MICHAEL JAI WHITE CONFESSES Why His Past RELATIONSHIPS FAILED | GILLIAN WHITE 

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What I learned from this interview is, their relationship works because they are equally yoked. They seem to truly understand each other. May God bless them always!

“I love being wrong because I learn something new.. we don’t have egos and aren’t afraid to take accountability so we never argue.” The thing is, it’s not just that they get along so well, it’s that they gained the relationship skills and emotional intelligence to have such an easy and beautiful relationship. They’re mature. Inspiring ✨ “Don’t be surprised when someone can’t really love you, because you’ve put up a facade and haven’t shown your true self or opened your heart.” Your Authenticity will reveal your true match.

Can we say that Michael Jai White became more attractive during this interview. He stayed quiet when Gillian speaks; never cutting her off and She gave him the same respect. What a beautiful couple. May The Heavenly Father continues to Bless you both!

This couple is a testament that true love isn't complicated. Two people deciding to commit to one another and compromise for a life together. With God all things are possible. I think marriages work if you have God as the foundation and the two are friends. Chemistry and compatibility is everything. When you find that better half, go to God and inquire Him about if the relationship aligns with His will for you. He will answer you in one way or another. If it's His will, don't fumble it. Both people have to be on one accord about commitment and being faithful to their marriage. Great show.

I tell u im soooo proud to be here witnessing Black L❤ve 🎉🎉

This is one of the rare couples who seem to be just alike; the male and female versions of each other, rather than the usual opposites attract

We need these conversations in life. This gives me hope. We as people make relationships hard and I honestly believe it's either past trauma( moving on without healing) and or just want to be superior over the other person and not having God as the foundation and sole source for our lives. We need to genuinely love each other and support one another. Let's band the ratchet TV and keep platforms such as this alive! I look so forward to listening to HI. Very refreshing! Thank you guys for sharing your beautiful story!

This is hands down the best interview ever. If ever two people belonged together it's these two people.

I discern that their "secret" is that they genuinely WANT each other and sincerely CHOSE one another, so with that foundation...there is always a solution to anything that comes up. They both know that at the end of the day, they are going to be where they are, and that's with each other.

They sound very humble with each other, and they give each the space to be themselves. She doesn't belittle him. She honors and respects him. He is peaceful and creates a space for her to be feminine and vulnerable. She allows him his God-given role as being the man of his household. He doesn't abuse his power in that role. I love this!!

TRUE BLACK LOVE ❤️ is inspiring & infectious I tip my hat 🎩 to both you guys for sharing a positive & inspiring message . GOD BLESS BLACK LOVE ❤️

Respect is what they have for each other!

My husband sews better than me too Gillian. Hes even made curtains for a van we had at one time. I love it that a man has those qualities and is still a mans man.

Great interview! It sounds like these 2 finally reached a level of maturity & life experience that eased them back into this relationship that always was. If we can help young people to get it earlier in life, instead of buying into the “sow your wild oats” mindset.

Yes this is how me and my future husband are right now 😍😍 organic and authentic. I'm glad they came and spoke in authenticity and being yourself

Thank you for showcasing black love. Much needed for the community.

Having an emotional intelligent man is key

WHEN IT'S ORGANIC YOU KNO IT'S REAL. 💯💯💯

I like this couple!! Mine will be like this- best friends, it will be effortless; no hard work. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

I pray God continued blessings on their union. They are beautifully fit.

What they are describing is peace within a marriage! This happens when both are emotionally mature & you are actually friends. It’s easy loving & wanting to hang out with a good friend.

I've only watched this show when Dr Bobby Price was on, but this interview was very powerful and engaging. Just the authenticity and truth they were speaking resignated with me. Thanks for this awesome interview!

Michael Jai has matured. He had great women and almost missed Gillian. It took 28 years. I found this interview informative. They are protective of their love and I understand it. I'm going to watch it again. I think they were a guarded and respectful of other relationships.

The most authentic relationship I've heard and you can see the effortless flow between them. Black excellence!

Thank you for this beautiful segment 😊

Thanks, HI, for spreading hope! Congrats to the Whites on finding friendship, love, and marriage that works for them❣🎉👏🏽🙌🏽 It's nice to see an out-of- the-box authentic couple that tells a different story and doesn't answer questions with Bible verses.

I'm truly a fan of these two... like I adore a woman who NOT perfect, but authentic, even goofy if that's the real her...💥👊🏿💥

What I noticed with my two boys their wives are their best friends.

He is an example of man in his early years that didnt understand the dynamics of having a great woman and nurturing that relationship. How many people in the 40 or 50s can look back to their 20s and 30's say, my thought process was wrong about relationships. Thats why i dont pay too much attention to these young minded content creators that talk about what they wouldn't do in a relationship. You dont know what you will do until you find the right person, and they find you.

Spawn will always be one of my favorites starring him. Can’t wait to catch these gems from these two! Thanks team

Awesome episode guys, I wanted more of them.

OMG what a conversatiom!!❤❤❤😂 Thank you sooo much

I love the way Michael & Gillian look out for each other. Ego is a detriment to marriage. We know we should work together, but for some reason one of both couples sabotage each other. Great interview! Best wishes to you both!

This podcast actually made me believe in finding my person. Cause like her I gave up on men. Watching from Suriname South Ameica love you guys♏️🙏🦋💜

This was a great podcast loved it

Hey hey thank you for this platform

Very profoundly deep, genuine discussion by guest..❤

This was soooo good!!!!!

