Why are 66% of young men single 

Wish I had realised this earlier

Literally what I’m doing 😂

Yes exactly leave the Hellhole.

The New American dream is stay single, try not to starve, pray for escape. Like a prison sentence, hopefully when you can get out there's somewhere to escape to.

Yep. Western women are unmarriageable.

It has. But no one wants to admit it because of the entertainment factor. They have become addicted.

Not unpopular, just not allowed to say

That's a fact My dude, social media screw up girl's and indirectly family and society.

True. And the only good thing about this glaring fact is that the vast majority of these modern women - especially in the under-30 set - is that they are too stupid to notice this trait in themselves or to realize just how obvious it is to everyone else. They are overt narcissists rather than covert. Even when they speak and act in a covert manner they fail to realize just how obvious their character is - and that the guys who play along with it are only doing so until they've hit it and quit it. So keep doing those duck-lip poses and wearing those tight outfits and paint-by-number faces, girls. Keep telling everyone you're the prize, that you're a ten and that you're an empath. This way the objects of your desire - no matter how brief - know exactly what to expect from you and to act accordingly. 🙂

@@zeus014 preach good sir

She was the wrong one.

Thats the way to go. After I got heart and self worth destroyed I went on a 2 week vacation and had a blast. Sun, sand, sea, shopping, solitude.

correction: 1118 miles

Me but it never dated in the first place

Can you share more? Why was it the best experience?

the thing is they can let them to think and behave like that, because they know that even if they could not to find high quality man they will find someone good enough in they older age anyway. Guarantee by design. :)

depends on the women they choose. they choose the 9 and 10

@@lilpandanesegirl 55 here alder men too. All married couples end up having 3 some and do swinging too. Never ever get married. All end up divorcing.

You create feminist women

I was bullied and ignored throughout my childhood because I had Tourette’s syndrome. It made social interactions so nerve wracking and uncomfortable and as a result I developed severe social anxiety and depression that I still experience. But apparently I need to still care what people think or I’m the asshole. It’s so fucking pathetic. And it’s sad because deep down I know I’m a good person and I’m worth getting to know but apparently most people don’t give a fuck about you unless it benefits them. And if I show any sadness about my lack of dating than I’m seen as creepy and weird for even daring to want human intimacy. It’s so sad and disgusting.

Sending you love from UK prayers.

Women should steer clear of guys like you. You need to get over those issues before you can even think if getting into a relationship.

@@KFrost-fx7dt and for what reason do you believe we are such a threat to women? honest question.

@@kimb6508 psychos do psycho shit.

That’s absolutely true. My mother used to tell the problem with women today is their mothers. Their mothers tell them to marry wealthy men.

Yes, young women "want men who are already successful" therefore many of them marry or pair up with men who are 4 to 10 years older. Only 1.6 % of marriages have an age gap of 20 years or more

@@natashadickson4819 22 years age diff in my case. Men age like a fine wine. Haha

@@natashadickson4819 This just proves my point. Women that pursue older and successful men are chasing an elusive prize rather than building a strong foundation for their lives. I know a few women who were left helpless and alone after their "successful" partners abandoned them for even younger women. My ex left me for an older man who later found a younger women to replace her. After my breakup, I built myself up by going to college, finding a good job, and buying a house all by myself. Five years after she left me, my ex tried to get me back, and I happily told her no and to not contact me anymore. It all worked out in the end because I eventually found someone my age who makes even more money than I do. We are happily engaged and enjoying a simple life together.

Most important thing is to get your girl on Tubal Ligation if she wants a relationship. ENTRAPMENT pregnancy is used legally or marriage to finally trap men for decades and have destroyed 10s of millions of men's lives including in suicide after 80% divorce filings by women and more than 60% divorce rate in the West (excluding people 60 or above)

Sorry to hear that. Seriously

Hope you are well sir. Unfortunately this knowledge wasnt common in the past

I am sorry that you were burnt by your ex wife but am grateful for you and men like you sharing your stories with the rest of us.

Sad but true, blame Hollywood.

Millions of men been put thru the same and worse brother . Hope your doing better now

I'm sorry for what you went through. I hope you find happiness 🤗 you deserve it.

out of nowhere is almost every time cheating

Went through a similar situation about 3 years ago, and it still stings. Don't think that'll ever really go away, honestly, but I have at least found a positive spin on the situation, that seems like could be applicable for you as well. We had been engaged for a few months, and had a wedding date set for about 6 weeks after the breakup wound up happening. Yet, every time I look back, I find myself actually feeling happy and grateful. Not that she cheated, mind you, but that I found out and ended things before we actually got married. Would've been a whole lot messier if we had to go through the divorce process rather than just splitting. Just something to keep in mind, that has helped me cope. Keep your head up, King. You're not alone. 😊

Cheating is so terrible, hopefully you find a girl who will truly love you.

