@@architecture.w - Stop singling out black women. Last time I checked white women intruded the black community with their thoughts, beliefs and etc. they’ve done the same with the men.
@Capriol_Knight don't forget solipsistic, narcissistic, egomaniacal, EGOTISTICAL,hypergamous,insecure, EASILY intimidated, unsure, not confident, materialistic, and the black ones are ALL these multipled by 5...and I'm saying THIS as a Trey Songz/Tyson Beckford/Zayn level good-looking dude.💯🧔🏾♂️
Ladies. Please. Listen to me. I PROMISE you. I GUARANTEE YOU that there isn’t a single man you will ever “intimidate” by being a basic adult doing basic adult things. This woman really just said an insurance worker probably making 4 times her salary with benefits is “intimidated”’of her cutting hair… This delusion needs to stop. Annoyed, unimpressed, tired are not synonyms with intimidated.
Its the nature of the job not the income from the job. Her having daily access to only men with a more intimate job like that IS THE PROBLEM and for good reason. Do you think the amount of access and flirtation and DM's (only for business though cough cough) and personal conversations ect ect influenced her behavior towards her LTR? We both know the answer. Ill bet she thought she could do better than her little petty "insurance man" and she proved it with the conversation she had with Kevin.
@@ajpope2010 that is a trend I’m seeing with women. They knowing ly go to job sites while being in relationships vetting their man’s replacement and then pull out the “insecure” Card when a discerning man calls them on it. Trying to frame it as men trying to marginalize them. Another form of gaslighting.
In her case, it had more to do with her being around dudes all day is what she thinks he was intimidated by. She might be delusional but she’s attractive so you know those dudes are coming at her. So he was probably more insecure than intimidated.
Well I'd disagree... I bought my home cash @27, married @19, had 4 kids with my wife, finished school and had been working my career job since the age of 22. I'd say being married with 4 kids, with my wife since sophomore year of high school working a career and NOT having a mortgage... I was mature for a 27 year old.
"I'm a hair stylist, and want an expensive wedding, partnership, real estate, and an empire, but I want it on my terms, my timeline, and want everyone else to pay for it!"
I like that he is so direct and while delivering some brutal truths never loses the sense of being respectful, teaching and not about himself or his ego. He has some precious communication skills for sure.
Man has the patient of a saint, it seems he really put in a lot energy to genuinely help. Although I think his ultimate motive was to open the eyes of men. I don’t think I could take that much stress that he put himself under. Rip
@@elijahmelendez9864 Technically it’s “left behind.” East Asian societies are highly competitive. There are more people and fewer resources to go around. People are highly encouraged to marry young, work cooperatively with their spouse, spouse’s parents and their own parents. This “I’m a strong independent career woman that don’t need no man” bullshit doesn’t fly over there. People that do that, or can’t work with others get literally left behind. I’m sure you’ve seen the move Parasite?
@@thekingofthisworld2154 yea i just googled it , the term in chinese seems to have two different meanings, like i just read, which makes sense to me, " A 28 year old male who is alone , the chinese seemed to call "Diamond men" or gold something like that .i'd think we'd all have more respect for women around that age ,who said there not ever getting married because of scientific aims ,or ex cit-era , "No it doesn't interest me, instead of being nebulous about it , thats hard though as it is.
If I had a dollar for every time one of these woman said they were getting into real estate. I could quit work, and watch Kevin as a job. They say it enough to cover my bills. LOL
I told my wife before we were married - I don’t borrow money, and I won’t finance a wedding. I don’t feed and provide a bar for people I’ve never met. We got married in a small church on a Friday. Had a cheap cocktail finger food (no sit down tables, no DJ, no dancing and no alcohol). We spent half our cash budget on the dress, and the rest on every else… less than $1500 total. No horse drawn carriage, no hired car, no exotic catering. Married for 20 years
Hahaha, a d just the "f" who is having this other than rich people? $20k ring?GTFOH $100k wedding?GTFOH that's 1/2 the price of a house in a lot of places. If they break up BEFORE the wedding, will she give the ring back, or will it become a court case? Man ....
Was that ever a thing, clearly i am hanging out with the Wrong people and need to spend more time at the golf club and Badminton court and at my Villa in Tuscany. 20 grand on a ring? OOOOFFF that would HURT!
She's not ugly. She should be looking for a decent man with a JOB, an nine to five, who will treat her good. Nothing more. Her expectations are so much higher than her value it's laughable. Nothing wrong with average women getting together with average dudes. It worked for centuries, then with social media, women have delusions of grandeur to the point they will not settle for average.
She's from my home state. She's a pretty girl who's like all the other girls there. They think they deserve a guy making 150k while their only contribution is being there lol. If she said she wanted a man who makes 65k, works out, and loves her, she could be married tomorrow. However she's a barber who thinks they deserve a banker
@@Black_Elmer_Fudd To be fair, it's not just the pretty girls with those expectations. But yes, she's probably rejected at least five decent men in her life who would have been just fine for her. Problem is, they are just fine, not perfect.
