SYLEENA JOHNSON talks about why her FIRST MARRIAGE FAILED 

Bingo!

Yes that’s the solution

First time watching was about to watch a movie saw the topic and decided to watch. This Young Lady is so full of wisdom. Every young women and men should watch this. This person you marry on your wedding day will absolutely change in 5 yrs, the body changes as well. The role each person plays. Folks don't understand this and that is why we have so much divorce. Folks don't understands the Assignment/ what is a marriage! Great conversation love this Lady.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Yes they are and also not folding on those boundaries either! There has to be consequences for violating boundaries or else THEY WON'T BELIEVE U MEAN IT! I heard it straight from the horse's mouth 😒

I filed my first divorce, and I about to do it again

Most men are also just too lazy to file and/or they will just have a side family instead🤷🏾‍♀️

100..... Men will know It's toxic and rather cheat than leave.. Or stay but never leave

Or counter-file like b a n’s bc their ego is hurt; but they know that did ALOT and deserve it

@@faithsrealtalk2292 Because they don't want to be alone and be the maid, mule, mattress that some of their wives allowed themselves to become.

Best wishes to you. Thankfully you have a lot of common sense. One thing is to find a like minded person. A Muslim and a Christian can not agree its ridiculous.

So glad you overcame that relationship

@@shetriumphs365 Thanks 👍🙏

Men can't stand to be alone and they use women as free labor... that's why they jump back out there. Women are the opposite. They love their peace and they don't want to serve another man.

Thanks. Same to you

It's great that you know your wants for your life. However do understand that life commands change. We change all the time, it's called growing. At 30 you will most likely not want what you wanted at 20!!.

It was so bad that you made it your tag name 😩

@@iampricelessword😂

What was the final breaking point?

@@iampricelessword Yep . I feel sorry for any woman that meets him now .. Jeez

@@iampricelessword it’s a good tag name, yeah? 🤣

Don't make him run with insecurities. Lead with confidence knowing that you want a good person in your life. The first date should Include a couple of serious questions, however not interrogating questions. Of course find out if he has kids and if he has a job.

WOW!!!!! YOU'VE SPOKEN THE TRUTH, THE WHOLE TRUTH, AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH.......... (I AGREE WITH YOU 100%)

Understand that like minded people will agree. Different religions brings forth constant disagreements.

Be wise!!!!!

I think others did too. Maybe her way of communicating resonates more with you than the others.

Say it again. Respectfully she was confusing words and concepts. Thank you for the clarity. Also she mentioned that those that are in two different religions can get along that is false. If one puts up a Jesus portrait and the other is Muslim one will be offended.

Was her experience that he was a great man? Why should people lie about their experiences to make other people comfortable?

I understand where you’re coming from. What if her story is false? Remember, there are two sides to every story. We never hear the male side. I’m pretty sure if we heard the male side, it would be totally different. I would prefer both parties on the show to hear what really happened. If it’s up to the ladies, it seems like the fellas did them wrong.

She did state that her other ex was a good guy, they just werent compatible. Typically, relationships that go well, where women are being treated right by great men, don't end. Usually a woman will share or even brag about having been in that kind of relationship because great men are rare and hard to find.

Know your limit!. Set boundaries.

Sadly. Ppl lie. I have seen alot of ppl say they don't believe in divorce before hand. And years later they divorced

@@jalisazari9387 I get that your statement may be the case for a small percentage. The majority of these situations (especially when guests discuss "hindsight") come across glaringly obvious and avoidable. The majority of relationships would be deemed unsuitable for marriage if we looked at some very practical factors: a person's faith and their discipline and adherence to it in all areas of their life (their ability to follow through and commit to their convictions), the family structure/environment they come from and what it perpetuates (if it was horrid...what active steps they've taken to get around healthier models), the kind of friendships they maintain, what they expressly state they want and how well their actions align with that and stay consistent over the course of the courtship. There are no guarantees in life, but a lot of the stuff I've heard wouldn't pass a basic patterns review--respectfully.