@casey if you are in front of me now, I would have kissed you. Man you are spot on again and again with women’s nature. Whatever I learned about girls all these years, you are exactly putting it on paper now through this channel. Man you are a gem! I am indian living in Tokyo. If you have chance to come to Tokyo, let’s catch up
Hey Mate. Serious question. Does your course (or one you can recommend) cover how to break up with a girl without them crying or getting overly emotional or getting hurt? Or even better have them break up with you? I’ve tried implementing the opposite of your strategy but unfortunately that just makes them think I want to get serious and makes the situation worse. Would pay for that advice if it worked. Legend. Cheers man.
Remember she doesn’t care much about being loved, she cares more about loving someone else who satisfies her hypergamy on multiple levels and provides.
They’ll still leave thinking the man she loves is supposed to show the same type of love but she doesn’t know that’ll turn her off. They don’t know better
The "rich" guy in North Dakota is just an average guy in New York City or Dubai, and in today's global world, the real hotties have options way outside of where they grew up.
See, this is why I like CZ's material because he is teaching masculinity as the core principle while emphasizing attracting women as the byproduct... not as the primary objective. Well done brother.
As a ripped guy I always get questions and compliments from other straight guys! I’ve said this many times girls don’t care about your muscles, and this is coming from someone who lives to workout. Guys will give you props for it because they know the sacrifice. Women respond to money and social status ques, because they are seeking financial security and a guy they can push around, they get uncomfortable if you’re better looking than them. That said being fit is an awesome feeling and I would highly recommend it, just know that women don’t respect it or care about it. Work on you fellas
Thats not true women dont care about money more than men, women care about having a powerful mindset man that secures their scattered anxious brains. And when i say powerful i mean who is not afraid to be fun, outgoing, teaches her when she is doing something wrong, and guiding her fearlessly. And it happens to be that this personality is usually succesful financially. But even if he wasnt she would take care of him financially if she had money just to keep him.
I disagree. I think there's other unattractive behaviors you are committing if you are in shape and women are not responding. In my experience, I've had women I didn't even know try and rip my shirt off me out in public. Be attractive, and don't be unattractive. Being in shape makes them act different. The dad bod is a complete myth.
Casey Zander's dating advice delivers results, but its emphasis on projecting a masculine persona you don't authentically embody isn't sustainable. Authenticity is key in relationships-you can't hide who you truly are. Genuine masculinity requires consistent effort and self-improvement. Following Zander's advice without this foundation is like relying on steroids: you might see short-term gains, but at a cost
@k4rz4hn1 true never been though lol, im sure gyals in other countries have a different mindset and all that...not south america though, they love the dinero haha...but on the real..im not saying if we do have nice tings, we use that to gloat, and sell ourself..but we should stand our ground and call these meady tings out, respectfully, but thats just my opinion. It would also show like if these tings are about the grind and wanna build with us vs. us just providing for everything
Facts, I’m definitely the dad bod at the gym yet some women don’t look at the well build guys.. it goes to show, women don’t ever want to be lesser than the man, she wants to be the beautiful one.
This guy is so wise with this stuff. Thoughts that I begin to have and then fail to describe even to myself, he’s able to elaborate and articulate it so clearly. Thanks man this is gold.
"You gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women" - Scarface, 1983 some things never change
You hit it on the head about the physique I notice shirtless photos or when I walk around shirtless, crickets But when I wear a shirt that’s nice but you can tell I have muscles underneath, like a nice fitted shirt, not a shmedium They shoot their shot at me or at least give the choosing signals
It's about context. Being shirtless outside the gas station is sperg behavior. Being shirtless on your boat or on the beach is normal. They care about physique. They just want to naturally discover it.
This is totally wrong I have a good physique and I get crazy matches on dating apps cuz of body and the women on purpose pretend they don’t like those pics by liking other pics they r low key like that
He's right. You should stop that because eventually you'll get the great epiphany: LET ME FOCUS ON MY MONEY AND HEALTH AND INCREASE YOUR LIFE AND LIFESTYLE AS YOU GET BETTER. QUIT WORRYING ABOUT WOMEN. GET. LE. BAG. 🗣️🗣️🗣️
Crazy how this information that Casey is showcasing and explaining to y’all he posted a video like this 9 months ago with these same points. It’s all connected. He is great at this guys. He is the truth. Great content man. Eye opening information daily. The definition of consistency.