The main problem is social media. If you ask these girls to name some of the popular women they look up to or follow and you will see the problem. It's girls who preach they don't have to do a thing and they have a bunch of rich guys spending it like it don't mean nothing on them, while they do as they please . Why would these women even consider an average guy or a guy on their level when in their head they feel they will hit the jackpot eventually and life will be daisies .
@@kbgibson I like to use the analogy of a great athlete thinks he'll make it in the pros, when in reality less than one percent of college level athletes will even get a sniff at the next level. You have to have a backup plan. These gals don't think they will ever have to settle, well, well not until they are stone cold out of options, and by then it's too late for most of them. By their forties, they are like average men. Invisible to the opposite sex.
@@inamsaj Not defending her but becoming a relator isn't expensive at all. I think here in FL you take like 6 weeks in classes and pay maybe 1k and get with an agency and you're good to go.
I feel sad for her...she seems a good person ... but bad informed...Life is not that easy...as a barber she probably is earning about 20k a year....she definitely need to wise up and get a man!!! Please girl...you have to lower your standard... for the man in terms of income.
I had 60 people at my wedding , it was $3000-$4000 total, and it was beautiful, I was 22 and a virgin and still happily married! I know so many women who had grandiose weddings and divorced 2-3 years later, fancy weddings are overrated !
I know it's hard to believe anything in the internet cause people make it up but I am happy for you. Happy for your choices and give credit where credits due. Your simplicity is a choice that pales comparisons in modern world where the lines are blurred. You deserve the happiness thats coming for you.
Yes my sis wedding was $3000 and she got divorced so it’s definitely better than $20,000. If I ever get married I just want a cruise wedding with my immediate family. At least I can say I went on vacation 😆.
It is overrated! My brother in law refuses to marry his fiancee, because she wants (and in her words, DESERVES) at least a $25k wedding. He had 2 kids with her, and she's still waiting for that wedding, 5 years later! She doesn't even work!
I'm starting to see this side in my wife's sister, who is 10 years younger than my wife. She often comes over and stays the night with us to go out with her friends. She sees the result of our work. She sees what we have accomplished in 10 years together. But she doesn't see when we both were right out of college and were barely making ends meet. She doesn't see when we both lived on my wife's salary because I was building up my business and working my ass off. She sees the results. The nice apartment and the nice car. No one wants to grow with each other anymore. Everyone wants easy money. I keep telling her to find a guy that has potential, that works hard, that is loyal and loving. Find someone that has goals. Not someone who has reached his goals. A man that has reached his goals and is still single is a man who won't be taking any BS. He won't accept any sassy, strong, independent woman. He will move on.
They don’t want potential thats the problem they want the results now and bring little to the table its fast food dating fast food marriage speed dating tinder hookups no one wants the real thing, im blaming feminism on this problem
Most people only see the results. Not the struggle. My wife and I slept on my dads living room for a year. Scrapped up for an apartment. Slept on the floor with no furniture. Now we own a car free and clear. No debt. Live at a home with two kids and she is a stay home wife/mom.
@@Imhere12345 They all think there are so many options so many fish in the sea but they can’t explain why they are single lmao. More options aren’t always a good thing. Give me one option worth a diamond over a million options each worth a grain of sand.
I got a lot of respect for her being grilled, embarrassed and being told the truth but taking it very well. Most people would’ve been offended and angry. Respect ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾
My husband and I were married by a notary who was a friend of my father's. The whole thing cost from beginning to end 300 dollars and I wouldn't change a thing if I had it to do all over again. We just wanted to be together and that was all that mattered. 38 years and 2 30+year old sons later, I still wouldn't change a thing😊. He is my partner in life as well as my best friend. We have had good financial years, and we have lived in poverty. But, we always worked together and got through it all. I'm a very happy woman!
@@somebody700 im 32, met my wife when we were both 15. Either of us have never been with someone else, we are all we have known. We have 2 boys. I make 52k a year as a plumber. She is a stay at home mom. If you buy into what society is selling then thats your own fault. The only opinion a man concerns himself with is his own. I still have some of the clothes i had in high-school, still wear them. I dont know how you people let what others think influence you. Men are just as bad as modern woman. Boys and girls pretending to be adults.
She/Her: "Isn't that traditional [having a wedding]?" Kevin: "You're not a traditional woman. Are you a virgin?"" She/Her: "No" Kevin: "...You women want traditional outcomes; weddings, white dresses and you're schizophrenic, non-virgins with trust issues" Solid point. What good is the facade of tradition without the structural foundation of tradition? Buying a flashy luxury car at full price with the engine missing defeats the purpose of getting a car.
That's the point. All social favor and facade without any heavy lifting of a real relationship. Female version of free lunch. They gotta look the best of female models. Without making ends meet.
