so the mom is shocked that the daughter uses all the products she bought for her? i'm more shocked this woman lets her child use social media so freely. 😳
😅 Most and I do mean most parents let their children use social media freely. Most kids get phones they show aren't monitored? You just have people online lying that they watched their kids but none of them do
This makes me so gd sad. 11yr olds do NOT need the extensive, expensive skincare regimen of a 20-something influencer😭 Even those influencers don’t need all that stuff just yet…the social media obsession with anti-aging is relentless.
i didn’t even know what skincare was and didn’t use makeup until i was 15…these kids seriously need to get off social media, it’s ruining their self image
When I was 11, I hang out with my bestie and would play dolls with her. I’m glad I don’t have social media at age 17. I’m gonna get it when I turn 18 since I’m going to be adulting soon. I find social media for teens a waste of time. I’m glad I am raised right. I’m thanking my parents for that.
@@taylormarie5643 I never intended to sound better than anyone and never will. I’m just disappointed with this new generation’s parents letting these kids have a phone too early. It’s never the child’s fault. I wish there was better parenting.
@@alannanicole9026 True my sister in law would put her foot down. Her kids pretend in the mirror buying products is out of the question. She also knows what they watch because they use her extra tablet. It's hers and they know that she is the primary user if she needs it they go without.
@@megwaters252 yup! it’s really up to preference and skin type. when i was a teen i used to use WAY too many products and it ended up making things worse down the line😭
As someone who started struggling with acne at around her age, I became well aquainted with glycolic acid face wash, retinoids, and SPF from a really early age after a visit to a dermatologist. You can buy a good moisturizer at any Walgreens and the the rest at the dermatologist office. Her mom shouldn't be spending this much if her child doesn't have a skin condition. That wish list is for a +30 year old.
you started that because of acne she started that due to being a follower, thats the differece. you had a valid reason, i too had to start getting into skincare due to acne. if i didnt have acne id use the least amount of products as possible. i found out all the products i purchased did nothing to stop the breakouts and i was always finding products to solve this issue that this product caused and the next, it was endless now i get a monthly facial and i barely go into sephora. save your conins!
She is about to be a teenager and she is probably going to face acne, something that effects self esteem so much it follows people through adulthood, and GOD FORBID she is prepared on how to deal with it and care for her skin, GOD FORBID!! Mom is SUCH a failure!!!
She's so young. Can't imagine how much 'care' her skin needs at her age. It's more likely that she'll end up ruining her skin than enhancing it. Acne may come along and then her skincare needs will change. Hope she doesn't have any regrets.
She seems a tad obsessed with this at her age...reminds me of the folks that don't c like their looks and get plastic surgery and end up looking worse.....a la lil kim
I wish I could get my 11 year old skin back! Lol. She definitely doesn't need any skincare treatments but it's interesting to see what this new generation is growing up with.
Can't believe the mom spent $100 on drunk elephants lala retro and d-bronzi drops 🤦♀️ Luckily at that age all I wanted was stuff from bath & body works and claire's 😂
Oh man bath and body works is expensive. I did a secret Santa thing in my chemistry class, and my friend got me stuff from Claire’s. I have another girl bath and bodywork’s stuff
it’s normal to be interested in cosmetics and beauty products at this age, but an 11 year old does NOT need this much product on their face. their faces still have baby skin, and the more retinol and other products you add will just result in damage and acne. her skin is literally flawless, she doesn’t need that harsh of a treatment on her face. her mom needs to monitor more of what she’s doing.
I’ve known skincare since age of 12 but I did start with something simple such as cleanser, toner and sunscreen. No acid of any kind until around 18 when I got introduced to AHA and salicylic acid.
I’m 12 in 3 months and all I use is cleanser moisturizer, sunscreen and lip gloss. Most of the time I forget to do it anyway. But that doesn’t mean I don’t like toys! Lol 😊edit: if I wore makeup my mom would kill me lol.