At least, you didn't marry a cheater. Could have led to divorce. 💔

25 n i feel u bro. I've been single since 2011... Had many chances but I have serious anxiety... only now I've been changing.. got 2 phone numbers this year, but no replies. And always get rejected... I feel like giving up as well. I'm 5'2 so I'm at serious disadvantage but I have $130,000 cash cuz I've been single 4 so long. And I have a goal of buying a big house....

Dude I’m 32 and I have never had a girlfriend 😢

Its over

I'm 30 and been single since birth 🙂💔

that's gonna be the reality for a lot of men and no feel good platitudes are gonna help us.

and the BIG 4x4 TRUCK/SUV... boat, nice house, HARLEY.... all bought on time so pay for the thing 3x before it is paid off... if it is every paid off. i cannot imagine the $$$$ wasted buying new.... and pay pay pay for it as it depreciates to the max and by the time it is paid off it is worth .. 1/3-1/2 of its BUY IT NEW Value... years ago.

Your are not in luck. Women want a prince charming, that is both money and status.

Then don’t be with a woman whose looks are the only important factor.

@@AliPi7 Look are everything for women, then how much benefit you can provide for her.

What about your looks? Sadly people aren't attracted to each other for no reason, something about a person has to attract them in the first place. Personality and real connection only comes after attraction

Everything is men's fault. When more men were graduating than women, it was men's fault. When more women are graduating than men, it's men's fault.

Cool. You should spend more time with men and see if that floats your boat.

Congratulations Tom keep up the good work 🎉🎉🎉. Ignore the haters 💯💯💯

Same here, i am 31 now.

They have nothing to offer but their snatch, and they throw it all over the place like it's worthless.

Yea, I also noticed that the more successful and more value I acquired as a man, the less I gave a fuck about women.

As a woman I see nothing wrong with that and want it to happen.

FBI has entered the chat, the feds always watching 👀

@@cirogarcia9951 good! then it's EXTRA good if i say FK OFF!! if they see we hate them? it makes it THAT much better. fk "the feds".

same way I see it. we have gone as far as we can go in this society. im over it.... if i get horny? ill wank it to my fantasies or some porn. i honestly do NOT fucking care

​@Weave and dice keeping black men out the home You guys will take the brunt of it.

It sounds like your "dating" prostitutes that don't put out. Stay away from money grubbing 304's.

lol you want to be a princess?

@@ilykepinkWhat a shitty response. Ur literally the type of person he’s talking about

You already know he wants to be the princess. He wants to ride in the passenger seat and get flowers on V Day 😂

@@ninagrace-lee8323 Nah, I’d just like to be treated with respect. Women nowadays are just like you 2 that replied, bitches who would make fun of someone by twisting their words and wonder why you don’t have any friends, family, or loved ones that want to e around you.

Women hate introverted men.

America and women hate introverts

@@Josh-fp2qnespecially fat women lol biggest haters

​@@Josh-fp2qnI don't I want an introvert

Am looking for a serious man white in my life

Keep looking.

It's actually 80 percent of marriages that are filed by women.

The main reason for divorce from the women's point of view, is that she is doing it all. She's earning the money, doing the cleaning, shopping, child-care, and he's watching TV. After a while she is exhausted and resentful and wonders why she married a lazy immature man? She can't respect him or love him - especially if he's into porn, gambling, cheating, etc.

@@scinformation7229 Nonsense.

Men today were brainwashed as young boys in schools to be silent and social behaviors towards other boys was punished, listining to bullshit feministic teachers was the norm.

Yeah that loneliness sucks

Men were probably always this way....men never had to be decent human beings to get a woman....oppression actually hid how incompetent and inept men really were. Oppressing women and denying women the ability to provide for themselves is the reason why most men even got a woman in the first place. Now that women can provide for themselves and are happier single and child free, it takes a lot more than oppression to get a woman.

True. Men gave allowed this to happen though. The American white male doesn't understand what power, civilization and biology truly is.

Why the fuck people try befriend me every where I go

not even her in most cases...

In what world do you live brother​@@Man.Well93

He needs to leave the country. Unless he wants used and damaged goods that’s all that’s left largely.

Your, son does not fit the bad boy image young women want only the safe back up guy after they have used up like a kleenex.

Yup. Often you'll see young women who will rather go for the overconfident "bad boy" type who does all the drugs and drinks than for the disciplined guy who is into sports. Generally speaking that is. I fall into the latter category, always been into sports, taken care of myself and am reasonably successful and stable in life. Yet I have lost some really good girls/women that I saw potential in to said guys who barely put in any effort and were just trashing themselves. Often they got money from their rich parents or leased some expensive car. After about a year of "fun" they break up with the guy since he turns out to be a POS and come running back to you. This is oddly common these days and simply makes you lose interest as you are basically seen as a resource and adventure rather than a partner in crime so to speak.