She is attractive and must be getting lots of offers for 'casual' relationships by some of her hair clients. I guess she is getting pumped and dumped. She doesn't want to commit because she keeps hoping a better man comes along and saves her.
i knew men who were cleaned out, some to the tune of 7 figures, but they kept going after women until they were so broken down and low market value they couldn't even hook up with 'cat ladies''. I've known men who stayed married until a few days after retirement and the wife cleaned them out and took most of the savings and pension. I also know men who are hanging on because they know the wife will clean them out in a divorce. The only reason marriage and even hook-ups are still going on is because young men aren't being taught the truth and so many men are too damn thirsty, and politicians, & bureaucrats owe their careers to the female vote.
It’s not good that he died ofc, but most people don’t get put on to great people until it’s too late. I myself just now getting into him. RIP makes people more popular. More than ever this info is gonna get out. A change the world really needs.
Like KS said, 'a society will only rise as high as the moral position of its women.' Ego in the modern woman today is in large part destroying the nuclear family.
The fact that she starts every single answer with “uuummm” and then a long pause, I don’t know how he stayed so patient with her! Every single sentence! Uuuuuummmmmm!
My dad said the same thing after my nephew and his wife got a divorce after an expensive wedding and 8 months of marriage. "Women want weddings, not marriage." So true. 🙃
I would just do a small wedding with my congregation…you don’t have to have an expensive wedding…just like we do on the feast days…everybody bring a dish…simple…everybody comes…bam…no serious money spent…I get to celebrate my union with the people I care about…I think women deserve a chance to redeem themselves…we grew up without fathers…didn’t have value for ourselves….how can a man expect a high value woman if they not high value…some of the stuff he saying is kinda not making sense…he’s saying she shouldn’t desire to build an empire with him…instead she just supposed to work full-time…He’s not making sense…and taking care of kids and a man IS a full-time job….
@@Zeebo216 I don't believe he is saying it, the woman are. High value to them is a man who makes close to 1/2 a million dollars when they aren't even close to that money themselves nor in the physical department. The women need to be more down to earth and seek men on their level which most is the time average. I would want an average man myself, a real worker and not some pansy who flaunts his money around. 😄🌸
@@Zeebo216 ok, what women need to stop doing is comparing their value to how a man's value is ok, so what women need to do is know their own value, but to what they have done or not done, most men are looking for what is called a old traditional woman, which she will cook, clean and take care of her husband in the bedroom, in todays time and since i was a very young boy, i have not seen any woman or been with any woman that would even do one of those things ok and also i told people along time ago, women was pricing them self's out of the dating market ok and here we go, all men are now seeing women have priced them self out of the dating market ok, also keep in mind women have what is called a sexual market ok, that means as women age that sexual market will drop ok, as women have more and more sex with different men, her sexual market will drop even farther ok hehe
I told a girl that I wanted to open up my own architectural firm, she laughed and said “that’s it?” At the time I was already a designer well underway in an apprenticeship and making $80k. She was a Los Angeles 8 and an admin making 25k. I ghosted her after that date.
When women say a relationship ended mutually it’s either because he ended it after she cheated or she ended it and regrets it. She wants to “shop around” so to speak and experience more men. Her priority is HER enrichment and wants to party.
Most women are ego driven. If she says it was mutual 90% if the time the guy ended it because if she would’ve she would’ve just said it. They just wanna save their face
Notice she had to think about whether or not she had sex with someone else. But wait...she spoke about HER not cheating, rather than saying her guy didn’t cheat. She has guilt. I think she didn’t have sex, but WAS ‘cheating’, but she’s changed the definition of cheating.
She cheated and knew she'd get destroyed for it. And one of his next questions was literally "did you cheat?" He let her live because he knew there was more dirt at the surface.
@@AleksandarIvanov69 Yes, have to agree with you! But she did NOT get a dose of reality, it quite obviously went right over her head. You could see her thinking about it, but EVERY response she had was an objection, they were all in “defense of” whatever her belief was. Maybe afterwards she could watch this and catch what he was saying, grab a hold of the reality has lays out, but she sure didn’t ‘get it’ live. I haven’t seen one person who did with him. Maybe there are some videos out there that you get to see that “a-haa” moment, where the light just pops into their eyes and they GET IT, but so far I haven’t seen it. Just the arguing, defending, or not believing what he’s telling them. So sad to see. Looks like there are going to be a lot of single homeless and ANGRY women in 40+ years from now.
@@ricktaylor14001 I agree, I think she was dodging reality to the very end. How is the statement " I have a lot to offer," consistent with "I have been through a lot." Don't those two statements contradict each other? Whether you are a male or a female looking for a spouse, who wants someone with a long complex, emotional history, not attractive at all.
Most American women have never visited and compared themselves to women in other countries. As an American immigrant,, I'll tell you they do not compare. American women have grown rather accustomed to a system and media environment that supports their abject mental laziness when it comes to men. I wish them well in their search for the one.