Orrrrrr she could talk to her and explain? Instead of being a lazy parent who takes things away (like you clearly) cus it changes absolutely nothing at all💀
I’m 16 and all I use is cleanser, moisturizer, lip balm/gloss, and mascara. On special occasions i’ll use some eyeshadow, but I feel like 11 is wayyyy too young to be owning things like drunk elephant!!! I only have one of each type of product and it’s more than enough to last me more than a year. That mom needs to monitor her daughter’s internet usage!
I'm curious if the recent social media aging panic or mania that occurred a few months ago ha any impact or the culprit on this or the Sephora matter.( looking at you tiktok) Given that the younger generation is growing up in the same unfiltered internet and social media atmosphere, we frequently overlook how impressionable they may be.
My aunt used ponds up until she passed away at 87. That was her morning and night routine. She had a beautiful complexion and I always wondered if it was ponds.
At 4 I used to eat sand, at 7 I was wondering why the shadow was following me, at 11 was wiggling a pen fast enough to make it look bendy and wondering what caused it
@@lindsayluvsxoxhow? Just like our interests, this is what’s fun to them. Idk why you guys act like it’s affecting your childhood when it ended YEARS ago.
Ok, but the overall MOTIVE behind her behavior is what needs to be addressed. Masking her insecurity? Getting attention for the wrong reasons? Relying on something external for her sense of fulfillment?
@overkillblackjack2910 I agree, the insecurity and motive is concerning, and hope they can work on it and address it, but moisturizer and sunscreen should be a basic
I can understand a girl her age being into beauty products--I was at that age as well. But I was only allowed to use things that were age appropriate, such as tinted lip gloss or nice shower gels (usually from The Body Shop or Bonne Bell), and my skin care routine was pretty simple and nothing over the top for a young girl. I was allowed to wear full makeup by the time I was 12 and it was brands like Cover Girl or Maybelline, not expensive, high end brands. Of course, I was at that age when the internet was new and social media wasn't a thing yet, but even so, I would use my allowance to buy beauty products or my mom would treat me to something, and I was perfectly happy with what I got.
@@cherryxjam So sad. There were so many subversive young people in my generation. We were very distrustful of the media. So sad that youngsters have lost that rebelliousness and just seem to fall in line and parrot whatever they're told. They're gleefully brainwashed. They don't care. It's so sad to see a generation so empty and vapid.
The most important part is the sunscreen. I’ve been using quality skincare since around her age (1000 is a rip-off) and I am now past 50 and am often mistaken for 30. Learning to care for skin and clean off dirt and makeup is a good habit, but should not be a hobby. Kids that age need playtime that costs nothing and allows them to explore their talents not become victims of advertising.
Well, I *hate* putting something on my skin, especially in the face, and I only use water and a mild soap and maybe 5 times a year something when I have a feeling that my face skin is really dry. That's it. I am 50 and people still think I am in my 30s...
@@eily_b same, but I am 34, I only use water, and a cleanser when I wear makeup few times a month, I dont need any cremes because I dont feel the need and sunscreen only when Im on the beach. Telling us we need sunscreen all the time is sick. And I look like in my 18 :) My grandmother spent most of her life in the sun without any sunscreen and she had better skin than people now putting tons of chemical stuff on her skin...
Skin care like this is largely a ripoff. Unless you have an actual dermatological problem, its not needed. My 3 daughters survived quite well without and laugh at the foolishness.
too much money lol. A working adult in an average job in my 3rd world country can't even afford the skincare products the child is using. But luckily, most people here have good skin. Sometimes I think the more unnecessary products you use, the worse your skin becomes.
@@anneshirley956011 is too old to be playing with dolls. At that age me and my peers had long grown out of that habit and moved on to RU-vid and watching sports. 11 is a pre-teen, so I don't think you realize that at this age they're not that much of a little kid anymore.
@@Mandylol90I don't think that's normal. You should've grown out of that already. And you're part of a VERY small minority. I've never met anyone 18+ who still plays with dolls or at least admits it publicly.