@@anonymissed3611 nah bro, it’s was a different topic on the video 9 months ago but some of the information on the board right now is connected to it. The moral of the story is that all of these things that Casey in teaching us is all connected and rooted in helping us to become better. If you miss out on certain concepts you never knew in the past it will be back in your eyes in a different conext it just takes a matter of interpretation on your end so that you can learn and apply to your life.
Truth. I would chec myself in the mirror to see if my 6 pack was becoming more visible, my ex would be on the bed and sigh roll her eyes. She did not like knowing the process or progress. Solve this issue by not letting them move in.
@@bekabeka71 Zero benefit to a man to expose half his wealth to a woman who will likely file for divorce. Since women NEVER marry a man with less wealth, the man is the one taking all the financial risk. Just date till you die. Women are a terrible investment.
@@nictibbetts he talks about evolutionary stuff that is supposed to be common sense, the only thing that's missing in this man-space is spirituality focus
I say a forgotten tip wrt dating is to never ever show negative emotions like anger, depression, hatred, etc.. Women are empaths by nature, so if you feel negative, she will feel negative as well, which in turns means she will want to get away from you.
I would argue that posing to show off your body is the exact opposite of being insecure. You have to have high self esteem and pride to do that. I know when I was fat I didn't want any pics of my body
So why is it at the gym when I’m checking myself out and admiring my facial symmetry/beauty and muscle pumps, why does it drive the women crazy specially the “hot” girls at the gym they start walking past me and working out in my area to get my attention? I completely ignore them and admire myself more than them, they love it 😍
@@lokidarkbeard2647 Facts unless you're a Chad Tyrone or Chadrone. Better to chase the bag and focus on yourself, and if Possible grab your Passport and go overseas or go MGTOW.
Who cares about losing her if you have to live by all thase rules. Alot of people are doing each other wrong thase days . . When a girl likes you . Really none of this crap matters .
No you dont have to, its not compilcated, you are just afraid of women and thats normal in this day and age, but its not really normal. Just be outgoing and fearless and once you do that a couple of times you will realize that the power is in your hands, they WILL respond to that and once you see that you will get what im saying. You will not have to work on anything other than being completely YOU. You will not worry abt your body, money, if you are this or that. You will just be more of you. And its magical. Remember this: YOU DONT NEED THEIR LOVE, You just need to realize that all the power to effect them or anyone else even other men, is in YOUR HANDS. Most men focus on being attractive to girls, but in reality you got to dominate and realize your social power and dominance with other men. And from there women will fall in your lap without even trying. Dont be afraid to attack other men with fun, things to do, stories, etc.. Remember you are compeing with MEN, so go out and BE, and have fun with MEN. If you focus on girls you will live a blind incomplete challenging life.
Yip you need to know how to make the first contact. Is she tired, happy, drunk etc. The best way is if she has noticed you when you smile at her, in a club or bar. Always end a conversation with "talk later" they then get put in their place and have to wait.
Casey I get what you’re saying bro with the appearance thing but you can’t tell me you don’t focus on that. You’re tan as hell, jacked, always in new clothes. If you wanna be that next level you have to have not only your mental game dialed but physical appearance must be locked tf in too. Basic nature women look for the strongest most desirable, healthy looking male
A woman is more attracted to the energy you exude and project as a man individually than anything else...... She will love you and not necessarily know why.
"Just act like you don't care", but make sure you have 5 different flavors of ice cream. Gimme a break. Casey has excess nervous energy and overthinking things, giving out simping advice. Get one flavor of ice cream at your home, YOUR favorite flavor, and that's it. If she doesn't like it too bad. Guys, just find richness in your own lives so that vvomen always come 3rd for 4th in your life. Make your life matter much more than them. That's all.
Casey really likes contacting himself.In previous videos he says that if status was really all that,then Brad Pitt,Michael B.J. or Johnny depp wouldn't hv been left.Since those things do nothing to make a woman feel emotions.
8:39 LOLOLOL... love it! I totally destroyed your previous video with your "clown suit" showing what STATUS would do vs you in that scenario. Don't know if you saw it, doesn't matter, as long as you not teaching that clown suit madness and teach status, that is what keeps hypergamy satisfied. Status also impacts your SMV, but if over time she is not seeing it, she will start to doubt your status because your SMV is low.