Can I just say.....you nailed it......I swear I didn't have the balls to write this, not all but unfortunately most,coming from a different country I never seen this" there are no good men out here" mentality. Men are winning so much I am looking forward to my wedding soon but iya a damn shame.
@@CA-zr1kz the weight is the biggest difference. I travel to Europe and the Middle East a lot. When you spend time in another country and then land back at the airport in America, it's so amazing to see the difference and realize how much bigger American women are compared to other women. American women are huge LOL
This dude is straight up addicting! 🤣 As a dude it's easy to think it's all your fault because our society says so constantly. Even as a severely average guy he gives me hope.
It’s amazing. Modern women literally have zero seconds of self-reflection in their whole life. We don’t hate women but are annoyed at the disparity. As a man, we wake up everyday reflecting on why we aren’t good enough to get what we want and then work to improve ourselves. Women literally don’t have a thought in their head other than, “I’m here. Isn’t that enough? That’s what Disney told me, so where is my prince?”
It's also the same in the job market. In the same job a women with the qualifications but no experience will get the same job as a man who would need the same qualifications- but five years experience- just to be considered for an interview.
Just got out of a relationship with a woman just like this. I had to sacrifice and give up everything, and she still wanted more. All the while, she didn’t want to do anything I asked. Just being there should have been enough for me… It really wasted so much time that I really didn’t have to start with. Now, got to start over at 40, and a new career. Hope you fellas learn about what they do earlier than I did. Godspeed
that’s because they are modern feminists that explains it all wether they officially claim to be feminist or have those indoctrinations is of little distinction
It took me 40 years and two relationships to realise what Kevin is talking about. He's absolutely 100% right. Women need to start learning their own truth instead of listening to their friends and society.
They need to learn the ultimate and onlly truth, not theirs which is not objective . That truth is they have no discipline to their mouth , body or mind. Until that happens , their life is worthless..
Their friends are their competition where they live and they don’t realize it. Your friends sabotage your relationship then go for your man haha 100 % of the time
@@NoreLyne , I'm heterosexual and will always try to find the right woman for me. My mom has been in the hospital since Jan 2nd and I just buried my Aunt last Friday. All Covid-19 related. This is a challenging period. Otherwise, life is beautiful. Something we all should cherish!
A good friend of mine got married at the local City Hall with his wife. I asked him why he did not want to have a wedding ceremony. He told me he's been to two of his older sister's weddings. He witnessed genuine happiness in their expressions just a few times during the entire day. The rest of the time? They were absolutely miserable. So he and his wife opted to skip all of that nonsense, have a simple dinner banquet, and took the money intended for their ceremony for a down payment on their house. Smart.
Very grown...cuz I never understood weddings,,,so the married couple pays for other people to have a party to celebrate your communion ..nahhhhh it kinda sounds irresponsible once u really look at it
@Damian Married 5 years, dated only for about 5 months. We're living a simple, humble life. The house we're building is almost done. I'd say 4 months from now.
When a chick hesitate to tell who broke up , she most definitely did something to brake off the relationship. Their favorite trigger word is “ Mutual Agreement “ , Intimidation , and insecure . Anything to absolve any accountability. If women were Superman Accountability would be their kryptonite .
I'd actually disagree. Women tend to be quick and proud to say "I broke it off!!" when they initiated the breakup. I believe that HE actually broke it off and she's using that "mutual" BS to save face and not have to say that it was actually HIM that broke it off. Keep in mind that many of these modern women do NOT like rejection and do NOT like to be painted in a bad light.
@@FazeParticles How has Feminism helped either sex. Simply ask 100 women what Feminism is and you'll get 100 different (usually factually incorrect) responses. Thankfully the majority or women no longer identify as feminists.
So after a woman would spend the night, I got pretty good at cooking breakfast the next morning. Sort of became a tradition (of mine). The vast majority of women I dated would say things like 'I could get used to this'. The woman that stood out to me was the woman that told me my breakfast was great, but on our next date, she came over with a bag of groceries and she insisted that she was going to make ME breakfast at my house in the morning. She also had a few items that weren't needed for breakfast but she just wanted in the fridge for future meals. She actually acted excited to come in to my life and to help support what I had through cooking and doing laundry, etc. All with an excited attitude. Some women figure out that instead of expecting to get waited on hand and foot that they can show their value to the relationship and honestly it starts right away. We were engaged in just under a year. EDIT: Btw, thanks for all the likes and comments. My reason for sharing the comment wasn't to brag it was just to let those who haven't encountered it yet know what it feels like to interact with a woman that knows what she brings to the table. Most approach the relationship with a 'whats in it for me' attitude, others know how to be in a relationship and how to demonstrate how they add value to your life. It's a night and day difference.
This was almost a father to daughter conversation. Loved her attentiveness and Kevin's honesty. It takes two. Collaboration and compromise is a good start for a healthy relationship.
exactly it’s obvious she was dumped and is actually low quality because if she is high quality and dumped him 1 she wouldn’t be in that video in that context getting grilled and 2 if she dumped him she would be arrogant and say it and 3 by dodging the question its clear she got dumped
She broke it off. Doesn't want to say so, because it makes her look bad. The pause is because she is trying to figure out a lie that makes her look good. But she struggles because she is not used to being called out in real time.