I was using skin care products since I was a young teen, but nothing on this level. Just moisturizing every morning and night. I am now 43 and people tell me constantly I look like I'm in my mid 20s. I also don't smoke and never outside, unless I need to be. I'm more of an indoor person. Plus, Black don't Crack. ;)
ok im 14 and I get that she wants all of these skincare products, but I dont think she's even hit puberty meaning her skin would probably be flawless without all of those products like mine when I was her age (I could probably use those products now though but im not rich)
Imagine having acne that effects your self esteem throughout adulthood and then imagine understanding skin care and having great skin instead of a pizza face.
I think brands like Drunk Elephant and Glow Recipe also have that fun packaging kids like. Maybe these big brands should release products targeted at teens, there’s clearly a demand but not the right ingredients for them.
I think also a lot of influencers now edit their videos to appeal to the attention spans of a younger audience but will talk about adult things and products so it is sending confusing messages as to what these kids should be prioritizing in their lives.
When I was her age. I played with barbies and a lot of board games. And played with friends. Didn't know about skincare. And if I did, I wouldn't really care. This girl is obviously too young. Parents need to monitor her internet, her phone use, and need to take away a possible credit card she might have been using and if she's given money for chores that needs to be stopped as well.
Its that parent fault sitting up there grinning like a chess cat about it while blaming social media. Whatever happened to parents saying NO and deciding what's good for their child?
This is outrageous!!! These kids don’t need anything but simple protections from the sun!! The mom is the fool for even considering such outrageous skin care for a child lmaooo!! We live in the twilight zone frfr 😂😂😂😂
Man, no kidding. I had a long term girlfriend, that the first time she took off makeup in my presence-she had a 'permanently looking startled" look on her face. If only I had known then what I know now.
I’m 12, and to think someone that is a year younger than me is putting all this stuff on their face that they don’t even NEED. I struggle with acne and I use a simple cleanser and moisturizer.. Not a whole Sephora skin-care step (I respect the 11/12yo old that do shop at Sephora but use products wisely)
I think that it’s fine that she’s getting into skincare, but she shouldn’t be using stuff like retinol and anti aging products at this age. Personally, I think that all you need at that age is a cleanser, moisturizer, and sunscreen unless you have acne.
This is what social media has done. I’m all about good skin care but this is too much 😂. A simple routine even for adults is ok. Keeping the skin clean, hydrated and adding sunscreen is enough.
I only used skincare at the age of 12 to get rid of my acne until it was totally gone and my face was clear, it took until I was 18 years old, today I am 47 yrs old and I use a moisturizer with sunscreen
Im 12 but i use a random moisturizer, cerave cleanser, byoma sunscreen, tinted foundation (bb?), concelear and MAYBE mascara- these parents can say no 💀💀💀
i’m almost a whole decade older and yeah i do similar, face wash, sometimes moisturiser, primer then skin tints though in some cases NONE AT ALL (like my best friend + i noticed foundations, concealer and powders being too much for my skin) but i do like my eyeliner and eye makeup and that’s it really 😅
Wow, this is so incredibly sad. She doesn't need ANY of this stuff, and when she's older, her skin is likely going to suffer in the long run. Good job parenting mom. 🤦♀️
at least she’s not smoking or drinking and again, she’s not pregnant or anything else that could hurt them in the future. yes it is expensive but again better than addiction to drugs.
@@EatYourVegetables2920 for an early onset of OCD. you thought you had one huh 😂😂, that’s not a sign of something good. Sitting in a mirror all day wanting & wishing for products when you already have nice skin is not right
@@zoulinos242 OCD comes in different shades. She doesnt really seem like OCD but this is obsessive behavior that could lead to mental health problems in a few years.
Im 12 and im interested in this type of stuff but Retinol, drunk elephant etc.. at this age is crazy, i say that you can be interested but dont use it, kids dont need stuff like this unless they use it because a dermatologist reccomended it , all kids really need is cleanser and some mosturizer, if they use this their skin is gonna be worse
I think it is sad. If mom knows social media is doing this to her kid.... Why is she not doing her best to prevent that!? Be aware of the content she is consuming, talk about how the quality of a person's integrity is their beauty and maybe talk about how nice it feels to be fresh faced with no makeup, no shame and going natural. Kids pick up behavior from adults....