See better together after growth is operating in your capacity 🎉🎉🎉🎉

Nice to see beautiful positive videos for a change😊🇵🇦

Love it! Enjoy one another.

I love this interview....!!! 😀

I can so relate to them. I feel like lately too many view relationships as a duty with oles to e filled, instead of finding the one you love AND like. That is the game changer. When you're with that person, things are a lot easier.

This is too perfect. Almost pie 🥧 in the sky.

You didn’t listen correctly….and that’s why you should’ve kept listening. His FIRST WIFE PROPOSED TO HIM. NOT ME. That’s how gossip, rumors and miscommunication starts when you don’t fully listen but then chose to make judgement.

I love this perspective...just decide and do. Why place all of the other drama unnecessarily! Pray and look for Peace!

I get their relationship it’s a genuine real relationship

Great Brutally honest Interview

I love how real and authentic they are!

Great guests❤

The subconscious is soooooo powerful. It was scientifically/spiritually beautiful to watch this couple. I'm glad that they have reached an agreement to finish this life together.

Women have to realize and understand, a woman inside of a relationship is not better than a single woman. It’s just that, her partner came around who was perfect for her. If you are a woman who maintains high morale . Who encourages herself to be thy best self, and there is a mate for you. He will come looking for you! So, always be you! Compare yourselves to NO ONE. You are good enough. Always have been, always will be…❤️

He got married and committed when he was ready …. Period. And he finds the woman he wants

You gotta get advice from the right source. The real ones are there... the crap is just talking louder. What you listen to does influence your decisions. The love and understanding of your good Black Woman/Man is worth it. Hang in there. Yes. I'm married... yes -I confess and know this kind of love is real. Thank you to the White's and thank you H.I. for bringing this to the light to be a tool for the many wounded heart... to begin to believe in Black Love and Black Women/Men again. 🦋

He’s my favorite actor! This motivated me to find my wife in this gender war era!

I like the old skool dating

Just subscribed!!🎉

We do have repercussions. We never fully heal from the hearts we broke. Especially to the women that were good to us. A place in our hearts hurt forever.

Love this couple! So much wisdom when he spoke on the paradigms we were conditioned to believe. They are beautiful!❤

Ppl complaining and they are happy & married, and the unmarried talking stuff… lol

Beautifully Blessed Favored Couple !! Love This Kinda Love.❤

I am so Thankful to see and hear this!!! I BELIEVE this!!! I want this! ..and to be a witness of this True Black Love is a Blessing! They are truly a Beautifully Blessed Black Couple in more ways than one! I will not give in or up .....and I will continue to pray and be Patient! I know that True Love exists!! Thank you so much to you young men and my New Favorite Couple...The Whites❤

Wow! Amazing married couple! I enjoyed their love story! Its so sad though. When a good couple meet, and decide to go their separate ways. When people waste so many precious years in between, and know that they are the special someone for the other. However, its never too late! When love brings them back together! When the two people have the love, chemistry, and know they are meant to be together! Loved, how he spoke so good about her. That no past woman, memory, can compare to what they have with each other! Loved, how she said, he fell in love with her, just being herself! Good jems, they both shared! Thanks guys! For sharing them with us! ❤😊

This is deep 🏁💯

They keeping it real

This was beautiful. His willingness to understand her and his attentiveness is highly respected. The not interrupting is what caught my attention. It's the little thing. Never had that in a relationship which made me feel like my opinion or feelings didn't matter.

The best couple with truth yet who are real and love each other

I LOVE Michael watch his every DJVlad interview. The this couple. This is beautiful!!

That’s it best friends

thank you michael and gillian for a blessed example of a good marriage

I'm hopeful. Fighting to finish by faith. ❤

Wishing them the best!🩷 Beautiful couple.

I’m mad that he let her get away 28 yrs ago but omg this couple is beautiful together! Definitely the work of God! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

That’s it settling

Yes love this

You two should make a movie and write a few books. I also would like to see you both on an Expendable movie.

They are a beautiful couple. She is stunning

If the two are willing to put in the necessary work early in the marriage, marriage will become easier

You are speaking good

😊, true love is found the love of God; the love that the world reveals is false love and misleading . Learning from your mistakes from your past experience helps to create a healthy relationship

I'm happy I'm glad they found a love they can boast on. They are a beautiful couple. I even believe they were made for each other. Both have answered questions off Target and round about.... You can also see how his experiences were so negative that it keeps shining through the interview; because you do not have to beat down other women to build up one....

Salute to this married couple 🎉

Yesss bee yourself

55:00🔥🔥🔥

Happy for them 😢😢

I’m currently dating someone it’s like we know also

This is the healthy marriages that I prescribe to ❤ No alpha male this, feminine woman that, just two love birds doing life together

My question is when u know why do we wait to be together

Love is a beautiful thing

He sews 🧵 lol 😆 love this episode

My husband and I arebest friends so I understand when they say they do not argue because we do not either.

God bless them 🙏🏾

Michael keeps it real

THIS!

Marriage can be hard at times depending on what season you are in 🙏🏾but with God you can work out everything ❤

I really like this couple. They don't subscribe to traditional norms. God bless

How long have they been married

Some settle!!! Some of us Definitely Do Not!!!!!! 🎉

Hey family ❤