If I had a dollar for every 20-35yo woman I've heard say their last relationship ended because they need to work on themselves but aren't actually doing anything I'd be living in a home with staff.
Lol we all know what "work on myself" means when they say that - carousel 🎠. The proof? Give them a year and observe what has usually changed - nothing.
Why can't people 'work on themselves ' when they are IN a relationship? I hear this all the time, but it seems to be the 'go-to' line for all sorts of antics.
@@tomMXBN I'm not working on anything, I know my value and what I bring to the table. I got the "I need to step back and work on myself". But going on two weeks I see no steps and laziness. Just this video in particular resonated with my situation.
Thank God these videos still remain. His mind and words live on. I'm just now starting to follow his content. At the age of 43, very athletic, never married, a relatively high earner with no kids, I'm able to date women in their 20s, 30s and 40s and even 50s. What I've experienced and learned over my years he's confirmed. I'm personally grateful.
This girl is a living example of the tragic consequences of feminism. It ruined womanhood. Respect to her for hanging in there and taking it though. That's a good quality that a lot of women he talks to don't share.
She's emotionally and intellectually still at 17 years of age. She has no plan, no hurry to figure what she wants or when. She is just drifting along and by the time that biological clock is loud enough, she'll be too old.
@@doubleboe7NYC it's scary to plan for the future as a woman. Like for us dudes, we can slowly get our act together. Women, they wanted to do similar. Bruh, you have different organs. You're not exactly equal... All my college school mates are hitting this age and stuck in careers they don't like with no man and a desire for kids. Women thought going to work was a real prize. We men work because we have to... Why women act like it's better than sex and drugs is beyond me. If dudes could stay home play cod take care of kids and send a woman to work we would... And some hobosexuals do.
Red flags (her words and translation): "I want to work on things mentally and emotionally before I get married" - she's mentally ill and emotionally unstable. "I've been through a lot"- a lot of men have laid pipe down through her. A lot. "The purpose of marriage is companionship and security"- she wants your money, but she's only willing to give you mostly platonic friendship in return; "I want to build an empire with the man I'm with"- she wants you to build an empire for her that she doesn't have to build herself, but then wants you to be her servant while she fulfills the role of queen; "I think I have a lot to offer" - she does not have very much to offer and she knows it; There may be more, but those were the most obvious to me.
Yep. And if she met a man equal to her she would say gross. Yet they can't see their own hypocrisy. She has so many expectations of what her man should be, yet what does she have to offer other than decent looks that will fade with time? $200k/year and a stay-at-home lifestyle for "respect" isn't going to cut it for most men in the top 5% income bracket. Most would use her and throw her to the curb.
Still watching, but, "it was mutual." - Either she walked away from a partner or he left her. Round about answer means she's either ashamed it ended or she is dodging the fact that it might be her fault.
"We were fighting a lot" - he was telling me how i hurt/embarrassed/disrespected him but i didnt care because i dont actually care about him, only what he can do for me.
See how hesitant she was when Kevin asked if she wanted to be married… … but how quick she answered “YES” when he asked if she wanted a wedding. Stay safe fellas
I would say this is a problem with the millennial generation and those that followed, which are right behind them. This also applies to the males. And therefore, the parents of these children, who are adults today, were failed by their fathers and mothers. By time the millennial generation was birthed, the fathers were already AWOL: absent without leave. So these issues are multifaceted. And there is plenty of blame to go around. By the way the root of all human problems is SIN.
We need to bring back shame with a fury. We need to have an even hand as a society and move with a measure of good faith. Both men and women are capable of evil things but we do a terrible job of doing this fairly. It's not reasonable to ask good men to participate in this madness with this dynamic.
I think it is wonderful that women want this man with high value and a fat wallet, but feel offended when that man says that he wants a young woman who has not had a questionable past and package.
It's like telling a young beautiful woman to be fine with an older broke guy. That the experience and maturity he gained from the last 15 years of constant bad decisions won't happen again, and now he'll be an asset and a good provider. It's ridiculous.
someone came out and said men want young thin virgins with little to no debt and no tattoos and so many supposed "tradditional" women were like HOW DARE YOU! JUST BC A WOMAN HAS TATTOOS DEBT is obeses AND OTHER MENS KIDS DOESNT MEAN SHES A BAD PERSON. Women sincerly do NOT see men as people. Just tools
Nope he passed from health issues after telling women about thier bodies. In a hotel room with a women he just met. Why would he have failed marriages and still be dealing with self entitled women but give everyone else relationship advise😂 This man would tell everyone what to do and not to do on camera and do the same off camera😂
I'm 21 male with 2 kids and a stay at home wife. We were both virgins before we met eachother and that wasn't for religious reasons it was just how it happened. My wife says she enjoys staying at home and cleaning for the family. I work as a forklift driver and make a normal living with a 3 bedroom house. It's still possible to live that traditional life and I would never ever waste my time with modern women. Real women do still exist dont give up!