Thank u for raising a good Marine ma'am. I am in the army it's definitely changed

Best of luck to him! My husband is also a former marine.. as a woman I didn't think any man would find me desirable because I was shy and dorky (likes anime, video games comic books) I was still girly to a degree as I did enjoy dance but I was not the outgoing flamboyant type who was willing to sleep with them so I was tossed aside.. I am lucky I found my husband who shares the same morals as I have, or I'm sure I would have had to just give up on men and stay single as well.

Yeah. I used to have this friend who was a Chad and remember women would stalk him like they were groupies and he was a rockstar. Two wanted to give him a bj at the same time. They would not stop trying even when he blew them off. Multiple sexual harassment cases if the roles were reversed. Other than his looks, he was probably the least impressive or interesting person I've ever met in my life.

You are correct.

Cause they don't prioritize love and compatibility... they prioritize money and status

​@@guy8360 wrong. They prioritize genes. Genetics. Even millionaire is getting dumped

@@meinkek7896 God I hate this world, bring the asteroid

I don't trust the numbers, believe women culturally 'enhance' thire dating status. Problem when you hit 35yo and realize it was just smoke

What do you mean their own devices ?

@@blacklyfe5543 No community. It's different for some men who have all that. Like having uncles, a father, 2 grandfathers, community mentors, all to help you navigate. Some men have none of that at all. They have their dog.

Guidance? Wow, need anything else?? Get back to work MALE

@@Metaphixdude so true, I’ve noticed all the self help online dating advice is great and all but nothing like your cool older brother or uncles guidance - it’s always such good advice!

Modern occidental "children are resilient" nonsense from psychologists and other academics. Also, because "discipline and hierarchy is fascistic."

As a woman who has always been a loner I agree. Hobbies keep your mind stimulated. Same goes with volunteer work. I question what my purpose is, what makes me happy, etc. Helping others and caring for the environment has brought me so much joy. Keep at it!

Cope

@@barcaman1013 You can say its a cope because you worship woman validation but he is living his life how he sees fit.

Keep doing you. If they don’t chase you, it is their loss. You are the king.

All that matters is if you spread Your genes... Otherwise You are s looser in nature eyes... Imagine there are men who spread their genes with 500 women by sperm donation... Thats a huge win, his genes will last to the end of man kind. Man without child is looser in nature

exactly i have to get literal drunk in order to enjoy going to a restaurnant, or a festival or club. or even a show or walking downtown, so thats not sustanable

Me too, and I gave up on life. I literally work and see a friend or two during the week, other than that I exercise a bit and occasionally vacation but no women in my life - I dont even get laid, on very rare occasions.

@@FactStorm how do you look ? are you attractive

@@amandaburleson2035 That's subjective, now isn't it?

@@amandaburleson2035 the problem isn't attractiveness though. Attractiveness in itself is subjective...what you find attractive may not be the same for another person. The current dating scene today is a combination of Hypergamy and options. Women today have many choices - they can choose to date from a pool of guys aka Chads, Tyrone, etc. or the multi-millionaire sitting on his yacht on some island in Miami. What this means is, only a small group of guys (20%) end up getting all the dates - you will have someone getting 7+ dates in a week, while another guy will not get a date for years. It's not a surprise that some are giving up...the main danger though is, more and more will see this happening which in turn will have more and more men quit dating and that will have some major societal effects for the future.

You should be prepared to do 100% of the work of creating the activity. And not expect your friends to help at all in the planning. Also. Being regular helps alittle. Example. If a guy from work had a poker game every week. I would be more likely to show up. Then if he was doing it for the first and only time. And expected me to help create it. I don't wanna go camping with 5 guys who don't know anything about camping. I wanna go with 5 guys who know the best place to stay and bring all the gear. As we get older i have less time and less energy.

So true man...I feel ya. Take care my friend.

@@billted3323 That's a great point, it's almost enlightening to many.

@@FactStorm We learn as we live

"Friendship" is the idealization of an evolutionary survival mechanism, consisting in social cohesion, which stems from human beings' physical inferiority in comparison to other animals (strength in numbers vs individual brute force). Despite that, nowadays, it's pretty much useless for becoming wealthy and powerful (it if were useful, statistically, most people would be wealthy and not mediocre or, in underdeveloped countries, broke); it only works, if you have the right contacts, who must be willing to help you.

Living with your parents is fine from a financial/physical help situation. If it is mutually advantageous, that's fine.

My suggestion would be to try and Cultivate hobbies and interests, hopefully that'll give you a chance of developing friendships by joining groups

Just wondering, have you been going on dates with women who you'd say are in your league looks-wise? For example if you're overweight, are you going on dates with overweight women?

This is truly gutwrenching to read... i know thisll be me in 5 years

I’m not an expert but it sounds like you need professional help. If I was you I would seek consultation from a psychologist to solve that. Friendships are communities that you have to seek out and fit in. It can be anything: world of Warcraft, the gym, army, salsa dancing. Life is not about wailing and complaining for us men: we need to get out there and conquer the world.