The solution isn't to stop caring and let them destroy the world. The solution is to make the women who enforce not caring have a 3rd world quality of life ASAP. Yes, the simps have been doing the opposite, but we can also never hire or work with simps. We can do a lot to make simp behavior difficult for close friends and family. That's it; this fall is gonna happen regardless, but there's no reason to work with the devil to get pleasure & status.
@10m The idea that we need to cater to how they perceive who is better for the future is totally inverted. They have no clue and no ability to see cause and effect. These are just bandaids that weaken men so they can cope for 1 or 2 more years in relationships with western women. Either find one who submits or do not, but all of these tricks are really you submitting A LOT of attention (and other things) to them. Inverted.
Good stuff. Need a video of how hypergamy and these attitudes change in different women and ages and how to understand it. Men have a base nature also but we can still control it. Obviously, not all women are equal on the bitch/loving scale either.
Haha a guy showing expensive cars, houses and boats on dating apps. That would not work in Northern Europe, that is for sure. Women would think "what a cheesy guy, trying to show off how much money he has."
Casey Zander going soft! Five different coffee creamers? Listen to yourself, Mr. Coffee pleezer! This is so far from your ideals of just a year or two ago. Aren't you the one who taught us to think along the lines of, "Coffee? Who do I look like to you, Mr. Coffee? Honey, why don't you go down to the Starbucks on the corner and get yourself a cup, and bring me back a double Espresso no sugar!
Man this cornball caveman doesn't work. Sorry but "real men" drink coffee with cream too lol. I promise women are far more satisfied if you you can share small things like coffee, adult drinks, or food choices with them. It's automatically something that the two of you relate on.
That not competing for beauty is interesting to me. I have style, I walk like I think I'm the shit. And I'll often times allow my hair to be completely fucked and not care. Don't care that the girls think I'm something. That display made lots of women almost obsessed with the image of me. Because to them that's confidence. They reflected a stronger version of themselves into me over that display. Done none of that on purpose. More of a result of living my monkish type of life.
And never put your looks down in front of the women. Even if you are butt ugly. Don't tell them about your physical insecurities. Don't tell them that you don't like your big nose. That will turn them off fast even if it's true. You will come across weak and unmanly, feminine. I have made that mistake. If you are ugly you still don't need to tell them you think that.
Casey, what about posting physiques while you do something ( play a sport, etc.)? Women subconsciously look for the best and strongest mate, that’s 101 nature. Additionally, what if you’re trying to influence others not just impress girls Where’d you get the shirt too bro that s#it 🔥
Guys, she pulled away after disrespecting me. I ghosted her. Two weeks after she sends a reel on IG which I completely ignored. She ghosted then. It's been 2 weeks. She is expecting me to pursue her, and I am expecting her to reach out to meet & set a boundary about disrespect. We FWB tho. What your thoughts are?
Here Casey goes again suggesting we "lead with our wallets." That's good for one evening. Then what? Look at the expectation you're setting. Now, in the future, when you DON'T buy 5 flavors of whatever, then what?
Nothing works, you can be loyal have money,looks they will always find something to complain about lol 😆 just do you and be happy within and have a peace of mind
You are not competing with her looks, but with the looks of other men. Women lie that the appearance of men is not so important to them if we are talking about real desire. Nothing can compete with it when a woman starts drooling because of the appearance of a man. In real life, she will test a man who is physically attractive to her, but she will always find an excuse for him why he fail the test. Let's not kid ourselves.
Yeah, women usually select men who they think can dominate then (typically the Chad types), but if Chad stutters, can’t hold eye contact, over compliments her, feminine body language, she’s going to take a mental note of all of that and will lose attraction. Worse case she’ll find another Chad, which women stupidly think they’re an abundance of
Being pregnant is very hard for woman, she can be fearfull, and child needs peace to develop properly, so just take care of you girlfriend and child, not "your frame" at this moment of life. You will need strong frame latrer when rising your child.
Omg you r so ghey....😂😂😂 "Guys can you please teach me how to act and what to say and what not to say so I'm an alpha to girls? Should I use chatgpt to teach me words to use?" Hahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