I’ll never forget the time a chick had in her bio all these things a man needed to have (house, car, job, etc) just for me to get on a date with her and find out she didn’t even have a job her damn self. I asked for the check so damn fast to end that date man…..DELUSION
but i thought you men said, it doesn't matter if she has a job or money. It's about what the man has, did i get that right? so if she doesn't have a job she's right up your alley for your complete dominance.
I'm sure she didn't. You cannot start out this ignorant and end up emotionally healthy and aware at the end of the conversation. These women seem hopelessly dumb.
So true. The short term gives them the illusion of crazy options. It turns them into the cartoon squirrel scrambling all over not being able to focus. Not understanding that the short term miles turns them off from the guys who actually want a wife.
Women were told they mature faster, and now, it's pretty obvious they don't mature past 17 now. Many women dont grow up. Ask them about retirement, savings, exact future plans, and they are clueless.
@@Tential1 Once they realize they can use their bodies, they stop. That’s 14-15. People have been scared to mention it, but since I’ve been saying it I see more people understanding and admitting that they get down at that age.
As a woman listening to this I can respect what he is saying. Crazy part is a lot of us women are operating in delusional fairytale white picket fence thinking about relationships and marriage. Nothing he said in this video was false. We as people don’t like hard truth. We want sugarcoated bs lies. All he’s saying is be realistic with your expectations. Nothing offensive about that at all
Exactly these ppl are so brain dead they want to live a life of the rich an famous haha.. my wife met me when I didn't have shit now we have a house an a good amount of saving cuz I worked my ass off for her cuz she got with me cus of who I am as a person
Young ladies, you better get it through your thick skulls that marriage is NOT about a wedding. It’s commitment towards a common goal. Any woman dumb enough to leave a good man because he won’t give her a wedding, doesn’t deserve marriage. I got married at a courthouse with my parents/family in attendance, my husband and I bought our house 2 years later. You can have a wedding later to celebrate the years and success together.
Wow , very smart girl! You see when you really understand what being married is, you understand that it has nothing to do with a wedding, a wedding is nothing more than a ceremony to commemorate the union between two people . That ceremony means nothing if your intentions with the person isn't good, or you have no genuine love and desire to be with one another . Most women's motivation for marriage has nothing to do with why people should get married. Love and desire to create a family and leave a legacy behind! It's simply a sense of entitlement women have , they think a man's purpose is to come and marry them, even when they have no clue what being a wife is supposed to be. And if they understood what being a wife was, most wouldn't do it and the ones that do will simply go down to a court house and get it done; because it has nothing to do with a wedding dress and fan fare. It's about responsibility and a life long commitment to something you agreed too. That's why I never married any of these women, because I know to them it's something to do , nothing more than something on a check list for them. Like visiting Aruba or something . For a man it signifies a change in his life , because as a man when those things don't work out it's the men who get the short end of the stick and get their lives ruined. Lose your kids and future income and impedes your chances of success and the success of your kids. Which is the one and only true legacy anyone has. A marriage license has no feelings, its simply a legal document that gives each other rights under the government's legal system. A system that is advantageous to women.
Women won't even look at good men anymore. I get turned down because i'm 5'7". I'm a christian man who has turned down sex and am middle class. Because of my height I got laughed at by a girl who claims I'm a good man and our values match. The guy she is chasing is an atheist with money who drinks and cheated on his last girlfriend.
It's because those females fear that their job means nothing to them so they project their insecurities on men. Fact is, their job really means nothing for us. Which intimidates them to a degree that they can't phantom what men want, because of their hearing impairment, they don't know what we want even tho we tell them exactly what we want. Which is why i avoid girls like this, they think everybody is as immature as they are.
Most women ain't making no money to begin with and the ones who are they spending 95% of it and paycheck to paycheck. I be meeting chicks making 100k still broke lol.
Most men don’t want virgins ... remember y’all said you don’t want to invest without test driving. KS is so ridiculous. Men are sooo confused it’s ridiculous.
This is the unfortunate truth, a woman can never be traditional if she is not a virgin, no matter how feminine she is the fact that she's already giving herself to random men she is not married to is a modern lifestyle. Great stream 👍
Hellosunshine k not traditional, shes traditional minded, but not traditional in essence. There was a reason that was the tradition. To make it so your first husband and first body was hopefully your last. Go back 100 years and it was normal for a wife to say the only man shss ever slept with was her husband
@@duckfoutube1761 they said it, but it wasn't always true. Weather he was the first or he was the last. That old saying "the milkman always rings twice"...
There is no way i could have a conversation with this womanfor more than 3 minutes. It's dam hard just to watch this. Kevin keeps it going for 30 minutes.