I'm in same boat man it's rough out there but we gotta keep our head up

Honeslty you could try women in other countries - they have different outlook on relationships I’ve noticed - probably the longest relationship I’ve had was with one from mexico - the language barrier is rough though not gonna lie but they care about relationships and not hook ups. You could also try church too. You gotta find the pockets where they hang out though in my experience. I met her at my job! Also focusing on yourself works pretty well too and being less about getting girls, from my experience that is. Hope that helps!

I’m in the same boat as you. I’m doing all the “right things” dating gurus say and nothing changed

simple - you are not good looking, you just cant be honest with yourself

@BARBELL SAMURAI obviously if I felt I was unattractive then it would make sense, but I promise you I'm what many people consider good-looking

It doesn’t have to be sad. That’s what he’s saying. The saddest part for me is not being able to have children of my own, but being alone and financially free is awesome. Having friends (and more importantly) the ability to make friends anytime and anywhere, is dope. You can live a full life. Having no wife is eh it sucks but a lot of times we forget the ugly parts or less pleasant parts of marriage. It’s very rare that marriages are without seriously depressing rocky points. The biggest let down is not having kids. Everyone I know that has them has changed and says the same thing about it giving them purpose and becoming the best part of their lives. Tbh if I’m not in something serious by my mid 30s I’m just gonna knock up a fling so I can at least have a child lol. Or maybe I won’t. But it’s a backburner plan lmao.

I care but that's only me and I can only do so much plus my life has been a struggle to despite not deserving it

Yup. Many, many unpartnered men either drink themselves to death or commit suicide. Die all at once of die slowly, pick one. No amount of male bonding is going to fill out longing for romantic partnership. Fools errand.

Sadly true. Never found a real friend yet as all my fake friends don’t give a fuck

Did you consider that perhaps both matters ? That there is some guy who can provide but also is really good fucking guy ? Oh but girls date ass holes all the time, they're DUMB.. Well why do you care about dumb girls and envy the ass hole guy ? Don't go all melodramatic on me when these things just don't logically click.. This isn't the voice of a sound mind, in these comments people are so critical of girls but i would also raise attention to the mental sanity of some of these guys..

yep

Nah. Just that a lot of women are not heterosexuals. 🤷🏻‍♂️

​@@samthesomniatorNo, the original comment is right.

@@Meldrick-jv7sy No no. There have been studies that 86% of women are bisexual or lesbian. It is pretty fascinating. And if you hear around most women have indeed sexual experience with the same sex.

get off the apps dude . meet women by going to events or do the same activities as u

Awwww 😢

Honestly not surprised. The age at which men in our nations seem to gain an understanding of the situation and stop caring just seems to get lower and lower by the year. But this can be dangerous for societies in the long run, especially with the sudden gender imbalance on the rise. God knows what these boys will turn to as they grow up.

@@sulphurous2656 Managers

@@isidoraveronica Don't just say "awww", if you really feel sorry for him talk to the guy, get to know him, make and effo... ...oh who am I fooling.

@@Madness1299 how would I do that? Lol

Let it, we deserve it. The poor dinosaurs did nothing, it is humans being selfish, self centered & destructive towards mother earth

Women are going to suffer the most

It was fun while it lasted

Let it crumble then

human civilization isnt just the west. in fact, most of the civilizations that have lasted longer to this day aint the west. its exactly this hubris that is leading the downfall and the rest of the world is awaiting with anticipation

But if they are 6ft 4 spend 6hours in a gym all day and eat protein for the rest of the day and have no time for a girl, guess what they still fuckin get a girl 😂

No. Dude, don't buy into that internet lie. You don't have to be 6'4" or have a six-figure income or any of that other stuff that that you hear about on internet videos. There are LOTS of women who will appreciate you, love you, and treat you like a king just for who you are. That said.... date them, but don't marry them. Women are good for men. Divorce courts are bad for men.

​@@explorermike19We call this: cognitive dissonance

@@draza3083 indeed

@@explorermike19 I was talking about you my boy 💀

Lmao no.

@@_Dynamight_ They are.

@@OccidentalAryan Nah. Not me. Nor my girl friends. Nor the girls in my family. Nor my colleagues or customers.

Maybe they are dating foreigners out of the country. I know so many american women marrying outside of the US.

@@_Dynamight_even in highschool brah yes

I am 24 and for now, I am at the same state

Same man. I also feel like making a good friend is an impossible task as well, it may be because i live in Brazil and ppl here don't seem to know what a friendship means.

