. Now I don't want to control situations, but push the negative gently aside (almost like grey rocking a narcissist). Why waste time engaging, right?

@GoddessYvonne3 8 дней назад

Totally agree🔥🔥🔥

@eilly8137 8 дней назад

Peace, Luv! It was interesting watching you tread "carefully" through these suggestions. The community must be giving you the blues!! 😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

It’s all good. I’m still going to help 🙏

@eilly8137 8 дней назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I appreciate you completely! The community may be so focused on defending themselves that they are missing the fact that you're offering insider tips for getting faster results. I hear you though! 😉

@trx1579 4 дня назад

Makeup and created glamour at their best are art forms and enhance a level of fantasy/spice in life, and there are men who appreciate that as long as we don't become addicted to it in order to feel remotely presentable. I would be bored without occasionally trying out a new cat eye/pinup girl red lip or something fun like that.

@adwoaboakye265 8 дней назад

I’m the first to watch, yaaaaaaay.🎉

@MyStateFarmAgentIsAnquanie 8 дней назад

😂 love it!

@genaross1976 8 дней назад

Yes!! Love it

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

🙌❤️

@karinesavard2016 8 дней назад

Some men could use some make-up 🤣😂🤣😂

@mariad1151 8 дней назад

& some cologne!

@JudyChilds-fu4em 8 дней назад

You're building bridges between us❣️👍💞

@TanyaOden 5 дней назад

Great video! I loved the introduction! I know that you care and is genuinely trying to help us. Thank YOU!! I think the points are applicable for both genders. Women dislike those things too. However the point about the make-up...I can really see why that's SO concerning for men. It's so many false images out here. Not only with excessive make-up but with the fake everything else (hair, eye bows, eye lashes, teeth, lip injections/botox, veneers, breast implants, tummy tucks, BBL, fake nails, etc). Come on ladies.. rock your NATURAL BEAUTY!! You're BEAUTIFUL!! Be proud of the way God made you! Also only God knows what those chemicals, dyes, etc. are doing to our bodies.

@mariastavrakis7046 5 дней назад

You just described my ex husband he was all of these things! Works both ways ! 😅😂🤦🏻‍♀️😉❣️❣️

@addison1031 7 дней назад

Your advice is also helpful to us married folk. My dad didn’t like make up wearers and I married similar. My husband likes minimal at the most. Great tips for both sexes.

@dtpbach 8 дней назад

@22:52 this is a very tough situation. I had a friend who was married. She was beautiful but her breath was horrendous! I just figured everyone knew, especially her husband. NO ONE TOLD HER. She divorced her husband since then but still..even he didn't tell her! She finally was told and got help and she said to me "the most loving thing you can do is tell someone when their breath is bad" I also went on a date last year with a very handsome, successful man. MY LORD GOD JESUS - HIS DRAGON BREATH hit me while he was talking to me. This was a man who claimed to be a clean freak too - OMG CLEAN YOUR DANG BREATH! There were no other dates. LOL I'm laughing so hard as I type this. Bad breath is a big deal breaker for me because I love to kiss more than anything however; I DO NOT have the guts to tell someone that their brefff stank! How do I do this?????!!!!!

@anonymousbee 8 дней назад

Just say it. Say that I can notice your breath and scowl a bit. A intelligent guy will take the hint.

@paulajohnson3811 8 дней назад

Offer a breath mint or a piece of gum😬

@flora91161 8 дней назад

Sometimes it’s internal. Stomach ulcers, tonsil stones, infections. You may be helping someone by telling them😭

@dtpbach 8 дней назад

@@anonymousbee Easier said than done. On a first date, I'm not sure if one can say this without really knowing how the other will respond,

@dtpbach 8 дней назад

@@paulajohnson3811 NOPE.. that never works.

@brendawilliams6741 6 дней назад

I don't wear nothing false, I do believe in enhancing beauty not destroying natural beauty, that's just me. I was told by women young and old that these women are doing so many ratched things to men until they have to hide behind something...

@annajoy2306 7 дней назад

i always tried to understand men. i been a men reader all my life. women would come to me to ask me how men think =P and men easily are them selves with me =P good or bad. all my life i can feel peoples emotions. i also had vesions before it happens or dead people. i cant decide when i get medssges it just happens. if i am in a room of people i feel so much. its been hard for me to find my person. i do belive much to do with law of attraction. to feel enough. to attract a partner we need to be our true selves and feel we are enough and not let fears, hate, blame, quilt or ego take over. also trying to work with our attachment so we can attract a healthy relationship.

@gailosbourne1440 8 дней назад

Gd evening, stephan. Interested topic her

@teresapr2106 7 дней назад

So what you saying is you cannot discuss or ask advice from your partner? So, what's the whole point in communicating to him. I am asking for is a listening ear and get his advice that I am struggling with the decision.

@sabinasmith6326 4 дня назад

What if a person is nitpicking and he is a perfectionist who is looking at very small things and it’s not even that serious and it doesn’t communicate properly!!

@gailosbourne1440 8 дней назад

Gd evening, stephan, This topic is so interesting. I really appreciate you explain with love . That empathy. Really to be honest. , The same traits that goes for the man also goes for the woman. To be honest some man need an housewife , the things they do sometimes, and how they do things , some cannot do nothing at all around the home . most of them are so lie , sometimes they are the ones that cause the problems in the relationship. 😂😊

@donnatownsendp 8 дней назад

In order to change what’s around you, you have to change what’s within

@JacquelineBeavers 8 дней назад

Preach! Most of these people are attracting what they are putting out! Either that, or they have such low self-esteem they put up with it rather than finding the right person. They don't want to be alone.

@nicolecarithers7132 8 дней назад

Ik my brother n I unfortunately can't be in a room without some kinda drama for me to deal with it but until marriage, again??, I won't put man through it but will tell him about it

@RMMomma4Eva 8 дней назад

Don't tell guys your drama. It's an open invitation for a man to disregard you as a real partner and just use you.

@y.m.6667 8 дней назад

Stephan, It seems that videos are just beating women down and criticizing. WHEN are YOU going to make a video(s) for MEN about what is UNATTRACTIVE sbout THEM??

@MeetStephanSpeaks 8 дней назад

I have a separate channel for men

@teresacroft7409 8 дней назад

You're so right. It's always the woman's fault. We shoulda, coulda, need to do or not do this When it comes to women, it's always was and will be this: women catering to, bowing down to and taking all the BS they dish out. Men are rarely faithful, and want a convenient doormat to walk on. PERIOD

@4EverGr8ful1 8 дней назад

I don't view Stephan's advice that way at all. I guess you have a negative perspective perhaps?! 🙏