She mentions her $80k inheritance at the END but never mentioned it when Kevin asked how she was going to pay for the wedding. THAT RIGHT THERE shows you the entitled thinking she has. Her goal isn't companionship at 30, it's to be wifed and knocked up and retire at 30.
Guys don't care how much money a woman has, because she's not going to share it with you anyway. Her money is her money.... and your money is her money.
@@daytona765 you can't but she has alot more than the average person. She conveniently left that part of her financial situation out until the end lol probably by accident.
I'm glad someone is finally telling the whole story. This definitely isn't just a black thing. This is a modern woman thing. All carrot no stick. All pleasure no pain.
Nothing to do with race, everything to do with countless hours of programming. From Disney princess movies to romcoms and other unmarried, miserable women telling them that this works.
She's intimidated. Kevin was an intimidating person because you didn't know if you were going to get blessed out or not. She does need a bit more time to grow. Women ARE getting married a little later than what they were 60 years ago. I see A LOT of women getting hitched in their early thirties.
Kevin is a savage and I love it! Getting people uncomfortable is healthy. I'm a Realtor for the last 8 years and if this lady wants to be a Realtor, she'll need to adapt the motto that growth comes from getting out of our comfort zone. Statistically, there are many women Realtors and statistically women have an easier time meeting new customers in real estate (lots of guys who will use women's real estate licenses as an opener to talk to them for a date). However, real estate is a full time job and is very demanding. You'll work when your clients want to work AND you'll work a regular 8 to 5 day. If you come from a standard job, you will have to learn to self-manage and control your daily activities. The industry average is 2 years or less for new Realtors before they drop out and go back to a standard job. To make 2.4M, you'd have to sell 80M of real estate at 3% commission, so 200 homes at $400,000 each. The average Realtor sells about 2-5 homes a year. That's gross commissions, so pre-tax, pre-expenses, and pre-broker splits, by the way.
Some realtors (a couple) I've worked with sold a lot more homes a year than that, but maaaan, they did it by playing the looooong game. They played it long, and they played it deep. They were always developing business, and looking to turn current business into future business. They were also always quick to adjust to circumstance. At times when very few realtors could sell homes due to market and supply issues, they were among the few. They did this so long that most of their customers were repeat customers, yet they kept generating new business every way they could. In the end they semi-retired, selling some houses here and there "for fun", mostly because they liked helping people do what they wanted to do. But even in semi-retirement, this "for fun" work was probably what most successful realtors were selling at the height of their careers.
I have a real question though. I hear a lot of men where I live in Canada complaining about feminism and a lack of traditional women. But these same men say they refuse to date a girl who doesn't earn as much money as them or isn't independent. Aren't those more feminist traits? I have very traditional Eastern European friends and the men feel ashamed if they don't earn more or can't provide. The women also depend on men to be the strong ones. Aren't men in the West just as delusional as the women?
@@marybell2002 The Men are also the problem as they demand things they shouldn't such as being employed or having a career. My issue is that if a woman is going to sleep with different men then she gave up the leverage to expect a man to be in the top 10%, as she isn't a maiden anymore. Unless a woman is raped or becomes a widow very young, she throws away her most valuable currency willfully by carelessly loving men that aren't going to marry her. Men can't expect a woman to be submissive if she is going to be a career woman, if she makes her money, she can also call the shots 50/50. Both sexes are being unreasonable. I am beginning to accept that my future wife might not be a virgin, will probably have tattoos and will miss having sex with some player she met before me, as she can compare me with other men, and might be tempted to cheat on me because of that.
@@marybell2002 No Women are more deluded due to social media. Many men are virgins and men get rejected consistently. They get in where they fit in. Then women initiate over 75% of divorces.
@@blademanx I'm not sure how old you are but facebook came out my first year of university. I noticed as soon as that happened social skills plummeted. Then there was an overabundance of free pornography, video games and dating apps. Men became weak and submissive because of technology and it left room for feminism and women to take over. Many men blame feminism for making them weak but the truth is men became weak first which is why feminism was able to become mainstream and unfortunately younger men are stuck with the mistakes the older ones made. I agree with you that social media and technology has been terrible for society.
This woman looked genuinely shook when he started asking her the real questions. She was trying to hide it behind dismissive laughs, but you can tell she's never once thought about the timeline or the logistics of her future aspirations. A lot of these modern ladies think they're Cinderella living a humble life and that they'll just be a princess one day. She is almost 30 and talks like she's 15. It's clear this woman has never had to grow up or go through any financial hardship since she hasn't seriously thought about her future.