Same boat 28 yrs old. Stable job with benefits and pension and with a recent promotion. College educated. The two people I have been friends with for the last 10 years have always been flaky and secretive about everything. Which is why I consider them to be more like associates. I got into cooking, biking, repairing things (only with what I'm comfortable with), etc. Trying to get into kayaking this year but its either been super windy or raining (every single weekend for like the last 2 months). Haven't been on a date in 10 years. Given up on looking for a partner because of how awful society has been. And its only getting worse. There's no community events in my area. No public volunteer groups. I'm not the kind of guy to go to clubs or bars. (No clubs near me anyway). Dating apps led to no matches. Churches are not my thing either. Hell, people at my work are even flaky. They'll go out to eat in groups on the drop of a dime. Not even a single day in advance . Not even a few hours. They even brought their own lunches but choose to go out to eat instead of eating what they got in the break room. I refuse because I don't want my food to spoil. They always say they will give me an advance warning the next time but don't. I've gotten the hint. If they ask me again, I'll be mad and tell them to just stop. Done with society in general. They don't do me any favors, I won't do any for them.

It’s over

dont give up and meanwhile look at yourself what can you change about yourself for better maybe

Said the crowd who reeks of stagnancy. Why would she need to level-up if you're improving yourself?

@@maebandy bruh

@@thedoruk6324 cmon we all know it isn't just women giving up and throwing away all their pants that don't have elastic in waists after marriage. There are a lot of people who see the wedding day as the checkered flag not the sound of the starting gun of the tandem race towards goals of shared improvement. Maybe if the weddings didn't exhaust so much energy and money people wouldn't feel like they need to sit down and rest for 6 months after to recuperate. An ass at rest watching Netflix for 6months tends to stay that until someone at work starts to look like a better snack than the leftovers somebody cooked and hasn't touched since jamming them in the freezer a year ago.

@@maebandy I thought you were blaming men. Never mind.

Everything that women do is hypergamy boundaries? hypergamy no boundaries ? Hypergamy 💀💀💀⚰⚰⚰

🎯

Yep, my experience as well. Even as a man, I just ghost matches because my attention span can hold only so many. Not saying I’m a hotshot getting a ton of matches, some guys get way more and hotter. But I just think dating apps are the wrong design for human dating rituals.

Those are simps

Nope, Its all about who stands out from the crowd from a womans perspective

@@exoticspeedefy7916 I would think that would apply to everyone

A woman having resources prevents desperation, prevents her from settling for a guy she doesn't really want to be with.

based take

I make 250k, I've got a six pack, I'm a leader of men, and even I'm finding it difficult at times. If I'm having this much trouble I can only imagine how some dude who's making a median income must feel. Granted I'm a bit older at 46 but I still date women as young as 22. But it should be far easier given where I'm at in life. Something is not right with society if guys in my position top 10 percenters are having this much trouble

This is true what I have been noticing for a few years now is that women all kinds are with degenerates with face tats and gangster methheads.

I remember when I was in the dating market a couple years ago, whenever I would talk to women they would almost always give me the cold stare like I’m some weird creep, or give you the “eww” factor. I’m totally decent looking, and I wasn’t a pro in conversations but I was okay, but still the women just automatically label you as some creep before you get a chance to say anything. Or sometimes I would say something just to talk about whatever, and they would ignore me like I wasn’t there. I know if I pressed on she would probably say I was harassing her. That’s why I just gave it up and started working on myself. I do think there’s some things men need to fix about themselves, but women have this weird messed up attitude towards other males, before they even know the guy they often automatically label him as “ewww” and “creep” if he goes and talks to her. I’m not surprised guys are checking out, like who wants to be constantly dissed like that. They try to be so nice to them trying to have a nice conversations with them, taking them out on dates and buying them things, all often so the girl can just laugh at what a “weirdo” he is, and talk S about him to her friends. It’s really cruel and sad. And also for the guys that cat call women on the street or try to act all arrogant and cocky to women ruin it for everyone else.

They don’t want the majority of us bro 😂

I hope things are going better. I know it sucks

@@lebossy 3 words always go into my mind: MONEY, MONEY. MONEY

@@jimnfl7134 Since the 70's wages have been stagnate and it's made the dynamic hard for everyone. We are all out here just trying to do our best. Money can make you feel like you are not stuck on the hamster wheel of life but it sure doesn't keep you warm at night.

​@@jimnfl7134I want money, and not to attract women. I want it to buy the house and the cars I want.

None of what you described is s need to love, dear. Bc love is ONLY found in yourself. What you are doing is looking for someone to fill your void, when that's your job and yours only❤

theREALE youre horrendous mentality is the reason why our society is so broken. Your focused on self. I love OP, honestly and truly, if he was within reasonable distance i would find him amd give him a hug and whatever else he wanted. Im not gay, i actually do to women what they do to good men who dont deserve it, ie, i use my charm intellect and good looks to manipulate women into paying for LITERALLY EVERYTHING, and i use them for their holes every chance i get, and i make them drive me everywhere. Its so funny when they start to get upset and realize i played them when they thought they were playing me. They always call me evil. Its hilarious. Because they are too stupid to realize they are calling themselves evil. OP, your too good for any nasty snake s**t, and i will siphon resources from my next sugar mama in your honor. Love yourself as much as i love you.

