My father left my mother for a woman that had more money 15 years ago. Now, they're struggling and my mother's financial situation is much better (and she's been single since then). I guess someone's to blame for their own misery 😂
Who else think being called "golddigger", "boojee", "you have high-standard" is a compliment 🤚🏻Atleast we are not being called easy, cheap 🤭💀 and bangmaid 🤷🏻♀️
Hi Elle, I've been watching your videos avidly for a few months now. Could you please make a video about Project 2025? Not nearly enough people know about it and...that's exactly what the project developers want 😟. Thanks!
"Not a single woman has been accepted as a Christ, a buddha, a prophet - no. If a woman manages somehow to get into religious matters she is caked a witch..." - Osho
19:05 This is so true - even psychologists mention that a lot of clients who are Catholic, often are quite secretive about it and it is difficult to have discussions about faith. I myself do not talk about Catholicism or religion amongst my atheist or even theist friends. I feel like on some deep level, it is very uncomfortable, I do feel a bit of Catholic guilt when discussing it, but I also feel some part of the religion is sacred enough for me not to discuss it like some ordinary conversation (despite me being a 'bad Catholic) - it's a very deep, subconscious feeling a lot of Catholics can probably relate to. I think it's because Catholicism really walks a very fine line between upholding 2000 years of tradition whilst balancing the need to seek and refine learning and doctrine. Some Catholics are stupidly conservative and believe women belong in the house like the NFL player, but also there are heaps of Catholic universities and scholars? Including women? It's a very bizarre dynamic, and I always feel like Catholicism is quite complex to talk about in the modern era, especially if you feel like you're a bad Catholic (which is definitely me). So I really appreciate how you've tried to talk about Catholicism to what I'm assuming is a mostly non-Catholic audience Elle! It's not easy to do.
I've never understood why certain men call women "gold-diggers" when those same men flaunt their own wealth (and use it to "get" women) but then "claim" they want to also be "providers". It's like, huh? Make it make sense.
My ex, who was literally homeless for most of the relationship and absolutely broke and often jobless, dared to call me a gold digger. Honestly its the most broke men who will call you names. For a long time i believed it wass all fine "because he had a nice personality". Long story short, he did not. Never again.
The ones who are most vocal about gold diggers are broke males with poverty mentality . I mean it makes sense to be scared of losing money when hardly have any lol.
I work in an antique store that attracts people with money and the happiest couples are always husbands that appear to really enjoy spoiling their wives. They come in, share their mutual appreciation for antiques, are generally very pleasant to me (unlike some couples where the wife seems to maybe feel insecure in the relationship) and usually don't spend "too much." Most of the time it seems the wives turn down their husband's generosity as if to say "don't be silly, I don't need every last thing, I have everything I really want" but he wants to give her the world anyway. When they actually do need or want something, they get nice, well made things chosen after rounds of his encouragement and her careful consideration. Then he happily gives me his card and we have pleasant conversation while I finish the transaction and wrap their items to go. They genuinely leave me feeling warm and fuzzy when they leave because they're usually respectful, secure, charming, intelligent and they clearly love each other. Sometimes it's kind of going in the other direction but it's the wife encouraging the husband to get something that he clearly wants but he's not used to spoiling himself and she's encouraging him to treat himself.
Omg NPC dads . I have never heard of this before but it's soo true. Sad indeed that the bar is so low. Men need to call each other out when they see others being NPCs.
This is what I love in humanity. Humans would rather die themselves or kill other humans than leatn to be decent and understanding. What a time to be alive.
Oh my god. I just realized my childhood and my home was all due to my dad’s love for the MPDG. It was all because my dad got so inspired by Elizabethtown in 2010. My dad loved the Manic Pixie Dream Girl so much that it became the reason I grew up where I did. It’s why I am who I am. I’m losing my mind. There are no words. This realization hit me like a truck.
It is. A woman being with a man, not because she loves him or cares for him, but only because she seeks what’s in his wallet. Ergo, if problems were to arise hampering the cash flow for a bit, she dips out with little to no cares in the world. That is a gold digger and such behavior isn’t one that should be encouraged among women or men or anyone for that matter.
When will literally go on TV shows just to promote their business. Literally on dating shows make the woman fall in love with them and just be in it for the promotion of their business and the fame and now she’s promoting her business on specifically a business promoting channel she’s not hurting anybody, and all men love to embarrass women it’s really disgusting
One of the moments from Malcom in the Middle that lives in my head rent free is when it is brought up between Lois and Hal that he loves her more than she loves him. Lois: "And you're okay with that?" Hal: "Of course. If you loved me as much as I love you, we would never leave the bedroom."
Maybe leech can be applied to males when they're trying to dig or coherse time, energy, attention, labor he's trying to convince you to do or say it's your job to do like doing his job/chores/homework/or anything else for him. when he looks at you expecting you to mitigate his fights or misuderstandings or no/failure to understand.