This is commonplace. If it wasn’t for KS and Jordan Peterson a lot of us would still be in the dark. I’m a 33 yr old black man, I make about 40k/year. I just recently started goin back to school to become a nurse. I already have my AA so all the basic classes are done. I never really wanted to be a nurse but I like working with people and I enjoy learning about the human body. What I’ve learned through our friends KS and JP is that it doesn’t matter what “I always wanted to do.” I want a family and my own home. That means going back to school and starting a career. Now! Thank you 🙏🏿
I knew men who were cleaned out, some to the tune of 7 figures, but they kept going after women until they were so broken down and low market value they couldn't even hook up with cat ladies. I've known men who stayed married until a few days after retirement and the wife cleaned them out and took most of the savings and pension. I also know men who are hanging on because they know the wife will clean them out in a divorce. The only reason marriage and even hookups are still going on is because young men aren't being taught the truth and so many men are too damn thirsty, and politicians and bureaucrats owe their careers to the female vote.
not to mention, smart men know scientifically it take 2-3 year to know a person and the more financially sensible they are the least likely to give the ring (if modern women want a daddy then be up front, rather than talk about fairy things like love and trust, learn cost benefit and realize the era of beta males are going away with gen y and z). plus which smart person is gonna spend 50k in one night to save face lol......men learn female psychology and stuff settling and giving precedence to women due to codependency issues, men don't have the wall and biologically at an advantage
If that's what you call a conversation. Kevin stayed on to prove a point. A robot makes better conversation. Imagine being on date with this one. Every question she has to pause to think up a lie or something dumb to say. Man its wild out here.
@@reezyree5382 no it doesn't take guts, it takes crisis. These women don't go on his show for fun (unless they're trolling), they do because they desperately need and want help.
not even avg, she's lost points for basically getting past her prime...at 28 that's way too old and shows there has been a failure by the parents (but her mom is not in the picture as she said so who knows how that impacted the situation)
Look this shit up The average barber here in Seattle charges $40 for a fucking fade and face two heads in an hours $80 ….. just at 160 hours a month for 12 months NO WEEKENDS in a year that’s 150,000 FACTS OVER FEELINGS. stay✊🏾💪🏾
@@derektheproducer They either have to build their own which they don't and won'tas they don't even build nests. 2nd she would have to find a man who has one and be willing to put her in his empire which most men won't due to the experiences they saw from the previous generation
I was struggling to understand her demeanor and couldn't exactly understand what it is. I think you have nailed it quite well. She indeed is condescending and that was showing through her sarcastic tone and voice...
and she was definitely cappin about getting an 80k inheritance, she said she wants a 100-200k empire she'd never say that if she already had 80k in the bank.
This channel has given me so much to think about. I can’t believe it took me this long to find the “modern woman” lies we have been fed our whole life. I married at 22 and we have been married for 17 years. We have young girls and am going to ensure I teach them the importance of NOT drinking the modern woman kool-aid. Dang…this is messed up…but thank you.
You might want to look at a book called "The Anti-Mary" It is examination of the history of feminism in the U.S. It is very, very revealing about the essence of feminism. IMHO feminism is cancer (but that is just my opinion)
My old man once told me "The couple who had $5k wedding, at the end of the day, are just as married as the ones who had a $50k wedding." Weddings serve one purpose: to make select people very rich. It's why the wedding cake industry alone is a multi-billion dollar a year industry. Though it sounds like in recent years, they're starting to die off. Can't imagine why...
I do want to commend her for doing the right thing and listening. Too many people don't want a conversation these days and easily become emotional when offended.
The way she answers questions is repulsive. Trying this stupid shit with showing her nails and teeth acting like she's sexy, disgusting! Strategically answering rather than being honest and feminine. That's a future cat lady right there!
When you start seeing the demographics of the KS show changing you know he’s slowly but surely transitioning into the mainstream..I hope he never changes his tone for no one or "DEAL" and still makes it to the mainstream as his message deserves to be spread across the world.. And,the crazy thing about it is Kevin doesn’t even want all that he’s just trying to keep black folks together but I think he’s going to end up keeping us all together which is bigger than he could’ve ever imagined..God bless you KS!
It’s crazy because if Kevin was lying to these women like Steve Harvey he would be on good morning America and radio shows. It’s like he said all of these day time shows are made to keep women sleep and separated from men.
How optimistically naïve. This man and all his efforts, as good natured and good hearted as they may be, are not enough to keep this titanic from sinking
@@Bariture I agree with King. We’ll never reverse course. Women have equal rights and have proven our great grandfathers right, that they cannot handle the responsibility. That was the beginning of the end. We’re in the 4th quarter now.
No brother KS is not reversing anything. He knows that. This is his way of income. The titanic has already hit the iceberg. There is going to be no reversal for relationships in the Western world. With technology to cheat and people's ego and selfishness it is already over.
@@retiredmindset9589 Hey We can only speak in absolutes from our personal experiences and with that being said I have no complaints about my current rotation of options. I’m just tired of hearing the excuses out here Because honestly if you’re a hard-working select man you don’t have time to make excuses you’re just exercise options And of course as we all know if you don’t have a lot of options well thus the complaints.. I’ve never seen a successful man who’s actually working to become the very best version of himself Still complaining about NOT getting whatever he wants out of a woman because the only issue he has is settling down with the right most loyal one if he so chooses…😉