Real men help themselves

Seek therapy/support groups to hlep with the depression youre obviously struggling with. You deserve to grow pas depression!

Go to God and pray on it and He will fix whatever is broken and needs to be fixed.

Bullshit.

​@@tappajaav it's the truth

@@jbone9900 Nope. Not in the slightest.

@@tappajaav most people are toxic to the core.

Thanks baby, you single?

True

Was marriage that bad?

​@@gendalfgray7889Lol. 😂

They are living at home with mama.

why would you say that

@@kapsi I am guessing you were never processed through the "system". In my case, after I paid the taxes (my liquidated 401K) and attorney fees there was not much left. My EX and "friend" bought a double wide (my retirement fund), I paid support and lived with a roommate in similar circumstances for 7 years. It took me 9 years to recover. Thirty-five years later I am a millionaire and I make a Country Club home by the Coast of Florida. My EX married her "friend" and they still have the doublewide. Comprende?

@@kapsi because it happens so frequently...

It seems education is important for both genders. But there should be some balance, have freedom of choice. then as experts say those long-term marriages are flourishing if both have the same values, hobbies, same lifestyle. so it's interesting that when you see a couple from the same environment or same job, for example, music field or science field. they understand each other so much that their marriage is long-term, and they share similar points of view or values. It's like the music or the topics brings them together because of empathy. They put themselves in the shoes of the other person. For example, if both love sports or hiking or traveling there is a bigger chance that they will have a long-term relationship. I agree that men are designed to be high performers. As John Gray says estrogen makes women talk about emotions more often. 10 times more noticing emotions and problems when under stress. So I guess women should do some yoga or sport to be less in stress. Testosterone suppresses the estrogen in the man´s body, to be calmer and focus more on task. Testosterone is about problem-solving. So it's true that men are usually better leaders and problem solvers. He also says women should not force their husband to think too much about their emotions. She shouldn't ask him how do you feel, but What do you think? Because if she forces him to feel emotions too much, it's against his biology. But men feel happy to make the wife happy, or create values etc. He says men shouldn't ask women What do you think, but how do you feel? because if he forces her to think rationally and logically it is against her biology, She is becoming masculine. Love and empathy and gratitude are not about logic, its energy, and vibration as Einstein would say. because man expects her to have the type of thinking and feeling as women have thanks to estrogen. He teaches couples how to communicate properly. Empathy helps put each other in their shoes. But elderly men get much more estrogen and females get more testosterone. so it seems they should do some meditation yoga and not think bout their identity so much even Dr. Joe Dispenza says the less you think about your identity such as gender nation, profession, lifestyle, language, status etc. the better you focus on your tasks.

Man: And most importantly, what was the reason for divorce?

You can't be all that and get nowhere with women.

he forget to mention 3/10 face the important part.@@elizabeetle13

@@elizabeetle13 Yes you can. Dating is complete garbage in this generation.

It's about looks, bro. If people assume that you're creepy, you're just not attractive.

​@@Churlzeven if not attractive, that's no excuse to treat people like pariahs

@@MarquosXoloVanda Women's feelings are more important than treating an ugly man with basic human respect.

​@@MarquosXoloVandathat is how women view ugly men they discriminate against them act like they are some kind of subhuman genetic failed experiment that deserves nothing but the absolute worse ive seen it second hand

I do, yeah, but you have to be well-put together

Exactly

Money + power = all the things

@@tevinmoss12 lookism also, you don’t necessarily need the wealth if you look good.

@@tevinmoss12 what happens if you already have money success looks and all those other things and the women don't magically appear? enough men are crossing the finish line only to find there is no woman waiting for them at the end. and then dropping out entirely because they've been lied to for years in the form of messages like yours. cant blame them

Yeah mental health is a big one where I live. I lot of women where I live have have a lot of trauma from growing up in hippie communes, getting sexually abused and such. There seems to be a lack of trust in men here.

Glad you made it out Stephen, proud of you.

I had last stage T- NHL Lymphoma when I was 17 (now 37). Two years chemotherapy, since then stable. I had a lot of bad times after it, so much that I often asked myself if surviving is really "winning". I am content now, living my life alone.

same boat as you bro, going to finish university at 33

@@warlord1207 I finished at 29 but I feel you man. Find strength and hang in. We're going to find our light.

@@warlord1207 still very young.

Happy for you , good on ya

that sounds like a lot, but none of this is new. When I was in college I was turned down 40 times in a row.

How different is ur life with your girlfriend than with out

She is your gf because of your money. And she won't stay...

