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I found her, boys. Now I just gotta wait. Update 5/5/22: We recently had a serious conversation, and decided that we would be sending each other a letter just before New Year's to open at midnight. She'll write her secret on it, I'll write mine, and no backing out of it. She suggested that it would be a letter in the first place, tbh I was just going to call her and say what it was but this is better. Some background information: We've been best friends for a long time, and now that I think about it there were some hints that she liked me and still does from even a year ago. I haven't really made a move because the both of us aren't in our best mental states, and so I want to help support her first so we are both fit for a healthy relationship. We've been planning on rooming in college for a while now, (would have to be unisex dorms) and tbh as much as I want to be in a relationship with her, as long as I get to be by her side I think I'll be fine. She fits my type, she's athletic, tall, dark haired, but in her eyes I am nothing more or less of a person, if that makes sense. We are true equals. I don't get that kinda connection, ever. Update 5/27/22: On the 14th we were on call, and I was sharing my screen to her but realized that I needed to edit some things before doing that (cringe ass search history, not even bad stuff just embarrassing searches for different poses that I use for references when drawing) and so I told her that I was going to go brew some tea, and while I was cleaning out my search history I heard her say over the microphone "Hey, are you still here?" and then she said "(name) I'm like super in love with you." I didn't say anything, and the rest of the call carried out like it usually does. Today I gave up and just said it, I want to avoid things getting complicated in the future, so I first asked her if it was okay for me to share my secret earlier, since she probably has the gist of it already. It's mutual. I am waiting for when she has time to talk now so we can have a serious conversation about it. I'm in denial that all of this is happening, it'll probably take me a few days to process it. Damn it's been a long time since the last update, alright alright Update 9/26/2022: Still going strong, we had a rough patch for around a week over the summer, had to do with her ex, not really anything bad but idk I was just jealous and paranoid for a second and needed reassuring. We both still want to work on ourselves before officially getting into a relationship, so it'll be healthy and better off, and we are finally getting there. We've grown a lot closer since we both confessed, and I didn't even think that was possible. These past few months have been filled with a lot of falling asleep on calls, a lot of them on "accident" lol When we argue, usually it's about her not telling me when she's upset. I can tell when something is bothering her, but it's hard to figure out what it is, and it's been a progress to help her learn to tell me, cause all I want is to help her, I won't judge at all. She forgets that sometimes. Update 1/28/2023: We became official a week into this year, since then we've grown even closer somehow, I am very, very happy, especially because I can clearly see that the joy is mutual. She is very open with me, and tells me when I'm doing something wrong or need to improve. I value direct honesty more than anything else, so this is very important to me. I love that she doesn't hold back anymore, it makes me feel trusted and valued. The wait is worth it. Update 6/29/2024: A lot happened, I broke up with her a couple months ago. The main reason was our difference in maturity, which was becoming more and more evident. I had grown a lot as a person throughout our relationship, and she had not. She had become dependent, and very unhealthily so. Fight after fight after fight. She was insecure. She'd be passive aggressive and accusatory more often than not. Talking to her felt like walking on thin ice. Just one "mistake" away from her blowing up. Clarity hit me the morning after our last fight. "I can't help her. She doesn't want help. This isn't going to go anywhere. I'm exhausted." I remember how relieved I felt when I accepted my choice. I think that deep down, I had known what my answer was for a few months beforehand already. It was the easiest breakup I have ever been through, which I honestly didn't expect. I thought I'd get really hung up about it. I was skin to skin with this person. We had planned a future together. But nah. It just feels like a weight off my shoulders. I'd say that the moral of the story is that "people change," but sometimes they don't, and that's the issue. A better way to phrase it is: invite change. Seek growth. The people who hold you back are not meant to be in your life. I don't regret my relationship with her. I learned a lot. That's pretty much it. Currently pursuing a guy I like (I'm bisexual). Even if it doesn't turn out, I don't mind. My last relationship taught me to love without attachment. Fuck, it's so much more enjoyable that way. It's been very pleasant, falling for this guy, letting it happen and not being afraid of the risk. Whatever happens, I know I'll be able to find my own happiness. That's what truly matters.
This remind me of some girls who was chasing me i remember she was flirting everytime we meet she texts all time and asks me out she was cute and nice with me but i rejected her because one of my friends told me so And now im the one who's chasing her and my friends are no longer my friends I wish I wasn't a stupid f**k
[LYRICS] Don't say yes if you can't say no Victim of the system, say it isn't so Squatted on the doorstep, swollen on the blow Leaving without you, can't say no Halfway starts with happiness for me Halfway house, lost kitten in the street Hit me where it hurts, I'm coming home to lose Kitten on the catwalk, high-heeled shoes No more hard-headed Saturdays They got it, they want it, they give it away Tell me one thing you would never do I was looking for a hooker when I found you You've got my eyes, you've got my eyes You'll never be mine, ah, but you've got my eyes When you lie, I'll cover it up When you hide, I'll cover it up When you cry, I'll cover it up When you come undone, I'll cover it up So pent up, I was coming home to you Happy in the nighttime, howlin' at the moon Sippin' on a cocktail, drinking in the loo There's something about you I hold on to You've got my eyes, you've got my eyes Youl'll never be mine, ah, but you've got my eyes When you lie, I'll cover it up When you hide, I'll cover it up When you cry, I'll cover it up When you're blind, I'll cover it up When you lie, I'll cover it up When you hide, I'll cover it up When you cry, I'll cover it up When you come undone, I'll cover it up They got it, they want it, they give it away They got it, they want it, they give it away They got it, they want it, they give it away They got it, they want it, they give it away They got it, they want it, they give it away (When you lie, I'll cover it up) They got it, they want it, they give it away (When you hide, I'll cover it up) They got it, they want it, they give it away (When you cry, I'll cover it up) They got it, they want it, they give it away (When you come undone, I'll cover it up)
Got my heart broken on jan 22nd 2022,she left me and now I'm just broken. Things doesn't feel the same anymore i just... Don't know what to do at this point..
@@TakeTheJurny thank you, its just i did everything i can to reach out to her and well basic love stuff i guess but she never had time with me she always put her time with her friends and treats me badly she use to be so nice and caring but it slowly shifted to a darker tone the more friends she has.. and slowly i broke down several days later she broke up with me and she met someone new and she dated that person and im here all alone.. i wanna die but i chose not too since whats the point of taking ur own life for a girl that never loves u back....
I wish she knew how I felt about her and how she's the prettiest girl I've ever seen Edit: she found out I liked her but I lost feelings, chance was 0 anyways..
im currently 15 and well, was in a relationship with a 14 year old girl, cause of some misunderstanding she lost trust me and now we are barely friends, i really am trying to make her love me again, her texts saying "i love you my prince" etc etc. whenever i look at old chats tears come running down my eyes. Im trying as hard as i can to get her to love and trust me again.... wish me luck please and pray for me too
similar age and situation, a person i love knows i love them but doesn't feel the same way, i helped them find someone that they love and now i help her with how she feels but literally like in the song she will never be mine i guess.