​@@mathisnotforthefaintofheart i want to call this negative thinking but unfortunately this is just how it typically is

You are absolutely amazing. Not that you should care at all, but society marks men as potential threats or undesirable and women worthless or also undesirable to the economy if they choose to be single and childless by choice. My family was shocked and angry when I informed them that I wasn’t having kids or ever getting married at 15. Now at age 34 they still can’t believe I’m still single.

I made the decision to be single/unmarried at 18 and my family didn’t like it at the time. Now they support my decision and I have zero regrets.@@vaneilysweet920

Same tbh, you hit the nail on the head. Why be miserable married when you can enjoy the apathetic bliss of being single. Besides if i want a companion, i will just get a doberman.

Still you have to realize that friendships come and go. It's not important the friends you have, it's important your ability to make new ones.

no such thing as a unicorn.

@@JustNo8808 terrible advice. there are definitely ppl that could possibly be around till the day u die. be open minded

@@JustNo8808 shit take tbh, my homeboys have helped me through very dark times simply by being around. A good friend will last way longer than an relationship.

​@@JustNo8808Well, relationships come and go too.

Cope

You got a job? Strive for financial independence! That is true freedom and you will enjoy it. Practice stealth wealth and nobody is bothering you.

@@mathisnotforthefaintofheart nah I’m pretty convinced America will collapse completely in 10 years or less. No sense in working while the flames burn the brightest

lol you are super young

@@clauaome25 I’m about 50% through my lifespan actually

@@oocloudoo1549 but for a man his dating life truly starts at 30, maybe 35.

am 19 but is that really what u want?

u got any advice on life?

@@julespeeters45 my only advice is to live life man. I am also a military veteran who works as a refrigeration engineer. If it happens it happens but I am not forcing myself on any women or chasing. This is what works for me.

You have to lower your standards sorry.

@@MrMrsteve01 What am I supposed to do, go to the bottom of the barrel? At a certain point it isn't worth it

Acts 2: 38 take a upci girl

You are not the only one.

Level up brother. Good luck.

You could say the same about the job market. A lot of people are not negotiating or trying to understand each other's wants and needs.

Wrong. They’re getting more ignorant bc they’re too busy projecting bs ideas of who they think all women are while at the same time objectifying them and not seeing them as actual people. 😂 you can’t form an actual connection with someone you don’t even see as a person. Guys just see women as a means to an end instead of an end in itself. They also base a great amount of their own value on whether they can “get” women or not. Extremely toxic.

@@Quaberr Men are objectifying women? LOL, Women are walking around in clothes much too small for them, and revealing way too much. Then women get on social media in thongs and other provocative outfits for attention. They are constantly objectifying themselves. Also, men spend more on dating. Why? because women are selling their vaginas. Men pay for se. That is the rule. Many times we do not get sex. Men buy the diamond rings, Women initiate o0-85% of the child support and alimony. Men only get around 75% of the time with their children that women get. Men lget their wages garnished for child support, and have to pay the child support clearing house a fee AND their employer. Mom does not pay anything and she is not accountable for where the money goes. Even if she has an affair the divorce works the same way. Women initiate over 70 percent of all divorces, and it is easy to see why. The most common reason is "we grew apart." You ladies want equality some of the time, and you want traditional gender roles some of the time. You want it both ways. All you do is use men. You are really a waste of our time and money. You would not understand because you do not invest as much in relationships as men. Men approach you, they ask you, they pay for stuff, then they ask you to marry them, then they buy the ring, then you leave them and he pays you child support. NO Thanks.

Maybe some men are leaving voluntarily, but I'd argue that most are still alone involuntarily.

@@macdonald2k Involuntary? Women control sex, men control marriage? Men are the ones that initiate dating/courtship, and the proposal, etc. They are choosing to avoid relationships with women. The cost outweighs the benefits. Why are women initiating over 70% of divorces? The system rewards women for breaking the contract. It is not involuntary, trust me. Men want to spread their seed, but only when conditions are favorable. Conditions are not favorable. Read the book "Men on Strike" by Dr. Helen Smith. It explains why men are boycotting marriage.

That is all women tho. Not new all women are prostitutes in one way or another

Monkmode is a blessing when done right

You gotta be careful wifh monk mode if you go too far Into it there is no coming back it's like you enter a zen mode

@@fayelis I think it’s too late for me. I plan on practicing “semen retention” for the rest of my life.

How about this (my idea)?: "Success is not needing it."

A rich and robust man of the world here! You could've stopped at backpacking & photography, and still been miles ahead of the 'gamer boys'. I spent half my life as a semi-pro guitarist (to the degree that I once worked with one of Taylor Swift's recording engineers)... these days, I'm practicing hand-drawn animation and would like to start a podcast..... think it's getting me laid? Think again x'D Keep doing you, amigo; you aren't a meal ticket.

I don't think I'm ever gonna do better than my late dad. He was a beast. Too bad I couldn't learn crap from him. Fuck cancer

Bro same! Went through a break up as well. Realized I didn’t have a strong support group of friends. Starting going to the gym and to men’s group. Best decision of my life!

Just keep at it and you’ll find someone that’s high value as soon as they start gold digging just leave it

I agree with every single thing you said here. Women are the problem nowadays because she is only thinking about money and how to control her “man”. Women want men who are dumb enough to do all her dirty work which speaks to her insecurity. At this point, every man that I see who is in a relationship is in a relationship because his woman controls him, tells him what to do and he knows that if he doesn’t do it, there will be hell to pay back at home. It’s not worth it and women will suffer the consequences in the future. Now that men and women are equal, when the millionaire men are gone, I wonder who they will have to go out with next?

This comment was epic. Glad wise people like you still exist

Men qho do things for a woman want something in return. No nope, not going on a dinner date.

@@CordeliaWagnerWhat’s wrong with them wanting something in return? What happened to EQUALITY

This!

..and expect to be shamed and criticized by the same women who didn't want you on Bumble.

@@sephiroth1234 could careless, they don't care what we think and I don't care what they think. Let them have a battle royal for the 13 chads that they want and I will live a life of abundance abroad.

You must be white.

@@moneylineparlay105 that's the spirit. I have the same experience by the way, in Vietnam but also Japan and Indonesia. But the women here (in the West)... they don't want to have anything to do with the average guy, but will not go out of their way to shame and blame him out loud when he finds love elsewhere. It's sick and sadisitc if you think of it...

20s and anything before time is constant learning and growth it gets better in your 30s depends tbh on the person

No eye contact, On their phones

I hate that. I used to work in some big cities and would actually intentionally stay in hotels that were many blocks away from where I was working because I loved to walk the streets in the early morning and talk to people and grab coffee and breakfast and discuss things like the local sports teams...but it's just not really like that anymore. Everyone's on their phones.

@@joebriggs5781 it's pretty crazy how disconnected I feel outside. Not for a lack of trying. Almost like it's easier to form meaningless connections on social media. I hate this shit so much

It's so true I feel like I'm committing a crime just by approaching a girl in public.

Try being the one person who's not on his phone in public, I guarantee you that you will catch strangers stare at you funny.

You have no idea man

​@@jaysouthmusic8230 It's going to get crazier with that 2030 prediction of a huge population chunk of lonely single 40 year old women and the advent of AI/Robotics relationships. 40 to 80 is a long time to spend alone for these women. Are these 40 year old single women going to all try and share those few successful 40 year old men, and would these top tier men even want those worn out bitter ladies, and would the single 40 year old betas even want them when their AI virtual or robotic girl is angelic by comparison?

Meet up at the local bar? Why would you want to date an alcoholic?

Meet up at the local bar? No thank you. OF wh*res aren't my type.

It's a lot worse today, all they want is to be "tiktokers" or "streamers", be OnlyFans models, have a lot sugar daddies, I will follow your advice.

konstantinrebrov675 keep making excuses to not do work.

@@KFrost-fx7dt ??

Over 40 will be even harder

How come you think that’s so?

25 -40 is the sweet spot for men. Visually appealing, somewhat fit and energetic, more financially stabilised and mentally matured. Men at 40 start having the erectile dysfunction, beer belly and receeding hairline comes through, body pains start. Wrinkles start coming in etc. Start. The older you get the worse it gets.

It‘s all about your looks. No woman cares about how established a man is, unless they wish to fleece him. Women get piped down by lifetime felons on the daily. 😂

@@steph6109 What's the sweet spot for women. I think it ends at early 20s.After that, they are the pits.Even young girls today are mostly fat, pierced and tattoes with blue hair. Unappealing!!!

It's their loss if they don't see the awesome value in you. You deserve the very best woman.

same position as you. and the moment we find the "one" 9 times out of 10 she already got multiple bodies. can't win this shit dawg

Save money and go to an Escort. I am serious about that it will help you to get over the bitterness and you will be less woried about life.

I mean I'm sure you can find a virgin girl, you just may not be that attracted to her. So you really got to look inside to see what you want.

Dude go to a farmers market look for the girls selling soap or baking goods. Worked for me

I don't think young man being scared is necessarily a problem, I'm pretty sure this fear existed far before our time and will still do after, the thing is that young man have no incentives to face this fear. Fight the world, secure the bag so you could maybe get a mediocre wife doesn't sound like a good deal

Well Said

​@@20thcentury_toyit's even harder to "secure the bag" since we're entering a great depression

@@20thcentury_toy I think he meant scared as in resorting to seeking validation from women rather than being the lead..

@@20thcentury_toy These thoughts have been in my head for some time: Non-traditional (I get that some is outdated but blindly following progressive ideas no thx), career-focused, highly demanding while not bringing much to the table, "need to experience" (lol)... It is probably just a bigger symptom of the state of society.